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Wetskins player hoping for water polo gold

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Kris Pritchard, gay news, Washington Blade
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Kris Pritchard says he enjoys the team unity and diversity heā€™s found with the Washington Wetskins. (Photo courtesy Alison Marian Fraser)

Kris Pritchard, a former high school swimmer, had always been curious about the sport of water polo. After his job as a high school math teacher brought him to D.C. in 2007, he decided to check out a Washington Wetskins water polo practice.

ā€œI had not been in a speedo since my high school swimming days and showed up to my first practice in board shorts,ā€ says Pritchard, laughing. ā€œEveryone else was in speedos so I ran right out and bought one.ā€

Now 31 and working in higher education evaluating accreditation standards for college programs, Pritchard found the Wetskins to be more than willing to teach basic water polo skills to a beginner.

When he joined the team, he was also hoping to meet other gay men outside of the bar scene and was surprised to find that the Wetskins had evolved from their days as a primarily gay team. Half the team is straight females and there are a lot of straight men.

Thatā€™s not as big of a surprise as one would think as many of the LGBT sports teams in D.C. have become a mix of gay and straight athletes. The Wetskins still have their speedos firmly planted in the LGBT community though, and this summer will send a mixed team to the 2014 Gay Games in Cleveland.

ā€œEveryone who plays on this team knows that they have to come in with an open mind because everyone thinks it is a gay team,ā€ Pritchard says. ā€œIn 2008, we hosted the water polo portion of the International Gay & Lesbian Aquatics Championships (IGLA) in D.C. and in subsequent years we competed at IGLA in Reykjavik, Iceland and Seattle, Washington. Half of our team will be straight at the Gay Games this summer.ā€

Pritchard, who is from Pittsburg and graduated from Ohio University, became obsessed with the sport of water polo after joining the Wetskins. Leading up to his first Gay Games, he will be training with the Wetskins two days a week and swimming with the District of Columbia Aquatics Club at least two days a week.

ā€œOne of the things that I love about water polo is the team sports aspect,ā€ he says. ā€œIt feels great to share success as a group. I feel like the Wetskins are a representation of where society is going as a whole. Gay, straight, men, women; No one asks what you are unless they want to sleep with you. Nobody knows and nobody cares.ā€

Pritchard says that his teammates have become his best friends and that even outside of the pool, he sees them all the time.

ā€œThey are cool, chill people,ā€ he says. ā€œWe spend a lot of time in the water up close and personal with hardly any clothes on. Itā€™s a natural progression to bond outside of the pool.ā€

For his trip to the Gay Games in Cleveland this summer, Pritchard is looking forward to seeing the different sports and the larger scale of LGBT athletic community. He is also hoping to connect with some old college friends who are still in the area.

One thing he wonā€™t be doing is wearing board shorts. He will be rocking a speedo, and loving it.

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Author of new book empowers Black ā€˜fatā€™ femme voices

After suicidal thoughts, attacks from far right, a roadmap to happiness

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In 2017, Jon Paul was suicidal. In nearly every place Paul encountered, there were signs that consistently reminded the transgender community that their presence in America by the far right is unwelcomed.

Former President Donald Trump’s anti-trans rhetoric is “partly” responsible for Paul’s suicidal contemplation. 

“I’m driving out of work, and I’m seeing all of these Trump flags that are telling me that I could potentially lose my life over just being me and wanting to be who I am,” Paul said. “So, were they explicitly the issue? No, but did they add to it? I highly would say yes.”

During Trump’s time as president, he often disapproved of those who identified as transgender in America; the former president imposed a ban on transgender individuals who wanted to join the U.S. military.

“If the world keeps telling me that I don’t have a reason for me to be here and the world is going to keep shaming me for being here. Then why live?” Paul added. 

The rhetoric hasn’t slowed and has been a messaging tool Trump uses to galvanize his base by saying that Democrats like Vice President Kamala Harris “want to do transgender operations on illegal aliens that are in prison.” Trump made that claim at the presidential debate against Democratic presidential nominee Kamala Harris.  

Not only do Trump’s actions hurt Paul, but they also affect 17-year-old Jacie MichelleĆ©, a transgender person at Friendly Senior High School.

“When former President Donald J. Trump speaks on transgender [individuals] in a negative light, it saddens my heart and makes me wonder what he thinks his personal gain is from making these comments will be,” MichelleĆ© said.

“When these comments are made toward trans immigrants or the transgender community, it baffles me because it shows me that the times are changing and not for the better,” MichelleĆ© added. 

The Congressional Black Caucus Foundation responded to Trump’s rhetoric that opposes the transgender community and how it affects democracy through programming at its Annual Legislative ConferenceĀ in Washington.

“Our agendas are not set by what other groups are saying we should or shouldn’t do. It is set by our communities and what we know the needs and the most pressing needs are for the Black community, and we know that our global LGBTQAI+ communities have needs; they are a part of our community,” said Nicole Austin-Hillery, president and CEO of the Congressional Black Caucus Foundation.

One pressing need is suicide prevention, which theĀ National Institute of HealthĀ deems necessary, as 82% of transgender individuals have reported having suicidal thoughts, while 40% have attempted suicide. This research applies to individuals like Paul, who reported contemplating suicide.

But instead of choosing to self-harm, Paul metĀ Latrice Royale, a fourth-season contestant on ā€œRuPaul’s Drag Race,ā€ who was awarded the title of Miss Congeniality while on the show. Paul said that meeting brought meaning when there was barely any left.

“It was like I met them at a time where I really, truly, not only needed to see them, but I needed to be able to actively know ‘girl’ you can live and you can have a really a good life, right? And Latrice was that for me,” Paul said.

Though Trump is representative of a lot of movements that are clashing with society, theĀ Democratic PartyĀ is actively pushing back against anti-transgender movements and says there is ā€œstill much work to be done.ā€

Not only did Royale model success for Paul, but they also share the same appearance. Paul proudly identifies as “fat” and uses this descriptor as a political vehicle to empower others in the book “Black Fat Femme, Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in the Media and Learning to Love Yourself.”

“My book, my work as a Black, fat femme, is inherently political. I say this at the very front of my book,” Paul said. “All three of those monikers are all three things in this world that the world hates and is working overtime to get rid of.”

“They’re trying to kill me as a Black person; they’re trying to get rid of me as a fat person. They are trying to get rid of me as a queer person,” Paul added.

Besides Paul’s political statements, the book’s mission is to give those without resources a blueprint to make it across the finish line.

“I want them to look at all the stories that I share in this and be able to say, ‘wow,’ not only do I see myself, but now I have a roadmap and how I can navigate all of these things that life throws at me that I never had, and I think that’s why I was so passionate about selling and writing the book,” Paul said.

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Jussie Smollett asserts innocence while promoting new film

ā€˜I know what happened and soon you all will tooā€™

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Jussie Smollettā€™s case remains on appeal. His new film is out later this month. (Photo by Starfrenzy/Bigstock)

Jussie Smollett, the actor and musician who was convicted of lying to the police about being the victim of a homophobic and racist hate crime that he staged in 2019, attended a screening of his latest film ā€œThe Lost Hollidayā€ in a packed auditorium of the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library on Aug. 28. 

In an interview with the Washington Blade that took place before the screening, he continued to assert his innocence and responded to concerns within the LGBTQ community that his case has discouraged real victims from reporting hate crimes.Ā 

The former ā€œEmpireā€ star wrote, produced, and directed ā€œThe Lost Holliday,ā€ his second feature film to direct following 2021ā€™s ā€œB-Boy Blues.ā€ Produced through Smollettā€™s company, SuperMassive Movies, he stars in the film alongside Vivica A. Fox, who also served as a producer and attended the library screening with other cast members.

In the film, Smollett plays Jason Holliday, a man grappling with the sudden death of his husband Damien (Jabari Redd). Things are complicated when Damienā€™s estranged mother, Cassandra Marshall (Fox), arrives in Los Angeles from Detroit for the funeral, unaware of Damienā€™s marriage to Jason or of their adopted daughter. Initially, Jason and Cassandra clash ā€” Cassandraā€™s subtle homophobia and Jasonā€™s lingering resentment over her treatment of Damien fuel their tension ā€“ā€“ but they begin to bond as they navigate their grief together. 

Smollett, Fox, Redd, and Brittany S. Hall, who plays Jasonā€™s sister Cheyenne, discussed the film in an interview with the Washington Blade. Highlighting the wide representation of queer identities in the film and among the cast, they stressed that the story is fundamentally about family and love.

ā€œWhat we really want people to get from this movie is love,ā€ Smollett said. ā€œIt’s beneficial for people to see other people that are not like themselves, living the life that they can identify with. Because somehow, what it does is that it opens up the world a little bit.ā€

Smollett drew from personal experiences with familial estrangement and grief during the making of the film, which delves into themes of parenthood, reconciliation, and the complexities of family relationships.

ā€œI grew up with a father who was not necessarily the most accepting of gay people, and I grew up with a mother who was rather the opposite. I had a safe space in my home to go to, but I also had a not-so-safe space in my home, which was my father,ā€ he said.

ā€œThe moment that he actually heard the words that his son was gay, as disconnected and estranged as we were, he instantly changed. He called me, after not speaking to him for years, and apologized for how difficult it must have been all of those years of me growing up. And then a couple years later, he passed away.ā€

Smollett began working on ā€œThe Lost Hollidayā€ eight years ago, with Fox in mind for the role of Cassandra from the outset. He said that he had started collaborating on the project with one of the biggest producers in Hollywood when ā€œā€˜2019ā€™ happened.ā€

In January 2019, Smollett told Chicago police that he had been physically attacked in a homophobic and racist hate crime. He initially received an outpouring of support, in particular from the LGBTQ and Black communities. However, police soon charged him with filing a false police report, alleging that he had staged the attack. 

After prosecutors controversially dismissed the initial charges in exchange for community service and the forfeiture of his $10,000 bond, Smollett was recharged with the same offenses in 2020. Meanwhile, his character in ā€œEmpireā€ was written out of the show. 

In 2021, a Cook County jury found him guilty on five of the six charges of disorderly conduct for lying to police, and he was sentenced to 150 days in jail and 30 months of probation, along with a $120,000 restitution payment to the city of Chicago for the overtime costs incurred by police investigating his initial hate crime claim.

LGBTQ people are nine times more likely than non-LGBTQ people to be victims of violent hate crimes, according to a study by the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law. Upon Smollettā€™s conviction, some in the LGBTQ community felt that the case would discredit victims of hate crimes and make it more difficult to report future such crimes. 

Smollett seemed to acknowledge these concerns, but denied that he staged the attack. 

ā€œI know what happened and soon you all will too,ā€ he told the Blade. ā€œIf someone reported a crime and it wasnā€™t the truth, that would actually make it more difficult [to report future crimes], but I didnā€™t. Any belief that they have about the person that Iā€™ve been played out to be, sure, but that person is not me, never has been,ā€ he said. ā€œSo I stand with my community. I love my community and I protect and defend my community until Iā€™m bloody in my fist.ā€ 

ā€œAnd for all the people who, in fact, have been assaulted or attacked and then have been lied upon and made it to seem like they made it up, I’m sorry that you have to constantly prove your trauma, and I wish that it wasn’t that way, and I completely identify with you,ā€ he added.

An Illinois Appellate Court upheld his guilty verdict last year, but Smollett has since appealed to the Illinois Supreme Court, which in March agreed to hear the case. He has served six days in jail so far, as his sentence has been put on hold pending the results of his appeals. 

The screening at the MLK Jr. Library concluded with a conversation between Smollett, Fox, and David J. Johns, CEO and executive director of the National Black Justice Coalition. Smollett discussed his current mindset and his plans for the future, revealing he is working on a third movie and will be releasing new music soon. 

ā€œIā€™m in a space where life is being kind,ā€ he said. 

ā€œThe Lost Hollidayā€ recently secured a distribution deal for a limited release with AMC Theatres and will be out in theaters on Sept. 27. 

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DIK Bar cements its status as LGBTQ institution, prepares to expand

Dupont Cantina coming soon to the former Malbec space

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Michael Askarinam and his brother Tony opened Dupont Italian Kitchen nearly 40 years ago. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Two immigrant brothers who could not return home, Michael and Tony Askarinam, turned instead to making a community space of their own. Nearly 40 years after debuting their casual, gay-friendly restaurant, the (straight) owners of Dupont Italian Kitchen are expanding, reinforcing their status as a center of gay life on 17th Street. By early fall, they plan to debut a casual Mexican restaurant, complete with a spacious patio, tons of tacos, and big margarita energy that will please outdoor diners and karaoke singers upstairs alike.

DIK Bar, as it is affectionately known, still serves fan-favorite lasagna and eggplant parmesan, though no longer for a cool $4.25 from its opening menu. Michael, who moved to the U.S. from Iran to study in 1974, graduated in 1980 ā€“ less than a year after the Iranian revolution. Part of a Jewish family, he felt unsafe going back to his homeland with the new regime, and has never returned. Instead, he and his brother, who also fled, opened a restaurant that still sits on the same corner as the day it opened. Though he is not Italian, Michael had plenty of relevant experience: He had worked in Italian restaurants during summers while studying, and another brother owned the now-closed restaurant Spaghetti Garden (where Pitchers stands today). The menu, he admits, pulled heavily from his family influence.

Dupont Italian Kitchen (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Opening on 17th Street in the mid-ā€˜80s, the brothers knew the community vibe. Annieā€™s, just a block away, was already well known as an LGBTQ-friendly institution. At the time, he says, the street was a bit grittier ā€” not the well-manicured lane it is today. Still, they decidedĀ to open a restaurant and Italian Kitchen was born. His brother at Spaghetti Garden suggested adding ā€œDupontā€ in front to help ground the location, and DIK came into being. ā€œAt the beginning I admit I was a little uncomfortable with the name, having young kids. But it grew on me,ā€ he says. Leaning in, heā€™s embraced the name.

A few years later, the restaurant expanded vertically: taking over the apartments upstairs to turn it into a bar; a new chef came in who introduced DIK Barā€™s popular brunch. But he and his brother never really relinquished the cozy space that he had envisioned. Each pushing 80 years old, they come in nearly daily: cooking, bartending, even washing dishes.

DIK has evolved, but only slightly. Eggplant and chicken parm, lasagna, pizza, pasta, and a $1 garden salad: the opening menu from the ā€˜80s reads like a genuine old-school Italian joint. Today, you will still find classic gems, though now they are nestled alongside Brussels sprouts and arugula salads.

As longtime patrons know, the restaurant is more than the sum of its pasta parts. ā€œItā€™s an atmosphere where everybody is welcome. I got that from my mother,ā€ he added, noting that she had experienced discrimination as part of the Jewish minority in Iran. Given this background, it was logical for them to build a space where ā€œyou have a place to be who you are and feel comfortable.ā€

In 2020, as the restaurantā€™s lease was expiring, he had the opportunity to buy the building, which included adjacent Argentine restaurant Malbec. ā€œThe landlord let us know that they felt we deserve to own the building after being here for so long,ā€ says Michael.

It was a blessing; to him, it meant the sustainability of Dupont Italian Kitchen. Earlier this year, when Malbecā€™s lease expired, they decided against finding another tenant and instead they would make it their own. The two eateries already shared one storage basement, where the Malbec kitchen was located. Saving costs by sharing procurement, staff, and utilities (as well as liquor), they took the leap. ā€œPlus, we can be our own great tenant,ā€ he said with a smile.

The new Dupont Cantina is coming soon. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The refurbishment thus far has included a new HVAC system and a new bar. The new restaurant allows them access to a more spacious kitchen that can cook up sizzling Mexican favorites with speed and in volume. Customers at upstairs DIK Bar have always requested more bar-style finger food, he says, and tacos are better suited to a drinking atmosphere than fettuccine alfredo or creamy Cajun sausage pasta. Mexican food is also well suited to the patio. He also has a family tie to Mexico: relatives own Johnny Pistolas in Adams Morgan. The rest of the menu is being developed, including shareable small plates and ā€œMexican pizza.ā€ Drinks will feature tequila, mezcal, and margaritas; and there is a happy hour in the works. ā€œIā€™m hoping this expansion can help cement our future,ā€ he says.

The opening timeline is early fall.

Looking back on almost 40 years and looking forward with the expansion, he mused that the restaurant still maintains its authenticity and its central role in LGBTQ life in D.C. ā€œIā€™m really proud of the fact that it caters to this community. We are an institution, we want to continue to be part of this place.ā€

Michael Askarinam at DIK Bar. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
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