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QUEERY: JJ Vera

The Rainbow Youth Alliance supporter answers 20 gay questions

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JJ Vera’s involvement with the Rainbow Youth Alliance goes back 10 years to its first meeting. Having joined in his first semester of high school, he was a fixture in the group until age 18.

“I’ve always been so thankful for Rainbow Youth Alliance and try to give back any chance I get,” says the 25-year-old Rockville, Md., native. “They offer youth empowerment during a time when self discovery is just beginning for these kids. Even in this day and age where we think people are open and accepting, LGBT youth all over the country are still experiencing depression, anxiety, bullying and unsafe home and school environments.”

Vera, now a member of the Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington, will perform with the chorus at an event on Saturday, April 9 at 7:30 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Rockville (100 Welsh Park Dr., Rockville) as the Alliance celebrates its 10th anniversary. There’s a $20 suggested donation to benefit Alliance programs. Details at rainbowyouthalliancemd.org.

The Alliance is a peer-to-peer and adult-facilitated support group for LGBT teens.

Vera works by day at a salon and also as a singer/songwriter. He lives in Columbia Heights and enjoys singing and performing with the chorus in his free time.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

Since eighth grade. The hardest person to tell was the first — my sister.

Who’s your LGBT hero?

St. Marsha “Pay-It-No-Mind” Johnson

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

Flash is always a good time, but I love the grime and soul of Jimmy Valentine’s over on H Street.

Describe your dream wedding.

An underwater mermaid reception with the ceremony ending on a ship above water with an ocean wave carrying me from the ocean to the party boat. The probability of any of that happening is equivalent to the actual chances of me ever getting married. Marriage isn’t something I think too much about. I don’t know if I’d ever want it, but I honor my right to!

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

As far as social justice goes, feminism and issues on racism are up there with LGBT issues for me. The perfect storm is mixing all of those things and arriving at the huge issues within inter-sectional identity.

What historical outcome would you change?

I would stop Yolanda from shooting Selena. Only halfway kidding.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

David Bowie’s death and his last album. I’m lucky to have shared the earth with someone as mystical and creative as him.

On what do you insist?

I insist that gender is a social construct and that once people lose fear and are properly educated on gender and sexuality, they will find that there is a larger number of humanity that does not exist within this gender binary. It’s beyond being assigned a pink or blue hat at birth. And you don’t have to relate to understand. Just be inclusive.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

A link promoting the Rainbow Youth Alliance Benefit Concert featuring GMCW’s Rock Creek Singers and the GenOUT Youth Chorus on Saturday, April 9 at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Rockville. I’ll be singing a solo with them. It’s free with a suggested donation of $20. Come talk to me!

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“What it Feels Like for a Butch Queen”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

I’d protest it. Or find my high school crush and get him hip to my love.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

I’m positive there is more to existence than this temporary world. We as humans just have a wide and inquisitive vocabulary for what that is. Not to get religious or spiritual, but we’re just here messing around until our bodies expire and we move on to the rest. I feel there is more. The universe is ever expanding.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

Stop fighting each other. With all this progress we’ve made, it seems like the LGBT community has become divided against each other in certain places. We’re all dealing with our own oppression, what’s the point of perpetuating it within our own community? We need to be fighting for each other.

What would you walk across hot coals for?

My family

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

A really damaging stereotype is when we think trans people are only validated when they adhere to societal standards of beauty. The only trans people visible in pop culture are beautiful and perfect examples of their gender identity, but that’s not the reality for all people of the trans community and it doesn’t necessarily have to be. Either way, it’s not up to you to decide how someone feels about their own body or identity.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

“Hedwig and the Angry Inch” was a movie my friends and I obsessed over for years. Always my favorite. Maybe my favorite, overall. I also have to mention “Trans-America.” Such a beautifully messed-up movie with real characters.

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Gender

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

Being able to walk around my house dressed how I want, with the friends I want, without fear or discomfort is one of my greatest accomplishments so far. It does wonders for how I deal with myself and the world. I was never allowed that growing up. I still deal with shame, but I live with amazing friends who celebrate each other for who they are.

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

It gets better if you don’t get bitter. Also, you’re beautiful and need to get yourself to singing/dancing lessons as soon as possible! You don’t have to be scared. This too shall pass.

Why Washington?

The Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington opened so many doors and it’s because of all they’ve given me that I felt empowered enough to leave the nest in Rockville for more action in the music scene here in the city. My therapy is singing with all those amazing people and letting the vibrations in my body carry all my sorrow out with every note and silent breath. I came to the city to be more involved in the chorus and the city itself is so alive with music and political culture, it’s right where I need to be.

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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more

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Washington Spirit CEO Kim Stone hosts Pride Night OUT on Sunday, Aug. 23. (Photo courtesy of Washington Spirit)

Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.

Dining

Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.

New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:

  • Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
  • The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
  • Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
  • Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.

Sports

  • Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements. 
  • Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.

Festivals

  • Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
  • Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods. 
  • The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
  • All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
  • Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.

Art and Music

  • United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club. 
  • The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
  • Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
  • ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
  • 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
  • Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
  • Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event

Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema

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Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.

Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.

 O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.

 “I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”

O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.

“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”

The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination. 

The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.

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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.

Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives

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Alex Kim performs at the Pride Comedy Special in Washington, D.C., on June 18, 2026. (Photo by Christina Lee/VOICES)

Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward. 

“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.

Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives. 

From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together. 

“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”

Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.

According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said. 

When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”

“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”

But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center. 

Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.

“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said. 

Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires. 

Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down. 

“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”

Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form. 

“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’” 

Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church. 

“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said. 

Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.

Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet. 

“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said. 

Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training. 

“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked. 

Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.

To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said. 

Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition. 

“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”

Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.

Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.

“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.

This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

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