Commentary
Good old days of political disagreement
When neighbors could get along despite differences


Kate Clinton
One warm morning in late August 1992, I was walking down the narrow path from our house to the street in our densely populated little neighborhood in Ptown. I heard my neighbor, a retired fisherman yell, āKitty! Hey Kitty!ā All the old Portuguese guys called me Kitty.
Peter trundled over to meet me at the fence. He was in his daily uniform: an ancient blue Carhartt onesie, mesh AGWAY cap and work boots. He was a bit out of breath. He leaned on the fence. āDid you hear the fight last night? They were going at it. Canāt believe you didnāt hear it. Calling each other effin this and effin that. You effin liar. Must have been those two over there.ā
He pointed to a neighborās house. I tried to picture them fighting ā one woman was the townās pay-per-view astrologer, the other a landscaper who planted according to the lunar phases. I asked, āWhat time was the fight?ā He said, āOh, had to be 10:30, 11.ā
And I realized who it was. It was the final night of the Republican National Convention in Houston. A fire-breathing Pat Buchannan had kicked off the convention with his āCulture Warā speech, about the gays and the peasants with the pitchforks storming the castle. The party nominee, George Bush, was wrapping up the meeting of the Bundestag with his acceptance speech.
āOh Peter it was us! We werenāt fighting. We were screaming at George Bush. We had the windows open. Sorry.ā
Peter seemed to doff his hat, āI agree, Dahlin,ā and waddled back to oiling his lawn mower.
In 1998, Peter and his wife of 50 years, a beloved seamstress in town, died within a day of each other and left their small house to their son. Tom was always sweet to us for being good neighbors to his parents. He kept an eye on our house when we were on the road. Once when I got back from a road trip at 2 a.m., I parked the car and tiptoed by their open windows. I heard him in his room say to his wife in her room, āKateās home.ā
Chronic back pain from a serious accident made him a night owl, a sports fan and political junkie. He was always watching some Boston sports team or Fox News on TV. Despite his limitations, he managed to work in his garden. Like his father, he grew gorgeous lilies and outrageous vegetables.
We talked a lot over the fence. We faux-fought about Boston and New York teams. He was mostly open-minded about the gays. To us anyway. We could talk town and state politics but after several awkward tries, we steered clear of national politics. Party politics were a no-try zone.
In 2008, when John McCain announced his running mate, Tom couldnāt resist coming over and gloating about Sarah Palin. My dear partner did not share his enthusiasm for āDan Quayle in a ponytail.ā They had words in the driveway. After a half-day cool-down, they apologized. His peace offering was zucchini. Ours was mint chutney.
But the truce bugged me. At the beginning of the next summer I proposed an experiment to Tom. For the summer I would watch only Fox News and listen to Rush Limbaugh. He would watch only MSNBC and listen to NPR. We would try to keep open minds.
I donāt think I suggested we build a fire pit so we could sit out on our lawn chairs, talking late on autumnal evenings. I did suggest he think it over and get back to me. He didnāt need to think it over. He said that he didnāt think he could physically do it. I detected a touch of regret. Or I was projecting.
As this Memorial Day signals the beginning of summer, I realize those were the good old days.
Kate Clinton is a longtime humorist. She writes regularly for the Blade.
Commentary
Brazil insurrection proves Trump remains global threat
Jair Bolsonsaro took page out of former U.S. president’s playbook

I was at home in Dupont Circle on Sunday afternoon when I learned that thousands of former Brazilian President Jair Bolsonaro supporters had stormed their country’s Congress, Supreme Court and presidential palace. I grabbed my iPhone, used Google Translate to translate my initial thoughts into Brazilian Portuguese and sent them to many of the sources with whom I have worked while on assignment for the Washington Blade in the country.
“Muito perturbador a que estĆ” aconterendo em BrasĆlia,” I said. “What is happening in BrasĆlia is very disturbing.”
One source described the insurrection as “terrible.” Another told me that “everything is chaos.”
Toni Reis, president of AlianƧa Nacional LGBTI+, a Brazilian LGBTQ and intersex advocacy group, said what happened in BrasĆlia was “horrible.” AssociaƧao Nacional de Travestis e Transexuais (the National Association ofĀ TravestisĀ and Transsexuals) in a statement said the insurrectionists “attacked democracy.” Congresswoman Erika Hilton, who is transgender, described them as “terrorists.”
The insurrection, which has been described as a “coup” and a “terrorist” act, took place two days after the U.S. marked the second anniversary of Jan. 6. I felt a real sense of dĆ©jĆ vu because what happened in BrasĆlia was nearly identical to whatĀ I witnessed here in D.C. two years and two days earlier with Blade Photo Editor Michael Key and then-Blade intern Kaela Roeder.
Then-U.S. President Donald Trump refused to accept the 2020 presidential election results, and thousands of his supporters on Jan. 6, 2021, laid siege to the Capitol after he spoke at the “Stop the Steal” rally on the Ellipse. The insurrection began after lawmakers began to certify the Electoral College results.
Bolsonaro, who has yet to publicly acknowledge he lost to current Brazilian President Luiz InƔcio Lula da Silva, flew to Florida on Dec. 30.
Da Silva’s inauguration took place in BrasĆlia on Jan. 1. Bolsonaristas laid siege to their country’s Congress, Supreme Court and presidential palace a week later.Ā
āThe Brazilian presidential election has fueled a misinformation emergency that has tipped the LGBT+ community into a boiling pot of fake news,ā wrote Egerton Neto, a Brazilian LGBTQ and intersex activist who is also an Aspen New Voices Fellow and manager of Oxford Universityās XX, in an op-ed the Blade published last Oct. 28, two days before Da Silva defeated Bolsonaro in the second round of Brazil’s presidential election. “This is part of a broader global problem and we need a global plan to stop it.”
I was on assignment in Mexico City on July 16, 2018, when Trump defended Russian President Vladimir Putin after their summit in Helsinki. I wrote in a Blade oped the “ridiculous spectacle … proved one and for all the U.S. under (the Trump) administration cannot claim with any credibility that it stands for human rights around the world.”
“American exceptionalism, however flawed, teaches us the U.S. is a beacon of hope to those around the world who suffer persecution. American exceptionalism, however flawed, teaches us the U.S. is the land of opportunity where people can build a better life for themselves and for their families,” I wrote. “Trump has turned his back on these ideals. He has also proven himself to be a danger not only to his country, but to the world as a whole.”
Bolsonaro during a press conference with Trump at the White House on March 19, 2019, said he has “always admired the United States of America.”
“This admiration has only increased since you took office,” said Bolsonaro.
The so-called “Trump of the Tropics” clearly took a page out of his American ideological counterpart’s anti-democratic playbook, and Sunday’s insurrection in BrasĆlia is the implementation of it. The bolsonaristas who stormed the Congress, the Supreme Court and the presidential palace perpetrated an assault on democracy in the name of their country’s former president who cannot bring himself to publicly acknowledge that he lost re-election. Sunday’s insurrection also proves that Trump, his enablers and those who continue to blindly defend and worship him remain as dangerous as ever.
Commentary
New York Times’ decision to hire anti-LGBTQ attorney as columnist is appalling
David French has worked for Alliance Defending Freedom

GLAAD, the worldās largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) media advocacy organization, is responding to the New York Timesā recent announcement of their hiring of anti-LGBTQ attorney and writer David French as a columnist.
āIt is appalling that the New York Times hired and is now boasting about bringing on David French, a writer and attorney with a deep history of anti-LGBTQ activism. After more than a year of inaccurate, misleading LGBTQ coverage in the Times opinion and news pages, the Times started 2023 by announcing a second anti-transgender opinion columnist, without a single known trans voice represented on staff,” responded GLAAD President Sarah Kate Ellis. “A cursory search for French turns up numerous anti-LGBTQ articles and his record as an attorney for the Alliance Defending Freedom, an organization that the Southern Poverty Law Center designated an anti-LGBTQ hate group that actively spreads misinformation about LGBTQ people and pushes baseless legislation and lawsuits to legalize discrimination, including just last month at the Supreme Court. The Times left out these facts in its glowing announcement of Frenchās hiring, and also forgot to mention his work as a co-signer on the 2017 Nashville Statement, which erased LGBTQ voices of faith and falsely stated āthat it is sinful to approve of homosexual immorality or transgenderism.ā The Times had the gall to claim French as a āfaithā expert despite this known history.
The Timesā opinion section continues to platform non-LGBTQ voices speaking up inaccurately and harmfully about LGBTQ people and issues. This is damaging to the paperās credibility. The Times opinion section editorsā love letter to French yesterday shows a willful disregard of LGBTQ community voices and the concerns so many have shared about their inaccurate, exclusionary, often ridiculous pieces. Last year, the Times ended popular trans writer Jenny Boylanās column, leaving the opinion section with no trans columnists and a known lack of transgender representation on its overall staff. Who was brought on after Boylan? Pamela Paul, who has devoted columns to anti-transgender and anti-LGBTQ disinformation, and David French. This reflects a growing trend on the news and opinion pages of misguided, inaccurate, and disingenuous āboth sidesā fearmongering and bad faith ājust asking questionsā coverage. The Times started 2023 by bragging about hiring another anti-trans writer, so LGBTQ leaders, organizations, and allies should make a 2023 resolution not to stay silent as the Times platforms lies, bias, fringe theories and dangerous inaccuracies.”
Examples of Frenchās anti-LGBTQ activism:
- French served as attorney for SPLC-designated hate group Alliance Defending Freedom (ADF), best known for attacking the rights of transgender students, fighting in court to discriminate against LGBTQ people, and working internationally to criminalize being LGBTQ. French has a history of expressing his outward disdain for transgender people. In the past, he lamented ātransgender entitlementā and once described a young transgender woman as a āmanā who is āon the verge of mutilating himself.ā (from Media Matters.)
- French was a co-signer onĀ the āNashville Statement.ā
- Column written by French attempting to refute existence of transgender people.
- French was called out for saying that lifting the ban on trans military service will result in āthought control.ā
- French recently made news for his late-in-life change of heart to support marriage equality, explaining it about a month ago. He has not disavowed his legal activism for ADF, and in fact has defended the group, which continues to attack and spread disinformation about LGBTQ people around the globe.
Examples of NYT columnist Pamela Paulās anti-LGBTQ work:
- Pamela Paul, who is not LGBTQ, has devoted her first columns to inaccurately opining about LGBTQ issues, including falsely and incredulously claiming erasure of the word and identity, āgayā in the LGBTQ movement.
- Paul was New York Times Books Editor when writerĀ Jesse Singal, who is not transgender or LGBTQ but who has built a careerĀ inaccurately writing about trans issues and targeting trans people, reviewed and supported his friendās inaccurate anti-transgender book.
- Paul repeated Singalās false and harmful exclusionary innuendo about transgender women and safety in one of her first opinion columns.
- While leading the Books section, Paul has been accused of silencing voices supportive of transgender youth.
Recent examples of inaccurate news coverage of LGBTQ people and youth, and their consequences:
- In court documents, the state of Texas quoted Emily Bazelonās June 15 report in the New York Times Magazine to further target families of trans youth over their private, evidence-based healthcare decisions. Every major medical association supports gender affirming care as best practices care that is safe and lifesaving and has widespread consensus of the medical and scientific communities.
- The World Professional Association of Transgender Healthcare (WPATH), the worldās leading medical and research authority on transgender healthcare, criticized the Timesā November 2022 article āThey Paused Puberty, But Is There a Cost?ā as āfurthering the atmosphere of misinformationā about healthcare for trans youth, noting its inaccurate narratives, interpretations and non-expert voices. WPATH noted the Times elevated false and inflammatory notions about medications that have been used safely in non-LGBTQ populations for decades without an explicit statement about how the benefits of the treatment far outweigh potential risks.
- Writer Michael Powell elevated anti-transgender voices to falsely assert, in a piece about one successful transgender athlete, that transgender athletes are a threat to womenās sports. Powellās other pieces have been used to support Pamela Paulās inaccurate opinion essays falsely claiming āwomenā are being erased by the inclusion of trans people in discussions about abortion access.
Commentary
Let light and love into our world this holiday season
Mainstreaming of antisemitism is at an unprecedented level

As the holiday season passes us by and we head into the new year, for many it is still the season of celebration. But we know all too well that these are dangerous times ā particularly for marginalized communities.
In early November, the FBI alerted New Jersey Jews that they had credible information of a broad threat to synagogues in our state. It was a stunning alert ā and half a million New Jersey Jews had to think twice about whether to attend their houses of worship. Later that month, a mass shooter opened fire at Club Q in Colorado Springs, murdering five people and injuring 25 more. It was yet another violent attack on the LGBTQ+ community.
In the face of such violence and hate, feelings of hopelessness can be inevitable. And yet, we must be resilient and strong in the face of hate because hate can never win.
I wasnāt raised in a Jewish home. But nine years ago, I was proud to work with Bend the Arc: A Jewish Partnership for Justice. The group focuses on mobilizing Jews to advance social issues by speaking out against injustice and inequality. It was there and later working for Educational Alliance ā a network of community centers in lower Manhattan ā I learned about Jewish values, ultimately leaving an indelible mark on my work to this day.
In 2016, I became the executive director of Garden State Equality, the largest LGBTQ+ education and advocacy organization in New Jersey, with over 150,000 Members. Our work in advocacy, policy work and trainings create safe environments for youth, improve access to affirming healthcare for our community, and ensure our older adults are treated with dignity and respect.
A good leader should talk less and listen more. For years I had heard about the progress in Israel the LGBTQ+ community was making and wanted to learn more. The fact that Israel and New Jersey have roughly the same population was particularly intriguing to me. What could I learn to be a better leader and advocate for my community?
This past June, I had the opportunity to visit Israel for the first time with A Wider Bridge, an LGBTQ+ group that fosters closer ties between the Israeli and American LGBTQ+ communities.
It was a transformative experience both personally and professionally. What I saw there wasnāt the conflict, it wasnāt politics, and it wasnāt religion. It was an LGBTQ+ community taking care of each other. I saw community groups in action, advocating for their equal rights. The government investment in LGBTQ+ issues was also extraordinary. Itās a model for what our work demands here in New Jersey and around the country.
After my visit, I watched in dismay the recent election results in Israel, where far-right extremists have catapulted from the margins of society right to the heart of government. We know all too well here in the U.S. the impact that can have on social progress. The LGBTQ+ community needs our support now more than ever, both in Israel and around the world where extremism is on the march.
In recent months weāve also seen the mainstreaming of antisemitism to an unprecedented level.
Itās in the streets ā the ADL noted over 2,700 incidents of antisemitism reported in 2021 ā which was an increase of 34 percent from the previous year. In 2022, those numbers will rise even further.
Itās in our politics ā former President Trump openly dines with antisemites and Holocaust deniers.
Itās in our culture ā Kanye Westās disgraceful attacks on the Jewish community were broadcast to millions of Americans across alternative networks. The big tech companies did their best to remove the content from their platforms, but it didnāt matter. Countless Americans ā many of them young people ā were subjected to the vilest hatred from a cultural giant.
There is no avoiding hate in todayās media environment. The mental health impact that it has on our communities is immeasurable. The impact it has on our physical well-being is tragic. The only way to protect our communities is to be seen and heard.
This holiday season, and moving into 2023, I encourage all of us to embrace the Jewish values of solidarity, shared liberation, dignity, equality, resilience, and moral courage as we confront these extremist threats. We must stand in solidarity because the threats facing the LGBTQ+ communities and the Jewish communities intersect. A hateful attack on any community is an attack on us all.
In the face of antisemitism, homophobia, transphobia, islamophobia and all form of intolerance, let us remember the words of Martin Luther King, Jr., “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”
Let us light our menorahs and string lights on our trees because together our light will drive out darkness, and together our love will drive out hate.
Christian Fuscarino is the executive director of Garden State Equality.
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