Opinions
Orlando attack rocked our world
Despite horror of shooting, love will prevail


Vigils were held at Dupont Circle following the mass shooting at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Fla. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
June was LGBT Pride month, a time when we celebrate values like equality, diversity, inclusion and dignity. As a civil rights attorney, Iāve had the good fortune to spend the majority of my career working on these noble values and against discrimination rooted in ignorance, stereotypes, assumptions, bigotry, fearāand yes, sometimes anger and hate. The horrific tragedy in Orlando rocked my world on many levels, particularly because it threatened these values that I hold so dearly.
I attended several of the vigils held in Dupont Circle for the Orlando victims. At each one, I was struck by the intersectionality of so many different groups coming togetherāLGBT community members and allies, people from varying racial, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds, and people of all different faiths as well as some who do not subscribe to any particular set of religious beliefs or simply may be questioning a greater power. It was truly inspiring. I am the youngest, openly gay son in a big, Mexican-American, Catholic, middle-class familyĀ of nine children who grew up in Kansas. I realize there is a lot packed into what I just said but viewed another way, it all perfectly describes who I am.Ā And just like me, each victim in Orlando has their own complex, yet inter-connected and perfect story too.
Earlier in my life, I struggled with trying to reconcile parts of who I am, such as my faith and my sexual orientation and, to some extent, being Latino. Many people in the LGBT community have had similar struggles.Ā Society often makes many of us feel that we have to choose which parts we can be, and to whom and when we can share those parts.Ā Even worse, society makes many of us feel that we have to actually reject some of who we are, particularly when we get messages suggesting that being gay is not normal or it makes us bad people.Ā But members of our community are gay and people of color.Ā We are gay and people of faith.Ā And this is not just the reality, it also is normal ā and it is good.Ā We have worked so hard to ensure that differences among us are not used as reasons to discriminate.Ā That stereotypes and assumptions are not used to justify bigotry and hate.Ā We cannot let fear and ignorance cripple these efforts now.
I am passionate about these issues.Ā I am so lucky to have found a place to work that not only makes me happy and proud every day, but also allows me to be my full authentic self. I say this because for many in the LGBT community, gay bars and clubs historically have provided the safe space where people could bring their full authentic selves, often for the first time, without fear of judgment, ostracism, or even injury by family members at home, strangers on the street, or law enforcement in their communities.
I remember my first time at a gay nightclub, seeing two men holding hands and later dancing together. It was beautiful and it made me feel welcome, proud and happy.Ā In one article I read, an Orlando resident who frequented the Pulse nightclub stated that the club was where he learned to love himself as a gay man.Ā The recent tragedy threatened this space that had long been viewed as safe and happy, not just in Orlando, but all around the world because it could have happened anywhere.
Here in Washington, D.C., we are fortunate to have many places that are providing help to the LGBT community in the wake of the Orlando shooting massacre. The DC Center for the LGBT Community is providing much of the needed assistance, from hosting a forum attended by hundreds to mourn and discuss the impact of the attack to offering individual and group mental health counseling for people grieving or suffering from prejudice and violence.
Along with countless others, I will continue to work tirelessly to be one of those who not only supports our community during this time of healing, but also advocates for action both to ensure the LGBT community has safe spaces as well as to prevent tragedies like this from happening in the future.Ā While we have accomplished much, we still have a long way to go. Let us all remain hopeful that in the end, kindness, respect, justiceāand yes, I daresay even love will prevail.
Louis Lopez is a board member of the DC Center for the LGBT Community.
Opinions
Veterans with substance use disorders need our help
Many return home to face a new battle with addiction, trauma

On Memorial Day, millions of American families honored the memory of the men and women who lost their lives fighting in one of the nationās wars. It can be challenging for families who have recently lost a loved one.
We must also never forget the countless veterans who made it home but are now fighting a new battle with substance use or mental health disorders. Unfortunately, suicidal ideation is all too common and fueled by drug addiction.
It can be a particularly challenging problem for U.S. military self-identified as LGBTQ. A health survey released by the RAND Corporation found 6.1% of people in the U.S. military identified as LGBTQ. Suicide risk within this community varies considerably depending on the intersection between sexual identity and other aspects of identity.
According to the National Survey on Drug Use and Health, more than 3.9 million veterans nationally have a substance use disorder or mental illness. Unfortunately, substance use disorder significantly increases suicidality among veterans ages 18 and older.
Suicidal thoughts and behaviors are common among veterans ages 18 to 49.
āEarly intervention is critical, and it saves lives. Yet, it is also important for families to know where to look and how to find help when needed,ā said Michael Leach of Addicted.org.
Numerous causative factors lead to substance use among veterans. For instance, many veterans struggle to adjust to civilian life. They may experience financial hardships, difficulty finding employment, or accessing benefits.
Many other veterans battle mental and emotional health problems. This can often be compounded with physical injury or chronic pain leading to pain medication use. Untreated trauma, for example, leads to drug and alcohol use to cope with unwanted feelings.
Outside of the usual resources provided by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs and the VA facility locator, other options may include:
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs provides specific resources for LGBTQ veterans;
Helpful hotlines include the Veteran Crisis Line, 1-800-273-8255, option 1 and the Lifeline for Vets, 1-888-777-4443;
SAMHSA has a treatment facility locator where veterans can find specific treatment options.
Families also play a vital role in supporting a loved one struggling with drug and alcohol addiction. Itās OK to express concern about their substance use. Speak to them openly and honestly about it and help them find treatment. Be patient and show compassion for what they are experiencing. Remember, substance use disorders are treatable.
When families and communities come together, amazing things happen. Veterans with substance use disorders need our help; itās never too late to offer a helping hand.
Veronica Raussin is a Community Outreach Coordinator forĀ Addicted.org, passionate about spreading awareness of the risks and dangers of alcohol and drug use.
Commentary
Non-alignment or hypocrisy: South Africa’s non-alignment costing Africa’s human rights discourse
Country must take stronger stance against Uganda’s anti-homosexuality law

In the past several months, South Africaās foreign policy has been in the spotlight for essential and existential reasons that significantly impact geopolitics and the continentās stability.
The foreign policy for South Africa discussion document by the Department of International Relations highlights the “advancement of human rights and the promotion of democracy” as the pillars on which South Africaās foreign policy rests. This document emphasizes the role that South Africa is expected to play in the “promotion of human rights and democracy.”
Minister Pandor echoed this document in her 2022 end-of-year remarks.
āWe will continue with our unwavering position to advocate for a balanced Sustainable Development Program within the human rights framework as underlined in the Vienna Declaration and Program of Action (VDPA). In this regard, South Africa will be one of the chief proponents of a balanced agenda of the HRC, which reflects, among others, the primacy of achieving the realization of the right to development as well as moral human rights issues such as the eradication of poverty and underdevelopment.ā
South Africa has long been known for its commitment to human rights and its leadership in the fight against apartheid. However, its foreign policy continues to be viewed as ambiguous and nonresponsive to developments in African affecting the growth of the continent.
In 2021, President Ramaphosa ā as chair of the SADC Organ Troika ā committed to a national political dialogue in Eswatini to resolve the political killings in that country. However, the South African government has never followed up or called on the Eswatini government to adhere to its commitment, even as renowned human rights lawyer Thulani Maseko was mercilessly assassinated in January 2023. At the very least, this has not been seen publicly, which would be comforting to those political activists and citizens constantly living in fear in Eswatini.
On May 29, the president of UgandaĀ enactedĀ the draconian Anti-Homosexuality Act. The new law is a throwback to colonization, where religious fanatism was the basis for the persecution and killing of many Africans. While Africa seems to take the posture of “fighting against imperialism,” it is saddening that this law is the brainchild of American zealots funding hate across Africa, whether it is in Uganda, Ghana, Kenya, Malawi or Namibia. These zealots,Ā the Fellowship FoundationĀ and many others, are well coordinated in their attacks on the judiciary and the African human rights framework, backed by the 75-year-old Universal Declaration of Human Rights.Ā Ā
In an era where Africa is seen to be taking a stance against imperialism, I shudder to contemplate that hate may be the only imperialist agenda Africa is not actively standing up against. We know the history of petty offences like homelessness and loitering, sedition laws, and anti-LGBTI laws. These are remnants of colonization to keep Africa inferior and the colonial masters superior. Today, the hate continues through repressive and backwards sentiment being paraded as religious values. Ugandaās anti-homosexuality law criminalizes what it calls “aggravated homosexuality” with the death penalty. It would be hard to imagine what “aggravated homosexuality” even means.Ā
This is another opportunity where South Africaās posture and foreign policy must be spotlighted. With the growing conversation about the ICC arrest warrant of President Putin, South Africa has reiterated its foreign policy as non-alignment and non-interference.
However, when the question of human rights and democracy is at play, all must take a stand. This law has been widely criticized by human rights organizations and the international community for violating the rights of LGBTIQ+ individuals and hindering the fight against HIV. It further impedes what Minister Pandor called the “balanced agenda of the HRC,” which speaks to sustainable development within the human rights framework.Ā
It should be worrying if South Africa continues to maintain a policy of non-alignment and non-interference in the face of the new law in Uganda. While this policy may have its merits, it raises questions about South Africaās commitment to human rights and its role as a leader in Africa. A foreign policy that neglects the promotion of human rights and democratic principles is hypocritical. On the one hand, South Africa is seen as a leader in promoting LGBTIQ+ rights and has one of the most progressive constitutions in the world regarding protecting the rights of LGBTIQ+ individuals. However, on the other hand, it has failed to take a strong stance against Ugandaās anti-homosexuality law, which is a clear violation of human rights.
By maintaining this policy, South Africa is essentially condoning Ugandaās anti-homosexuality law and undermining the fight for human rights in Africa. This is particularly concerning given South Africaās leadership role in the African Union and its commitment to promoting human rights and democracy.
South Africaās foreign policy regarding Ugandaās anti-homosexuality law raises questions about its commitment to non-alignment and human rights in Africa. While non-interference may have its merits, it should not come at the expense of human rights and the fight for equality and justice.
South Africa must take a stronger stance against Ugandaās anti-homosexuality law and work towards promoting human rights and democracy in Africa.
Melusi Simelane is the Southern Africa Litigation Center’s Civic Rights Program Manager.
Opinions
Republicans prove how vile and frightening they can be
Attacks will continue if we donāt defeat right-wing figures everywhere

Day after day we see Republicans trying to outdo each other in how vile and frightening they can be. From the fight over the debt ceiling, to their presidential primary, they continue to try to take the nation backwards.
In the debt ceiling fight, they clearly say, āWe will protect the wealthy in our country at all costs, and instead will cut, or eliminate, programs to help the poor.ā The far-right wing crazies like Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-Ga.), Matt Gaetz (R-Fla.), Andy Biggs (R-Ariz.), Chip Roy (R-Texas), and Lauren Boebert (R-Colo.), are threatening their own speaker, Kevin McCarthy (R-Calif.), with the loss of his job if he doesnāt go along with what they want. Now that a deal has been cut, we will see how they, and left-leaning Democrats who have been putting pressure on President Biden to reject all Republican demands, will vote. These are facts of life in our nation today. Any person with a shred of decency should be embarrassed. I donāt envy President Biden for what he has to do to keep the nation from defaulting on its debts. The political reality is that he had to give in on some issues. Democrats should not fault him, but rather blame Republicans.
It is scary when you see what Republicans are doing around the nation with regard to abortion rights, civil rights, and LGBTQ rights. One recent example being Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis proudly signing the bill making abortion only legal until six weeks. There are women who donāt even know by then they are pregnant. Also, itās time men start understanding how this impacts them. Women need to remind the fathers what their responsibility will be if they both arenāt ready for a child but are forced to have one.
One ignorant parent in Florida complained, and according to politico was able to have āA Miami-Dade elementary school limit some access to Amanda Gormanās presidential inauguration poem, āThe Hill We Climb,ā complaining that it contained indirect āhate messages.ā This is insanity and the clear result of Trumpās impact on the culture of the nation. He made it OK to once again have hatred spewed from the public square, frightening decent people.
Like the threats against Target. CNN reported the company was āremoving some products that celebrate Pride month after the company and its employees became the focus of a āvolatileā anti-LGBTQ campaign. The company told the Wall Street Journal that people have confronted workers in stores, knocked down Pride merchandise displays and put threatening posts on social media with video from inside stores. Some people have thrown Pride items on the floor, Target spokesperson Kayla Castaneda told Reuters. CNN went on to report āProminent right-wing activists, Republican political leaders, and conservative media outlets, have focused their attention on a womenās swimsuit that was described as ātuck friendlyā for its ability to conceal male genitalia. Misinformation spread on social media that it was marketed to children, which it was not.ā Again, insanity, promoted by the right wing. The people doing this should be arrested and prosecuted.
It only gets worse as Republican candidates running for president try to outdo each other with anti-LGBTQ rhetoric, trying to improve their poll numbers. DeSantis can tout his ādonāt say gay legislation.ā Sen. Tim Scott (R-S.C.), a Black man, who says the country is not racist, touts his opposition to marriage equality. Then there is Mike Pence who will quote the Bible to you, claiming it tells us how terrible it is to be gay.Ā
The Daily News recently reported āFollowing last yearās more than 220 anti-LGBTQ bills introduced across the country, a poll by The Trevor Project found 71% of LGBTQ youth ā and 86% trans and nonbinary youth ā said they were negatively impacted by the flurry of proposals to restrict their rights.ā They went on to report, āAs of May 23, more than 520 anti-LGBTQ bills have been introduced in statehouses across the country, according to the Human Rights Campaign. More than 220 of those specifically restrict the rights of transgender and nonbinary people. These are all Republican bills.
This will continue unabated if we donāt defeat Republicans everywhere. In sharp contrast, Democrats in the Maryland legislature, led by Delegates David Moon (D-Montgomery County) and Luke Clippinger (D-Baltimore County) and State Senator Howard Lam (D-Baltimore and Howard Counties), managed to repeal the states sodomy law and pass gun-control measures.
Republicans will continue to carry out their agenda of hate across the nation unless we say with our votes, āWe wonāt take this anymore.ā The United States is better than this and we will show the world we will not tolerate hate; we will fight it.
Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade.
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