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QUEERY: Dan Milliken
The local improv actor answers 20 gay questions
Dan Milliken was tired of the same straight, white, male voices in improv he was used to seeing in standup comedy. But he knew a handful of gay performers in other troupes and decided to see if they’d be interested in joining him in something queerer.
“Happily, they agreed,” Milliken says. “It felt fresh and sort of disruptive to throw a bunch of uppity queers together and see what havoc we might wreak.”
Their group, dubbed simply Ugh, will perform at the fourth annual District Improv Festival which runs Nov. 9-12 at Source (1835 14th St., N.W.) and Unified Scene Theater (80 T St., N.W.). Admission ranges from free to $15 for various events. Full details at districtimprov.org. Local talent as well as groups from as far away as Phoenix and Toronto will appear.
For the festival, Ugh plans a brief, informal interview with a random audience member followed by a wholly improvised set of scenes inspired by whatever comes up in the interview.
Milliken loves the format because it invariably “comes out kind of loose and goofy, but with these moments of uncalculated honesty.”
“At its best, you get to see the real human experience but filtered through this lens of joy and levity,” the 27-year-old Bethesda, Md., native says. “I love that.”
Milliken works by day as a server and bartender at Commissary. He’s single and lives in Logan Circle. He enjoys performing, teaching and directing comedy and theater, songwriting, hiking, camping and “drinking on patios” in his free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I came out during my junior year of college, a little over six years ago. As trite as it might sound, I think the hardest person to tell was actually myself. I grew up very religious, and fell sway to the message of “reparative therapy” — that I could rewire my same-sex attractions if only I bonded more with my father, got interested in sports, stopped hanging out with so many theater girls, etc. Once I untangled that whole mess, though, telling everyone else was a breeze.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Aaron Schock. Hey gurl! In seriousness, I’ll say Katya Zamolochidkova, the drag queen. She’s a hilarious weirdo who approaches her work with intelligence and joy. I also admire how she consistently churns out great web content. Yaaass, enterprising queen.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
For a sit-and-talk night, I love good ole’ Saloon on U Street. If I’m trying to be gay in public, Town, especially the CTRL party every month.
Describe your dream wedding.
We get married in a big, unnecessary treehouse somewhere in Hawaii. Everyone in the wedding party roller-skates down the aisle. Our ring-bearers are Roy and Silo, those two penguins from the Central Park Zoo who used to be a gay couple but broke up to be with lady penguins, but they’re obviously going to get drunk and hook up again at this wedding. Also, Sia is there.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Feminism. Humankind has treated certain types of people unequally for so long that we’re still struggling to do anything else. But we need to keep working actively on that, because our species is so much better off when everyone can achieve their full potential and contribute.
What historical outcome would you change?
The entire formation process of the Bible. I have no animosity toward religious faith; I just think the Bible was a case of some timeless wisdom getting smushed together with some very time-specific cultural commentary and straight-up folklore, and it all being marketed as literal, inerrant truth. It’s been used as a justification to treat other people horribly throughout history.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
“Mean Girls.” For my generation, it’s reached the point where you basically can’t participate in society if you haven’t seen it.
On what do you insist?
Humor, humility and respect.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Twitter: “My given name is Daniel, but you can call me ‘Nasty Woman.’”
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Oh Hey You Guyyys”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
I’d turn straight, quit my job and start a new life in Santa Fe. There, I’d romance a female accounts executive, knock her up just to satisfy my petty biological drive to copy myself and bide my time until she came to term at which point I’d turn gay again, kidnap the baby and run away with a muscle-bound biker daddy, leaving the traumatized mother of my child alone in our sham home, weeping bitter tears and plotting revenge.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Don’t demonize your enemies; understand them. If you want to change hearts and minds, you have to speak to people where they are. Listen and learn where people are coming from, then build a bridge to there.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
More Instagram followers. Eww, I hate me.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
Not really a stereotype, but I think a lot of the general public is still “skeptical” of bisexuality. Kinsey up, bitches.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
You mean aside from Sean Cody? I’ll say “Beautiful Thing.” It feels both lifelike and fairy tale-like, and it was formative for Tween Dan. I read an embarrassing amount of Jamie/Ste fanfiction back in the day.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Drinking alcohol at, like, every event. (…Because I wish we smoked weed sometimes instead.)
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
An audience. I try to create work that satisfies me first and foremost, but I also want what I do to connect with people — to excite them, delight them, resonate with them, scratch itches for them. There’s no greater validation and it makes art feel like less of a selfish endeavor.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
More gay people.
Why Washington?
It looks good in a suit, it follows the news and it lets you down gently because it knows it’s going to keep running into you at Bear Happy Hour.
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Summer in the City: Free exhibits, movies, more fill D.C.’s calendar
America 250 celebrations continue
From late-night museum visits and outdoor jazz concerts to free movie screenings and America250 exhibitions, Washington’s summer calendar is packed with events that don’t charge admission. Here’s a look at some of the free activities happening across the District through September and beyond.
Museum exhibitions
The Renwick Gallery is presenting State Fairs: Growing American Craft, an exhibition that looks at unique and unconventional crafts from the 19th century to the present. It will run until Sept. 7, and admission is free.
The Arts and Industries Building, located next to the Smithsonian Castle, is presenting the exhibition Voices and Votes: Exploring Democracy Across America. The exhibition features the development of American independence and what that has meant over time, beginning with the Revolutionary War. Admission to the museum is free, and the exhibition runs until Sept. 7.
The National Gallery of Art presents Dear America, an exhibit featuring more than 100 pieces of work, including letters, photographs, and drawings that depict American landscapes and depictions of freedom. The exhibition will run until Sept. 20.
The National Museum of Women in the Arts is exhibiting Burnished: Pueblo Pottery until Sept. 27. The exhibit features pottery from the Southwest, and while most of the pottery belongs to women artists, a few also reflect those who have advocated for women.
Extending past this summer, the exhibition ¡Puro Ritmo! The Musical Journey of Salsa will be at the National Museum of the American Latino until July 2028. The exhibition shows how Afro-Cuban music has become a staple in the U.S. Admission is free.
The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library will feature the exhibition District Vibes / American Pride: How DC Changed American Culture, which will highlight all of the ways D.C. has impacted American life. The exhibit will run until Sept. 27.
At the Folger Shakespeare Library, the exhibit Imagining Shakespeare: Mythmaking and Storytelling in the Regency Era will be on view through Aug. 2. All the portraits on display come from the Boydell Shakespeare Gallery in London.
The United States Botanic Garden will be open until 8 p.m. on Aug. 20 and Sept. 17, as part of America’s State Flowers: An America250 Celebration. The evenings will include live music, mocktails, ice cream, and snacks.
The National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden will have extended hours, staying open until 8 p.m. Wednesday to Saturday until Sept. 3.
Live performances
On Aug. 7, the postgame Nationals concert series will continue with Jordan Davis performing. To see the concert, guests just need to buy tickets to the Nationals game.
Jazz in the Garden will run each Friday until Aug. 14. The event has free admission, but those interested have to enter a lottery due to the high demand for the event.
From May to October, Capital Harvest Market occurs every Wednesday from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Ronald Reagan Building and International Trade Center. The market features fresh foods, crafts, and recipes for unique dishes. A full list of vendors is available on Capital Harvest’s website.
Live! Concert Series on the Plaza will feature live performances at Woodrow Wilson Plaza until Sept. 25. The performances run Monday to Friday from 12-1 p.m. Admission is free to the performances.
DowntownDC Live! at Anthem Row is running until July 30, with free performances every Thursday from 5:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The final performance will feature HUE and a vintage flea market hosted by Get Flee Marketplace.
Located in Adams Morgan, AdMo Vibe will present live performances every Thursday at 6 p.m. in Kalorama Park. Guests are encouraged to check out Adams Morgan before and after shows, and it is an event for all ages.
Other events
Union Market is hosting drive-in movies on Aug. 8, featuring “Monsters, Inc.”, and Sept. 12, featuring “Wicked.” On Aug. 8, the parking lot will open at 7:30 p.m., with the movie starting at 8:25 p.m. On Sept. 12, the parking lot will open at 6:35 p.m., and the movie will start at 7:30 p.m.
Sunset Cinema at the Wharf will also be available one day a month. On Aug. 12, “10 Things I Hate About You” will premiere, and on Aug. 26, “Project Hail Mary.” No tickets are necessary.
The Library of Congress will also show movies. On Aug. 6, guests are invited to watch “Apollo 13.” The movie will be shown at 8 p.m., with additional live performances beginning at 7 p.m.
For fans of Asian media, the Okaton convention will be at Walter E. Washington Convention Center from July 31-Aug. 2. Festivities will include cosplay contests, skits, live music, and panel discussions.
Washington Spirit’s season also begins in August. The Spirit is Washington’s National Women’s League, with matchups occurring between the San Diego Wave, the North Carolina Courage, the Orlando Pride, and the Bay FC.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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