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Christmastime with Lorrie Morgan

Country diva reflects on life, family and career in advance of Birchmere show

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Lorrie Morgan has had a busy year. In addition to her first solo album in five years, she also put out a collection of re-recordings of her hits. (Photo courtesy Morgan)

Lorrie Morgan’s Enchanted Christmas

 

Sunday, Dec. 18

 

7:30 p.m.

 

The Birchmere

 

3701 Mount Vernon Ave.

 

Alexandria, VA

 

$45

 

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It’s been a busy and successful year for country diva Lorrie Morgan. February saw the release of her first solo album in five years, “Letting Go … Slow,” followed by a re-recorded hits collection, “A Picture Of Me — Greatest Hits & More,” a month later.

In addition to recording, Morgan has been on the road performing her own concert dates along with doing her “Grits and Glamour” show featuring fellow country star, Pam Tillis.

December finds Morgan touring with her “Enchanted Christmas” show, which comes to the Birchmere on Sunday, Dec. 18. This is the country star’s third time in the D.C.  area this year, but her first time playing the Birchmere.

During an early morning phone interview, Morgan talks about Christmas, her new music, her gay following among other things from the front porch of her new home in Portland, Tenn.

WASHINGTON BLADE: What can fans expect from your Christmas show?

LORRIE MORGAN: The only thing they can expect is I’m actually not doing any of my hits. It’s all keeping Christ in Christmas and it’s all about Christmas. I just decided you know what, I’m not here to promote my songs. I love Christmas. I’m very dedicated to that time of year and I feel like all through the year I do songs about me and now it’s about Christ so that’s what we’re gonna do.

BLADE: Do you have a favorite childhood Christmas memory?

MORGAN: People ask me all the time about my favorite childhood Christmas memory and I don’t have any, because they were all the best I ever had. Christmas growing up at our house was a magical time. My dad believed in surprises and magic and candy land and just created this fantasy for us children that was a double-edged sword because when we grew up, we were in for a big surprise (laughs). It was always a magical time for me. There were no favorite memories, they were all perfect for me.

BLADE: You’ve recorded two Christmas albums, the popular 1993 “Merry Christmas From London” and 2007’s “An Old Fashioned Christmas.” With touring the last few holiday seasons, do you plan on recording another Christmas album?

MORGAN: Not right now. My next album I want to do is a country oldies and the next one is a gospel album. I’m really looking forward to that. I don’t know when a Christmas album would be due. I don’t think I could ever top “Merry Christmas From London.”

BLADE: Would your country oldies album be similar to your 2009 country covers album, “A Moment In Time”?

MORGAN: Um, not as lush as “A Moment in Time.” I’m actually gonna do it as a duet album with Pam Tillis. She’ll be doing part of ’em and I’ll be doing part of ’em. It’ll be produced by Richard Landis, so I’m really excited about that. Very excited.

BLADE: Speaking of Pam Tillis, the two of you have been doing a successful tour for the past few years called “Grits and Glamour” and recorded an album together (2013’s “Dos Divas”). You have this great chemistry together on stage. Why do you two get along so well?

MORGAN: It’s funny (laughs) I don’t know if you’ll understand this or print it correctly, but we’re like a couple old broads walking around in a daze in a new music industry … blind leading the blind and we’re having a blast. We laugh at everything. We’re blessed, selling out crowds. I get tickled and she gets tickled and most of the time I get tickled about her. Pam is … we’re both perfectionists in our music. I’m more loose on stage and she about falls off her stool because she never knows what I’m going to say.

BLADE: You’ve released quite a few albums that while they’ve had great songs, they didn’t get the recognition they deserved. Do you ever get discouraged?

MORGAN: Oh yeah, I do, but it’s a natural part of the business (pauses). It’s kind of like living and dying. You know dying is a natural part of living and nobody’s on top forever and nobody can be on top forever and you never brace yourself for that moment when your like, “Damn, I haven’t had a hit record in 24 years.” (laughs)

BLADE: Your new album, “Letting Go…Slow” is a mixture of different genres that features originals along with a handful of covers. What inspired you to record this type of album?

MORGAN: Well, it’s been over five years since I’ve had a solo album of my own and these are songs I handpicked myself, songs I wanted to do for 20 some years and for one reason or another never got to do them. I don’t know, I don’t feel like there’s a reason or plan to release a country album. I just wanted to release these songs. The song that inspired the album is a song called “Spilt Milk.” I heard that song, God, 16, 17 years ago. I was at a benefit in New York City and the entertainer that night was Kristina Train and I never heard of her in my life and she came out and was just this class act with a great band behind her. She started singing “Spilt Milk” and my eyes started crying, I was like, “I’m out of control here.” I finally got to meet her this year at the Opry and she was so sweet and complimentary of our version of her song.

BLADE: Has “Spilt Milk” inspired you to maybe record a jazz album?

MORGAN: Oh yes! I plan on doing everything. I’m excited about it.

BLADE: You released a second album this year, “A Picture of Me — Greatest Hits & More.” How did that come about?

MORGAN: Well, a label contacted me from California and they wanted to redo, remake the hits, which is always kind of weird to me. The only thing that interested me in doing it was I got to put new songs on the album. I got to do a lot of Keith (Whitley) songs.

BLADE: Any plans to do a whole album of Keith Whitley songs?

MORGAN: I want to, but it’s a fine line to what people think you’re doing it for and just being respectful. My son (Jesse Keith Whitley) is following in his dad’s footsteps and he’s doing great. I’m gonna save that stuff for him.

BLADE: When did you first notice you had a gay following?

MORGAN: God, it’s been a long time, a long time! Let me see (pauses) it’s been probably 30 years (laughs).

BLADE: What do you think the appeal is?

MORGAN: I think they know I’m real. I don’t judge people. I love music, I love singing about real issues and life and women just don’t go through that stuff, men do as well. I’ve had a lot of gay friends all my life. One of my best friends is gay and we have the best time when we’re together that I can ever have with anybody. I guess it’s just the appeal that I don’t judge, I really don’t give a damn what your sexual preference is, I really don’t care. You know what my favorite movie is? “Birdcage.” I love that movie, me and my best friend always … he calls Miss. Albert because I’m always like, “I need a Pirin tablet” (laughs). I love that people are lightening up and seeing that this is not a bad thing. I’d like to delve back, I don’t know if anybody ever has, but I’d like to delve back to the early days of Christianity or before and see (pauses) I’d like to see when people first started feeling those emotions. Wouldn’t you?

BLADE: Yeah, it would clear a lot of things up. I think so much of how you treat people has to do with how you’re raised and your surroundings.

MORGAN: I think a lot of it and most of it. What doesn’t bother me is the love. When you love somebody with your heart and soul, I don’t think God can look down on that. I just don’t. Now if you walked around hating people and looting, killing people, that’s not good. But softness and being kind to people, nurturing someone. I don’t believe God looks down on that. I did a gay pride festival a couple years ago and it was one of the most fun shows I’ve ever done in my life. These people knew ever word, they were dressed like me, we were excited, they were excited and we had the best time.

BLADE: Quite a few years ago, you said, “Drama is something that lets you know you’re still alive.” Do you still feel that way?

MORGAN: I do, you know, the older I’ve gotten I thought the drama would settle down, but there’s a new kind of drama now. I had a friend of mine who told me that every seven to 10 years you go through changes with your body that open your eyes to learning what you had questions to for years. Now there’s a new drama in my life, not so much romantic drama, boyfriend/girlfriend drama, now it’s losing people you love, it’s a different age of my life and kids growing up, and grandkids and worrying about different things. With each part of your life there becomes a different drama you have to deal with. Yeah, it still lets you know you’re alive. You have tears and you have heartbreak and I feel sorry for people who don’t have a friend who they have loved and have lost because there’s no way to describe that feeling of overcoming, but you gotta learn to live with it and it makes you a stronger and better person.

BLADE: I feel you gotta lose a little bit to gain more in the long run as you get older.

MORGAN: Well you are right. Let me tell you something sweetie, it only gets better. It does. When I hit 40, my girlfriend told me it’s like magic. You wake up and you’re 40 and (laughs) I get it now! I wake up and I’m like, “Oh my God, I know all the answers to the questions I had all these years.” Then you hit another slump and you’re an idiot again (laughs). Then you find out that every five, seven, 10 years, you hit this new horizon that puts you at another level and it’s interesting to sit back and let it happen.

BLADE: You’ve accomplished so much in your professional and personal life. What are you most proud of?

MORGAN: I know it’s corny, but it’s gotta be my children. What they lived through at the height of my career and they were little. I always tried to make their basketball games and their proms and their school picnics and I did really damn good. You know, I would cancel a $60,000 date to make my son’s basketball game. I didn’t care at that time. They were and they are the most important things in my life. My daughter is a wonderful mother and she’s full of funny, loving ways. My son is wild as a damn buck, but he’ll give you the shirt off his back. He’s just a good ol’ southern rocker boy. My grand kids and what we have, what Randy and I tried to make is a peaceful place our kids can always come. I’ll never turn my kids away. Are they perfect? No, show me someone who is. To me they are. My son gets to go on the road with me a lot. He sings a couple songs when he’s not working. I just love those kids! They are my life.

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Lorrie Morgan says despite the ups and downs of her career and personal life, her gay fans have stuck by her. (Photo courtesy Morgan)

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Looking back at 50 years of Pride in D.C

Washington Blade’s unique archives chronicle highs, lows of our movement

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To celebrate the 50th anniversary of LGBTQ Pride in Washington, D.C., the Washington Blade team combed our archives and put together a glossy magazine showcasing five decades of celebrations in the city. Below is a sampling of images from the magazine but be sure to find a print copy starting this week.

D.C.’s Different Drummers march in the 2006 Capital Pride Parade. (Washington Blade archive photo by Adam Cuthbert)

The magazine is being distributed now and is complimentary. You can find copies at LGBTQ bars and restaurants across the city. Or visit the Blade booth at the Pride festival on June 7 and 8 where we will distribute copies. 

Thank you to our advertisers and sponsors, whose support has enabled us to distribute the magazine free of charge. And thanks to our dedicated team at the Blade, especially Photo Editor Michael Key, who spent many hours searching the archives for the best images, many of which are unique to the Blade and cannot be found elsewhere. And thanks to our dynamic production team of Meaghan Juba, who designed the magazine, and Phil Rockstroh who managed the process. Stephen Rutgers and Brian Pitts handled sales and marketing and staff writers Lou Chibbaro Jr., Christopher Kane, Michael K. Lavers, Joe Reberkenny along with freelancer and former Blade staffer Joey DiGuglielmo wrote the essays. 

The 1995 Lesbian and Gay Freedom Festival was held on Freedom Plaza on June 18. (Washington Blade archive photo by Clint Steib)

The magazine represents more than 50 years of hard work by countless reporters, editors, advertising sales reps, photographers, and other media professionals who have brought you the Washington Blade since 1969.

We hope you enjoy the magazine and keep it as a reminder of all the many ups and downs our local LGBTQ community has experienced over the past 50 years.

I hope you will consider supporting our vital mission by becoming a Blade member today. At a time when reliable, accurate LGBTQ news is more essential than ever, your contribution helps make it possible. With a monthly gift starting at just $7, you’ll ensure that the Blade remains a trusted, free resource for the community — now and for years to come. Click here to help fund LGBTQ journalism.

The D.C. Black Gay Men & Women’s Community Conference table at Gay Pride Day in 1978. (Washington Blade archive photo by Jim Marks)
A scene from 1985 Gay and Lesbian Pride Day. (Washington Blade archive photo by Doug Hinckle)
A scene from the 1988 Gay and Lesbian Pride Day. (Washington Blade archive photo by Doug Hinckle)
A scene from the Capital Pride Block Party in 2018. (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)
Keke Palmer performs at the 2024 Capital Pride Festival. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
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In stressful times, escape to Rehoboth Beach

Here’s what’s new in D.C.’s favorite beach town for 2025

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Rehoboth Beach is ready to welcome visitors for the 2025 season. (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

At last, after an uncharacteristically cold and snowy winter, another Rehoboth Beach season is upon us. I have been going to Rehoboth Beach since 1984, and it was the first place I went where people only knew me as a gay man. It was the year I came out. It was a summer community back then. Today it really is an exciting year-round community. But it’s still the summer season when Rehoboth shines, and when the businesses make most of their money. 

The summer brings out tens of thousands of tourists, from day-trippers, to those with second homes at the beach. Everyone comes to the beach for the sun and sand, food, and drink. Some like to relax, others to party, and you can do both in Rehoboth Beach, Del. 

Stop by CAMP Rehoboth, the LGBTQ community center on Baltimore Avenue, to get the latest updates on what is happening. CAMP sponsors Sunfestival each Labor Day weekend, and a huge block party on Baltimore Avenue in October. They train the Rehoboth Beach police on how to work with the LGBTQ community, and have all kinds of special and regularly scheduled events. Pick up a copy of their publication, Letters, which is distributed around town. 

I asked Kim Leisey, CAMP’s executive director, for her thoughts, and she said, CAMP Rehoboth looks forward to welcoming our friends and visitors to Rehoboth Beach. We are a safe space for our community and will be sponsoring social opportunities, art receptions, concerts, and art exhibits, throughout the summer. If you are planning a wedding, shower, reception, or business meeting, our beautiful atrium is available for rental. We look forward to a summer of solidarity and fun.”  While at CAMP stop in the courtyard at a favorite place of mine, Loris Oy Vey! Café, and tryher famous chicken salad.

There’s something for everyone at the beach, from walking the boardwalk and eating Thrashers fries, to visiting Funland, or playing a game of miniature golf. Or head to some of the world-class restaurants like Drift, Eden, Blue Moon, or Back Porch.  

Some random bits on the summer 2025 season. Prices are going up like everywhere else. Your parking meter will cost you $4 an hour. Meters are in effect May 15-Sept. 15. Parking permits for all the non-metered spaces in town are also expensive. Transferable permits are $365,non-transferable $295, or after Aug. 1 if you only come for the end of summer, it’s $165. Detailed information is available on the town’s website.

Rehoboth lost one of its best restaurant this off-season, JAM, but Freddie’s Beach Bar and Restaurant is open for its fourth season. Owner Freddie Lutz told the Blade, “We are looking forward to a fabulous season. Freddie’s has a dance floor and is the only music video bar in town.” There is also live entertainment, karaoke, and Freddie’s Follies drag show Friday nights. 

Magnolia Applebottom performs at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Rehoboth Beach, Del. on May 12. (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

My favorite happy hour bar is Aqua Grill, which has reopened for the season. I recommend taking advantage of their great Tuesday Taco night, and Thursday burger night. Then there is The Pines and Top of the Pines. Bob Suppies of Second Block Hospitality told me, “Come, relax, and play. We are ready! I have been spending summers here since the mid-90’s, and Rehoboth Beach seems to age like a fine wine. Between the new, and favorite restaurants opening back up, the shops bursting with incredible finds, and all the great LGBTQ+ bars to entertain everyone, nowhere beats the Delaware beaches this summer.” 

Head down the block on Baltimore Avenue and you get to La Fable restaurant. Go all the way to the beach and you will see the new lifeguard station, which is slated to open later this month. Also, demolition of the old hotel and north boardwalk Grotto Pizza has happened. The site will become a new four-story, 60-room hotel, with ground level retail space. 

Then join me at my favorite morning place at the beach, The Coffee Mill, in the mews between Rehoboth and Baltimore Avenues, open every morning at 7 a.m. Owners Mel and Bob also have the Mill Creamery, the ice cream parlor in the mews, and Brashhh! on 1st street, where Mel sells his own clothing line, called FEARLESS! Then there is the ever-popular Purple Parrot, celebrating its 26th year, now with new owners Tyler Townsend and Drew Mitchell, who welcome you to their iconic place. It has only gotten better. If you head farther down Rehoboth Avenue you will find the Summer House with its upscale Libation Room, and a nice garden looking out on Rehoboth Avenue. Also on Rehoboth Avenue is Gidgets Gadgets owned by the fabulous Steve Fallon. With the renewed interest in vinyl records you may want to stop in at Extended Play

Then there is the always busy and fun, Diegos Bar and Nightclub. Joe Zuber of Diego’s told the Blade, “Get ready for a great gay ole time in Rehoboth Beach. Plenty of entertainment, dancing and fun as we seem to be the next Stonewall generation with this newest administration. Each election brings its concerns about how our gay community will be affected. Come to Rehoboth Beach to escape this summer season!” 

If you are in town for Sunday happy hour, make sure to stop there to hear the talented Pamala Stanley who is celebrating her 20th season entertaining in Rehoboth.And on Mondays, Stanley plays Broadway and other classics on the piano at Diego’s.

If you are looking for culture Rehoboth has some of that as well. There is the Clear Space Theatre on Baltimore Avenue. Rumors abound that Clear Space will move out of town. But I can’t believe the commissioners and mayor would be dumb enough to let that happen. This year’s shows include “Spring Awakening,” “Buyer + Cellar,” “Hairspray,” “Beautiful: The Carole King Musical,” and “RENT.”Tickets sell fast so I suggest you book early and they are available online. Then mark your calendars for Saturday, July 19 for Rehoboth Beach Pride 2025 at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center.

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention some of the other fine restaurants and clubs in town. Just a reminder, during season you often need dinner reservations. Come to the beach often enough, and you can try them all: Café Azafran, Dos Locos, Goolee’s Grille, Rigby’s, Frank and Louie’s, Above the Dunes, Mariachi, and Henlopen City Oyster House, and Red, White & Basil. And take a short drive to Dewey for breakfast or lunch at the Starboard; popular bartender Doug Moore (winner of the Blade’s Best Rehoboth-Area Bartender 2024 award) holds court at one of the inside bars, which has become a de facto gay bar on Saturdays. 

One major development in the local dining scene last summer was the purchase of the Big Fish Restaurant Group by Baltimore-based Atlas Restaurant Group. Nearly a year later, not much has changed at the many Big Fish restaurants, although many locals are hoping for a renovation of Obie’s along with a gay night at the ocean-front bar/restaurant. 

These are only a few of the fantastic places to eat and drink at the beach. Remember, book your reservations for hotels and restaurants, early. Rehoboth is a happening place and gets very busy. 

We are living in stressful times. A visit to Rehoboth is a nice way to escape them for a while. Take the time to destress, enjoy the sun and sand. Take a stroll on the boardwalk and listen to the sound of the ocean, and people having fun. Enjoy good times, good food, good friends, and remember that life can still be good. Recharge your batteries for the rest of the year, by enjoying some summer fun in Rehoboth Beach. 

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Down to shuck! 

Oyster farmers Jordan Nally and fiancé Jimmy Kane on caring for Delaware’s waters — and sharing something special with customers

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Jordan Nally shows off one of his newly harvested oysters on the dock in Rehoboth. (Blade photo by Will Freshwater)

Although I didn’t come out to my family until my 20s, they should have seen the signs. During one of our annual trips to Indian Shores Beach in Florida, my parents splurged on a Polynesian dining adventure at the only tourist spot in town – Tiki Gardens. While waiting for our table, my sisters found a saltwater tank lined with oysters. For what felt like a fortune to an eight-year-old, a fisherman would shuck a pair and sift through the contents. Dressed in my floral Hawaiian shirt, my excitement turned to desperation when both of my sisters’ oysters revealed pearls. After much begging, my father reluctantly paid to have the small, oddly shaped gems mounted in rings. Watching my sisters flaunt their new jewelry, I seethed with envy and secretly vowed to return one day to claim my own treasure from the sea.

Nearly 50 years later, I’m a full-time resident of Rehoboth Beach, Del. It’s the Atlantic Ocean, not the Gulf of Mexico, but it’s close enough to Florida for me. As a local in a small coastal town, I’m keenly interested in how entrepreneurs are capitalizing on the growing tourism industry with innovative business ideas, so when I stumble across an Instagram page featuring two gay oyster farmers, Jordan Nally and his fiancé Jimmy Kane operating just a few miles away on Rehoboth Bay, my curiosity is piqued. After liking all the posts on the page, I slip into their DMs and ask whether we can meet for an interview. I’m delighted and a little nervous when they agree and invite me out on the boat to tour the farm and talk shellfish. Since everything I know about oysters came from a restaurant menu, I did some research.

Less than a week later, I arrive at the marina on Collins Avenue in Dewey on a picture-perfect morning in early May. Nally is waiting by his pickup truck, casually chatting up a couple of tourists. He’s a Delaware native and looks every bit like an oyster farmer in a long-sleeve, sweat-wicking shirt, PVC-coated shorts, and a branded baseball cap for sun protection. That’s all the more surprising given that Nally spent more than a decade working for JPMorgan Chase and had run for election to the Delaware House of Representatives in 2020.

As a good reporter, I’ve done my research: I know that the Inland Bays (made up of Rehoboth, Indian River, and Little Assawoman Bays) were once prolific oyster producers, with peak annual harvests reaching up to two million bushels. However, by the mid-20th century, overharvesting and a parasitic fungus drastically reduced the oyster populations. By 1960, the annual harvest had plummeted to just 49,000 bushels, marking a low point for the industry. In 2013, former Gov. Jack Markell signed legislation, and the commercial shellfish industry was reborn.

As we unload the flatbed of his EV pickup truck and transport the contents to the waiting boat, a retrofitted pontoon, “The Mullet,” Nally fills me in on his origin story. He came up with the idea to dive into aquaculture while he was quarantined in a hotel in Vermont with nothing but a TV and a local magazine with a cover story on oyster farming. He pitched the idea to his partner Jimmy Kane over the phone, and together they started planning how to make it happen. Nally jokes that what began as a fun “COVID project” quickly bloomed into a thriving business: “Some people did sourdough starter, but we decided to start an oyster farm.” 

Although Kane is always there to lend a helping hand, Nally is the one who’s usually out tending the farm. Still, Nally stresses that Kane plays a critical support role: “He’s in charge of merchandising, running sales at the market, and grounding me when I have too many wild ideas.”

In April 2023, the couple planted their first batch of “oyster babies,” provided by the hatchery at the University of Delaware. At the time, they were still living full time in Wilmington, so the first year on the farm meant long drives, managing their day jobs from the car, launching the boat, and working for hours out on the bay before heading back home. Eventually, the capital investment and 14-hour days paid off; now, just two years later, they have 50 floating bags, each holding about 2,000 oysters.  

Out on the open water, we see a half-dozen other oyster farms off in the distance. Despite the great weather, we’re the only boat on the bay. Standing confidently at the helm with his eyes fixed on the horizon, Nally gives me a quick biology tutorial on how oysters make it from the bay to the bar. Growers trigger spawning by adjusting water conditions to mimic spring, then feed the larvae specialized algae. After two to three weeks, the larvae develop an “eyespot” and are transferred to grow-out areas on the seabed or suspended bags. Oysters generally reach market size in 18 to 36 months, but the ideal conditions in Rehoboth Bay cut that time down to less than six months.

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Jordan Nally shows off a freshly shucked oyster from his farm in Rehoboth. (Blade photo by Will Freshwater)

Nally opens the throttle and, in less time than I expected, we reach the place where the magic happens – the acre of water designated for Nancy James Oysters. Unconventional and bordering on camp, the couple came up with the moniker to honor their late parents. When I ask Nally to explain why they’ve stuck with the venture, his answer, like the name of their business, is personal: “Every single day, we learn something new. And every single oyster reminds us why we started: to grow sustainably, care deeply for our waters, and share something truly special with our customers.”

As we arrive at the oyster farm, Nally cuts the engines and explains the innovative farming technique Nancy James uses to grow its oysters; picture a series of mesh bags, buoyed by floats, and attached to a main line stretching across a tract of water and anchored at both ends. Growing oysters at the water’s surface allows Nally and Kane to capitalize on natural currents and food availability, resulting in faster growth rates and enhanced flavor profiles. The only downside to this growing technique is that the guys never find pearls because the insides of their oysters are cleaner than those of the bottom dwellers.

The farm is directly across from Bird Island, and the cacophony of 10,000 birds is even louder than the whirring sound from the propellers. After anchoring the boat, Nally casually strips down to his bathing suit and surf shoes and jumps into the 60-degree water without a second thought. It’s the ultimate cold plunge, but if he feels the cold, he doesn’t show it; there’s too much work to do. 

“You ready to get dirty?” 

The waters of Rehoboth Bay may be pristine, but Nally’s question and smirking grin reinforce the message that oyster farming is a messy business. The first order of the day is to change out the older bags to address biofouling — the attachment of seaweed and algae that can affect the health and inhibit growth of new oysters. Nally selects three gnarly bags and hauls them over to the boat. I pull one onto the deck. Once he’s back on board, we empty the first bag onto the cleaning table, and I feel my stomach lurch. Mixed in with small crabs and tiny shrimp, the oysters are covered in muck. Suddenly, I’m glad to be wearing a pair of rubber gloves. 

Following instructions, I start sorting; chefs prefer smaller oysters with well-shaped shells. Trying not to get distracted by Nally’s stories and the ravenous flock of waiting sea birds floating above me, I count out four batches of 100 oysters for same-day delivery. Nally and Kane care about how their oysters taste and look. The boat has a portable generator, sump pump, and pressure washer to clean the shells thoroughly. Always ready to quote DNREC requirements scripture and verse, Nally explains that he has to use approved water, and the easiest way is to clean them with water from where they’re growing. 

When I ask if it’s hard to comply with the federal and state requirements, like logging the exact time oysters go in and come out of the water, Nally shrugs and offers a surprisingly pragmatic answer: “Everyone on the bay is aware of safety and works together to comply. If anyone gets sick from shellfish, they don’t care where it came from; it will affect all of us. When you are eating oysters in Delaware that came from Delaware, I feel really confident about safety.”

After harvesting and storing the oysters on ice, Nally checks the currents and wind direction before jumping back into the water; he regularly inspects the bags, floats, securing lines, and clips to ensure everything is in working order. As the oysters grow, Nally and Kane move them into bags with progressively larger mesh sizes and mark each with color-coded zip ties to indicate their growth stage. As they mature, the oysters are thinned out and spread across more bags to prevent overcrowding. It’s hard work, but at the end of the day, the two men are proud of what they’ve built together.

Nally explains that the warm temperatures, sandy bottoms, and high salinity of Rehoboth Bay are ideal. Still, not all farm sites are created equal: “The water here tastes different than the water on that side of the bay. It’s the fetch you’re getting from waves, all the swell, and the current. We have a really strong current on this side, and that side doesn’t, so they’re not as salty.”

Although Rehoboth Bay is known for its shallow depths and typically calm waters, aquafarming is still risky. Nally recalled a harrowing incident last winter when his lines got tangled in the boat’s propeller. Rough weather and a hefty chop made it hard to keep the boat steady. Determined to free the line, he put on his wetsuit and plunged into the frigid water. As a safety measure, he shared his location via iPhone with Kane and told him that if the location stopped moving, Nally was in the water and Kane should call the Coast Guard. 

On another occasion, Nally slipped on a wet deck and hit his head — an accident reminiscent of what happened to poor Jennifer Coolidge in “White Lotus.” Fortunately, he fell into the boat rather than overboard. He takes no chances now, wearing a special life vest that automatically inflates if he falls into the bay.

Nally and Kane are the only local farmers offering premium catering services, bringing the freshest oysters and top-notch shuckers to events such as weddings and birthday parties. Nancy James Oysters can also be enjoyed at local restaurants, including Drift Seafood & Raw Bar and Lewes Oyster House. You can find them in person at the Bethany Farmers Market and the Historic Lewes Farmers Market. This summer, the couple will be shucking oysters live every Sunday afternoon at Aqua Bar & Grill. Oysters are always available for purchase online at nancyjamesoysters.com

It’s another beautiful day when I make the short trip to town and park just outside Drift on Baltimore Avenue. Grabbing an empty seat at the outside bar window, I order without looking at the menu (at Drift, ask for the “Rehoboth Rose” oyster). In less time than it takes to check my phone, there are a dozen premium oysters in front of me — bedded in a tray of crushed ice, just waiting to be devoured. 

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Chef Zane Rego of Drift in Rehoboth Beach presents a dozen local oysters. (Blade photo by Will Freshwater)

Savoring the poetry of the presentation, I lift a shell to my mouth and slurp down the meat in one swallow. The taste is pure Delaware. Tom Wiswell, the former executive chef at Drift, describes it best: “It reminds me of being a kid at Rehoboth Beach and like a wave splashing you in the face. It’s fresh, briny, and salty.”  

As I enjoy a swallow of a good glass of Cava and reach for another oyster, I realize why these exotic delicacies were dubbed “white gold.” Nearly a half-century older and wiser than that kid in the Hawaiian shirt at Tiki Gardens, I’ve finally realized that the hidden treasure inside the oyster was never the pearl.

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