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Ralph Northam for governor of Virginia

Perriello’s candidacy isn’t worth spending millions on a primary



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Lt. Gov. Ralph Northam (D-Va.) (Washington Blade file photo by Lee Whitman)

The lieutenant governor of Virginia, Ralph Northam, won a hard fought statewide race in 2013 and is now running for governor. He has been endorsed by Gov. Terry McAuliffe, who has a one-term limit, and nearly every Democratic officeholder in the state. He is a progressive with a great record.

Northam is a strong supporter of a woman’s right to choose having led the fight against the now infamous transvaginal ultrasound mandate, which would have required Virginia women seeking an abortion to undergo an intrusive and unnecessary procedure.

He chairs the Commonwealth Council on Childhood Success, and helped secure a federal grant creating up to 13,000 pre-K education spots for children in low-income families and advocates for greater access to prenatal care. He chairs the Governor’s Task Force on Improving Mental Health Services and Crisis Response and led a team tasked with identifying challenges and suggesting improvements to the state’s complex system of mental health services.

Northam cast the tie-breaking vote to block legislation that would have let Virginians carry concealed weapons without a permit. He knows guns and alcohol are a deadly combination. In the state Senate, he fought legislation to allow people to bring guns into bars and other places where alcohol was served and voted to ban concealed carry privileges for those convicted of driving under the influence or public intoxication in other states.

When in the Virginia Senate, Northam met Virginia Tech survivors who came to Richmond to advocate for commonsense gun safety reform. He has been partners with them ever since. He voted to close the gun show loophole and to keep the One-Handgun-A-Month limit. As governor, he will continue those fights and has promised to reinstate the commonwealth’s successful One-Handgun-A-Month policy limiting the number of handguns an individual can purchase. He is not opposed to owning guns. He’s an avid outdoorsman, gun owner, hunter, and sports shooter from his days growing up in Accomack, attending VMI, and serving in the military.

Northam is a strong ally of the LGBT community, opposing bathroom bills that discriminate against transgender individuals and fighting to protect LGBT people from workplace and adoption discrimination in Virginia.

He understands the state and the need to grow rural Virginia and is committed to bringing broadband Internet access to every Virginia community. He’s committed to fighting for teacher pay raises and fair funding for rural public schools. As governor, when working to expand economic opportunities, he won’t forget rural Virginia.

In the past year, under McAuliffe and Lt. Governor Northam, Virginia has doubled the number of veterans placed in jobs through the Virginia Values Veterans program. Northam supported legislation to establish a program to connect returning military medics to private sector healthcare jobs. He is committed to continue to grow these programs until there is no longer any veteran joblessness in Virginia.

So there is a great, tested progressive candidate for governor who understands the state and how to win. Not good enough for Tom Perriello, the one-term congressman, trying to claim the mantle of progressive candidate with the support of Bernie Sanders and out-of-state money. The Washington Post reported he received money from groups like Avaaz that don’t report their donors and raise money from foreign nationals. One donor gave him $500,000. Fifty-seven percent of his donations come from out of state. For many progressive Virginians his problem as Slate reported is his record. During his one term in Congress, Perriello voted against the assault weapons ban and boasted about it when he tried to get reelected. Another sticking point is his vote for the so-called Stupak amendment. “The Stupak amendment would’ve prohibited insurance companies that participate in the Affordable Care Act’s exchanges from covering abortion forcing insurance companies on the exchanges to drop abortion coverage for all women.”

We understand politicians have big egos. Yet running against a proven progressive candidate like Northam who already won statewide in a state like Virginia is the wrong thing to do. Perriello has made no case why his candidacy is worth Democrats spending millions of dollars and thousands of volunteer hours on a primary. Democrats have won all statewide offices in Virginia and that time and money would be better spent working to win the state legislature and preparing to take back every Virginia Republican congressional seat in 2018.

Ralph Northam deserves your support in the June 13 primary. Join gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin who is co-hosting a fundraiser for Northam on Sunday, May 21 in Alexandria.

Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBT rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade.

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Opinion | Happy Pride everyone — except at Nellie’s

Dragging a customer down the stairs an unforgivable act



Nellie's Sports Bar (Washington Blade photo by Wyatt Reid Westlund)

Last Saturday was the official start of Capital Pride or what I refer to as “Community Pride” in the District of Columbia. We have Black Pride, Youth Pride, Silver Pride, Trans Pride and Latinx Pride but Capital Pride in theory embraces all parts of the diverse LGBTQ+ communities within the DMV.

We did not have any face-to-face Pride celebrations in two years due to COVID-19. Fortunately, the COVID-19 gathering restrictions were lifted on June 11 and the 2021 version of Capital Pride was a scaled down event with a short participatory march led by Vice President Harris and D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser.

While I was not able to attend the Capital Pride march or rally, I lived vicariously through the many social media postings of the weekend celebrations by friends and colleagues who were taking advantage of the beautiful weather as well as the now wide-open LGBTQ+ clubs and bars. The local television stations highlighted the positive energy and joyful expressions of Pride from Dupont Circle to Freedom Plaza on the evening news. So imagine my surprise when I started receiving messages showing a video of an incident at Nellie’s Sports Bar.

My first reaction was “here we go again, another fight scene at Nellie’s.” Then after viewing the video several times, I realized the video showed a young woman later identified as Keisha Young, being dragged down the stairs by the hair by two security guards. Now I have been going to clubs and bars around the globe for almost four decades and I have never seen or heard a bar or club patron being dragged down a set of stairs by security. I have seen people pushed down a set of stairs. I have seen people kicked down a set of stairs. I have seen people fall down a set of stairs. And the stairs at Nellie’s are steep, reminding me of the stairs to my grandmother’s cellar.

My second reaction was: What type of egregious behavior would warrant this type of brutal response? Did Young stab or cut someone? Did she put someone’s life in danger? I would later find out through the news media that Young, a Morgan State University student, was out celebrating Pride weekend with friends and may have been mistaken for another patron who allegedly tried to sneak in a bottle of alcohol. I was not there so I can only go by what I saw on the video and the statements of other patrons. Regardless of the circumstances, security has no business dragging anyone out of any place unless patrons are in danger, or a weapon has been presented. The more I watched the video, the more I became disgusted.

Truth be told, Nellie’s has been a place of fights and bloodshed over the past few years. In June of 2017, several local community-based individuals and organizations (including the Center for Black Equity and the Collective Action for Safe Spaces) worked with Nellie’s management and staff to address security and cultural respect issues. Security issues were addressed and for a while things were relatively peaceful. Granted, I still heard complaints from patrons about how they were treated by staff.

Here is my final thought: I have certain expectations when I enter a bar or club — straight or queer. The expectation is remarkably simple. No. 1 is that I am treated with respect by staff and patrons, and No. 2 is that I am provided with a safe environment to enjoy socializing with my friends. While it’s sometimes difficult for bars and clubs to control the behavior of its patrons, there are security techniques on how to handle difficult customers and I suspect that dragging a person down a set of stairs is not in the club’s security training manual.

Where do we go from here? Nellie’s has issued a statement of regret, fired the security company, and will remain closed for the rest of the week. Good first steps but I have another suggestion for the owner: Stay closed and sell the business as Nellie’s is finished!

Earl D. Fowlkes, Jr. is president and CEO of the Center for Black Equity.

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Opinion | Pack your suitcase, it’s time to travel again

The world awaits those who are vaccinated



The Adonia, gay news, Washington Blade
(Washington Blade file photo by Michael K. Lavers)

The light at the end of COVID for me means going back to cruising, no not online, but on the high seas. Each of us has a place we wanted to visit before the pandemic and are now planning to take that trip. For me it’s a transatlantic cruise on the Celebrity APEX. After COVID, traveling won’t always be easy, especially internationally. 

The excitement of seeing the light at the end of the COVID tunnel was never more obvious than when watching the thousands of people participate in D.C.’s Pride walk. The energy was infectious. 

Planning my cruise began two years ago. It was cancelled in 2020 and rescheduled to sail Oct. 21, 2021 from Barcelona. Until recently, no one knew when cruise ships could begin to sail again. First to announce regular sailings was Celebrity with summer sailings out of Athens. With that knowledge I made flight arrangements to Barcelona. Then the CDC announced with appropriate precautions they could start sailing from U.S. ports on June 26. I still waited with baited breath to see if my cruise would go. Now I know it will but the APEX will leave Barcelona on Oct. 10 instead of the 21. Kudos to American Express travel for helping to make my ticket changes at the same price. Some of you may be finding airlines are now jacking up their prices.

The other change was Celebrity cancelled a planned stop in Lisbon, a city I looked forward to seeing, having never been there. But nothing will take away from the excitement I will feel when walking up the gangplank and being shown to my stateroom on Oct. 10. With three ports of call in Spain; one in Portugal; and one in the Canary Islands it will be a fantastic voyage because for me the best times are those when the ship is at sea and we will have eight days at sea.

Then there is the idiot Republican governor of Florida, Ron DeSantis, trying to insist cruise ships leaving from his state allow anyone to sail with or without a vaccination. One would think after the Celebrity Millennium sailing out of St. Marten had two vaccinated guests test positive with breakthrough infections and no symptoms he would agree it was fortunate Celebrity had mandated all crew and passengers be vaccinated, based on CDC guidelines, preventing spread of the virus. This actually made me feel more positive about going on my cruise. 

According to CNN travel “More of Europe is opening up to US leisure travelers in time for summer — especially the fully vaccinated. Travel heavyweights France and Spain are the latest to open their doors. It is important if you want expert input into your travel decision, to view the websites of the US State Department and the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which provide COVID-19 risk assessments by country. Both agencies rate many of the countries open to U.S. travelers at Level 4, the highest risk for COVID-19. Also, remember that all air passengers age two and older must show proof of a negative COVID-19 test that’s no more than three days old to enter the United States. So if you want to travel internationally make sure you are up to date on the latest documents and information you will need to do so safely.

Instead you may decide to stay in the United States and see some of the sights you haven’t had time to visit before. Travel the California coast on Highway One and see Big Sur. You will be amazed at places like the Grand Canyon, or national parks like Yosemite, Yellowstone, or Acadia in Maine. Stop and see Mt. Rushmore on your travels. States across the nation are opening up and if you are vaccinated you can feel pretty comfortable even if you come across some idiots who haven’t taken advantage of the opportunity to make their own and other’s lives safer. We must never forget all those who lost their lives during the past year but let it remind us life is short and we must live it to the fullest while we can.

So pack your bags, be prepared to deal with the unexpected, but have a great time wherever your travels take you.  

Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade. 

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First rejected, then outed in church, bisexual teen questions Christianity

Her mother outed her at church. She is still trying to pick up the pieces.



Bisexual Health Awareness Month, gay news, Washington Blade

Editor’s Note: The author of this story needs to remain anonymous for reasons you will read about. She is a rising 11th-grader and lives in Maryland. This article is part of our 2021 Youth Pride issue in partnership with the Urban Health Media Project.

I was only in sixth grade when I knew I was bisexual. I had first come out to my classmates; well, it was more like they had found out. Surprisingly, they were cool with it and accepted it. Looking back on it, I didn’t care what they thought about my sexuality, mainly because I’d been so used to being the outcast that it wouldn’t matter if they accepted it or not. 

Growing up, I got bullied a lot. This bullying, combined with being an African  immigrant, caused me to keep to myself for most of my younger years. 

I really wanted acceptance from my family, and most importantly, my parents. I thought that if my parents accepted me and loved me the way I am, then the world would accept me, too. Sadly that was not the case. 

Both of my parents are immigrants from the same African tribe and firmly-rooted Christians in the faith. They are ordained ministers. My parents’ cultural and religious identities are defining traits for both of them. 

I’ve grown up in church most of my life, and it felt suffocating trying to explore my sexuality when everything I was being taught told me my feelings were sinful and I would “burn in hellfire” for them.     

One Sunday after church, we had just gotten home. I had made my way to my mom’s room after deciding I couldn’t keep my sexuality a secret anymore. 

I remember feeling sick trying to find the words to tell my mom I was bisexual; after standing in my mom’s room for about five minutes, I finally found the courage to say, “Mommy I’m bisexual.” The frog in my throat had jumped out, and tears began to fill my eyes. I had come out to my mom! 

She just looked at me like I was confused and didn’t know what I was talking about. It hurt for her not to accept me, but I thought she would pretend I had not come out to her, and life would go back to normal. If that had been the case, I would not be telling this story.

A couple of weeks later it’s Sunday again, and we’re at church. My mom is on the pulpit leading prayers. In front of the whole church congregation, she outs me without my permission and then proceeds to use it as a prayer point against the “gay agenda,” which I see as just another way to confuse children and declare their lifestyles sinful. 

I have been to a variety of churches growing up, and the hypocrisy I’ve seen is galling. I’ve heard Christians say being gay is wrong and “of the devil” and that gay people will burn in hell, while those same people look the other way in the face of other sins referenced in the Bible such as infidelity and stealing.

That day, in that church, I was broken. I was hurt. I wanted to cry. I wanted to run away, but we were in public, and I didn’t want to cause a scene. 

My mother went on like she didn’t do anything wrong and went back to her everyday life. I felt emotionally violated; my trust was betrayed. Ever since that day, our relationship has never been the same, and it will never be the same. 

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