Opinions
Can someone slip Hillary a Xanax?
Failed 2016 presidential nominee is now a problem


Americans love to hate her.
Failed 2016 presidential nominee Hillary Clinton has a knack for reminding voters why there was, and is, widespread ambivalence or anxiety about her as a political and public figure. This popular assessment worsens each time she periodically pops up in the news.
Currently flacking a new book with co-author daughter Chelsea, Clinton has again generated adverse headlines. Her promotional escapades are not helping Democrats as they struggle to decipher a successful message, and candidate, for the partyās attempt to win the White House.
Clinton, however, is still replaying her election humiliation over and over, not just in her head but yet once again in our minds. Despite the work being titled, āThe Book of Gutsy Women,ā Clinton recently made disparaging remarks and disconcerting comments regarding both Tulsi Gabbard and transgender self-identification.
Her astonishing and unfounded claims about Gabbard indicate sheās still settling old scores. Clintonās characterization in an interview last week of the 38-year-old long-shot nomination contender as being āgroomedā by Russia for an ultimately independent campaign for president while accusing her of being a āRussian assetā ignited pants-and-suits on fire. Clintonās comments provoked jaws to drop and stretched many a mouth agape.
Rep. Gabbard became the first female veteran elected to Congress in 2012 and is the first female veteran to run for president, having served two combat deployments in Iraq beginning in 2004. Quickly considered a fresh new dynamic political persona, she was Democratic National Committee vice-chair from 2013 to 2016, until resigning over her complaint the party apparatus was inappropriately working to favor Clintonās nomination and endorsing competitor Bernie Sanders. Itās that criticism and action that still lingers on Clintonās litany of personal affronts to this day.
In an interview with the Sunday Times of London also published last week, Clintonās controversial commentary on transgender issues were equally startling for LGBT activists. While Chelsea Clinton disagreed, and was noted as visibly uncomfortable with her motherās responses, Hillary Clinton espoused the thinking of many a radical feminist and much of the public despite her prior declarations of support for measures prohibiting gender identity discrimination.
When questioned regarding her support for children being permitted to compete on sports teams matching their gender identity, the elder Clinton stated, āI think youāve got to be sensitive to how difficult this is. There are women whoād say [to a trans woman], āYou know what, youāve never had the kind of life experiences that Iāve had. So I respect who you are, but donāt tell me youāre the same as me.āā
Clinton added, while reported by journalist Decca Aitkenhead as looking āuneasyā about the topic of trans equality, āErrr, Iām just learning about this. Itās a very big generational discussion, because this is not something I grew up with or ever saw. Itās going to take a lot more time and effort to understand what it means to be defining yourself differently.ā She went on to say, when asked about women being uncomfortable with ābiological malesā sharing their bathrooms, āI would say that, absolutely,ā while demonstrably nodding, āAbsolutely. Yes.ā
Speculation abounds that Clinton holds out hope that a potentially deadlocked Democratic convention contest among contenders feared only marginally electable will turn to her to be the party nominee.
Is there no one among the party leadership capable of persuading Clinton she might better enjoy an extended island respite, perhaps in the middle of the ocean and without cell service or internet connectivity?
Voters are increasingly exhausted by President Trumpās domineering daily news cycle domination, but Hillary Clinton is no antidote to the din.
A rematch between two of the most disliked and despised presidential candidates in history is desired by nearly no one. Clinton has become a new problem for Democrats, and one the party doesnāt need.
Can someone slip Hillary a Xanax?
Mark Lee is a long-time entrepreneur and community business advocate. Follow on Twitter: @MarkLeeDC. Reach him at[email protected].
Blade Blog
Cruising into Pride
Celebrity holds firm as a proud corporate supporter of LGBTQ community

As you know if you have read my columns and blog posts, I love cruising. The kind where you are on a river or the ocean. Today in both the United States and around the world the LGBTQ community is facing difficult times. Attacks are coming fast and furious. There are few places where members of our community can feel totally safe these days.
One of those places is on a cruise ship that values the community. That is what I have found whenever I travel on a Celebrity ship. Today, they are going even further in letting the world know about their respect for the community. They happily advertise Pride at Sea. Of course, they are doing it to attract LGBTQ passengers and their dollars, but thatās great in this day and age, when a company is willing to step up proudly, wants our business, and will do everything they can to make us feel both wanted and safe. That is what Celebrity Cruise Lines is doing.
I want Pride to be celebrated not just in June, but every month. But I am excited about the June celebrations whether hosted in D.C. by Capital Pride, or on the high seas. While many of us will be at the D.C. Wharf, on June 10 to help the Washington Blade celebrate Pride on the Pier with spectacular fireworks, those who miss that and are on a Celebrity ship will be part of a Pride celebration as well. Their ships will all celebrate the month in various ways including flying a LGBTQ Pride flag.Ā
Celebrity has invited my friend, entertainer extraordinaire, Andrew Derbyshire, to lead the celebration on the Edge on June 13, in Ibiza. He recently quoted Celebrity, āIn honor of Pride month and our continuing commitment toward fostering positive and authentic partnerships within the LGBTQIA+ community, Celebrity Cruises is raising the Pride flag to celebrate acceptance, unity, and support for the community. Each June, Celebrity Cruises hosts our annual Pride Party at Sea. Every ship takes part in the celebration that brings our crew and guests together to honor and celebrate Pride.ā Andrew added, āI am happy to announce I will be flying to Ibiza on the 13th of June for a few nights, to host Pride on the Celebrity Edge, with my friend and captain, Captain Tasos, and the amazing team on board.ā Andrew, like many of the entertainers I have seen and met on Celebrity ships, is encouraged to be who he is, āoutā and proud.Ā
The Edge will kick off Celebrityās fifth annual Pride Party at Sea during its June 10, 2023, sailing. āThe party will take place in tandem across the award-winning Celebrity fleet, with each ship āhanding off the party batonā to the next, to keep the festivities running across hemispheres and time zones. A variety of multi-generational LGBTQ+ focused programming will take place throughout the month of June. Together, officers, staff and crew around the world will participate in Celebrityās signature Pride programming.ā
You should know one of the things straight couples could always do on a Celebrity cruise is have the captain marry them. Now, since same-sex marriage became legal in Malta, where most Celebrity ships are registered, their captains can legally marry same-sex couples. After this happened the first legal same-sex marriage at sea, on a major cruise line, occurred on board Celebrity Equinox in January 2018 when the captain married Francisco Vargas and Benjamin Gray.
Celebrity is a Florida-based company, and along with Disney, they are standing up for the LGBTQ community. They have been a Presenting Sponsor of Miami Beach Gay Pride for four years in a row. They continue to advertise their collaborations with gay cruise companies like VACAYA, which has charted the Celebrity Apex for a cruise of the Caribbean in 2024. The ship will be sailing with a lot of happy LGBTQ cruisers on Feb 17-24, 2024 for seven nights from Fort Lauderdale to Puerto Rico, St. Croix, and Antigua. For anyone who hasnāt been on the Apex, it is an amazing ship. While not during an official Pride month I will show my Pride along with many other LGBTQ travelers on Celebrity Beyond this October out of Rome, and on Celebrity Ascent in October 2024 out of Barcelona. The Ascent hasnāt even set sail yet.
Letās hope other companies will follow Celebrityās lead and value the LGBTQ community. We are entitled to live our lives safely and to the fullest, as who we were born to be.Ā
Peter Rosenstein is a longtime LGBTQ rights and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly for the Blade.
Opinions
DeSantis is public enemy No. 1 of the LGBTQ community
Stopping craven Florida governorās bid for White House should be our top priority

Thereās a cloud over this yearās Pride celebrations following the introduction of more than 500 state bills targeting LGBTQ rights and the ominous rise of Ron DeSantis as a top contender for the GOP presidential nomination.
Sure, letās party a bit and celebrate the LGBTQ communityās tremendous progress, but then we must recommit to the many battles ahead, chief among them the 2024 race.
The Florida governor is the LGBTQ communityās public enemy No. 1 after spearheading draconian attacks on access to affirming healthcare for trans residents and expansion of the so-called āDonāt Say Gayā law through 12th grade. Apparently, DeSantis hasnāt heard of smartphones, Google, or the internet because blocking young peoplesā access to information is straight out of Communist China or Russia and absurdly impossible in the era of mobile devices and social media.
Letās be clear about the origins of his āDonāt Say Gayā law ā itās a page ripped directly from Vladimir Putinās playbook.
In late 2022, Putin signed a law expanding an existing ban on LGBTQ āpropaganda,ā criminalizing the promotion of same-sex relationships. The original law bans disseminating LGBTQ information to minors ā sound familiar? The DeSantis law is so broad that you could be an 18-year-old high school senior banned from learning in social studies class that an openly gay man ran a credible campaign for president in 2020.
These efforts to render us invisible and to even criminalize trans people for using the restroom are nothing short of dehumanizing. Another measure will allow healthcare providers (and insurers) in Florida to deny a patient care on the basis of religious, moral, or ethical beliefs. So a transgender crime victim who needs medical treatment could be abandoned because a healthcare worker holds religious objections to our community.
This is authoritarian madness. And DeSantis doesnāt stop at the LGBTQ community. His six-week abortion ban is so out of step with Americansā views that he signed it in the middle of the night. Another of his bills allows the state Board of Governors to nix majors and minors in subjects like critical race theory and gender studies in Floridaās colleges and universities and bars public funding for such curricula.
Make no mistake that the ultimate outcome of these reckless, cruel attacks is that women and LGBTQ Floridians will die. Trans youth are rightly frightened by the messages coming from DeSantis and his ilk and now that he is an announced candidate for president, we should all be afraid. Young people will take their own lives; trans people who need affirming care will be denied; women who need reproductive healthcare will be forced into dire circumstances; LGBTQ patients will be turned away by emergency personnel. And the demonization of trans people has consequences far beyond Florida. One mother of a trans teen told the Blade that her daughter wants to sleep with a gun under her pillow even though she lives in a supportive home in a blue state because of all the hate and bigotry coming from Florida. In New Hampshire, 14-year-old Nova Dunn, who was trans, leapt off an overpass onto Interstate 293 last month and died.
DeSantis and his ilk arenāt just failing our kids; they are targeting them. The far right has made no secret of its desire to āeradicate transgenderism.ā
The best way to stop them is at the ballot box. With the 2024 campaign already underway, LGBTQ Americans and our allies must denounce these attacks and hold those responsible accountable. DeSantis must not be allowed to nationalize his assault on our community. Itās important that we all tune in because Donald Trump increased his share of the LGBTQ vote from 2016 to 2020. According to Edison Research, Joe Biden won the LGBTQ vote 61-28 percent over Trump in 2020; but in 2016, Hillary Clinton won the LGBTQ vote 78-14 over Trump. President Bidenās campaign must address that counterintuitive development.
So letās enjoy the celebratory aspects of Pride month, while ensuring that we are informed citizens and engaged voters ready to reject hate in 2024.
Kevin Naff is editor of the Washington Blade. Reach him a [email protected].
Opinions
Reclaiming the word āallyā
Letās not toss out the word; letās focus on doing allyship right

The word āallyā has started to rub some folks the wrong way. Itās my understanding that some of the reasons why ally has gotten a nasty reputation are that self-professed āalliesā either donāt do enough (i.e. they put an āIām an ally pinā on their backpack and thatās all they do) or they use their power and privilege to speak over the community members theyāre supposed to be supporting.
Mia McKenzie, author of āBlack Girl Dangerous,ā writes: āI will no longer use the term āallyā to describe anyone. Instead, Iāll use the phrase ācurrently operating in solidarity with.ā Or something. I mean, yeah, itās clunky as hell. But it gets at something that the label of āallyā just doesnāt.ā Itās true; ācurrently operating in solidarity withā is clunky as hell, but you may have noticed that other words have started to pop up to replace ally or to indicate people who offer higher levels of commitment and better-informed actions than the average āally.ā A few examples are accomplice, advocate, and co-conspirator.
Iām absolutely fascinated by this development. Iāve read many articles and blogs about these different terms, trying to understand what they all mean and how they should be applied, and I keep coming back to the same thought: None of these new words would be needed if allyship were being done well. āAllyā is becoming a word with negative implications because allyship is being done poorly by so many. We donāt need any more terms to describe allies or differentiate levels of action and commitment. We need to put our energy into allying better. So, if you consider yourself an ally to the LGBTQ communities, here are some tips to follow that will ensure that your ally efforts are spot on.
⢠When youāre in LGBTQ spaces, meetings, and events, listen and learn. If you got involved in social justice work to support marginalized communities in creating the change they see as necessary, then you need to let the people in those communities lead the way in deciding what that change should look like.
⢠Be mindful of the fact that youāre part of the movement, not part of the community. Assume the “A” in “LGBTQIA” stands for asexual, not ally.
⢠Respect LGBTQ-only spaces. If you aren’t sure if allies are welcome, call and ask.
⢠When out on your own, do some of the heavy lifting. For example, reach out to the leaders in your school district to advocate for a single graduation gown color, rather than different colors for boys and girls.
⢠When you mess up (i.e. accidentally say something offensive) thank the person who brings your error to your attention and make an appropriate apology, without making excuses for your behavior or getting defensive. Few people enjoy telling others that they messed up. If someone is letting you know that you made an error, it probably means that they value your relationship, have faith that youāre interested in learning, and believe that youāre capable of listening and changing your behavior. Accept this intervention for the compliment that it is and thank the person for committing to an action thatās no fun for anyone. Then let them know you intend to do better.
⢠Learn as you go. Try not to get bogged down or discouraged by how much you donāt know. Look up new words, learn about new concepts, and investigate new trends as they arise.
⢠One final pointer is to realize that there are no hard and fast guidelines for when an ally should step in with action and when they shouldnāt. Allyship is a bit of a balancing act. Whether or not you take action as an ally should depend on the situation and the people involved.
Most folks agree that we should help carry the dirty dishes to the kitchen after dinner. Most folks also agree that we shouldnāt scrub our hostās toilet, even if itās a mess. But loading our hostās dishwasher is kind of a gray area. Our decision is likely to depend on how well we know the host and social cues weāre picking up from the environment.
The same is true with allyship. Some actions are clearly good choices, for example, suggesting that your doctorās office update their forms when you see the limited āMā or āFā choices. Some actions are clearly bad choices, for example, speaking over the community members youāre trying to support. And then there are gray areas.
An example of a gray area of allyship is when someone uses the wrong gendered term for (i.e. misgenders) one of your coworkers in a work meeting. In a situation like this, youāll need to make a judgment call about whether to step in or not depending on several factors. Youāll need to consider factors like how well you know the coworker who was misgendered, whether you think the person will appreciate the support or be made uncomfortable by having attention drawn to the mistake, and how past efforts to support this coworker have been received. Youāll also need to think about who else is at the table during the meeting. Is it all folks that everyone knows and trusts or are there new people at the table? If the latter, safety and confidentiality may be at risk if you speak up.
Whether you choose to say something or not, a great ally action when you encounter a gray area is to check in later, privately, with the person who was affected. You can say something like, āI wasnāt sure how to respond when you were misgendered in the meeting today. If that happens again, how can I best support you?ā Communication is key. The next time this situation occurs with this coworker, youāll know exactly how to respond. If you chose not to say anything in the meeting, you may also want to ask if thereās a role you can play in speaking with the person who messed up. That way you can be proactive in preventing the mistake from occurring again.
In her essay āFluid and Imperfect Ally Positioning: Some Gifts of Queer Theory,ā Vikki Reynolds writes, āI am always becoming an ally. I am continually being woken up to my locations of privilege.ā Thinking of the word ally as a verb, rather than who we are, helps us remember that being an ally is about action. Itās not a static identity that we wear on a badge: āTada! I made it! Pop the Champagne! Iām an ally!ā Becoming an ally is a never-ending process.
Letās not toss out the word ally and replace it with other words that may or may not improve peopleās understanding of effective allyship. Letās simply focus on doing allyship right.
Jeannie Gainsburg is an award-winning educational trainer and consultant in the field of LGBTQ inclusion and effective allyship. Formerly the Education Director at the Out Alliance of Rochester, N.Y., she is the founder of Savvy Ally Action and author of the book, āThe Savvy Ally: A Guide for Becoming a Skilled LGBTQ+ Advocate.āĀ
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