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Meet Vladyslav Mitin, artist performing aerial gymnastics, acrobatics
Celebrity BEYOND transatlantic cruise: Interview with the aerialist
I first met Vladyslav Mitin when I went to check in at my muster station when first boarding the beautiful Celebrity BEYOND in Rome for a transatlantic cruise. He is an attractive young man, and I introduced myself. He said he was a crew member, and told me he was an entertainer. That of course intrigued me, and I asked what he did. He told me he was a gymnast and acrobat and he and his partner would be performing in The Club and the Eden lounge. He also told me he was from Ukraine. I told him I had met and written about two other aerialists from the Ukraine who I had met on the Celebrity APEX, the Bilak Brothers, and asked if he knew them. He told me he had met them in Miami at the Celebrity studio. I kidded there must be something in the water in Ukraine that breeds such talent. I then asked if he would be willing to meet with me when he had time during the cruise so I could interview him. He graciously agreed.
On the third day of our cruise a friend and I took the tender from the ship to VilleFranche-sur-mer and Vladyslav was also on the tender. We all walked along the harbor together. He told us he had to be back on the ship early as he had a show that evening. So, we connected on WhatsApp, and I told him I would get in touch to set up a time to meet. That evening at 10:45, along with a huge crowd, I headed to the Eden lounge for the show in which he and his partner, Vladyslav Kuzerenko, were performing. They were mesmerizing, gracefully swinging above the crowd and doing hand-to-hand movements on the floor. They are special artists, being able to perform not only aerial gymnastics, but hand-to-hand acrobatics.
Then on day seven of the cruise I had the chance to sit down and chat with him. He said his friends call him Slavik, which is what he uses on his Instagram account. Slavik turned out to be a fascinating guy.
He told me he was born in the Kherson region of Ukraine. When he was four years old his parents started him in gymnastics which was the beginning of a life-long passion for him. At a young age he and his first coach would go to Kiev and basically lived at the gym while there, watching the older boys train and compete, while he would continue to practice with his coach. Unfortunately, his first coach died when Slavik was only nine years old. He found another coach and when he was twelve, his parents let him move fulltime to Kiev to train. Slavik continued to train as a gymnast, along with learning to be an aerialist. He would win his first competitions with routines in what is called sports acrobatics. He would become expert in hand-to-hand gymnastics, doing amazing flips in the air, with his partner catching him on his hands in the air. He became a Master of Sports at the age of 15.
Slavik would go on to compete in a European, and two world championships in sports acrobatics. He and his partner at the time, would place high in the world rankings, finishing 6th in the 2016 world championships held in China, when he was just 17.
Slavik continued to perform and to train, now also as an aerialist. He has worked with several partners, both men and women. Then in a few years the world faced first the pandemic, and then Slavik and his fellow countrymen would face the war. As he said to me, no one who hasnāt been in war can fully understand what it means. To be on your balcony and see rockets fly overhead, and then your whole apartment shakes. To see those you know go to war, his god-father is in the military, and to see death and destruction all around you. While Slavik was not in the military, he was a volunteer, and served in that way. His parents had moved to Poland, but his cousins and their families are still in Ukraine.Ā
Slavik was lucky, and extremely talented, and had an agent who managed to get him a contract with Celebrity Cruises, who have been particularly kind to those from Ukraine. They have been generous to their crew and opened places to live, and jobs, for the family of crewmembers. Slavik had gotten to Poland to join his parents, and then with his friend Vlad, their agent got them that contract with Celebrity. They then headed to Miami to the Celebrity Studios, to be part of a group working on a new show.
Now one of the Celebrity stories not always told, is Slavik had a girlfriend, Viktoria, also an aerialist, and he had her join him on Celebrity Beyond. When they got to Mykonos, he proposed, and then when they were in Livorno, Captain Kate married them.Ā His wife, who is also incredibly talented, is now hoping to get a contract with Celebrity as well, so this story will continue. To see and learn a little more about Slavik, go to his Instagram account, @acro_slavik.
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New album features everything we love about BETTY
An interview with Alyson Palmer, Amy Ziff, and Elizabeth Ziff
A new album by a band you love, especially one that takes its time between releases is cause for celebration. For me, that celebration takes on special meaning when it comes toĀ BETTY, an all-female trio I have been following since the mid-1980s, during the bandās early years. Since that time, BETTY has amassed a sizeable following via its connection to āThe L Word,ā performing on the HBO/CTW series āEncyclopedia,ā appearing in an original off-Broadway musical, and playing Pride and womenās music festival events. The newly released āEATā (hellobetty.com) has everything weāve come to know and love about BETTY: fabulous harmonies, a splendid cover tune, and songs with messages of empowerment, as well as humor. Alyson Palmer, and sisters Amy Ziff and Elizabeth Ziff generously made time for an interview to discuss the new album and their career. The D.C. natives perform their annual BETTY Holiday Show on Dec. 17 at Union Stage.Ā
Blade: For those few who may not be in the know, please say something about how BETTY, the name of the band, came to be.
Alyson Palmer: We just needed a name fast for a party for Dodie Bowers, a dancer and music mogul who ran the legendary 9:30 Club on F Street in D.C. She invited us to sing without our full band at the time, On Beyond Zebra. There was a Nair ad on TV at the time where long-legged ladies walked past a besotted guy who said, āHelloooo, Betty!ā and thatās what stuck with me. Surfer slang with a timeless appeal and just a smidge of street harassment.
Elizabeth Ziff: We said we would love to and thought she wanted the whole band, but she just wanted the three of us. We had no idea we would be BETTY for almost 40 more years.
Amy Ziff: BETTY is the all-American, smart, sassy, can-do gal with a twist. Thatās us!
Blade: In BETTYās early days, the band began selling t-shirts that read BETTY Rules (which are still available at hellobetty.com). How did that slogan come about?
AZ: It didnāt come from us! I think itās a catch phrase that fans and friends started.
EZ: I remember that people would shout it to us on the street in DC. It just stuck. It was better than BETTY rocksā¦.and itās stood the test of time. Some people have theirs from back in the day, but lots of new, young fans are buying them now and wearing them proudly. Itās definitely a cult [laughs].
Blade: In addition to BETTY, the DC music scene has produced some legendary musical acts including Roberta Flack, Mary Timony, Fugazi, Trouble Funk, Shudder to Think, Minor Threat, E.U., Tommy Keene, Crystal Waters, and Mary Chapin Carpenter. What does it mean to you that BETTY is part of that legacy?
AZ: It means a lot. I love being part of that incredible music community.
EZ: It means everything. We played with a lot of those people. Roberta Flack, Trouble Funk, MCC, and the list goes on. It was such a great scene in DC In the 80ās. The underground go-go scene and the harDCore scene and the new wave scene. We all supported each other. As a matter of fact, Jason Carmer, who was in a lot of DC bands including 9353, is the producer on our new album āEAT.ā DC was and always will be seminal to BETTY and our life.
AP: BETTY wouldnāt exist if it were for the bubbling gumbo of music, art, spoken word and politics that defined DC in the 80ās. All of us were raging against Reagan and the diabolical, hateful conservatives who swept into town. Regardless of our mode of expression, we all poured our passion for a better world into our art. Because the scene was relatively small, we supported each other and ran from party to venue to see what and how other artists were busting out. Essex Hemphill and Wayson Jones were at packed house parties with Brenda Files and other poets like you Gregg, everyone snapping fingers at the smooth truths flowing. Trouble Funk played out on the street where we all danced wildly on swampy summer nights while Bad Brains showed us how to slam dance in steamy venues. Chapin sang at Kramer Books and pop idol Tommy Keene was everywhere. The nexus of all new music was the 9:30 Club where a wild blonde wailed an entire set from the top of a grand piano jammed onto the tiny stage with her band, soon to sing solo as Cyndi Lauper. Natalie Merchant hid behind drums, REM jangled, Iggy Pop bled, The Bus Boys preened, Red Hot Chili Peppers came out for their encore stark naked with just sweat socks covering their johnsons and Henry Rollins mesmerized the packed room of sweating punk boys by grinding slowly for long delicious minutes as he sang and grew the biggest bone Iāve ever seen on stage, literally having sex with the crowd and popping minds open left and right. Fine artists flourished, including Mapplethorpe causing scandal at the Corcoran with his show. It was an amazing time to be a feminist art rock trio with a lot to say!
Blade: BETTY has also made a name for itself via the activism of its members, including the founding of the 501(c)3 not-for-profit organization The BETTY Effect. Is being an activist something that was ingrained in you by your family or was it something you came to on your own?
AP: Great question, Gregg! I think each of us had formative experiences that made us warriors. My dad grew up with severe corporal punishment and tried to lessen the degree with my brother and me but used it liberally. I found it abusive, unfair and unacceptable even at a young age ā not so much for myself, but when this raging giant of a man would lash my gentle, artistic brother I couldnāt take it. When I was about 10, I threw myself between the two of them and yelled from my soul that never again would I allow him to take out his anger on a small defenseless being, never. He never did again. I became a protector. Some would say bossy, but I canāt tolerate unfairness and cruelty to weaker beings.
EZ: It was ingrained in me as a kid. We were Air Force brats living overseas and we grew up Jewish in some very anti-Semitic places. Paris, Virginia, etc. So, I learned at a very young age that life wasnāt fair, and people could be mean for no reason. I grew up knowing that girls were getting the raw end of the deal, and I wanted things to be fairā¦itās never stopped. The more you know, the more you become aware of the wrongs in the world, the more you want it to be right.
AZ: BETTY was born in DC. We knew early on that it was our responsibility and privilege to speak (and sing) out as artists about things that needed to change, and causes we believe in.
Blade: Please tell the readers something about the mission of The BETTY Effect.
AP: The BETTY Effect is an organization that uses music and performance techniques to help strengthen, embolden and empower women, girls and LGBTQ+ folks. BETTY has found that anything can be achieved if done in harmony with community, no matter how long it may take. Thatās why we travel around the world holding workshops and concerts to connect people in need of bolstering with the beauty of their inner rockstar, with their possees, and with local organizations that can serve their immediate needs and continue to help grow confidence. At the end of the day, thatās all it takes ā believing in your mission and believing you are the right messenger. Itās so simple but can seem impossibly hard, until you have your crew wo believes in you. The BETTY Effect builds crews from inside out.
Blade: In late August, BETTY performed at the Womenās Equality Day event at Kennedy Center. What is that like for each of you playing for the hometown crowd?
AZ: Wonderful!
AP: I love DC. So many memories! Parties, playing and protests, like our first Pride Day hidden-away behind the trees on 21st Street to protect the still-closeted, Take Back the Night Rallies, and glorious Adams Morgan Day. At Kennedy Center we received our first award, āEntertainer of the Year,ā so itās a delight to be back at such a gorgeous place for celebrating all the arts, the best DC has to offer.
EZ: Itās been a long time since weāve lived in DC. I love it there but consider myself a full-on New Yorker at this point. I still love going back to DC. Itās so cool there and political and fun. And itās beautiful and the Kennedy Center is very posh, so Iāll have to wear clothes [laughs].
Blade: āEATā is BETTYās first new full-length album in a number of years. Were all the songs written over the course of the period or were they written in one burst for the purpose of the album?
AZ: Great question! Some were written recently, and a couple were actually rewritten and changed while recording.
AP: Every seven years we get the itch and pop out another album. Some of the songs have been incubating for quite a while but two burst out from skeletal beginnings in the studio with our fabulous producer, Jason Carmer and Human Fader, who are wildly creative and fun artists to create with in sexy Mexico City.
EZ: Some songs have been churning around and changing and forming for a few years, some were written during the pandemic, and some came together for this album. All of them are new in the way that they have changed and grown.
Blade: āEATā opens with the song āTogether,ā which was originally recorded in a rock/funk version on 1999ās āBetty 3,ā and is now heard in a dance music version. Please say a few words about why you chose to re-record that song.
AP: I am 1000% about community. The older I get the more I see that having a tribe, village, family, your bevy is everything. To accomplish the biggest goal, the actual changing of society, the only way is by connecting a web of like-minded souls to rise against an unfair status quo and create change. Ever since that nauseating November day when we woke to understand that America had elected a hateful, ignorant boor for President instead of a brilliantly over-qualified woman, it has been my daily mission to correct that wrong. As Gloria Steinem says, outrageous rebellions start with everyday acts. Creating unity with joy is a radical act, especially with music, together. It canāt be said enough.
AZ: Now, more than ever, we need unity. Otherwise, the world will not survive.
Blade: The anthemic āPride,ā the first single from āEAT,ā was released in advance of Pride 2024. What does BETTYās embrace by the LGBTQ+ community mean to you, as either a member or an ally?
EZ: Being a big lez, and also a gay man in lesbian clothing, Iām all about it. I pretty much assume everyone is gay until I find out shockingly that theyāre not.
AP: It. Is. Everything. The two times I felt myself break bounds I realized that society had wrapped around me were the first time I saw LaBelle on TV as a child, where, terrified, I saw for the first conscious time that women could be fantastical and scary and explode with power without caring what men or anyone thought, and my first Pride Parade in DC. Seeing the riot of wit and color unleashed by people who had just as much right as anyone to love and be loved, but had to fight to exist, I had the epiphany that I stood surrounded by joyful warriors. They risked it all, proud on the streets, snapping their fingers under the nose of anyone who tried to deny them. I saw they were the evolved ones, the ones who lived like artists at least in that moment, freely, and I fell in love spiritually, not physically, with this tribe I understood.
Blade: āPride,ā as well as āFlow,ā āSoundproof,ā āGangway,ā and āBig Size Love,ā have irresistible dance energy. Have you ever been at a club and heard a DJ spin a BETTY song? If so, how did it feel?
EZ: Iām a DJ (DJ ezgirl), so Iāve spun them, and it feels great to watch people dance to our music. Recently, we had the pleasure of hearing our song āPrideā and the remix by Bill Coleman and Peace Biscuit spun by the amazing and infamous DJ Lina Bradford in front of thousands of new folks and they dug it. So, thatās amazing. Letās hope DJās all over the world spin our stuff.
AP: Itās a rollercoaster! At first you think. āI know this song. Who IS this?ā Then you realize. Then youāre slightly embarrassed. Then you fling yourself into the experience with joyful abandon, loving it even more as itās released into the wild!
AZ: Seeing people groove, dance, and respond to our music is what itās all about!
Blade: BETTY is no stranger to cover tunes. Over the years BETTY has covered The Association (āWindyā), The Beatles (āLucy In The Sky With Diamondsā), and Sammy Cahn and Jimmy Van Heusen (āHigh Hopesā), to name a few. āEATā contains BETTYās rendition of Burt Bacharach and Hal Davidās āWhat the World Needs Now Is Love.ā Please tell the readers why that song was chosen.
AP: That was Elizabethās idea. Weāre all mad for slinky cool vocals like Dionne Warwick and Shirley Bassey, so when she suggested it, we all dove right in!
EZ: We fought so much when we were arranging this song acapella. Itās so hard to sing and was intense to work out, but all three of us love this song and we chose to put it on this album because itās acapella and important to us to do that. Also, in this time of division and strife, itās important to us to remember that love is what we all need.
AZ: The world is upside down now. Especially since Oct. 7. Iāve never seen so much hatred and misinformation spewed in my lifetime. Iāve also never felt more unsafe being part of the Jewish community, for myself and my family. If love canāt find a way to survive and thrive, I worry for us all.
Blade: BETTY has some tour dates this fall. What are you most looking forward to about those shows?
AZ: Playing our new songs, seeing old friends, and connecting with new people. And wearing groovy new clothes and getting lots of prezzies from fans [laughs].
EZ: Playing our new music and meeting new fans. And, of course, continuing our wonderful career that never ends.
AP: I love playing live! Like I said, flinging yourself with wild abandon into a song you adore as itās amplified into the wild is a thrill everyone should have a chance to feel. Like a chef serving a great meal to a crowd or an athlete moving with the stands cheering her on, experiencing the flow of your creative energy connecting with the electric desire of others is a feeling that ignites your whole being like a lighthouse. People flowing along with us by singing along to our songs feels absolutely incandescent.
Blade: Are there more tour dates in the works?
AP: Always. Thatās the profound beauty of what we do. No matter how terrible (and there have been nightmares) or how glorious a show is, thereās always another one. Another adventure is waiting just ahead, with friends old and new to share it. Weāre taking EAT to beloved Provincetown October 17-20 for Womenās Week at the Post Office and 2025 has some great escapades brewing. The BETTY Rulers on our email list (hellobetty.com) are always the first to know!
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The ultimate guide to queer gift giving
Fun and memorable ideas for everyone on your list
The holidays are an excellent distraction after a difficult election cycle. Instead of churning out endless political memes on social media (really, give it a rest), turn your attention to making memories and exchanging gifts, like these carefully curated selections thatāll lighten the mood, facilitate festiveness, and bring joy to those on your Nice List.
Le Creuset Bread Oven
Honed your sourdough skills during COVID lockdowns? Level āem up in Le Creusetās handsome enameled cast-iron bread oven, available in seven of the French manufacturerās signature ombrĆ© hues, for stunning artisan loaves ideal for gifting or your own private gluttony. Make it a meal with Julia Turshenās Fastest Chicken Noodle Soup recipe from the queer cookās latest book, āWhat Goes with What.ā $300, Food52.com; $26, Amazon.com
Imogene + Willie Tees/Accessories
Streetwear takes the sophisticated track via imogene + willieās audacious selection of graphic tees and accessories, like its popular āboltā in black and increasingly prescient āburn it allā tees, along with accessories that include the standout ābroncoā trucker and ādead wrongā knit watch cap. For queers of a certain age (you know who you are), these style-forward mix-ins give edge without looking desperately trendy or ā God forbid ā completely out of touch (you know who you are, too). $38-$68, imogeneandwillie.com
Cedar Ridge The QuintEssential
If you need a drink that packs a punch this holiday season, Cedar Ridge The QuintEssential is the American single-malt whiskey up to the task with its notes of caramel and vanilla combined with a persistent pepperiness thatās H-O-T-T-O-G-O. $60, CedarRidgeDistillery.com
Beekman 1802 Advent Calendar
Thereās no place like home when youāve got Beekman 1802ās luxurious storybook-inspired advent calendar to see you through the holidays, each door revealing one of 24 cult-fave face and beauty products, including 16 full-size bestsellers. Bring the somewhere-over-the-rainbow sentiment 360 with a few selections from the boysā āWickedā-branded lineup, like the Glamorous Gal Bodycare Gift Set or Make Your Own Magic 3-Pack Bar Soap Set, for all the good witches (and bad bitches) in your life. $179, Beekman1802.com
La Boule Dinnerware Set
Villeroy & Boch brings a splash of panache to the home cookās table with its multicolored, premium porcelain La Boule seven-piece dinnerware sets ā in Miami and Memphis styles ā which include two stackable regular bowls, two pasta bowls, two plates and one serving tray that form a single nesting round and an artistic conversation piece after the dishes are done. $450, Villeroy-Boch.com
Pasturebird Chicken/āHot Onesā Season 25 10-pack
Read the reviews for Pasturebird free-range chicken products (five stars across the board, including its holiday-ready party wings), and youāll be an instant convert ā especially after you light āem up with Heatonistās āHot Onesā Season 25 10-pack, featuring flavors like Little Dickās Ghost Pepper Pear, Pepper Northās Jerk & Scotch Bonnet, and Hot Onesā own The Last Dab: Xperience, an apropos name for the Pepper X-based sauce with a Scoville Heat Unit rating of over 2.6 million. (For reference, a classic buffalo clocks in at a mere 1,800 SHU.) Santa might be S.O.L. on milk this year. $10-25, Pasturebird.com; $120, Heatonist.com
Pepper Pong Game
Pepper Pong ā a 2023 Best New Game winner ā is ping pongās āgo-anywhere, do-anything, challenge-anyone cousinā¦ with a mean mullet and pickleball-infused DNA,ā according to its website, and that translates to a whole lot of fun for the whole family. $70, PepperPong.com
The EnergyLounger
Need a timeout? Youāll get one with a kickback on the EnergyLounger wellness platform offering cutting-edge, full-body red and near-infrared light therapy sessions designed for relaxation and rejuvenation in the comfort of your own home. Benefits include reduced pain and stiffness, improved blood circulation, and cell regeneration for an experience thatāll take you away when Calgon aināt cuttinā it. $7,500-$9,998, EnergyLounger.com
DC Comics Style Guide/Batman DVD set
Pair a reissue of the 1982 DC Comics Style Guide ā designed to assist licensees in delivering a consistent look for the brandās celebrated Super Heroes ā with the Batman 85th Anniversary 10-Film Collection, which includes fan-favorite animated classics like āThe Killing Joke,ā āThe Long Halloween,ā and āSoul of the Dragon,ā among others, for a gift thatāll instantly elevate you to Super Friend. $95, StandardsManual.com; $200, Amazon.com
FinaMill Grinder
Save your knuckles from skin-chewing microplanes and graters with a convenient automated replacement in the rechargeable FinaMill Grinder that allows kitchen whizzes to season with ease thanks to its one-handed click-grind-release technology. Max and Pro Plus pods pulverize everything from cardamom seeds to coffee beans sans blood, sweat or tears, in complementary culinary mill colors that include black, white, red and gray. $100, FinaMill.com
Tom of Finland Duffel
Henry Cavill is a prime candidate for the anatomical embodiment of a Tom of Finland illustration, and itās hard not to fantasize about the oversized actor decked out in head-to-toe leather, especially after you cop Loqiās Tom of Finland Day & Night Recycled Weekender, featuring all-over printed ToF artwork that looks suspiciously like Superman. $40, Loqi.com
Dwayne Chestnut Sunglasses
Did VontĆ©lle sleep on the opp to name its Dwayne Chestnuts flip-up transitioning glasses the Dwayne Waynes, paying homage to the iconic spectacle-shades popularized by Kadeem Hardison on āA Different Worldā? Perhaps. But slap on a pair of these bad boys and youāll bring all the early-ā90s vibes (and maybe a few Whitleys or Ron Johnsons) to the yard. $189, Vontelle.com
Danish Creamery UCS
Danish Creamery ā renowned for its fresh-churned European-style butter ā offers its branded ugly Christmas sweater that includes a tiny additional sweater to dress up your serving dish, in a twofer thatās both salty and sweet. $80, UglyChristmasSweater.com
Andy Warhol x Absolut Vodka
Art imitates life imitating art in Absolut Vodkaās full-circle Andy Warhol collaboration featuring elements of the pop iconās overlooked 1985 blue bottle painting, rediscovered in 2020. With colors extracted directly from the original work and made with multi-layer screen printing to create an authentic sensory experience to touch, the spirited 2024 collectorās item also includes a QR code that opens a portal into the world of Warhol and the story behind both brandsā historic and enduring connection, this limited-edition release now among them. $26, ReserveBar.com
Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and LGBTQ lifestyle expert whose work has appeared in more than 100 publications around the world. Connect with Mikey on Instagram @mikeyroxtravels.
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He loves Annieās and will until the end
Mano continues to bring infectious passion to his job at iconic restaurant
It’s rare for a restaurant to thrive for more than 75 years. Rarer still is a restaurant whose history is so deeply intertwined with the growth and resilience of a minority community. Annie’s Paramount Steakhouse in Washington, D.C.ās Dupont Circle is one of those exceptional places ā a cornerstone not only for the city of Washington, but also for its vibrant queer community.
Several factors contribute to a restaurant like Annie’s becoming a foundational space of cultural and historical significance. Its welcoming atmosphere, fostered by a warm and inclusive staff goes beyond mere hospitality. The decor doesnāt just acknowledge Washington’s LGBTQ community ā it proudly celebrates it. And, of course, the award-winning food and drinks leave a lasting impression, making Annie’s a true icon in the nation’s capital.
When walking down 17th Street, where Annieās is located after 76 years (even after moving three blocks north of its original location on 17th in 1985), it becomes understandable how this stretch of street has always been the heart of the āgayborhood,ā regardless of season or political administration. The rainbow flags on nearly every light pole and stickers in nearly every window signal this place is not only a safe space for the LGBTQ community, but a place where being queer is worth celebrating.
Annieās Paramount Steakhouse has long been a beacon of unwavering support for the LGBTQ community, particularly during times when openly identifying as LGBTQ was met with societal stigma or worse. This dedication, which started back in 1948, has cemented Annieās as more than just a restaurant ā itās a queer haven and cultural landmark.
Georgia Katinas, the general manager of Annieās and granddaughter of Annieās founder George Katinas, told the Blade supporting the D.C. LGBTQ community is a key part of running Annieās.
āI see Annie’s as a pillar of the LGBTQ community, and it’s important to me to continue that legacy,ā said Katinas. āGetting involved in our community in many different facets, supporting LGBTQ nonprofits and organizations, hosting kickball brunches, hiring LGBTQ/queer members of the community ā all of that’s incredibly important to me, and it’s an honor. I take the family legacy very seriously, and I really am proud to continue it and to show up on behalf of my family and on behalf of the community and continue to be here.ā
One of Annie’s unique legacies is its connection to the High Heel Drag Race, a beloved LGBTQ event on the Tuesday before Halloween. It started as a race between Annieās and gay bar JR.ās in 1986, and has grown into a vibrant mini Pride celebration on 17th Street now managed by the mayorās office.
Although it takes a collective effort to transform Annieās into the James Beard Award-winning restaurant it is today, one server has stood out for decades. Since 1975, his infectious attitude and heartfelt care have made him a cornerstone of the Annieās experience, drawing loyal customers back time and again.
Mano, with his instantly recognizable horseshoe mustache and ever-present smile, has been a key part of the institution that is Annieās for as long as most regulars can remember. Hired as the first male staff member in 1975, Mano has remained a key face for the restaurant going back to when Annie herself served food on the dining room floor.Ā
āWe treat every customer like a member of our family,ā Mano told the Blade during a recent interview discussing his lengthy career in the restaurant. āNinety-nine percent of the people feel like regulars, and that 1 percent are on their way to becoming them.ā
For 49 years, Mano has been a beloved fixture at Annieās, his passion for the job evident to everyone around him ā from coworkers behind the bar to guests in the booths. Known for gestures like cutting steaks for diners, Manoās dedication once saw him working seven days a week, a testament to his love for being part of the Annieās team.
āI feel every day better than the day before,ā he said. āI love the people more than the day before. I look forward to loving them more. I can’t predict the future. The past is experience. Right now, at the moment, I am enjoying it.ā
Despite his glowing appreciation for Annieās, Mano has had to cut back from working at the restaurant as much as he once did. As he has grown older, Mano has slowly taken a day or two off from his work schedule.Ā
Katinas became emotional when reflecting on Manoās history with the restaurant.
āHe wants the guests to have the perfect experience,ā Katinas said. āHe takes training very seriously. He has his own systems for how he counts money and uses the computer. He’s very particular but always so kind about it. When I watch him train new people now, I remember when he trained me. It’s very intentional and intense in moments because he cares so much.ā
Manoās presence and unwavering commitment to delivering impeccable service at Annieās elevates him above many in the food service industry. His contributions also reinforce Annieās cornerstone role in Washingtonās queer history. When asked what sets his legacyāand by extension, Annieās legacy within the LGBTQ communityāapart from that of a server at any other restaurant, one word stood out in his response: respect.Ā
āGive yourself some respect,ā Mano said. āGive them [the customers] all the respect you want for yourself. If you cannot respect yourself, you cannot respect anyone else. I am a mirror reflecting you. When you are sitting at the table, I am a mirror reflecting you.ā
Katinas explained Manoās passion for Annieās is infectious and has helped shape the culture of the restaurant. She also explained that his passion reflects how Annie ran the restaurant in years prior, with caring about people at its center. Ā
āHe takes young servers under his wing,ā Katinas explained. āHe takes busboys who don’t speak the shared language, and he treats them with such compassion and generosity. Annie was someone who would always sit and talk with you. She would put her hand on your shoulder and really listen. And Mano does that too.ā
āWe’re all busy, we’re all running around, but Mano really will sit and take the time to get to know you and to listen to your troubles or happy moments, anything,ā Katinas added. āHe makes sure, even if he’s across the restaurant and someone walks in the door, he’ll yell āWelcome in!ā The sense of hospitality is in his blood.ā
Not only is he one of the most passionate people in Annieās at any given moment, but Katinas also highlighted that he cares about the people and history of Annieās in a truly unique way.
āHeās like the lighthouse captain,ā she said, tearing up and smiling. āHe has to be tethered to the building. He doesn’t get too far from it and is like, āNo, no, I’m going to be at my post.ā He’s always there in the front, and everyone knows to expect him there.ā
āHeās got a heart bigger than his entire body,ā bar manager Scott Paxton chimed in. āHe would do anything for just about anybody. He’s the first one to get here, he’s the last one to leave. He’s the most dedicated out of all of them. He’s always offering to help.ā
āFor a lot of us, heās the first person that we met,ā Paxton added. āThis place has been here for a long time with a long legacy, but he is a big part of that legacy. And so you wander in here for the first time and he’s the person that you meet first.ā
āYou don’t know where to sit or who’s who, but you probably end up sitting with Mano in his section and so it sort of becomes like your home base,ā he said. āThere are hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people that come through here and that’s their first contact with anyone and people that request him. And 40 years later, they come in on Wednesday night and they want to see him.ā
Manoās final thoughts about the restaurant reflected what multiple staff and guests have made clear ā he loves Annieās and will until the end.Ā
āI wish them the best success,ā Mano said pointing to Katinas, Paxton, and other staff working at the bar. āAnd they’re going to have it thanks to everybody, all these years of support for this place.ā
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