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QUEERY: Emmelia Talarico
The local organizer answers 20 gay questions
Pride season isn’t all just beads, feather boas and feel-good debauchery. We might have started protesting society in general, but over the decades, a movement has emerged in which sometimes factions under the LGBT umbrella have beefs with each other.
That’s the premise behind the No Justice, No Pride movement, which as of this week, has nearly 800 members on Facebook. The group will hold its Night March on Friday, June 9 at 7:30 p.m. in Logan Circle for a family-friendly event where D.C.’s queer and trans community is “uniting to march against the corporatization of Pride.”
On Saturday, June 10 at 3:30 p.m., the group will gather in McPherson Square to protest the “LGBT movement’s collusion with systems of oppression that further marginalize queer and trans individuals.” Look for the events on Facebook for further details.
Emmelia Talarico, a self-described “coordinator, organizer, agitator, disruptor and lover” says she’s had issues with Wells Fargo being a sponsor of Capital Pride for a few years but during inauguration protests in January, she realized she and her cohorts had “the potential to make this the most effective year yet at showing Capital Pride the damage that their sponsors do to queer and trans people, particularly those of color,” she says.
“We’re the backbone of the LGBTQ community, but we’re often tossed aside, ignored and told to work within a system that is killing us,” Talarico says. “While our cis gay and lesbian counterparts use these statistics to work for their own trans-exclusive ‘liberation.’ … We cannot be idle and allow cis gay and lesbian activists to speak for us only when it is politically useful for them to do so. We must fight back and bring Pride back to its roots. It’s not just a party to celebrate how comfortable cis, white gay men of a certain socioeconomic level have become. The reality is we are being attacked on all sides and enough is enough.”
Talarico is from Bridgeport, Conn., and has also lived in New York and San Francisco. She’s been in the D.C. area for about six years off and on. She and husband Brian Perera live in Silver Spring, Md., after being homeless for a time in the District. Affordable city housing is also an issue for Talarico, who’s trans. She works for Americans for Transit, a national non-profit for transit rider organizations where she works to organize riders to stand up to WMATA (Washington Metropolitan Area Transit Authority).
Talarico enjoys cycling, DJing, organizing and art in her free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I feel like there was never a “out” for me. My entire life people knew I was a queerido. Even was beat up a few times at school for it. I think it was as early as third grade that I knew I wasn’t a “he” when my teacher insisted on over gendering me. It just wasn’t until I was 20 that I fully came to terms with me being a she.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Can I be my own hero? Do I need to have just one hero? In a world full of mentors, lovers, history experts, teachers all contributing to my growth, there are too many to name.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Malcom X Park, Zeba or any place with a rooftop and a small crowd.
Describe your dream wedding.
Forget the wedding, I just want to delegate at the reception.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
This question is frustrating. The LGBTQ2S community is diverse as hell. It’s reductive to assume that there are any “non-LGBT” issues. That aside, I’ve been a labor organizer since I was young. I even worked on a worker campaign for a few years that focused on leveraging President Obama to raise the federal contractor wage to $10.10. I grew up working class and my mother died from a drug overdose when I was young. So, I’ve been working all my life to support myself and labor organizing is the one thing that keeps calling me back.
What historical outcome would you change?
I’m not much for presidential elections because I believe real change is most effective locally but I would like to have seen Bernie not get cheated.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Pop culture is not revolutionary.
On what do you insist?
I’m conscious of the impact non-native D.C. residents have on native D.C. residents. They often get pushed out and I think about that daily. Despite my faults, it’s been a personal goal and belief of mine to keep organizing and doing what I can to make this city a better place for those who have lived and struggled here.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Asking if someone can give me a ride this afternoon up the street with some equipment that I have with me for a training that I am doing tonight.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“You Really Want to Read This Book. This Shit Actually Happened”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Laugh
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Life and death.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Stop taking money from snakes.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
My feet are baby soft, I’ll pass!
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
That trans women are gay men.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
I really liked “Tangerine” aside from it being trauma porn for cis people.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Bio families.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
I am a humble person, I don’t need a prize.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That you could get ‘mones in D.C.
Why Washington?
D.C. (I will not call it Washington; you must be thinking of Congress) has become a home to me. As someone who had to move yearly in their youth when their mom was still alive, I don’t know what long-time friends are. Every year I would have to leave my relationships and move to new city and sometimes state. D.C. is where I’ve had the longest relationships, friends and families. D.C. allowed me to transition, D.C. gave me a support network (even if it’s a small one) while I transitioned.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

