Arts & Entertainment
Queery: Kimberley Bush
The Reel Affirmations director answers 20 gay questions
Kimberley Bush believes strongly in LGBT-themed films as one might expect — she’s director of One in Ten, the group that stages the Reel Affirmations Film Festival, which kicked off Thursday and is in full swing all weekend.
Bush, a 43-year-old Westchester County, N.Y., native, sells real estate for Long & Foster in Georgetown by day and describes herself as a person who’s “always on the go, working or making something happen and always on.”
She does find spare moments; she enjoys ceramics, running, yoga, making soap, traveling and, of course, film.
She’s single and lives in Alexandria. (Blade photo by Michael Key)
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I would say about 25 years. It all started when I was around 18ish and at that age I was in college so my Mom was the hardest to tell. She was not a happy camper. But she did embrace me at some point.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Phill Wilson, the founder of the Black AIDS Institute. People of color have been lost in the media, health care system and in general around the fight for/about AIDS/HIV and Phill is/was key in bring people of color to the forefront in regard to awareness/education, public policy and advocacy.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
I have to say Tracks in SE was amazing back in the day. Consistent women’s night, outdoor space for all kinds of fun, music — just a great time!
Describe your dream wedding.
It of course stars the woman I adore and cherish completely and ideally would be out of the country. It begins at sunrise and ends at sunset. A simple, down-to-earth, lovely celebration with good food, friends and family to celebrate our union.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Racial and cultural equality. I am quite sensitive to individuals being treated fairly and appropriately in the workplace and in society in general.
What historical outcome would you change?
Dr. Martin Luther King’s death. He had so much more to do for all of our communities.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
When Ilene Chaiken put her foot in it, and created “The L Word.” It provided an open environment for lesbians to see themselves elsewhere and not just in our everyday situations.
On what do you insist?
A must have in my life is a high level of integrity. What I insist for myself is to put my best foot forward every day, acknowledge how fortunate I am regardless of the outcome of the day and walk through the world with positive energy, patience, tolerance, understanding and positively affecting others.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Twitter: “@reelaffirmation Reel Affirmations 21: Washington DC’s International LGBT Film Festival is 2 DAYS away. Come out and support this Thursday through Sunday, Nov 1st – 4th #RA21”
Facebook: “it is several hours after I finished the 37th Marine Corps Marathon & while this is a huge accomplishment I am unsatisfied w/ my performance. Unfort round mile 13 both my calves seized up. In my training were I would run 20 miles per run I NEVER had this problem so this was problematic. I learned that my potassium/salt intake was low! Who knew? I had to grow a pair & kick the last 13 miles’ ASS!”
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Anything is Possible”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Bust every test tube, contaminate every trial, discredit all involved.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Karma
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Regardless of the this year’s presidential election, I would urge our leaders and advocates to continue their efforts and perseverance to the acts, bills and legislation that affect us all on the day-to-day basis.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
To have my mom back. My mother unexpectedly passed away a few years ago and it was more than a shock to my system. This loss was devastating, leveling, extraordinary. We were each other’s support system, friend, confidant, biggest fan — we were each other’s everything, and even though I know she is with me in spirit, I would walk across the world on hot coals to have her back in my life.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
The fact that as a community we at times see it necessary to take on distinct gender roles in our same-sex relationships. In print, we are often portrayed as one person wearing pink with long hair and makeup while the other has on blue, short hair and more pronounced manly features. As a lesbian, and knowing many people in our community, we all know you cannot help who it is you are attracted to. Society has created this mold that we unfortunately have begun to play into even if that same society has yet to grant us the same rights to live and be happy.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
As an active participant in the nation’s fourth-largest LGBT film festival for the last several years, there are so many films that I appreciate for their production merit, content, depictions, powerful storylines, character development, poignant life lessons and the ability to move people while changing lives. This select list personally resonates with me and has a forever place in my DVD collection: “Gods and Monsters,” “Boys Don’t Cry,” “Bad Education,” “A Single Man,” “High Art,” “Paris is Burning,” “Fire” and “Before Night Falls.”
What’s the most overrated social custom?
I am guilty of it, but when you think you HAVE to bring something over to a person’s house for a gathering.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Even though I have run several half marathons, the MCM medallion was always in my sights. This year I no longer have to covet this medal, I trained and completed my first marathon, the 37th annual Marine Corps Marathon and now have my medal to show for it.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
At 18, you are trying to get to the next level, do more, be more and now that I have grown up, I am realizing that you just have to work with what is before you. I shouldn’t have worried about life getting any better. It is what it is and I should appreciate what life has to offer.
Why Washington?
It was a family decision. My mom was an analyst for a telecom company and she moved our family here in 1989 to continue her career and upward mobility. After moving here I stayed to be close to my mom. I learned to like the area and do enjoy what it has to offer socially and culturally. Let there be no mistake made that I am happy here, but at this point in my life however, I do infrequently think about moving back home to Westchester County, New York.
Books
Love or fear flying you’ll devour ‘Why Fly’
New book chronicles a lifetime obsession with aircraft
‘Why Fly’
By Caroline Paul
c. 2026, Bloomsbury
$27.99/256 pages
Tray table folded up.
Check. Your seat is in the upright position, the airflow above your head is just the way you like it, and you’re ready to go. The flight crew is making final preparations. The lights are off and the plane is backing up. All you need now is “Why Fly” by Caroline Paul, and buckle up.

When she was very young, Paul was “obsessed” with tales of adventure, devouring accounts written by men of their derring-do. The only female adventure-seeker she knew about then was Amelia Earhart; later, she learned of other adventuresome women, including aviatrix Bessie Coleman, and Paul was transfixed.
Time passed; Paul grew up to create a life of adventure all her own.
Then, the year her marriage started to fracture, she switched her obsession from general exploits to flight.
Specifically, Paul loves experimental aircraft, some of which, like her “trike,” can be made from a kit at home. Others, like Woodstock, her beloved yellow gyrocopter, are major purchases that operate under different FAA rules. All flying has rules, she says, even if it seems like it should be as freewheeling as the birds it mimics.
She loves the pre-flight checklist, which is pure anticipation as well as a series of safety measures; if only a relationship had the same ritual. Paul loves her hangar, as a place of comfort and for flight in all senses of the word. She enjoys thinking about historic tales of flying, going back before the Wright Brothers, and including a man who went aloft on a lawn chair via helium-filled weather balloons.
The mere idea that she can fly any time is like a gift to Paul.
She knows a lot of people are terrified of flying, but it’s near totally safe: generally, there’s a one in almost 14 million chance of perishing in a commercial airline disaster – although, to Paul’s embarrassment and her dismay, it’s possible that both the smallest planes and the grandest loves might crash.
If you’re a fan of flying, you know what to do here. If you fear it, pry your fingernails off the armrests, take a deep breath, and head to the shelves. “Why Fly” might help you change your mind.
It’s not just that author Caroline Paul enjoys being airborne, and she tells you. It’s not that she’s honest in her explanations of being in love and being aloft. It’s the meditative aura you’ll get as you’re reading this book that makes it so appealing, despite the sometimes technical information that may flummox you between the Zen-ness. It’s not overwhelming; it mixes well with the history Paul includes, biographies, the science, heartbreak, and exciting tales of adventure and risk, but it’s there. Readers and romantics who love the outdoors, can’t resist a good mountain, and crave activity won’t mind it, though, not at all.
If you own a plane – or want to – you’ll want this book, too. It’s a great waiting-at-the-airport tale, or a tuck-in-your-suitcase-for-later read. Find “Why Fly” and you’ll see that it’s an upright kind of book.
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Theater
Out actor Kevin Cahoon on starring role in ‘Chez Joey’
Arena production adapted from Broadway classic ‘Pal Joey’
‘Chez Joey’
Through March 15
Arena Stage
1101 Sixth St., S.W.
Tickets start at $93
Arenastage.org
As Melvin Snyder in the new musical “Chez Joey,” out actor Kevin Cahoon plays a showbiz society columnist who goes by the name Mrs. Knickerbocker. He functions as a sort of liaison between café society and Chicago’s Black jazz scene circa 1940s. It’s a fun part replete with varied insights, music, and dance.
“Chez Joey” is adapted from the Broadway classic “Pal Joey” by Richard Rodgers and Lorenz Hart. It’s inspired by John O’Hara’s stories based on the exploits of a small-time nightclub singer published in The New Yorker.
A warm and humorous man, Cahoon loves his work. At just six, he began his career as a rodeo clown in Houston. He won the Star Search teen division at 13 singing songs like “Some People” from “Gypsy.” He studied theater at New York University and soon after graduating set to work playing sidekicks and comedic roles.
Over the years, Cahoon has played numerous queer parts in stage productions including “Hedwig and the Angry Inch,” “La Cage aux Folles,” “Rocky Horror” as well as Peanut in “Shucked,” and George the keyboardist in “The Wedding Singer,” “a sort of unicorn of its time,” says Cahoon.
Co-directed by Tony Goldwyn and the great Savion Glover, “Chez Joey” is a terrific and fun show filled with loads of talent. Its relevant new book is by Richard Lagravenese.
On a recent Monday off from work, Cahoon shared some thoughts on past and current happenings.
WASHINGTON BLADE: Is there a through line from Kevin, the six-year-old rodeo clown, to who we see now at Arena Stage?
KEVIN CAHOON: Anytime I want to land a joke in a theater piece it goes back to that rodeo clown. It doesn’t matter if it’s Arena’s intimate Kreeger Theatre or the big rodeo at the huge Houston Astrodome.
I was in the middle stadium and there was an announcer — a scene partner really. And we were doing a back and forth in hopes of getting laughs. At that young age I was trying to understand what it takes to get laughs. It’s all about timing. Every line.
BLADE: Originally, your part in “Chez Joey” Melvin was Melba who sings “Zip,” a clever woman reporter’s song. It was sort of a star feature, where they could just pop in a star in the run of “Pal Joey.”
CAHOON: That’s right. And in former versions it was played by Martha Plimpton and before her Elaine Stritch. For “Chez Joey,” we switched gender and storyline.
We attempted to do “Zip” up until two days before we had an audience at Arena. Unexpectedly they cut “Zip” and replaced it with a fun number called “I Like to Recognize the Tune,” a song more connected to the story.
BLADE: Wow. You must be a quick study.
CAHOON: Well, we’re working with a great band.
BLADE: You’ve played a lot of queer parts. Any thoughts on queer representation?
CAHOON: Oh yes, definitely. And I’ve been very lucky that I’ve had the chance to portray these characters and introduce them to the rest of the world. I feel honored.
After originating Edna, the hyena on Broadway in “The Lion King,” I left that to do “Hedwig and the Angry Inch” as standby for John Cameron Mitchell, doing one show a week for him.
Everyone thought I was crazy to leave the biggest musical of our time with a personal contract and getting paid more money that I’d ever made to get $400 a week at the downtown Jane Street Theatre in a dicey neighborhood.
At the time, I really felt like I was with cool kids. I guess I was. And I never regretted it.
BLADE: When you play new parts, do you create new backstories for the role?
CAHOON: Every single time! For Melvin, I suggested a line about chorus boys on Lakeshore Drive.
BLADE: What’s up next for Kevin Cahoon?
CAHOON: I’m about to do the New York Theatre Workshop Gala; I’ve been doing it for nine years in a row. It’s a huge job. I’ll also be producing the “Cats: The Jellicle Ball” opening on Broadway this spring; it’s a queer-centric uptown vogue ball with gay actor André de Shields reprising his role as “Old Deuteronomy.”
BLADE: There’s a huge amount of talent onstage in “Chez Joey.”
CAHOON: There is. I’m sharing a dressing room with Myles Frost who plays Joey. He won accolades for playing Michael Jackson on Broadway. We’ve become great friends. He’s a miracle to watch on stage. And Awa [Sal Secka], a D.C. local, is great. Every night the audience falls head over heels for her. When this show goes to New York, Awa will, no doubt, be a giant star.
BLADE: Do you think “Chez Joey” might be Broadway bound?
CAHOON: I have a good feeling it is. I’ve done shows out of town that have high hopes and pedigree, but don’t necessarily make it. “Chez Joey” is a small production, it’s funny, and audiences seem to love it.
The Capital Pride Alliance held the annual Pride Reveal event at The Schuyler at The Hamilton Hotel on Thursday, Feb. 26. The theme for this year’s Capital Pride was announced: “Exist. Resist. Have the audacity!”
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)























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