March 16, 2012 | by Staff reports
Gay Dems excuse Obama’s failings for party invitations

By RICHARD GRENELL

Washington Post columnist Jonathan Capehart is so easy. If only President Obama had known sooner that a simple dinner invitation for Jonathan meant that he wouldn’t have to deliver changes for gays and lesbians throughout the country. We’re all good now that the president invited Jonathan and his friends over for dinner. After all, the sins of bad public positions can be erased with private niceties, right? If you’re a Democrat they can.

Republicans don’t get that pass. Remember when Jonathan and the other self-appointed gay leaders complimented President Bush for inviting his private gays to his State Dinner? Or remember when Washington’s professional gay leadership celebrated Vice President Dick Cheney for being the first nationally elected sitting leader to support gay marriage? You don’t because Capehart and company only squeal with excitement when Democrats have private pronouncements. Within hours of leaving the White House, Capehart announced in a column, “President Obama is pretty evolved already.”

But has he? Last summer, President Obama reiterated his opposition to gay marriage in New York City one day before New York politicians passed marriage equality for their state. He did it again a few days later at the White House. The president and his political advisers surely must have calculated the consequences for taking such a timely stand. And they must have decided there was more benefit to opposing gay marriage than supporting it. The president’s calculus isn’t new and shouldn’t be surprising. After all, he was only following Nancy Pelosi’s lead of the last several years by playing politics with gay issues and gay Americans. Obama, Pelosi and Harry Reid had two years of total control in Washington, D.C., and decided they didn’t need to deliver. They’d rather play politics.

There are Republicans and other Democrats more supportive of gay equality issues than Obama – and some just as tepid – so why are gay leaders putting all their trust into a man that isn’t performing?  The answer is, of course, more politics.

The overwhelming majority of people running gay organizations are Democratic activists that don’t want or believe in bipartisan politics. They just want Democrats to win elections. Capehart and the folks at HRC know that if they can’t deliver the gay votes and money for their Democratic Party candidates then they won’t get bigger jobs, consulting gigs or dinner invites.  They are loyal to their party at the expense of the movement.  It’s politically smart – if you want to further your career within the Democratic Party, that is.

Gay leaders in Washington deserve this duplicitous president. After all, they have protected Obama since 2008 when they ignored his public position against gay marriage but attacked John McCain for having the exact same stance. These and other hypocritical actions by gays and lesbians encouraged Obama to take them for granted. Why would Democratic politicians need to deliver on equal rights if there were no consequences for playing both sides of an issue? Gays were going to support Obama no matter what, so the president, like all politicians, pocketed their support and moved on. There was no threat of losing their support, so why pay attention to their issues?  Especially when there is a plethora of other needy constituencies clamoring for favors.

It’s actually been a smart political strategy to keep the leaders close and feeling important.  They must think they are political masters inside that White House. Not delivering on gay equality risks nothing – Obama can keep the gay base of money and support but reach out to moderate evangelicals and religious activists that still need to be wooed. And the gay liberal media are happy to help keep everyone hyped up and happy – as long as they get their invites.  I can hear Capehart now, “turn up the music and open the bar; they’ll be happy.”

White House reporter Julie Mason of Politico nailed Obama’s political calculation when she said, “[Obama] doesn’t want to alienate some moderates who are not really comfortable with the president taking that strong a stand on gay marriage. So it’s a bit of a political calculation. Also, I’m just not sure he personally believes it.” Maureen Dowd of the New York Times speculates, “Obama fears the disapproval of the homophobic elements within his own party.”

And Jacob Bernstein, from Newsweek admitted, “I mean, there is on one hand this argument, well, the gays have nowhere to go, and that’s probably true.”

If gays are going to win support for their political issues, they better start playing smarter politics. It would be news to most gays that John Bolton, Laura Bush, Cindy McCain and Dick Cheney all disagree with President Obama and support marriage equality. New York State passed gay marriage after Republicans and Democrats worked together to push an issue, not a candidate or a political party. Gay Democratic leaders like Andrew Tobias can argue for more and new taxes, more protections for big labor unions and universal healthcare but they shouldn’t be allowed to turn the gay movement into a wing of the Democratic Party.

However likely or unlikely you think it is for Obama to evolve, giving Obama unequivocal support so early is politically stupid. As my grandpa used to say, “Why buy the cow if you are getting the milk for free?” But a wavering Obama hasn’t stopped gay leaders, gay media and the mainstream media from protecting him and growing their careers. Could the first African-American president not be for total equality for everyone?  Shut up and RSVP, yes. I’m bringing my boyfriend to the White House.

(Richard Grenell served eight years as a political appointee of President George W. Bush. He and his partner were guests of the president and first lady at numerous White House events, including the September 2008 White House State Dinner for President John Kufour of the Republic of Ghana. Reach him via twitter.com/richardgrenell.)

29 Comments
  • I don’t understand why the gays give Obama a pass on gay rights…. HE’S DONE NOTHING!

  • Peter Rosenstein

    This is an interesting column. I actually also questioned Jonathan Capehart’s column and have written my own in this issue of the Blade calling for the Democratic Party to get on the right side of history and to put a plank in their platform supporting marriage-equality.

    But then I am also going to vote for Obama whether he does it or not and the reason for that is not only has he moved the LGBT community forward more than any other President in history, but all his potential opposition is so totally untenable. Using luminaries like Laura Bush to show how far Repbulicans have come is a false comparison. She didn’t come out for marriage-equality while her husband was running for President and Dick Cheney was far from a supporter for years even with an openly Lesbian daughter. The Republican Speaker of the House is funding the fight in support of DOMA because the President won’t and the only remaining Republican Candidates are fighting over who can be more homophobic and be stronger about rolling back the repeal of DADT and enshrining DOMA as law.

    So while Jonathan Capehart may have been slightly influenced to say those nice things in his column after an exciting night at the White no Republican should have the nerve to try and compare their Party’s efforts on behalf of the LGBT community with what this President has managed to do. Yes I want the President to fully “evolve” but I would also like the Republican candidates to move out of the 18th century.

  • “Obama, Pelosi and Harry Reid had two years of total control in Washington, D.C., and decided they didn’t need to deliver.”

    And that’s why DADT is still the law of the land. Oh, wait…

    Mr Grenell, Ken Mehlman at least had a bare semblence of decency to APOLOGIZE for being a tool of militantly anti-LGBT George W. Bush. Awaiting your apology. Until then, rather the sound-of-crickets, than spurious comparisons of Laura Bush (!) to President Obama. ["Last summer, President Obama reiterated his opposition to gay marriage in New York City one day before New York politicians passed marriage equality for their state": utter BS!!!!]

  • CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

    AS A REPUBLICAN, I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY DEMOCRATIC HOMOSEXUALS ARE PRESSURING THE PRESIDENT FOR AN “ALL-OUT” SUPPORT OF HOMOSEXUAL ISSUES. THAT WOULD BE POLITICAL SUICIDE. HOMOSEXUAL CITIZENS ARE A “SUB-BASE” FOR THE PRESIDENT. HIS PRIMARY BASE IS THE HETEROSEXUAL NEGRO COMMUNITY AND – TO A LESSER DEGREE – THE CAUCASIAN INDUSTRIAL CLASS FROM THE NORTH-CENTRAL/MIDDLE REGIONS OF AMERICA. THERE IS STILL A, “long row to hoe.”
    THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
    CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

  • Its simple, really. We have a president who, time and time again, has said he doesn’t believe inequality should be enshrined in our Constitution. We have major Republican presidential candidates who openly advocate for a Constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. We have a president to refuses to defend DOMA, believing it unconstitutional. We have Republican leaders in the House wasting resources to defend it. We have a president who openly admits his views are “evolving”. We have a Republican party that panders to a small, vocal minority, resulting in a general policy that looks like “less government in business, more government in the bedroom”. Sorry, but I’ll take my chances with the “evolving” president rather than the bunch of right-wing moralists that seem to have taken control of the Republican party.

    • CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

      SIR,
      WE ARE DEALING WITH AN ISSUE WHICH “GOES STRAIGHT TO THE HEART” OF MANY AMERICANS – OF ALL POLITICAL IDEOLOGIES. THIS ISSUE IS RELIGION. WE ARE LIVING IN A TIME IN WHICH MANY YOUNG PEOPLE DO NOT GO TO CHURCH. [Think about it, the National Football League makes a whole lot of money at the exact time church services are in progress. Think about all of the forms of secular entertainment to be enjoyed on Sundays - casinos, etc.]. THEREFORE, THE CHURCH IS IN CRISIS AND FIGHTING FOR ITS OWN EXISTENCE. SURE, PEOPLE OF FAITH ARE GOING TO POUNCE [AND, HARD] ON THE ISSUE OF HOMOSEXUALITY.
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
      CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

  • Blah, blah, blah. When you make as much effort in standing against and castigating the extreme homophobic element in the Republican Party, then come talk to us.

  • I am very proud of the Blade for publishing this article. We need a vigorous debate about the President and his policies. It doesn’t help any gay person to be attached to a President that cant deliver on the economy. The President have delivered poverty and government dependence, and that is not good for any gay person. Gay persons want jobs to feed their families and have a future, not platitudes from an “evolving” President.

    • Mr Cox, exactly what should he had done in your wise opinion, that wouldn’t had been blocked by the Republicans? More tax cuts for the rich? More deregulation of Wall Street? Please enlighten us with your awe-inspiring specifics? Those 8 million jobs (and tax revenue) that were lost just before Obama took over and the off budget wars and the Unfunded drug give-a-way, and the unfunded tax cuts, Mr Cox, dazzle us with your big over sized brain!

  • I’m lesbian and I would never vote for this criminal again. He’s worse than bush! obama doesn’t believe that any American citizen should have rights or freedom. Let’s see, the NDAA, SOPA,ACTA, the renewal of the patriot act (the appeal of the 4th amendment) not to mention all the vacations he has taken while the rest of us lose our jobs and homes… What else needs to be said? He is the worse president EVER!!!! This time around everyone needs not to vote strictly for a party, but we need to do our own research and vote for principle! I’ve done mine and theres only one candidate that has a proven 30 year record in fighting for all of us, straight, gay, black, white, etc, and thats Ron Paul! Besides he is the only one that will bring out troops home, END THE WAR”S”!!!!

    • CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

      “Heather K,”
      IN 2008 I SUPPORTED SENATOR JOHN McCAIN. HOWEVER, I WOULD NOT CALL OUR CURRENT PRESIDENT A CRIMINAL.
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
      CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

    • You’ve done your research? Let’s start with the easy evidence that that isn’t the case, how many vacation days did Bush take compared to Obama?
      I think there are right wing operatives, who scan the internet looking for venues to trash Obama. You can usually spot them by how over the top their rederic is. “Obama is the worst president ever and Ron Paul is just dreamy”

  • How dare the President not do 100% of everything we want and not do it immediately. After all from all the complaints about him not doing so I have to assume that he has done 100% of what every other groups has wanted of him. Political reality be damned!

    We should continue to push hard to get the President and other Democratic leaders to bring our goal of full equality to a successful conclusion. Still, it is foolish to ignore the political reality that not every part of this goal can be accomplished immediately. We need less complaining and more celebration of how much has been accomplished while we continue to push forward for full equality.

  • Ron Paul does not have a 30 year record fighting on behalf of Gay Americans. He has a 30 year record of fighting federalism which at times happens to support advancements in gay equality. It is by happenstance, not by design.

    For example, Dr. Paul states: “The choices are not limited to either banning gay marriage at the federal level, or giving up and accepting it as inevitable. A far better approach, rarely discussed, is for Congress to exercise its existing constitutional power to limit the jurisdiction of federal courts. Congress could statutorily remove whole issues like gay marriage from the federal judiciary, striking a blow against judicial tyranny and restoring some degree of states’ rights.”

    So, it’s true that he believes the federal government should not regulate marriage, but at the same time he advocates for something far more detrimental to achieving marriage equality. He promotes the notion that state legislatures or electorates should have a SACROSANCT right to deny marriage rights to same-sex couples and be able to act with impunity.

    No thanks, Heather.

  • Obama is not our friend, so stop being a tool for him!

    • CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

      “Rickindc,”
      I CAN NOT DISAGREE WITH YOUR STATEMENT. HOWEVER, NO PRESIDENT IN HIS RIGHT MIND COULD BE CALLED FRIEND BASED ON YOUR DEFINITION.
      THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.
      CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON

  • There was a time when, to get published in the gay press, you had to have cred. You had to have DONE SOMETHING for gay rights. You had to be involved. You had move the ball forward. Today, thanks to the corporate ownership of the gay press and its purposeful move to the right, all you need is an (R) behind your name. Then, load dumped, you go back to making money and donating to the very folks who would make you go back into the closet.

  • Obama has done a great deal to support the gay community, including fighting to end DADT and not defending DOMA. He may not be as strong on our issues as I wish, but to compare his sometimes tepid support with the outright disdain by the Republicans is outrageous. Romney has signed a pledge to discriminate against us! He has appointed Robert Bork (the most socially conservative element in the judicial system) to be his judicial counsel. The Republicans vote as a block against gays every opportunity they get. The Democrats are not perfect, but gays voting for Republicans is like Jews voting for Nazis.

  • That article is by Romney’s foreign policy spokesman, a gay Republican who was a member of the Bush administration (even though they made it clear to him when he was at the UN that his partner would not be acknowledged), and who has consulted to anti-gay organizations. No one knows better about being “loyal to their party at the expense of the movement” better than that weasel.

  • “Marriage equality” is a nonsensical statement. The rights and restrictions of state-sanctioned matrimony are already shared by all citizens equally. What is being proposed with same-sex marriage is a new artificial institution that has no essential public policy purpose. According to the Judge Walker and Reinhardt’s definition of marriage, my mother and my grandmother are married…or should be.

    And so now, in this article, it has once again been made clear that Mr. Romney and his staff have made false statements when expressing their support for marriage. We cannot trust Mr. Obama. We cannot trust Mr. Romney.

    It is time to pack our bags and move…

  • I just have to say, reading this petulant and petty little piece of tripe on the day Grenell quit the Romney campaign after being hounded out by right-wing homophobes and hung out to dry by his best buddy Mitt makes it really, really funny.

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