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Saturday’s AIDS Walk to feature Lynda Carter

Lynda Carter in her iconic role. (Photo courtesy of CBS)
Whitman-Walker Clinic has a little magic up its sleeve for this year’s AIDS Walk Washington this weekend. Lynda Carter — and does she really need an introduction? — is this year’s celebrity grand marshal.
“We felt that as a long-time D.C. resident and as someone who has had a substantial following in the LGBT community since the 1970s, Lynda Carter would be a great choice to lead this year’s Walk,” says Chip Lewis, Whitman-Walker’s director of communications. “And she has brought a tremendous amount of energy and excitement to this year’s event already.”
The Walk, in its 24th year, is Whitman-Walker’s biggest fundraiser of the year and typically accounts for about 5 percent of its total operating funds. Walkers and runners secure sponsors for their participation. Last year the Clinic set a $1 million goal and raised about $900,000 with 6,028 walkers, 1,108 runners, 484 teams and 450 volunteers. A thank-you ad that from Whitman-Walker that ran in the Blade the week after last year’s event mentioned the importance of the Walk.
Thanking participants, the Clinic’s director, Don Blanchon, and board chair, June Crenshaw, wrote, “You have brought more than just medical care to our patients. You have brought hope back to their lives.”
NBC Channel 4 anchor Craig Melvin will emcee. The Gay Men’s Chorus will perform the national anthem and gay singer Peter Fox will perform a new song, “Change the World,” that he’s selling to benefit the walk. The National Danish Performance Team and Kaution Dance Kru will perform after the walk. Registrations for runners will be taken until 1 p.m. online Friday. Walkers can register online until 8 p.m. Friday. After that, registrations will be taken at the Warner Building (12th and E, N.W.) beginning at 7 a.m. Saturday.
During an interview with the Blade, Carter talked about why she’s participating, her longtime popularity with gays and lesbians and, oh yeah, she also graciously indulged us with some behind-the-scenes details of a certain famous TV show she did back in the ’70s.
“I’m just a big believer in civil rights and you know, civil rights are civil rights and it’s really as simple as that,” the actress/singer says during a phone chat from the office of her Potomac, Md., home. “We are all what we are. I can’t ever make myself a small person. Unless I cut off my feet, I will never be under 5 feet. I have blue eyes. I will never have dark brown eyes. I am what I am and that’s that. I just think, ‘Get over yourselves.’ Not the gay and lesbian community, but the supposedly straight community — who are as kinky as all get out — I’m just astounded that [someone’s sexual orientation] matters to anybody. It’s such a non-issue in my own heart and mind … That’s part of who you are and it’s such a small part of your life. You’ve got family and friends, a job, dreams. You also happen to be gay. So what?”
Carter, who’s lent her name to everything from irritable bowel syndrome to breast cancer, says there are lots of reasons she agreed to participate this year — she considers the Washington area, where she’s lived for decades, home.
“Oh yeah, I’m definitely supporting my home territory,” she says. “One in 20 people in D.C. have HIV. That’s shocking. But it’s not exclusive to my feelings to D.C. If I can bring even one person to this event who would not have come to the table otherwise, then at least I’ve contributed something. But hopefully I’ll bring a lot more.”
She also says she’s been touched by the gay adulation and devotion she’s enjoyed for many years.
“The AIDS Walk, well, sadly, it has been so tied to the gay and lesbian community,” Carter says. “They’ve been so vilified and this vilification that’s been heaped upon them in connection with HIV has really led to the belief among many heterosexuals and many young people that it doesn’t apply to them. They think, ‘Oh, I don’t lead a dangerous life.’ But that’s really a great disservice. There are great strides being made in treating HIV, but there’s also a false sense that maybe it really isn’t a big deal anymore or even a certain degree of complacency.”
Carter says supporting AIDS and gay causes resonates with her because of her strong belief in equal rights for everyone.
“I’m very outspoken and justice issues just get to me,” she says. “I’m for equal rights and AIDS and HIV is an equal opportunity disease. However people with AIDS are discriminated against even though AIDS itself doesn’t discriminate. It’ll get anybody.”
Looking back on ‘Wonder Woman’
Though it’s been more than 30 years since “Wonder Woman’s” original run, Carter embraces the show and its legion of gay fans. It’s so popular with gays, there was even a 2008 book (“The Q Guide to Wonder Woman”) by gay author Mike Pingel that explored the show’s queer appeal and sensitivities. Carter, still stunning at 59, talked at length with the Blade about the show, its legacy and how she remembers it now.

Lynda Carter (Photo by Karl Simone)
WASHINGTON BLADE: You did a few voiceovers and appeared in some of the “making of” featurettes when the show came out on DVD a few years ago. Did you watch it again?
LYNDA CARTER: No, I didn’t really. I tried to show my kids once in awhile and my niece and nephew, but I didn’t sit down and watch it myself, not that at all. I really love her and I really think she’s great and I particularly love the idea of her. So there’s so many things I like about it but I’m busy living my life now, so I don’t think about it a lot. It’s a little like something really outstanding in your life that everybody talks about and that is wonderful and you loved doing it, whether it was graduating at the top of your class or getting a big grant or winning the race or whatever and people admire it so much about you, but within yourself, even though you acknowledge it, you’re busy doing other things so you only really think about it when somebody else brings it up.
BLADE: Did you keep many of the dolls and TV Guide covers and that kind of stuff?
CARTER: I have a few things here in the house. A phone and I’m looking right now in my den at a pillow the cameraman’s wife hand stitched. It really doesn’t look like her, but it’s such a cool thing and I’ve kept it all these years. I’m trying to preserve some things for my children. They might want to look at them or sell them, but it certainly is a big piece of my life and continues to be.
BLADE: But a lot of it is in storage?
CARTER: Yes. I have hired some wonderful people who work for me and one of their jobs was to try to consolidate all the “Wonder Woman” memorabilia and get it all in one place. Some of the really valuable stuff, I have someplace else.
BLADE: So did you feel after three seasons the concept had run its course or would you have liked the show to have run longer? Were you ready to move on to other things after three seasons?
CARTER: No, no, no. We all thought it would go on a lot longer. It came as a big surprise because we were doing fine in the ratings. I only found this out later, many years ago, but I heard a CBS producer say he was tired of being teased and that they were calling it the “super hero” network so he canceled everything that was of that genre. I think there might have been three or four. I think the “Hulk” was the only one they kept. I think it was really an arbitrary decision.
BLADE: Your hair got quite a bit longer over the run. Did you intentionally grow it out?
CARTER: Oh yeah, that was on purpose. Your hair takes quite a beating, actually, on a show, so we also started putting pieces on. This was before the age of extensions but we used to have a wonderful wig maker, Renata, and she made specific pieces for specific things. So it saved me some time in the makeup chair.
BLADE: When did you realize the show had so many gay fans? During its run or later?
CARTER: It was quite a while ago. My children were small. There was this wonderful young woman. She was talking to me. Very enthused. She started calling up her girlfriends saying, ‘She doesn’t even know.’ We had a great laugh about it. I really had no idea for a long time. And also that it’s big with both gay men and lesbians, which I understand is somewhat unusual and I think that’s very cool as well. They’re just the most loyal people. Just great. And I totally get why they feel that way about the character. It’s the secret self. The part of them that no one understands. There’s this powerful person just waiting to get out, to be accepted and acknowledged.
BLADE: Watching the shows again on DVD, it’s obvious you played it straight, unlike the old “Batman” show where it was obviously played as camp. Was that a conscious decision you made right at the beginning?
CARTER: Oh absolutely. I believed in her. It was that simple. If I was making fun of her, no one would believe it. She was just a regular girl. She didn’t think all that much of it. But I just loved the character and I treated her with dignity.
BLADE: What are your memories of working with Lyle Waggoner?
CARTER: Oh, he was great. Just a great guy. A wonderful person. Both he and his wife, Sharon. He was a pro. I having nothing but great things to say.
BLADE: Would he have stayed for a fourth season? It seems he was being phased out toward the end of the third season. As if maybe they were re-launching the show with another new setting.
CARTER: Yeah, I don’t really know what that was about. I wasn’t part of any of [those decisions]. That wasn’t anything I really knew about. You’re working so many long hours, there isn’t a lot of time to think about those things. I know it was tough and we were all in a state of shock [when it wasn’t renewed].
BLADE: Who was your favorite of the mothers? (Wonder Woman’s mother was played by Cloris Leachman, Carolyn Jones and Beatrice Straight at various times during the series’ run.) That was quite a group of actresses — two Academy Award winners.
CARTER: I think Cloris was my all-time favorite. And I also loved Red Buttons when he did the show.
BLADE: Was Cloris not available the second time they wrote her into the series?
CARTER: I think that was correct. She may have been doing Mary’s show or there was some reason she couldn’t do it.
BLADE: How about a trivia question?
CARTER: OK.
BLADE: Do you know who was the only actor who played a villain on both “Batman” and “Wonder Woman”?
CARTER: Hmmm. Not sure.
BLADE: Frank Gorshin. He was in your Christmas episode and also was the Riddler on “Batman.”
CARTER: Oh, interesting. I also did another film with him. Just a small little film that didn’t do anything. But he was a great guy.
BLADE: What do you think of Wonder Woman’s new look in the comics? Have you seen it?
CARTER: Yes, they showed it to me before it came out. You know, people don’t really like change but she was gonna get hip and put on a little jacket and leggings but not look like a Barbie doll. When we did our show, they had me jumping around in different outfits so it’s fine. She may stay in it or it may just be for the time being, but overall I take it with a very good attitude.
BLADE: Yes, and your costume changed significantly when it went from ABC to CBS.
CARTER: Right.
BLADE: It appears the years have been very kind to you. Just great genes or do you have a certain moisturizer you swear by or what?
CARTER: Thank you. It’s really smoke and mirrors. I’m always working on it and I try to keep my weight down and I’m kind of terrified of going under the knife. I’m not saying I never will but I just know so many amazing women who have all the money they could ever want and now they don’t even look like themselves. I don’t know why that is. Back in the early days there was this nose doctor in Hollywood and all of a sudden it seemed like everybody had the same nose. It was kind of scary.
BLADE: Are you planning more recording and singing?
CARTER: Yes. I’m already booked for the Jazz and Lincoln Center and the Kennedy Center next year. And we have a new album in the can but we probably won’t release it till after the first of the year.
BLADE: Jazz standards, covers or what?
CARTER: Covers but they’re really trying to sing the music I’m attracted to with a different, unique approach. I have a great producer, Kyle Lehning, who brings a lot of imagination to it. It takes you awhile to realize you know the song. The feel might have changed, the tempo or it’s just got a different groove.
BLADE: Like you did with “Where Did Our Love Go,” that old Supremes song? It was a few lines before I realized I knew what you were singing.
CARTER: Right. Because otherwise what’s the point of even doing it?
Editor’s note: Carter’s album “At Last” is available here.
Halloween weekend is here, and here’s a list of just some of the local events if you’re looking to have a spooky good time.
Go Gay DC will host “LGBTQ+ Halloween Party” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 5 p.m. at Freddie’s Beach Bar and Restaurant. This is an opportunity to mingle with LGBTQ folk and allies. Halloween costumes are encouraged or casual beach attire is fine. Attendance is free and more details are available on Eventbrite.
Mixtape Sapphics will host “Bad Witch, Good Butch: A Sapphic Halloween Dream” on Saturday, Nov. 1 at 4 p.m. at Revolt DC. This is a halloween party for sapphics from the ages of 35 and above. There will be costumes, connection and dancing. Tickets are $13.26 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.
Taste Takeover will host “Abuela Halloween Party” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 8 p.m. at 639 Florida Ave., N.W. DJ Yani will play music and there will be a costume contest with prizes to be won. Tickets cost $17.85 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.
Metro Cabaret Club will host “Spookshow Spectacular: Dance Place After Dark Halloween Party” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 9 p.m. at Dance Place. This is D.C.’s Halloween nightlife and draglesque showcase, featuring live performances, creative marketplace, and costumed revelry. For more details and to purchase tickets, visit Eventbrite.
Punch Bowl Social will host “Halloween Bash” on Friday. Oct 31 at 9 p.m. at Punch Bowl Social Arlington. This will be a night of hauntingly good times with a killer DJ, vendors, and a costume contest. Tickets cost $12.09 and can be purchased on Eventbrite.
Thrust Lounge will host “Nightmare on 14th St.” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 5 p.m. DJ Tryfe will play music, and there’ll also be a costume contest with prizes. For more details, visit Thurst’s Instagram.
Nellie’s Sports Bar will host “Halloween Scariest Costume Contest” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 10 p.m. Guests are encouraged to bring their scariest, creepiest, most haunting look for a Halloween night they won’t forget — fueled by Casamigos and Nellie’s signature spooky fun. For more details, visit Nellie’s website.
Kiki DC will host “Kiki’s Halloween Costume Contest” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 10 p.m. This event will be hosted by Pirouette and there’ll be prizes for the top three costumes. For more details, visit Kiki’s Instagram.
Sinners and Saints will host “Heaven’s On Fire (Queer Pop Dance Party)” on Friday, Oct. 31 at 9 p.m. There will be two floors and music by Sonali Dawar, DJ Noons and Aria McIntosh. There will also be drink specials all night.
Crush Dance Bar will host a Halloween costume contest on Friday, Oct. 31 at 11 p.m. Drag queens Empress Lena and Sasha Adams will host the event. For more details, visit Crush’s Instagram.
Arts & Entertainment
D.C. bars step up to offer discounts for fed’l employees
Deals, freebies, events, and happy hours galore
(Editor’s note: This list was compiled on Wednesday afternoon and is not meant to be comprehensive. If you would like to add your bar’s specials, please email [email protected].)
As the federal government comes to a standstill, the DMV restaurant and bar community has come to the aid of furloughed workers, who suddenly have plenty of time on their hands. More than a handful of spots are offering deals, discounts, freebies, events, and more. Many do require an identification to validate employment status. Plus, this shutdown looks like it’s here to stay for some time, so take advantage.
Franklin Hall: This sports bar on Florida Avenue is kicking off the shutdown hard: offering $6 Mixed Drinks, Canned Beers, and “furloughed Shooters” – as well as a free food buffet 4PM-6PM.
Carmine’s, located downtown, is offering steep discounts – $5 meatball sliders, and $8 cocktails: “Here We Go Again” and “The Essential Worker.” Carmine’s specifically noted that the specials are open to all, not just affected workers.
Compass Coffee is offering a free pastry with a drink purchase.
Cork Wine Bar and Market on 14th Street is offering a long happy hour – from 3 p.m. to close with wine specials, plus discounted fries and snacks.
Union Pub is providing steeply cheap beer ($3), alongside discounted hot dogs.
Two locations of Hank’s Oyster Bar are serving up all-day happy hour at the bar, along with $2.50 oysters and a percent off checks for federal workers.
Boqueria DC is giving federal workers with ID happy hour pricing all day long: meaning cheaper sangria, wine, beer, and lots of tapas.
Osteria Morini in D.C. is offering a “Federal Employee Appreciation Special” with $15 pastas for federal employees; Cucina Morini has $10 “primi pastas.”
Duke’s Grocery is offering a complimentary drink: A free shot of bourbon or a glass of house wine when you buy any burger or entrée. Plus, there are $5 select beers.
Thompson Restaurants is offering all government employees 20% off their bill by showing a valid government ID. The offer spans 11 of Thompson’s restaurant brands and more than 65 locations across the DMV, including Matchbox, Makers Union, Wiseguy Pizza, Big Buns, and more.
Shaw’s Tavern: $5 beers, $6 wine, $7 Deep Eddy, $10 burger and pizza, with ID.
LGBTQ BARS
Crush: This bar is offering a “Pouring it forward” event with a free vodka hour, 10-11 p.m. this Friday.
Number Nine is offering $9 cocktails all night after 9 p.m.
Bunker has free entry for anyone with government, contractor, military IDs this weekend.
District Eagle offers 30% off drinks for anyone with government, contractor, or military IDs this weekend.
Kiki has free Deep Eddy happy hour 8-9 p.m. Wednesday, Oct. 1.
Her Diner offers all-night drink specials with ID.
Bars & Parties
Blade’s 18th annual Summer Kickoff Party set for May 16
Rehoboth Beach event to feature politicos, journalists, special guests
The Washington Blade’s 18th annual Summer Kickoff Party is scheduled for Friday, May 16 in Rehoboth Beach, Del.
The event, held at the Blue Moon (35 Rehoboth Ave.) from 5-7 p.m., is a fundraiser for the Blade Foundation’s Steve Elkins Memorial Fellowship in Journalism, which funds a summer position reporting on LGBTQ news in Delaware. This year’s recipient is Abigail Hatting, a rising senior at American University.
This year’s event will feature remarks from state Sen. Russ Huxtable, who recently introduced a state constitutional amendment to codify the right of same-sex couples to marry. CAMP Rehoboth Executive Director Kim Leisey and Blade editor Kevin Naff will also speak, in addition to surprise guests. The event is generously sponsored by Realtor Justin Noble, The Avenue Inn & Spa, and Blue Moon.
A suggested donation of $20 is partially tax deductible and includes drink tickets and light appetizers. Tickets are available in advance at bladefoundation.org/rehoboth or at the door.
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