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Local LGBT group helps same-sex couples navigate the path to parenting


Renee Perrier (left) and Karen Combs with their daughter, Amaris Perrier-Combs, 3. (Photo courtesy of the family)
Amaris Perrier-Combs can count from one to 20.
Sheās working on the alphabet. Sheās fully potty trained. She speaks in full sentences. The three-year-oldās parents are noticing new skills emerge all the time.
āThe latest thing Iāve noticed is sheās starting to put words to her feelings,ā says Renee Perrier, a local social worker whoās raising her daughter with partner Karen Combs in D.C.ās Brookland neighborhood. āShe can say, āIām mad,ā or, āYou hurt my feelings,ā or, āIām happy,ā or, āI had a great day today.ā Weāre able to have a dialogue now.ā
It might sound like typical child development stuff for her age, but Perrier and Combs say itās doubly touching to them ā because of the greater number of steps same-sex couples have to take to become parents but also because of some things in Perrierās past.
āItās easy to see sheās just totally comfortable in her own skin,ā Perrier says of Amaris. āIt took me many years of therapy to be at that place, so to see her have that confidence is really amazing to me. Sheās hitting all the milestones in terms of development and sheās having just a very wide circle of cultural and diverse experiences. Sheās just an incredible child.ā
Like many same-sex couples in the region, Perrier and Combs took the Maybe Baby classes offered by Rainbow Families D.C., a local LGBT family resource non-profit. Itās an eight-week class designed for LGBT prospective parents, single or partnered, who are considering parenthood and interested in learning more about the options available for building a family. Itās $125 for an individual or $250 per couple for the class. The fee includes a one-year membership to Rainbow Families D.C. (rainbowfamiliesdc.org).
Perrier and Combs found it incredibly helpful.
āI like that it was not just inclusive but just as the title suggests, itās for people who are considering as I like to call it āpurposeful parenting,āā Perrier says. āThis really helps you make an informed decision ā is this for us, is this not for us, because maybe it isnāt. Where are you in that process? Theyāre very knowledgeable about it and youāre with a group of people who are considering the same things. How do you conceive? Known donor, unknown, anonymous ā all those things are invaluable.ā
The group offers two or three āsetsā of the classes each year. Originally a program of Whitman-Walker Health under its Lesbian Services umbrella, Rainbow Families D.C., which grew out of an AOL listserv group, started overseeing the classes about four years ago. It has about 300 LGBT families on its roster who pay the $35 annual membership fee, which keeps the groupās expenses covered.
And the classes have been popular ā thereās always a waiting list for the upcoming sessions. Classes are held separately for men and women. Men have shown increased interest in the classes in recent years, organizers say.
āItās been wonderful to see, particularly among men,ā says Ellen Kahn, board president. āI think more and more men are saying, āThis is how I see myself, this is the future I want ā¦ you see more men at the Rainbow Families events pushing a stroller or chasing their kid around ā¦ the opportunities are greater than they were 10 or 20 years ago. Weāre still a minority, youāre still going to be one of maybe only five families in your school and there are still a lot of people who donāt get it ā¦ so not all our work is done, but thatās one of the things we talk about, the legal issues and support in the workplace. Those are the kinds of things you get to do in the eight-week sessions, the practical things, the legal things, adoption, whatās real life look like, what are the friendly neighborhoods and so on.ā

Terrence Heath, back, and Richard Imirowicz and their children Parker, 9, and Dylan, 4. (Photo courtesy the family)
Kahn, whoās been volunteering in the womenās classes for years, knows a lot of this from first-hand experience. She and her partner Julie have two kids ā Ruby, 12, and Jasper, 8. She says a lot has changed in the years since they started their family. Kahn says in addition to the increased interest from gay men, lesbian couples are starting their families at younger ages than in previous years.
āThe median age used to be like 37-38, now itās like 31-32,ā Kahn says. āThese younger couples are getting married if they can and theyāve got their plan and theyāre more aware that theyāre going to have kids. My generation, it was like, can we do it, how would we do it, there was this sense of stepping into new territory but our current generation of men and women have seen more positive representations of LGBT parents and the opportunities are greater than ever, so itās interesting. Itās almost a more traditional approach to family building where you get married, have a kid ā¦. Thereās a lot more confidence and certainty and thatās been wonderful to see.ā
Richard Imirowicz, a local child psychologist whoās adopted two sons ā Parker, 9, and Dylan, 4 ā with his partner, Terrance Heath, took the classes first by himself then again after he and Heath began their relationship in 2000.
āI just always knew I wanted this,ā Imirowicz says. āEven as a kid, Iād be in church and see the Catholic stages of life ā baptized, married, have kids ā and I just knew I wanted a family except I also knew I wanted to marry a man, not a woman.ā
He says the classes made the process of starting a family āvery comfortable and real.ā
Heath now co-facilitates Maybe Baby classes and says he āwants to make sure itās a resource available to other people.ā
Lisa Prillaman and her partner, Heather Murray, chose another path ā a sperm donor for Murray for what they call āthe good old-fashioned way.ā Their daughter is 9 months old and they declined to give her name.
Prillaman says the course helped them weigh their options.
āIt was very helpful in getting us going,ā she says.

From left are Matthew OāHara, Elijah OāHara, Mackenzie OāHara and Patrick Koontz, a D.C. family. (Photo courtesy OāHara)
Matthew OāHara had gone through the class and was a foster parent to his son, Elijah, 5, before he and his partner Patrick Koontz got together and jointly adopted Elijahās sister, Mackenzie, 3. Theyāve set up house together on the Hill.
OāHara says the hurdles to same-sex parenting can feel overwhelming and daunting but those with tenacity can make it happen.
āIt definitely has this element where everything feels so intentional,ā he says. āYou have lawyers and social workers and all this stuff swirling around, you have to take training, you have to be CPR certified but I had a colleague tell me several years ago, she was an adoptive mom, a straight woman, and she had adopted two kids and she told me that adopted kids find you and I always remember that when I get overwhelmed with all the rigmarole. Itās not all bad ā a lot of it is good stuff, but it can be crazy and chaotic because you have all this going on in addition to the potty training and on top of jobs, but more and more, you know, when we feel stressed about getting everything done or feel tired or weāre worrying about finances or which D.C. schools are good enough for our kids, itās just the way it goes. Iām very proud of the house we set up and how it all came together.ā
Real Estate
The importance of routine rental inspections
One of the best ways to protect your investment

Do you have a schedule for routine inspections of your rental property? And are you feeling good about your scheduleās frequency? I hope you do. These inspections are one of the best ways to protect your investment property.
Understanding the importance of these inspections isnāt just good practiceāitās essential for the longevity and profitability of your rental property. When you inspect regularly, you reduce the number of maintenance emergencies during the year that you must respond to. Tenant satisfaction is also higher, leading to better retention and less vacancy and turnover. And lastly, keeping track of maintenance needs at the property creates more value and asset appreciation over time.
Why Are Routine Inspections Crucial?
The short answer is simpleāprotection. By keeping a close eye on your property, youāll catch small problems before they escalate into expensive nightmares. Letās take a look at some data that proves what you probably know instictively: regular inspections prevents costly repairs, ensures tenant satisfaction, and improves the overall return on your investment (ROI).
Hereās why landlords and property managers should make inspections a top priority, especially in a market as competitive and expensive as the D.C. metro area:
- Preventive Maintenance helps to reduce repair costsĀ
- Tenant Retention because they see you maintaining a safe and comfortable rentalĀ
- Compliance with Regulations will severely reduce liability and can avoid fines or lawsuitsĀ
- Preserving Asset Value will help create long-term growth in the value of your property
- Data-Driven Proof That Routine Inspections are Critical
Iāve been managing rental properties for many years, and I feel I understand on a professional and a personal level the value of good inspections. Investors who dive into the data and the details will see why I take these inspections seriously.
Fewer Emergency Repairs
The cost of emergency repairs can quickly erode your rental income. According to a recent study by the National Association of Residential Property Managers (NARPM), landlords who conducted routine inspections spent 40% less on emergency repairs compared to those who didnāt. Donāt wait for the hot summer or the cold winter to arrive before you check out your HVAC system. Routine inspections will reduce the number of urgent tenant calls due to equipment breakdowns.
Higher Tenant Satisfaction
Inspections donāt just reveal damagesāthey create trust with your tenants. Surveys by Appfolio show that 82% of satisfied tenants were more likely to praise their landlords or property managers for timely maintenance request action. 77% of satisfied tenants appreciate the communication around how the repairs are progressing. Tenants will renew their lease if they feel their property is well-maintained. Consistent inspections communicate that youāre serious about providing a safe and comfortable home, reducing vacancy rates and saving the property owner big money by avoiding charges to find new tenants, not to mention other turnover costs.
Protecting Your Investment with Inspections
Not all inspections are the same. Staggering different types of inspections throughout the lease term ensures comprehensive oversight. The age and condition of your property will dictate how often you need to inspect. Your tenant relationship will also tell you whether it is important to physically visit a rental more frequently or just once a year during the lease term. Here are the inspection types I always encourage:
Move-In/Move-Out Inspections
These inspections allow you to document the propertyās condition at the start and end of a lease using a detailed checklist and photos. This sets clear expectations and minimizes disputes over security deposits.
Routine Inspections
Conduct regular checks (e.g., every six months) to review the overall condition of your property and ensure tenants are complying with the lease. Provide plenty of notice and make sure you include the necessity of these inspections in your lease agreement. And be sure to document through photos and written communications any damage, wear and tear above normal or other issues that need to be corrected.
Drive-By Inspections
Sometimes, a quick external review can tell you a lot about your propertyās conditionāthings like landscaping, visible damage, or unauthorized vehicles. If you happen to be in the neighborhood, why not drive by the property just to be sure everything looks the way it should?
Emergency Inspections
If thereās a reported issue, such as plumbing leaks or electrical problems, an emergency inspection may be necessary to assess the damage and carry out repairs promptly. When a tenant reports a major appliance is no longer working or a door wonāt lock properly, youāll need to see personally whatās going on.
Routine Inspections Protect Investors
A small leak under the sink might seem insignificant now, but over time, it could result in mold growth, water damage, and hefty repair bills. Rental property owners who perform quarterly or semi-annual inspections identify these minor issues earlyāsaving themselves, on average, hundreds of dollars per event, according to Angieās List averages.
Routine inspections offer a chance to communicate directly with tenants, discussing how the property is functioning for them. Tenants who feel heard are more likely to report minor issuesāa win for both parties. You want your tenants reporting problems right away so that thereās less deferred work to worry about.
Inspections also ensure youāre compliant with local laws regarding habitability and safety standards. Skipping this step can lead to fines or disagreements that lower tenant satisfaction.
Professional Property Management Makes a Difference
I like my property managers to prioritize comprehensive, detail-rich inspections when managing a property. I believe our detailed approach and the industry leading methods we employ for conducting inspections at our clientās properties is a step above what an owner could do on their own.
A lot of landlords and self-managing owners have an idea of what they should be monitoring. Many casual landlords and property owners do not think to conduct regular inspections or know what to look for. In fact, a lot of other property management companies donāt, either. The difference is the experience managing many residential dwellings here in D.C. and the knowledge that comes from doing this work every day for over a decade.
In todayās article, Iāve covered only routine and regular evaluations of the property condition both inside and outside, how the tenants are taking care of the rental, and whether they are abiding by the provisions of their rental agreement. An important note to remember: donāt confuse these surveys by the property manager with a home inspection, which can only be conducted by a licensed home inspection professional.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management. For more information and resources, go toĀ ColumbiaPM.com.

In 2025, tile is emerging as a pivotal element in interior design. No longer just traditional ceramic or porcelain, todayās tiles offer a unique blend of functionality and artistry, making them a favorite among homeowners and designers alike. This year, several tile trends are making significant waves, each bringing a distinct character to modern homes.
1. Textured Tiles. Texture plays a crucial role in adding depth and tactile beauty to spaces. In 2025, there’s a noticeable shift toward tiles that celebrate imperfection and handcrafted beauty. These tiles often feature organic finishes, subtle color variations, and unique patterns that make each piece distinct.
2. Warm Minimalist Colors. While minimalism is still popular, 2025 brings a warmer palette to this aesthetic. Neutral tones like beige, taupe, soft terracotta, and Pantoneās mocha mousse are replacing the cooler grays and whites of previous years. These colors impart a sense of coziness and serenity, making spaces feel more inviting while maintaining the clean lines and simplicity of minimalism.
3. Tile Drenching. Tile drenching involves extending the same tile from the floor up the walls, creating a seamless, cohesive look. This technique is particularly effective in smaller spaces like bathrooms or as backsplashes in kitchens with open shelving instead of upper cabinets, where it can make the area appear larger and more unified.
4. Sustainable and Eco-Friendly Tiles. Environmental consciousness is increasingly influencing consumer choices, leading to a rise in sustainable tile options. Manufacturers are now offering tiles made from recycled materials using low-impact production processes and eco-friendly substances, such as glass and plastic. These tiles not only decrease environmental footprints but also align with reducing waste and conserving resources.
5. Large-Format Tiles. Large-format tiles (think 24ā x 48ā) are gaining traction due to their ability to create a seamless and expansive look. Fewer grout lines result in a cleaner appearance and easier maintenance, making spaces feel more open and less cluttered. These tiles are particularly favored in showers, where simplicity and continuity are desired, and yesterdayās plastic surrounds are rejected. Available in various materials and finishes, large-format tiles offer versatility, a sleek look, and faster installation.
6. Cement Tiles. Cement tiles are celebrated for their bold patterns, vibrant colors, and artisanal charm. Although they require sealing, they are known for their durability and handcrafted look. Unlike ceramic tiles, cement tiles are not fired; instead, they are cured at room temperature, which makes them more environmentally friendly. Their unique patterns can make a statement in any room, serving as a focal point that brings a touch of vintage elegance or contemporary flair, depending on the chosen motif.
7. Terracotta Tiles. Terracotta tiles are making a stylish comeback, bringing warmth, a rustic look, and a touch of Mediterranean elegance to modern interiors. Made from clay and fired at low temperatures, these tiles boast an earthy, organic appeal that supports the ongoing trend of incorporating natural elements in the home. When properly sealed, they are resistant to stains and moisture, and their ability to age gracefully and develop a patina over time adds character and depth, giving spaces a cozy feel.
8. Peel and Stick Tiles. Peel and stick tiles are gaining popularity as a versatile and budget-friendly option for quick home makeovers. Perfect for renters and DIY enthusiasts, these tiles offer a hassle-free installation process that requires no grout, mortar, or professional help. You simply peel off the adhesive backing and stick them onto a clean, smooth surfaceārendering them ideal for backsplashes, accent walls, and even flooring. They are low-maintenance, easy to clean, and a practical choice for kitchens and bathrooms.
9. Tile Stickers. Tile stickers are a fun and cost-effective trend, offering an easy way to update your tiles without the need for a complete renovation. Meant to be applied directly over existing tiles, these often removable, adhesive decals are perfect for renters or homeowners looking for a temporary method of personalization. Heat-resistant, waterproof, and easy to clean, tile stickers are available in a wide variety of colors, patterns, and finishes, allowing for endless customization.
10. Smart Tiles. As smart home technology advances, Smart Tiles are now incorporating technological features seamlessly. Innovations include pressure-sensitive LED lighting, temperature control of heated floors, and interaction with home automation systems. Look for future advancements that will allow for both convenience and comfort, enabling homeowners to integrate modern technology without compromising on style.
So, whether you’re renovating a single room, designing an entire home, or decorating with your landlord in mind, these 2025 trends offer many options to create spaces that resonate with your personal style and reflect a harmonious blend of aesthetics, functionality, and sustainability.
Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at DCHomeQuest.com, or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.Ā
Real Estate
It’s not right, but it’s okay, I’m gonna spring clean this house anyway!
New season a perfect time to create a serene, inviting home environment

Spring is right around the corner. During this season, spring represents a time for renewal, a fresh start, new beginnings, along with a sense of energy and optimism for the future. One of the best ways to get this feeling going is also inside and around the home. Now that the temps are a bit warmer, and the sun sets a little later, give yourself the gift of a spring refresh. Here are some tips to re-energize, declutter, āmove the energyā in the room, and create a serene and inviting home environment. If that alone isnāt reason enough, some people in the area may be deciding to put their homes on the market this year too.
Enhance Curb Appeal: There is never a second chance to make a first impression! Does the yard need tidying up? Does the front door need a fresh new coat of paint? Want to make it pop? Plant some shrubs or put some new flowers in the windowsills? Clean those windows. Tidy up the entryway, buy a new credenza for catching mail, keys, gloves, hats, etc. Mop the floors, get all that road salt off the tiles.
Deep Clean the Kitchen and Bathrooms: These rooms are key selling points. Clean the oven, refrigerator, and stove in the kitchen. In bathrooms, clean grout lines, remove soap scum, and make sure faucets and showerheads are free from water stains.
Neutralize the Space: This is more for those who want to sell their home. It becomes easier for a potential buyer to āsee themselvesā in a property the less they see YOU in the property. Put some photos away, declutter, take down anything that is very specific to you for any showings or open houses. I used to tell my clients, āMake it look like a Hampton Inn!ā (clean, organized, presentable, not exactly shouting political affiliations and humor that may or may not play well to all audiences.) Just think, āNEUTRAL!ā
Fix Minor Repairs: Take care of any small repairs such as leaky faucets, broken door handles, or cracked tiles. These little fixes show that the home has been well-maintained. They also help build that ācan doā muscle! If you donāt know a handyman/person you can always find how to videos on YouTube.
Reorganize Rooms: Consider rearranging furniture to create an open, welcoming flow. If needed, remove oversized pieces to make rooms feel larger. This can also help the āvibeā in any home. I used show homes to clients that were smaller, but smartly furnished, and they could really feel the difference. An extra 150 square feet in an empty hallway isnāt doing anyone much good, but if you put some nice artwork up, and tone down the size of bulky furniture in the main living areas, it can begin to look like a crisp $100 bill.
Stage the Home: If youāre selling, consider staging the home, either with your own furniture or with rented pieces. Well-placed furniture and decor can highlight your home’s best features.
Freshen Up with Scents: Letās be honest. Open those windows and air that bit*h out! Find your favorite candle company and invest in a few nice smells. I always wanted a nice candle burning during an open house. It helped the vibe!
Whether you are staying put or planning on making moves, a spring re-fresh, clean up, maintenance moment, or general tidy up/tidy down is going to make YOU feel, in the words of Whitney Houston, ālike a million-dollar bill! (OH OH OH OH!).ā
Editorās note: Playing anything by our beloved Whitney Houston is guaranteed to get any person, place, or home out of whatever current funk state it is in! If your house isnāt singing, āYou Give Good Love to Meā … now you know what to do!
Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals.Ā He can be reached at (703) 587-0597 orĀ [email protected].
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