Arts & Entertainment
Queery: Chris Delucchi
The breast cancer survivor answers 20 gay questions

When Chris Delucchi was diagnosed with breast cancer in the summer of 2009, she started with the traditional route of treatment ā she had a lumpectomy and started chemotherapy.
But while chemo is no picnic for anyone, Delucchi found the treatments especially toxic. Against her doctorās wishes, she turned to a non-traditional, diet-based approach.
āMy body just didnāt resonate with the high toxicity so I started researching natural approaches and even found a woman whoād tried it who had the exact same kind of cancer I had,ā the 46-year-old Portland native says. āI did a lot with juices, wheat grass, a plant-based diet, changing stress levels, having vitamin C IVs and that sort of thing ā¦ I donāt go out and preach that everybody should take this approach, but it worked for me and I just had a sense that it would.ā
She got a clean bill of health in December.
Delucchi will speak more about her experience at a storytelling event Tuesday at Woolly Mammoth Theatre hosted by Philips Healthcare and the Moth (themoth.org) to raise breast cancer awareness. Sheāll be joined by two other breast cancer survivors for the 7:30 p.m. event. Those interested in attending should e-mail [email protected] for details.
Delucchi, a lesbian, came to Washington for her first job out of college as a sales assistant at the Washington Post where she worked for about three years. She owns two communications/marketing companies, Delucchi Plus and Blue Bug Digital, and lives in Cleveland Park. Delucchi enjoys travel, spas, skiing, painting, writing and reading in her free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I have been out since I was 30 and the hardest people to tell were my parents because I thought they would be disappointed in me. They were very supportive and itās a non-issue today while I do think there was a time of adjustment for everyone.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
For me itās anyone who can be themselves in all areas of their lives. I love Ellen for coming out on TV to the world.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?Ā
14th Street
Describe your dream wedding.
Destination wedding on a beach in Greece.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Educating people about how to take control of their health and be their own advocate.
What historical outcome would you change?
9-11 and terrorism today.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
When I met Warren Buffet and got a picture with him to give to my father on his 70th birthday (His idol is Warren Buffet).
On what do you insist?
Integrity, honesty, passion and change.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Photos from the side of the road on the Jersey Turnpike āRoadside BBQ & Bear carvings. I thought I was in another world. I was.
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
āFrom Coffee to Kale ā How Breast Cancer Saved Me From Myselfā
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Nothing
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?Ā
A power greater than myself has a plan for me.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Stay strong in your convictions.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
My partner, my family and to have my father survive his stage four lung cancer.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
Having stereotypes in the first place like butch, femme, etc. We are just people!
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
Tied: “Birdcage,” “Brokeback Mountain” and “The Kids Are All Right”
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Perfection
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
First place in the Benton County Fair for my blueberry muffins.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
What I know at 46. Family first and that success is defined by happiness.
Why Washington?
My first job out of college was with the Washington Post so I moved the week after graduation and never left.
Theater
Celebrate Valentineās Day with one of these three plays
āWaitress,ā āLove Birds,ā āFuenteovejunaā offer differing takes on love

For theatergoers seeking to mark Valentineās Day with live music, love, and friendship, the DMV offers some new spins on traditional themes.
Poised to make its regional debut at Olney Theatre Center, Sara Bareillesās hit musical āWaitressā (Feb.13-March 30) may not seem like a usual love story, but itās a love story nonetheless.
āItās about learning to love and value yourself,ā says MALINDA who plays Jenna, the showās titular server/baker with aspirations to bake prize-winning pies and change her life. āItās also about sisterhood. From the start, the women involved in the show decided to be there for each other onstage and off, and it shows. For anyone with girl group love in their lives, this is an especially good show to see.
āJenna doesnāt get a lot of satisfaction out of her primary partnership. Along with self-love she explores the antithesis of that ā partner violence. Our director [Marcia Milgrom Dodge] took the lesson of community support and community love to heart.ā
Prior to coming out as bisexual in 2022, MALINDA considered herself more of a “quiet queer.ā However, the inspiration derived from Irish music (“music of the oppressedā), which sheās famed for singing on TikTok, compelled her to go public.
She didnāt always believe her queerness to be special: āFor me,ā MALINDA says, āit was like saying my eyes are hazel. There wasnāt much to celebrate. But then I realized there were missing voices in my community. Felt like the right thing to do, and itās been one of the great blessings of my life.ā
Six years ago, after her Helen Hayes Award-winning turn in āOnce,ā MALINDA took a break from musical theater. She needed time to age into dream parts, and one of those roles was Jenna. She recalls, āGoing back to theater was prominently featured on my vision board, so when Marcia asked me to commit to āWaitress,ā I happily agreed.ā
For her, Valentineās Day is an opportunity to reach out and tell friends, family, and, of course, romantic partners, just how much you love them.
And she adds āthatās exactly how I plan to celebrate.ā
D.C.ās delightful Holly Twyford is spending Valentineās Day working at the Folger on Capitol Hill. Sheāll be on stage, her wife will be in the audience, and depending on the length of the program, theyāll go out to dinner afterward.
For four performances, the multi-Helen Hayes award-winning actor is serving as narrator for āThe Love Birdsā (Feb. 14-16), a new Folger Consort work that blends medieval music with a world-premiere composition by acclaimed composer Juri Seo and readings from Geoffrey Chaucerās āA Parlement of Foulesā by Twyford.
Standing behind a podium, sheāll read Chaucerās words (translated from Middle English and backed by projected slides in the original language), alternating with music played on old and new instruments.
āThe new music is kind of dissonant with the sounds of birdcalls and nature sounds, painting a picture of whatās going on in Chaucerās poem thatās beautiful and funny. Chaucer describes the male eagles pleading for the hand of the female eagle. Chaucer seems almost unwittingly feminist when he has the female eagle ask her eagle suitors to give her a year to think about it.ā
GALA Hispanic Theatre in Columbia Heights presents āFuenteovejunaā (through March 2), a timely production staged by out director JosĆ© Luis Arelleno. Penned in 1613, this work from the Spanish Golden Age ranks among playwright Lope de Vega’s most performed plays.
Itās about tyranny and love, Arellano explains. Within Lope de Vegaās timely tale of brutish power lies an intense love story. In fact, at the top of the show, four characters, two males and two females play a game. What is love? One of the players asserts that love doesnāt exist, while the others disagree. Itās a charming way to kick off the play.
The celebrated director isnāt one to telegraph messages, preferring audiences think for themselves. That said, he does, of course, make strong directorial choices: āIf I have to choose between love or war, itās more important to talk about love. For me, itās a revolution.ā
And apropos of a Valentineās Day date, GALAās production of āFuenteovejunaā (performed in Spanish with English surtitles) is imbued with live music and verse, an important part of any romantic experience, adds David Peralto, the productionās poetry and verse consultant as well as Arellanoās longtime partner.
The busy Spain-based couple will celebrate Valentineās Day in Seville and couldnāt be happier. Arellano describes Seville as the most romantic city in the world.

The LGBTQ youth services organization SMYAL held the “SMYAL for the New Year” fundraiser at Shakers on Thursday, Jan. 30.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)



















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Valentineās gifts for the queers you love
Fragrances, X-rated sweet treats, candles, and more

Put a little love in your heart. Thatās what Jackie DeShannon encouraged with her 1969 hit song of the same name, and itās never been more appropriate than in the context of our current state of affairs. Mute the vitriol this Valentineās Day and concentrate on what really matters ā those you love and who love you back.
Gucci Guilty Love Edition

Sniffies? Youāll put the site on hold after a whiff of Gucci Guilty Love Edition on the nape of his neck ā featuring captivating notes of juniper oil, orange flower absolute and aphrodisiatic Ambrofix ā which one review claims to āmake your brain sparkle like a fine Champagne.ā Cheers to that. $25-$133, FragranceNet.com
Hunky Burning Love Pillow

Sweet dreams are on the docket when you rest your head on the Hunky Burning Love faux-suede square pillow printed with illustrations of shirtless himbos pining for your affection. An exercise in fantasy more than reality, but it beats sitting alone at a bar getting no attention at all. $30, ThePillowTopShop.com
Love Deck
Whatās in the cards for your love life in 2025? Fuck around and find out with astrologist Lisa Stardustās 70-card Love Deck, a tarot set of short spells, meditations and rituals designed to conjure enough love, passion, clarity and confidence to make Potion No. 9 jealous. $13, Amazon.com
āMaking the Case for Equalityā
Weāll continue to fight the good fight over the next four years and beyond ā perhaps harder than ever ā and Lambda Legalās āMaking the Case for Equality,ā a detailed half-century history of our hard-won judicial victories, is a solid reminder of how far weāve come in the war for LGBTQ+ rights. $45, Amazon.com
Lola Blankets

Schedule an at-home streaming marathon of this yearās Best Picture noms before the big night ā thereās a lot to love in 2024ās Oscar picks ā and the coziest way to settle in is all snuggled up in the squishiest Lola blankets, reminiscent of the adorable ripples of the cutest Shar Pei. Pick up a couple for the cuddle puddle. $109-$299, LolaBlankets.com
Asa Akira x Cake Life Cookies

Cue the collaboration you didnāt see coming: Adult film star Asa Akira teams up with award-winning trans-owned bakery Cake Life Bake Shop for its sweet-and-spicy Conversation Heart Sugar Cookies, featuring Akiraās XXX-tra special curated box decorated with NFSW phrases like āCowgirl,ā āCream Pie,ā and the ever-subtle āAnalā ā that are sure to leave mouths agog at your Gaylentineās get-together. $19-$21, CakeLifeBakeShop.square.site
Mind Games Candles

Since the late 1990s, the Backstreet Boys have implored us to quit playinā games with our loversā hearts, which is probably why we play mind games instead ā and now they come in luxury scents like Jasmine Milk, Tobacco Tonka Bean and Cherry Sandalwood, so you can enjoy mood lighting with your gaslighting. $135, MindGamesFragrance.com
Delysia Chocolates

Inspired by Greek Goddess-of-Love Aphrodite, Delysia Chocolatierās 16-piece, limited-edition truffle collection includes four each of symbolic Passion (almond-honey-fig), Adoration (raspberry-rose petal-hibiscus), Unity (pomegranate-strawberry), and Love (spiced wine-berry) bite-size chocolates rich enough for savoring and abundant enough for sharing. $60, Delysia.com
DIY Whiskey Hot Sauce

Variety is the spice of life in Thoughtfully Gourmetās Whiskey-Infused DIY Hot Sauce Kit that combines your favorite cereal spirit with high-quality global ingredients, like Mexican hot peppers, to create sophisticated flavor experiences of varying Scoville heat levels, handsomely housed in fancy decanters. Recipe book, spices and seasonings included; alcohol and antacids are not. $20, Amazon.com
Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and LGBTQ lifestyle expert whose work has been published in more than 100 outlets around the world. Connect with Mikey on Instagram @mikeyroxtravels.
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