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Will D.C. gays contribute to Maryland same-sex marriage campaign?
Potential donors in D.C. say Marylanders for Marriage Equality has yet to approach them


Josh Levin speaks at Baltimore fundraiser for Marylanders for Marriage Equality (Blade photo by Michael K. Lavers)
Will D.C. gays support efforts to defend neighboring Maryland’s same-sex marriage law?
Some observers are asking just that after Freedom to Marry hosted a fundraiser in the nation’s capital for the group seeking to secure marriage rights for same-sex couples in Maine. Baltimore native Ken Mehlman, who is the gay former chair of the Republican National Committee, Winnie Stachelberg of the Center for American Progress, Ken Crerar and Joel Kopperud of the Council of Insurance Agents and Brokers and Kirk Fordham of the Gill Action Fund are among those who were on the host committee for the Mainers United for Marriage fundraiser at Robert Raben’s Northeast Washington home on July 11.
Matt McTighe, campaign director for Mainers United for Marriage, told the Blade that he personally asked former colleagues and friends in D.C. to join the fundraiser’s host committee. He said it raised slightly more than $20,000 as of deadline.
“We’re doing fundraisers all over the country,” said McTighe, who noted Mainers United for Marriage has held events in 15 states. “We’re going to continue to do more wherever we can do them.”
Stachelberg, who hired McTighe when she was at the Human Rights Campaign, stressed that CAP has worked extensively to defend Maryland’s same-sex marriage law. These efforts include what she described as conversations with LGBT lawmakers in Annapolis and strengthening support for marriage rights for gays and lesbians among religious Marylanders. Maryland Attorney General Doug Gansler predicted during a CAP forum last fall that state lawmakers would pass a same-sex marriage bill this year — Gov. Martin O’Malley signed the measure into law in March.
“We at CAP have done a lot in terms of content and work probably more in Maryland than other state initiatives,” said Stachelberg. “I certainly helped with strategic in kind help over the last year and a half as have a number of other people at CAP. The Maryland effort hasn’t asked me and I’m sure when they do I’ll figure out how to help.”
Crerar and his partner Peter Garrett, who attended Bowdoin College, have owned a house in Maine since 1992. The couple hosted a fundraiser at their D.C. home in support of the campaign that ultimately failed to defend the Pine Tree State’s same-sex marriage law during a 2009 referendum. Crerar told the Blade that he and Garrett decided to co-host the July 11 fundraiser after Mainers United for Marriage asked them.
“From spending time up there, we know that the atmosphere is very different, and positive so we are glad to help,” said Crerar. “Regarding Maryland, the simple answer is that no one has asked.”
Gay Democratic lobbyist Steve Elmendorf said that McTighe also asked him to join the fundraiser’s host committee. He, like Crerar, said that Marylanders for Marriage Equality has yet to approach him to help the campaign raise money. Elmendorf stressed, however, that he plans to attend an upcoming Marylanders for Marriage Equality fundraiser in Bethesda.
“As long as there is a winning campaign — and I think Maryland has a winning campaign as does Maine, we’re going to help,” he said.
Marylanders for Marriage Equality has faced increased scrutiny in recent weeks from those who feel the campaign has not raised enough money to effectively defend the state’s same-sex marriage law.
The campaign last week unveiled a web ad that features black Marylanders who support nuptials for gays and lesbians. Marylanders for Marriage Equality also launched a new web site a day after state election officials certified a petition to prompt a November referendum on the issue. O’Malley, House Speaker Michael Busch (D-Anne Arundel County,) Baltimore Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake, Howard County Executive Ken Ulman and HRC President Chad Griffin are among those who have either co-hosted or attended campaign fundraisers in recent months.
Josh Levin, campaign director of Marylanders for Marriage Equality, told the Blade during a June 13 fundraiser in Baltimore that he remains confident that he can run what he described as a “winning campaign” with between $5 and $7 million. A former Equality Maryland fundraiser said last month that he feels the campaign needs to raise at least $10 million. Other LGBT activists who asked the Blade to remain anonymous have stressed that Marylanders for Marriage Equality will need up to $12 million to defend the law.
Neither Levin nor other campaign representatives have publicly disclosed the amount of money that Marylanders for Marriage Equality has raised.
Kevin Nix, spokesperson for Marylanders for Marriage Equality, downplayed speculation that the Mainers United for Marriage fundraiser is in any way indicative of gay Washingtonians’ unwillingness to support the campaign to defend Maryland’s same-sex marriage law. “D.C. is one of the go-to places to hold a fundraiser—happens every day for every issue and candidate under the sun, no matter the state,” he said. “Par for the course.”
Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry, told the Blade in an earlier interview that Marylanders for Marriage Equality will need “10 million plus” to defend the state’s same-sex marriage law in the referendum. The organization has contributed thousands of dollars to the campaigns to defend nuptials for gays and lesbians in Minnesota and Washington, in addition to Maine, through its Win More States Fund.
“We are deeply involved in several of the campaigns, while others are taking the lead elsewhere, including Maryland,” said Wolfson. “We encourage everyone to step up and work hard in all of these campaigns, just as we are doing where we can. Each of these campaigns requires millions of dollars, most raised in state, some raised by national efforts. We are working hard to do our parts and invite others to invest strategically through the Win More States Fund.”

Milton, Del., will host its Pride Fest this Saturday with the theme “Small Town, Big Heart.” The town’s population of just over 3,000 is in its sixth year hosting Pride.
The event is hosted by Sussex Pride and Milton Theatre and will take place from 4-8 p.m. in the area surrounding the theater. Admission is pay-what-you-can and proceeds will support the Milton Theatre’s education wing campaign, an initiative dedicated to expanding arts education and creating spaces for the next generation of performers and artists.
The musical act schedule includes Goldstar at 4 p.m., Magnolia Applebottom and Friends at 5:30 p.m., and Mama’s Blacksheep at 6:45 p.m. There will be vendors, food trucks, and a Kids Fest with an inflatable obstacle course.
“In our little corner of the world, LOVE leads the way! Milton Pride 2025 is a celebration for EVERYONE — neighbors, families, allies, and friends — because acceptance, kindness, and community belong to us all,” Milton Theatre’s website reads. “Whether you’re here to cheer, learn, or simply feel the joy … you’re welcome exactly as you are. Let’s come together and celebrate Milton, a SMALL TOWN … with a BIG HEART!”
District of Columbia
Drive with Pride in D.C.
A new Pride-themed license plate is now available in the District, with proceeds directly benefiting local LGBTQ organizations.

Just in time for Pride month, the D.C. Department of Motor Vehicles has partnered with the Mayor’s Office of LGBTQ Affairs to create a special “Pride Lives Here” license plate.
The plate, which was initially unveiled in February, has a one-time $25 application fee and a $20 annual display fee. Both fees will go directly to the Office of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning Affairs Fund.
The MOLGBTQA Fund provides $1,000,000 annually to 25,000 residents through its grant program, funding a slew of LGBTQ organizations in the DMV area — including Capital Pride Alliance, Whitman-Walker, the D.C. Center for the LGBTQ Community, and the Washington Blade Foundation.
The license plate features an inclusive rainbow flag wrapping around the license numbers, with silver stars in the background — a tribute to both D.C.’s robust queer community and the resilience the LGBTQ community has shown.
The “Pride Lives Here” plate is one of only 13 specialty plates offered in the District, and the only one whose fees go directly to the LGBTQ community.
To apply for a Pride plate, visit the DC DMV’s website at https://dmv.dc.gov/

The nation’s capital welcomed WorldPride this past weekend, a massive celebration that usually takes place in a different city every two years.
The Saturday parade attracted hundreds of thousands of people from around the world and the country. The state of Delaware, a few hours drive from D.C., saw participants in the parade, with CAMP Rehoboth, an LGBTQ community center in Rehoboth Beach, hosting a bus day trip.
Hope Vella sits on the board of directors and marched with CAMP Rehoboth. Vella said that although the parade took a long time to start and the temperature was hot, she was “on a cloud” from being there.
“It didn’t matter to me how long it took to start. With the current changes that are in place regarding diversity and inclusion, I wanted my face there,” Vella said. “My life is an intersection. I am a Black woman. I am a lesbian, and I have a disability. All of these things are trying to be erased … I didn’t care how long it took. I didn’t care how far it was going to be. I was going to finish that parade. I didn’t care how hot it was.”
The nearly two mile parade route didn’t feel as long because everyone was so happy interacting with the crowd, Vella said. The group gave out beads, buttons, and pins to parade watchers.
“The World Pride celebration gave me hope because so many people came out. And the joy and the love that was between us … That gave me hope,” Vella said.
Vella said that people with disabilities are often overlooked. More than one in four Americans have disabilities, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
Vella said it was important for her “to be out there and to be seen in my wholeness as a Black woman, as a lesbian, as a woman with a disability and to not be hiding. I want our society to understand that we exist in LGBTQ+ spaces also.”
Retired Maj. Gen. Tammy Smith is involved with CAMP Rehoboth and marched with a coalition of LGBTQ military members. Smith said they were walking to give transgender military members visibility and to remind people why they are serving.
“When we are not visible, what is allowed to take our place is stereotypes,” Smith said. “And so without visibility, people think all veterans are conservative and perhaps not open to full equality. Without visibility, they might think a small state with a farming background may be a place that’s unwelcoming, but when you actually meet the people who are from those places, it sets aside those stereotypes and the real authenticity is allowed to come forward.”
During the parade, Smith said she saw trans military members in the parade make eye contact or fist bump with transgender people in the crowd.
“They were seen. Both sides were seen during that parade and I just felt privileged to be able to witness that,” Smith said.
Smith said Delaware is a state that is about freedom and equality and is the first state for a reason. The LGBTQ community is engrained as part of life in the Rehoboth and Lewes areas.
“What pride means to me is that we must always be doing what is necessary to maintain our dignity as a community,” Smith said. “We can’t let what people with negative messaging might be tossing our way impact us and the celebration of Pride. I don’t see it as being self-promoting. I see it as an act of dignity and strength.”
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