Arts & Entertainment
Queery: Kenya Hutton
The D.C.-area youth LGBT advocate answers 20 gay questions
Kenya Hutton noticed in his LGBT advocacy work that there was often a gap between services for teens and young adults. That and losing a good friend to AIDS in his native Brooklyn in the ‘90s, inspired him to devote his life to HIV and young adult work.
“A lot of it is HIV prevention work and getting young adults to think about the things we do to put ourselves at risk,” he says. “And encouraging them to be productive citizens who don’t just have to accept whatever is thrown at them.”
Since moving to Washington in 2006 after two years of doing this kind of work full time in New York, Hutton, 34, has worked variously with HIPS, Us Helping Us and more recently, the Carl Vogel Center and a new organization, Voices of One in Maryland. He’s also on the board of D.C. Black Pride. Consulting and programming are his full-time work. Hutton says he’s been “blessed” to be able to find a way to do this kind of work as a career. In September, he was honored at an Alston House benefit for his youth advocacy work.
“Growing up in New York in the ‘90s was tough, very tough,” he says. “Although in New York, there were places you could go and get services, nobody really talked about being gay, HIV or sex in general. It just didn’t happen.”
Hutton and his boyfriend, Charles, have been dating since earlier this year. Hutton lives in District Heights, Md., and enjoys volunteering, cooking and traveling in his free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I finally came out completely in 2006; the hardest people to tell were my little sisters. Even though when I told them, they said they already knew.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
RuPaul. She has been a public gay man for as long as I can remember. Truly a trailblazer.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
I’ve been privy to experiencing the Edge/Wet days on occasion. I’m not really into the nightlife scene anymore, but I’ve been to the Warehouse Loft and Nellie’s and they seem to be pretty fun.
Describe your dream wedding.
Get back to me on that.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Health care, especially for the elderly.
What historical outcome would you change?
LGBT inequality
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
The death of Michael Jackson.
On what do you insist?
Being honest and straightforward. It prevents any misunderstandings further down the road if everyone will just be honest and straightforward in the beginning.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
Waiting for the IOS 6 download!
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“The Life of the Unknown.”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Nothing. If I wasn’t a gay man, I have no idea where I would be today.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I believe there are forces that we cannot see that are around us.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
We are still at the tip of the movement, don’t give up thinking our work is over!
What would you walk across hot coals for?
Love
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
That we are all loud, obnoxious sexual deviants.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
“Boys Don’t Cry”
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Partying all the time.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
I love all awards I have received equally.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
The true cost of things.
Why Washington?
I needed a change from New York. And Washington was the best logical place for personal and professional advancement.
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund National Champagne Brunch was held at Salamander Washington DC on Sunday, April 19. Gov. Andy Beshear (D-Ky.) was presented with the Allyship Award.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)



















The umbrella LGBTQ sports organization Team D.C. held its annual Night of Champions Gala at the Georgetown Marriott on Saturday, April 18. Team D.C. presented scholarships to local student athletes and presented awards to Adam Peck, Manuel Montelongo (a.k.a. Mari Con Carne), Dr. Sara Varghai, Dan Martin and the Centaur Motorcycle Club. Sean Bartel was posthumously honored with the Most Valuable Person Award.
(Washington Blade photos by Michael Key)















Television
‘Big Mistakes’ an uneven – but worthy – comedic showcase
In the years since “Schitt’s Creek” wrapped up its six season Emmy-winning run, nostalgia for it has grown deep – especially since the still painfully recent loss of its iconic leading lady, Catherine O’Hara, whose sudden passing prompted a social media wave of clips and tributes featuring her fan-favorite performance as the deliciously daft Moira Rose. Revisiting so many favorite scenes and funny moments from the show naturally reminded us of just how much we loved it, even needed it during the time it was on the air; it also reminded us of how much we miss it, and how much it feels now like something we need more than ever.
That, perhaps more than anything else, is why the arrival of “Big Mistakes” – the new Netflix series starring, co-created and co-written by Dan Levy – felt so welcome. We knew it wouldn’t be the Roses, but it seemed cut from the same cloth, and it had David Rose (or at least someone who seemed a lot like him) in the middle of a comically dysfunctional family dynamic, complete with a mother who gets involved in town politics and a catty sibling rivalry with his sister, and still nebbish-ly uncomfortable in his own gay shoes. Only this time, instead of running a charmingly pretentious boutique, he’s the pastor of the local church, and instead of a collection of kooky small town neighbors to contend with, there are gangsters.
As it turns out, it really does feel cut from the same cloth, but the design is distinctly different. Set in a fictional New Jersey suburb, it centers on Nicky (Levy) and his sister Morgan (Taylor Ortega) – he openly gay with an adoring boyfriend (Jacob Gutierrez), yet still obsessive about keeping it all invisible to his congregation, and she drudging aimlessly through life as an underpaid schoolteacher after failing to achieve her New York dreams of show biz success – who inadvertently become enmeshed in a shady underworld when a gesture for their dead grandmother’s funeral goes horribly awry.
They’re surrounded by a crew of equally compromised characters. There’s their mother Linda (Laurie Metcalf), whose campaign to become the town’s mayor only intensifies her tendency to micromanage her children’s lives; Yusuf (Boran Kuzum), the Turkish-American mini-mart operator who pulls them into the criminal conspiracy yet is himself a victim of it; Max (Jack Innanen), Morgan’s live-in boyfriend, who pushes her for a deeper commitment and is willing to go to couples’ therapy to prove it; Annette, his mother (Elizabeth Perkins), who lends her society standing toward helping Linda’s campaign against a misogynistic opponent (Darren Goldstein); and Ivan (Mark Ivanir), the seemingly ruthless crime boss who enslaves the siblings into his network but may really be just another slave himself. It’s a well-fleshed out assortment of characters that helps our own loyalties shift and adapt, generating at least a degree of empathy – if not always sympathy – that keeps everyone from coming off as a merely “black-and-white” caricature of expectations and typecasting.
To be sure, it’s an entertaining binge-watch, full of distinctive characters – all inhabiting familiar, even stereotypical roles in the narrative – who are each given a degree of validation, both in writing and performance, as the show unspools its narrative. At the same time, it makes for a fairly bleak overall view of humanity, in which it’s difficult to place our loyalties with anyone without also embracing a kind of “dog eat dog” morality in which nobody is truly innocent – but nobody is completely to blame for their sins, anyway.
In this way, it’s a show that lets us off the hook in the sense that it places the idea of ethical guilt within a framework of relative evils, as it permits us to forgive our own trespasses by accepting its “lovably” amoral characters, each of whom has their own reasons and justifications for what they do. We relate, but we can’t quite shake the notion that, if all these people hadn’t been so caught up in their own personal dramas, none of them would have ended up in the compromised morality that they’re in.
However, it’s not some bleak morality play that Levy and crew undertake; rather, it’s more an egalitarian fantasy in which even “bad” choices feel justified by inevitability. Everybody’s motivations make enough sense to us that it’s hard to judge any of the characters for making the choices – however unwise – that they do. In a system where everyone is forced to compromise themselves in order to achieve whatever dream of self-fulfillment they may have, how can anybody really blame themselves for doing what they have to do to survive?
Of course, all things considered, this is more a relatable comedy than it is a morality play. As a comedy of errors, it all works well enough on its own without imposing an ideology on it, no matter how much we may be tempted to do so. Indeed, what is ultimately more to the point is how well this pseudo-cynical exercise in the normalization of corruption – for that is what it really about, in the end – succeeds in letting us all off the hook for our compromises.
In the end, of course, maybe all that analysis is too deep a dive for a show that feels, in the end, like it’s meant to be mostly for fun. Indeed, despite its focus on being dragged into the shady side of life, the arc of its messaging seems to be less about a moralistic urge toward making the “right” choice than it is a candid recognition that all of us are compromised from the outset, often by choices we only force upon ourselves, and that’s a refreshing enough bit of honesty that we can easily get on board.
It helps that the performances are on point, especially the loony and wide-eyed fanaticism of Metcalf – surely the MVP of any project in which she is involved – and the directly focused moral malleability of Ortega; Levy, of course, is Levy – a now-familiar persona that can exist within any milieu without further justification than its own queer relatability – and, in this case, at least, that’s both the icing on the cake and substance that defines it. That’s enough to make it an essential view for fans, queer or otherwise, of his distinctive “brand,” even if he – or the show itself – doesn’t quite satisfy in the way that “Schitt’s Creek” was able to do.
Seriously, though, how could it?

