National
In historic week, a chorus of support for marriage equality
NFL players, major corporations, politicians denounce DOMA, Prop 8


Mike Neubecker signed a PFLAG brief against Prop 8 for his son-in-law David (right). (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
A slew of legal briefs — signed by parties ranging from NFL players to LGBT advocates to businesses — were filed this week before the U.S. Supreme Court in lawsuits challenging California’s Proposition 8 and the Defense of Marriage Act.
During a news conference held on Thursday by the Respect for Marriage Coalition, a number of parties that filed briefs in the cases spoke out on why they were calling on the Supreme Court to issue rulings striking down Prop 8 and DOMA.
Mike Neubacker, a self-avowed devout Christian from Michigan, held back tears as he explained why he penned his name to a brief against Prop 8 filed by the LGBT group PFLAG. He and his wife, Janice, signed the brief on behalf of his son Lee, his spouse David and their two children.
“I met a lot of people in PFLAG, and signed on to this brief also knowing all the people that helped me besides my own family,” Neubacker said. “For me, marriage, when I say that I’ve been married 41 years to my wife, I usually get applause if I’m speaking somewhere because there’s that respect for marriage that’s understood. Right away, they immediately know the relationship and what we meant to each other. I want Lee and David to have that same recognition when they say they’re married.”
Gay former Rep. Jim Kolbe of Arizona was among the 131 Republicans who signed another brief against Prop 8 — which was also signed by former Republican presidential candidate Jon Huntsman, former California gubernatorial candidate Meg Whitman, director Clint Eastwood as well as Reps. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R-Fla.) and Richard Hanna (R-N.Y.). He also spoke at the news conference in terms of DOMA’s impact on bi-national same-sex couples.
“My partner is from Panama,” Kolbe said. “He’s been here for a number of years. He’s a Fulbright scholar, master’s degree in special education, bilingual education specialist, but our getting married does not permit the right to immigrate to this country, so our struggle to get immigration for him has been a long and very difficult one for him.”
Two separate briefs were filed in the DOMA case and the Prop 8 case that were signed by a number of LGBT advocacy groups, including the Human Rights Campaign, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, the Courage Campaign and the Center for American Progress, as well as other civil rights groups such as the National Council of La Raza and the National Immigration Forum.
Both briefs argue that Prop 8 and DOMA should be ruled unconstitutional because laws related to sexual orientation merit heightened scrutiny in the courts.
“Amici urge the Court to hold that classifications based on sexual orientation are subject to heightened scrutiny, so that governments cannot use invented, after-the-fact rationalizations to mask and justify discrimination based on prejudice, antipathy, or baseless stereotypes,” the Prop 8 brief states. “Discrimination based on sexual orientation bears the same essential hallmarks as other kinds of discrimination that have long received heightened scrutiny, and it should be treated no differently under the law.”
Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders and Lambda Legal, which had filed their cases against DOMA that didn’t reach the Supreme Court, also filed their own brief in the case challenging the 1996 anti-gay law.
That 39-page brief also maintains DOMA should be subject to heightened scrutiny, but also argues the law would fail under a lower standard of rational basis review.
“DOMA bears each of the various indicia the Court has considered when it has invalidated laws under rational basis review,” the brief states. “DOMA both targets a group disliked at the time of its passage and impacts important personal interests. It arose not out of the usual process of allocating federal rights and benefits but as a one-time departure from the traditional method of predicating eligibility for federal marriage-based protections on a couple’s marital status under state law.”
Another brief was filed in the Prop 8 case by National Football League players known for their support for marriage equality: Chris Kluwe, punter for the Minnesota Vikings, and Brendon Ayanbadejo, linebacker for the Super Bowl champion Baltimore Ravens.
The football players argue that professional sports play a major role in shaping public opinion and Prop 8 should be ruled unconstitutional because the earlier decision from the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals striking down the measure is consistent with the constitution.
“The NFL, NHL, MLB, and NBA, at the league level, team level, and individual level, are finally speaking out against homophobia and intolerance of LBGTQ individuals,” the brief states. “More and more of us realize that using demeaning slur words like ‘faggot,’ ‘queer,’ and ‘gay’ can have serious, negative consequences.”
The deadline for filing in the Prop 8 case was Thursday and the deadline for filing in the DOMA case was Friday. In the Prop 8 case, oral arguments are set for March 26; they’re set the day after on March 27 in the DOMA case. Justices are expected to render a decision before their term ends in June.
A list of other friend-of-the-court briefs filed in the Prop 8 and DOMA cases follows. The Washington Blade has written more extensive articles on some of these briefs already.
Friend-of-the-court briefs against Prop 8
• Amid calls from LGBT advocates, the Obama administration a filed legal brief against California’s same-sex marriage ban. The brief focuses on the unconstitutionality of Prop 8, but Obama himself said the reasoning in the brief could be applied to other laws.
• A “red” state coalition of groups that operate where same-sex marriage is illegal — ranging from the Utah Pride Center, to the Campaign for Southern Equality, to Equality Virginia — filed a brief arguing that both Prop 8 and DOMA should be subject to heightened scrutiny.
• A coalition of state attorneys general, including Connecticut Attorney General George Jepsen, D.C. Attorney General Irvin Nathan, Illinois Attorney General Lisa Madigan, filed another brief against Prop 8.
• California Gov. Jerry Brown (D), who has declined to defend Prop 8 in court, also filed a brief calling on the court to strike down the measure.
• Gay California Assembly Speaker John Perez — who’s reportedly on Obama’s short list as the next labor secretary — filed with law professors a brief against Prop 8 arguing that laws preventing equal political participation merit heightened scrutiny.
• Equality California filed a brief against Prop 8 with a different focus, arguing that proponents of the measure don’t have standing to defend the law in court.
• The libertarian think-tank known as the Cato Institute joined the Constitutional Accountability Center filed a brief arguing that Prop 8 violates equal protection under the U.S. Constitution.
Friend-of-the-court briefs against DOMA
• 212 congressional Democrats filed a brief against DOMA, marking the first time ever that House and Senate lawmakers have joined together in calling the anti-gay law unconstitutional.
• The LGBT military group OutServe-SLDN filed a brief against DOMA emphasizing the harm it causes gay service members with same-sex partners.
• A coalition of 278 of municipalities and businesses, including Google, Twitter and Microsoft, filed a brief maintaining DOMA is unconstitutional because it requires employers to discriminate against married gay employees.
• The Family Equality Council and the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network filed a brief with allied organizations against both DOMA and Prop 8.
• The American Bar Association filed a brief asking the U.S. Supreme Court to consider the “serious obstacles” that DOMA imposes on lawyers’ clients who are same-sex couples legally married under state law.
• The Gay & Lesbian Medical Association filed briefs in both the Prop 8 and DOMA cases highlighting for the justices the scientific and clinical evidence that sexual orientation is an innate human characteristic.
• Trevor Potter, gay adviser to John McCain’s 2008 presidential campaign and author of McCain-Feingold, signed a brief against DOMA filed by former federal election commissioners. That brief argues DOMA — when superimposed onto federal campaign finance law — legally bars married gays and lesbians from political expression and association opportunities that are afforded to other married citizens.
Michael K. Lavers contributed to this report.
U.S. Federal Courts
Judge temporarily blocks executive orders targeting LGBTQ, HIV groups
Lambda Legal filed the lawsuit in federal court

A federal judge on Monday blocked the enforcement of three of President Donald Trump’s executive orders that would have threatened to defund nonprofit organizations providing health care and services for LGBTQ people and those living with HIV.
The preliminary injunction was awarded by Judge Jon Tigar of the U.S. District Court for the Northern District of California in a case, San Francisco AIDS Foundation v. Trump, filed by Lambda Legal and eight other organizations.
Implementation of the executive orders — two aimed at diversity, equity, and inclusion along with one targeting the transgender community — will be halted pending the outcome of the litigation challenging them.
“This is a critical win — not only for the nine organizations we represent, but for LGBTQ communities and people living with HIV across the country,” said Jose Abrigo, Lambda Legal’s HIV Project director and senior counsel on the case.
“The court blocked anti-equity and anti-LGBTQ executive orders that seek to erase transgender people from public life, dismantle DEI efforts, and silence nonprofits delivering life-saving services,” Abrigo said. “Today’s ruling acknowledges the immense harm these policies inflict on these organizations and the people they serve and stops Trump’s orders in their tracks.”
Tigar wrote, in his 52-page decision, “While the Executive requires some degree of freedom to implement its political agenda, it is still bound by the constitution.”
“And even in the context of federal subsidies, it cannot weaponize Congressionally appropriated funds to single out protected communities for disfavored treatment or suppress ideas that it does not like or has deemed dangerous,” he said.
Without the preliminary injunction, the judge wrote, “Plaintiffs face the imminent loss of federal funding critical to their ability to provide lifesaving healthcare and support services to marginalized LGBTQ populations,” a loss that “not only threatens the survival of critical programs but also forces plaintiffs to choose between their constitutional rights and their continued existence.”
The organizations in the lawsuit are located in California (San Francisco AIDS Foundation, Los Angeles LGBT Center, GLBT Historical Society, and San Francisco Community Health Center), Arizona (Prisma Community Care), New York (The NYC LGBT Community Center), Pennsylvania (Bradbury-Sullivan Community Center), Maryland (Baltimore Safe Haven), and Wisconsin (FORGE).
U.S. Supreme Court
Activists rally for Andry Hernández Romero in front of Supreme Court
Gay asylum seeker ‘forcibly deported’ to El Salvador, described as political prisoner

More than 200 people gathered in front of the U.S. Supreme Court on Friday and demanded the Trump-Vance administration return to the U.S. a gay Venezuelan asylum seeker who it “forcibly disappeared” to El Salvador.
Lindsay Toczylowski, president of the Immigrant Defenders Law Center, a Los Angeles-based organization that represents Andry Hernández Romero, is among those who spoke alongside U.S. Rep. Mark Takano (D-Calif.) and Human Rights Campaign Campaigns and Communications Vice President Jonathan Lovitz. Sarah Longwell of the Bulwark, Pod Save America’s Jon Lovett, and Tim Miller are among those who also participated in the rally.
“Andry is a son, a brother. He’s an actor, a makeup artist,” said Toczylowski. “He is a gay man who fled Venezuela because it was not safe for him to live there as his authentic self.”
(Video by Michael K. Lavers)
The White House on Feb. 20 designated Tren de Aragua, a Venezuelan gang, as an “international terrorist organization.”
President Donald Trump on March 15 invoked the Alien Enemies Act of 1798, which the Associated Press notes allows the U.S. to deport “noncitizens without any legal recourse.” The Trump-Vance administration subsequently “forcibly removed” Hernández and hundreds of other Venezuelans to El Salvador.
Toczylowski said she believes Hernández remains at El Salvador’s Terrorism Confinement Center, a maximum-security prison known by the Spanish acronym CECOT. Toczylowski also disputed claims that Hernández is a Tren de Aragua member.
“Andry fled persecution in Venezuela and came to the U.S. to seek protection. He has no criminal history. He is not a member of the Tren de Aragua gang. Yet because of his crown tattoos, we believe at this moment that he sits in a torture prison, a gulag, in El Salvador,” said Toczylowski. “I say we believe because we have not had any proof of life for him since the day he was put on a U.S. government-funded plane and forcibly disappeared to El Salvador.”
“Andry is not alone,” she added.
Takano noted the federal government sent his parents, grandparents, and other Japanese Americans to internment camps during World War II under the Alien Enemies Act. The gay California Democrat also described Hernández as “a political prisoner, denied basic rights under a law that should have stayed in the past.”
“He is not a case number,” said Takano. “He is a person.”
Hernández had been pursuing his asylum case while at the Otay Mesa Detention Center in San Diego.
A hearing had been scheduled to take place on May 30, but an immigration judge the day before dismissed his case. Immigrant Defenders Law Center has said it will appeal the decision to the Board of Immigration Appeals, which the Justice Department oversees.
“We will not stop fighting for Andry, and I know neither will you,” said Toczylowski.
Friday’s rally took place hours after Attorney General Pam Bondi said Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a Maryland man who the Trump-Vance administration wrongfully deported to El Salvador, had returned to the U.S. Abrego will face federal human trafficking charges in Tennessee.
National
A husband’s story: Michael Carroll reflects on life with Edmund White
Iconic author died this week; ‘no sunnier human in the world’

Unlike most gay men of my generation, I’ve only been to Fire Island twice. Even so, the memory of my first visit has never left me. The scenery was lovely, and the boys were sublime — but what stood out wasn’t the beach or the parties. It was a quiet afternoon spent sipping gin and tonics in a mid-century modern cottage tucked away from the sand and sun.
Despite Fire Island’s reputation for hedonism, our meeting was more accident than escapade. Michael Carroll — a Facebook friend I’d chatted with but never met — mentioned that he and his husband, Ed, would be there that weekend, too. We agreed to meet for a drink. On a whim, I checked his profile and froze. Ed was author Edmund White.
I packed a signed copy of Carroll’s “Little Reef” and a dog-eared hardback of “A Boy’s Own Story,” its spine nearly broken from rereads. I was excited to meet both men and talk about writing, even briefly.
Yesterday, I woke to the news that Ed had passed away. Ironically, my first thought was of Michael.
This week, tributes to Edmund White are everywhere — rightly celebrating his towering legacy as a novelist, essayist, and cultural icon. I’ve read all of his books, and I could never do justice to the scope of a career that defined and chronicled queer life for more than half a century. I’ll leave that to better-prepared journalists.
But in those many memorials, I’ve noticed something missing. When Michael Carroll is mentioned, it’s usually just a passing reference: “White’s partner of thirty years, twenty-five years his junior.” And yet, in the brief time I spent with this couple on Fire Island, it was clear to me that Michael was more than a footnote — he was Ed’s anchor, editor, companion, and champion. He was the one who knew his husband best.
They met in 1995 after Michael wrote Ed a fan letter to tell him he was coming to Paris. “He’d lost the great love of his life a year before,” Michael told me. “In one way, I filled a space. Understand, I worshiped this man and still do.”
When I asked whether there was a version of Ed only he knew, Michael answered without hesitation: “No sunnier human in the world, obvious to us and to people who’ve only just or never met him. No dark side. Psychology had helped erase that, I think, or buffed it smooth.”
Despite the age difference and divergent career arcs, their relationship was intellectually and emotionally symbiotic. “He made me want to be elegant and brainy; I didn’t quite reach that, so it led me to a slightly pastel minimalism,” Michael said. “He made me question my received ideas. He set me free to have sex with whoever I wanted. He vouchsafed my moods when they didn’t wobble off axis. Ultimately, I encouraged him to write more minimalistically, keep up the emotional complexity, and sleep with anyone he wanted to — partly because I wanted to do that too.”
Fully open, it was a committed relationship that defied conventional categories. Ed once described it as “probably like an 18th-century marriage in France.” Michael elaborated: “It means marriage with strong emotion — or at least a tolerance for one another — but no sex; sex with others. I think.”
That freedom, though, was always anchored in deep devotion and care — and a mutual understanding that went far beyond art, philosophy, or sex. “He believed in freedom and desire,” Michael said, “and the two’s relationship.”
When I asked what all the essays and articles hadn’t yet captured, Michael paused. “Maybe that his writing was tightly knotted, but that his true personality was vulnerable, and that he had the defense mechanisms of cheer and optimism to conceal that vulnerability. But it was in his eyes.”
The moment that captured who Ed was to him came at the end. “When he was dying, his second-to-last sentence (garbled then repeated) was, ‘Don’t forget to pay Merci,’ the cleaning lady coming the next day. We had had a rough day, and I was popping off like a coach or dad about getting angry at his weakness and pushing through it. He took it almost like a pack mule.”
Edmund White’s work shaped generations — it gave us language for desire, shame, wit, and liberation. But what lingers just as powerfully is the extraordinary life Ed lived with a man who saw him not only as a literary giant but as a real person: sunny, complex, vulnerable, generous.
In the end, Ed’s final words to his husband weren’t about his books or his legacy. They were about care, decency, and love. “You’re good,” he told Michael—a benediction, a farewell, maybe even a thank-you.
And now, as the world celebrates the prolific writer and cultural icon Edmund White, it feels just as important to remember the man and the person who knew him best. Not just the story but the characters who stayed to see it through to the end.
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