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Best of Gay D.C. XIV
Blade readers choose the best in nightlife, people, dining and community


ON THE COVER: Destiny B. Childs (Best Drag Queen) gets her makeup attended to by Wendy Rieger (Best TV personality) as Drew Fisher and Tim Baird, bartenders at Number Nine (Hottest Bar Staff) keep them fortified with the Lemon Squeeze (Best Cocktail from Duplex Diner), beer from D.C. Brau (Best Brewery), Krispy Kreme donuts (Best Donuts), pizza from &Pizza (Best Pizza) and more at the Town Patio (Best Outdoor Drinking). Decor courtesy Miss Pixieās (Best Second Hand Stuff). (Concept and Washington Blade photo by James Neal)
The High Heel Race, the Walk to End HIV, the Town Halloween costume contest, the HRC National Dinner and yes, the Washington Bladeās Best of Gay D.C. readersā poll edition, local gay October traditions all.
For our 14th installment, we decided to cast the net wide ā you voted in 97 categories (up from 73 last year) with about 5,000 nominations and 20,000 votes.
From bars, venues and restaurants weāve enjoyed for years to places weād never even heard of but canāt wait to try, the fun of this issue is the memories it inspires ā like that table you bought at Miss Pixieās and canāt imagine life without ā to starting a list of places to track down like the Red Hook Lobster Truck.
The profiles were written by Patrick Folliard, Mariah Cooper, Brian T. Carney and Kristen Hartke.
The entire Washington Blade staff congratulates each of this yearās winners and finalists.
PEOPLE
Lifetime Achievement
Vice President Joseph Biden

U.S. Vice President Joe BidenĀ (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
Vice President Joseph Biden, delivering the keynote address at the Human Rights Campaignās national dinner earlier this month, touted the significance of the court ruling on marriage, but also turned toward other issues relevant to the LGBT community.
āThe great arc of justice is the journey of this nation, and it continues to move in the right direction,ā Biden said. āWeāre moving closer and closer to the animating spirit of America because of all of you, not me, because of all of you.ā
Although heās previously articulated support for comprehensive legislation prohibiting anti-LGBT discrimination, Biden took the opportunity of his speech to explicitly endorse the Equality Act, which would amend the Civil Rights Act and the Fair Housing Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity.
āI strongly support the Equality Act, and it will pass, it will pass,ā Biden said. āIt may not pass this Congress. It will pass because itās simple and itās straightforward.ā Bidenās support for the Equality Act makes him the first official in the Obama administration to explicitly endorse the bill.
Biden in 2012 dubbed transgender rights the ācivil rights issue of our time,ā an assertion he repeated this month as he commended Defense Secretary Ashton Carter for starting a review expected to lead in May to an end of the ban on openly transgender service.
āIt took the secretary of defense about 10 minutes,ā Biden said. āIn July 2015 no longer is there any question, transgender people are able to serve in the United States military.ā āAll Americans who are able to serve physically should be able to serve,ā Biden added.
Although Biden voted for the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 as a senator from Delaware, he later changed his position and opposed it. He opposed efforts to amend the U.S. Constitution to ban same-sex marriage that began in 2002 and voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006.
Most Committed Activist
Ruby Corado

Ruby CoradoĀ (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Casa Ruby
2822 Georgia Ave., N.W.
casaruby.org
Runner-up: Rayceen Pendarvis
Best Council Member
Jack Evans (Ward 2)

Jack Evans (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: David Grosso
Hottest Local Pro Athlete
Bryce Harper

Bryce Harper (Photo courtesy of the Washington Nationals
Washington Nationals
Runner-up: Ali Krieger
Best Massage
Eddie Weingart

Eddie Weingart (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Che Young
Best Personal Trainer
Gerard Burley

Gerard Burley (Photo by Scott Henrichsen)
āCoach Gā
Runner-up: Anya Maleknasri
Best Doctor
Dr. Raymond Martins

Dr. Raymond Martins (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Whitman-Walker Health
1701 14th St., N.W.
1525 14th St., N.W.
2301 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave., S.E.
Runner-up: One Medical
Best Real Estate Agent
Valerie Blake

Valerie Blake (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Stacey Williams-Zeiger
Best Rehoboth Real Estate Agent
Chris Beagle

Chris Beagle (Photo courtesy of Beagle)
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices
Runner-up: Barbara Morales
Best Rehoboth Bartender
Chris Chandler (Purple Parrot)

Chris Chandler (Photo courtesy of Chandler)
Runner-up: Andrew Ennis (Blue Moon)
Best Amateur Athlete
Jeff Larivee (Stonewall Kickball)

Jeff Larivee (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Matt Pearce (D.C. Gay Flag Football League)
Best Local Columnist
Ezra Klein (Vox)

Ezra Klein (Photo courtesy of Klein)
Runner-up: John Kelly (Washington Post)
Best Bartender
Sarah Slocum

Sarah Slocum (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Jayson Smith (JR.ās)
Luckily for the patrons at Freddieās Beach Bar, a perennial favorite in Crystal City (in, as they say, āYES, honey, VIRGINIA!ā), bartender Sarah Slocum really enjoys her job, saying, āI love that when I arrive at work, I feel like I’m walking into a party with all my friends already there ā I just happen to be the one that getsĀ to make all the drinks!ā
Whether youāre there for karaoke, bingo or a Freddieās Follies drag show, thereās really never a dull moment at Freddieās, although Slocum confesses to also enjoying the quieter nights when she can chat in a more leisurely way with customers. While she has a particular affinity for mixing martinis, Slocum likes presenting the Flashing Flamingo, an in-your-face concoction of watermelon and pomegranate vodkas and lip-puckering juices that arrives with a flashing ice cube floating in the depths of a fishbowl-like glass: āIt definitely lends some liquid courage to help you get up and sing karaoke,ā she says. (KH)
Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant
555 South 23rd St., Arlington
Best Stylist
Enders Barbaran

Enders Barbaran (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Bang Salonās Metropole location
Runner-up: Shar Raigner
After working in accounts payable for several years, Enders Barbaran was ready for a change.
āI didnāt know exactly what I wanted to do, but I knew it had to be something different and I knew it had to happen fast.ā So without a lot of thought, he went to work as a shampoo assistant at Bang Salonās Metropole location where his then-roommate was working as a stylist.
āImmediately I liked it,ā says Barbaran. āI instinctively like to bring out the best in my clients whatever the job. The salon is an environment where I can do that.ā
After several months on the job, Barbaran figured he could do what the stylists were doing so he enrolled in cosmetology school. For the next year he attended classes by day and shampooed clients in the evening. Following graduation, he received further training at Bang and became a full-fledged stylist with his own chair in 2009.
āI thank both Bangās owner and my manager,ā says Barbaran. āThey had a lot of faith in me. I wouldnāt be where I am without them.ā
Barbaran grew up in Lima, Peru, surrounded by a family comprised of women. āI loved playing with my cousinsā hair,ā says the stylist. āAnd even when I was working in accounts payable I played with my female co-workerās hair. Iāve always liked hair. Iād just never thought to make it a profession.ā
Today, Barbaran remains at Bang Salon where he cuts and colors both men and women. āMy clients are like family to me and I want them to be happy. Iām humbled to have won among a field of excellent stylists. I didnāt campaign to win this. Itās truly a gift from my clients.ā (PF)
Bang Salon Metropole
1519 15th St., N.W.
Best Lawyer
Michele Zavos

Michele Zavos (Photo courtesy Zavos Juncker Law Group)
Zavos Juncker Law Group
Runner-up: Patrick Menasco
Michele Zavos has been an attorney in the LGBT community for a long time. And throughout her career, sheās witnessed a lot of change.
āMost of it has come slowly, but over the last few years things have happened more quickly,ā she says.
As the managing partner and founder of Zavos Juncker Law Group, Zavos has litigated and helped change policy in the District of Columbia, Maryland, and the Commonwealth of Virginia to extend legal protections to LGBT clients. She was the winning attorney in Port v. Cowan, in which the Maryland Court of Appeals held in May of 2012 that Maryland must recognize valid same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions, which predated the passage of marriage equality in Maryland.
āFifty percent of our clients are LGBT,ā says Zavos who is married to Ellen Cull, her partner of 22 years. āWeāre a family law firm on the cutting edge for developing LGBT protection and representing people in difficult circumstances as a result of how family law has worked.ā
In 1982, Zavos started the first āMaybe Babyā group for lesbians and gay men considering having children. āMy daughter who is 30 was born with a donor dad,ā says Zavos. āSo this is my passion and interest and Iāve been fortunate to make it into a law practice. In family law there remains a ways to go regarding the rights of non-biological parents in same-sex relationships and marriages. For LGBT people in general thereās still a lot to do, particularly surrounding the area of trans rights and employment and discrimination, but thatās outside of my practice area.ā
Looking ahead, Zavos says she is committed to further expanding the boundaries that protect LGBT families. (PF)
Zavos Junker Law Group
8455 Colesville Rd., No. 1500
Silver Spring, Md.
Best Artist
Chris Jay

Chris Jay (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: David Claypool
āSince I first started hanging out in D.C. three years ago, I wanted to win this,ā says Chris Jay, a professional photographer in the Baltimore/Washington area. āLast year I wasnāt even nominated, and this year I turned up in three categories. Itās the result of a lot of hard work.ā
Jay, whoās been taking photographs for 20 years, is currently focusing on a project titled āKingxtaposition,ā a collection of work capturing the many faces of drag kings. Her subjects to date have primarily been members of the D.C. Kings, a troupe with which sheās performed. But Jay has plans to expand.
Based in Howard County, Maryland, Jay wants to take her project on the road.
āThe goal is to start traveling the country and meeting kings and photographing them. This project is big, but itās not something Iām doing for money. I just want to tell stories from the perspective of someone who changes through the process of performing. I want to keep digging into that.ā
At her business, Chris Jay Photos, Jay shoots portraits of performers, small business owners and local artists.
āI keep my prices reasonable so people can afford to promote themselves. I like to help them realize what they see in their heads.ā
Her introduction to photography was at a JC Penny Portrait Studio where she worked after graduating from high school. āDuring the first Christmas season, I shot bazillions of family portraits and loved it. After that I worked for a company taking school portraits for seven years.ā
Jayās most personal work consists of self-portraits documenting her struggles with depression. āI like to raise awareness of what itās like to live with a mental illness. My everyday life isnāt easy. But once I get going, itās hard to stop me.ā (PF)
Best Businessperson
Howard Brooks

Howard Brooks (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Scott Roewer, The Organizing Agency
The talented physician Howard L. Brooks, MD, has been medical director at the popular SKIN Cosmetic Dermatology Center of Georgetown since 2007. He is recognized as a leader in non-invasive body and facial rejuvenation for men and women.
Brooks says that SKIN blends the professional services of a physicianās office with the relaxing environment of a day spa, but emphasizes that patients need to play an active role in the health of their skin. SKIN offers clients a wide array of aesthetic, cosmetic and medical treatment options.
Brooks and the staff at SKIN have received overwhelmingly positive reviews. Patients appreciated their efficiency and friendliness and praised Brooks for his ability to listen and ask great questions, his skill at making quick and clear recommendations, his caring manner and honesty.
Brooks is aĀ graduate of Howard University College of Medicine. He completed his medical internship at Franklin Square Medical Center in Baltimore; his residency atĀ Howard University Hospital included stints at Walter Reed Army Medical Center, Children’s National Medical Center and the Armed Forces Institute of Pathology.
He often appears as anĀ expert resource for local and national media outlets including the Washington Blade, CNN, Fox Morning News, NewsChannel 8 and WTOP. He is an attending instructor for the University Health Center at University of Maryland and is the author (or co-author) ofĀ numerous scientific and clinical articles in peer reviewed journals and texts. He is also a member of the Capital Area Physicians for Human Rights and the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association. (BTC)
Dr. Howard Brooks
SKIN Dermatology of Georgetown
2233 Wisconsin Ave. N.W., no. 230
202-298-7546
Best Clergy
Bishop Allyson Abrams

Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Rev. David Lett
Bishop Allyson Abrams, founder and current pastor of Empowerment Liberation Cathedral, made headlines last year when she married Bishop Diana Williams. Abrams was serving as the first female pastor at Zion Progress Baptist Church in Detroit when she married Williams, who is a bishop emeritus with WashingtonāsĀ Imani Temple African-American Catholic Congregation. Rumors of their wedding quickly spread through the congregation and Abrams resigned from the church.
The couple moved to D.C. and Abrams founded her new LGBT-affirming church, which currently holds services in the sanctuary of the Church of the Ascension in Silver Spring. (Empowerment Liberation Cathedral was named Best House of Worship and is profiled separately.)
Abrams graduated from Howard University with a Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering. She received her masterās of divinity and her doctorate in ministry from United Theological Seminary. She is the author of three books and two of her sermons have been published in āThe African American Pulpit.ā She is also recognized for her magnificent singing voice and sang with the Young Adult Fellowship Ensemble at D.C.ās Metropolitan Baptist Church. She has also taught at Ashland Theological Seminary and Wayne County Community College and served as a doctoral mentor at Ecumenical Theological Seminary.
On a lighter note, Abrams also officiated at the 2014 wedding of singer Monifah Carter and her girlfriend Terez Thorpe on the final episode of the reality TV show “R&B DivasĀ of Atlanta.”
Known for her fiery, stirring messages and electrifying prayers, she has been asked to preach at pulpits across the country. Abrams says her passion and gift is āpreaching the gospel of Jesus Christ and helping Godās people.ā She looks forward to continuing her social justice work and ministry at Empowerment Liberation Cathedral. (BTC)
Bishop Allyson Abrams
Empowerment Liberation Cathedral
633 Sligo Ave., Silver Spring
240-720-7605
empowermentliberationcathedral.org
Best Hill Staffer
Yesenia Chavez

Yesenia Chavez (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Kevin Knight
Yesenia Chavez is already a voice to be reckoned with on Capitol Hill. Since arriving in Washington in August 2013, this rising star has been an out and proud spokesperson for women, people of color and the LGBT community.
Sheās currently a legislative assistant for U.S. Representative RaĆŗl M. Grijalva, a Democrat from Arizonaās Third District. Her legislative portfolio includes LGBT issues, human rights, womenās rights, small business, gun violence, veteransā affairs and voting rights. In addition, she serves as the staff contact for the Congressional LGBT Equality Caucus and the Congressional Asian Pacific American Caucus. Chavez began working on the Hill when she was selected as one of four Victory Congressional Interns by the Gay and Lesbian Victory Institute in 2013.
Chavez is also an At-Large Director for the LGBT Congressional Staff Association, which is an official, non-partisan congressional staff organization that promotes career development opportunities for LGBT congressional staffers. Chavezās focus is on building member outreach toward women and staffers of color and she has initiated queer people of color and womenās lunches to build community and to strengthen the groupās diversity.
In 2014, Chavez was named one of the ā20 Queer People of Color You Should Knowā by Houstonās Outsmart Magazine. A graduate of the University of Houston, she received the Universityās Community Involvement Scholarship from the LGBT Resource Center and the Difference Maker Award from the University Commission on Women. Sheās also a Hometown Mentor for the College Success Foundation. (BTC)
Yesenia Chavez
1511 Longworth House Office Building
202-225-2435
Best Trans Advocate
Thomas Coughlin

Thomas Coughlin (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Ruby Corado
This is the second year that Thomas Coughlin has been named Best Trans Advocate in the Bladeās Best of Gay D.C. Readersā Poll Awards. He’s a staff psychotherapist and transgender health advocate at Whitman-Walker Health and is also in private practice with an office near Dupont Circle.
A long-time D.C. resident, Coughlin joined the Army in 1986 and was stationed at the Pentagon. After his service, he decided to stay in the area and earned a masterās degree in Clinical Community Counseling from Johns Hopkins University He came out as gay in 1985 and began to come out as trans in 1999. He currently lives in Silver Spring with his wife and stepchildren (and their dog Maize).
In a 2014 Queery profile in the Blade, Coughlin said his LGBT heroes were āthose in the community facing harassment, discrimination and oppression every single day, but still finding the courage to live their truth. Seriously, thatās the heroic stuff.ā That passion clearly underlines his approach to counseling. As he says on his website, āsometimes creating or maintaining a happy,Ā satisfying life requires help. I support you in your journeyĀ toward your true self.ā
Coughlin has also been a leader in providing transgender cultural competencyĀ training toĀ businesses, educationalĀ institutions and private agencies that wish to learnĀ more about transgender lives. He works with organizations to help them understand and support transgender employees and assists professionalsĀ who wish to better serve their clients in providingĀ compassionate and competent care to members of the transgender community. (BTC)
Thomas Coughlin, LPC, NCC
1633 Q St., N.W., Suite 210
Best Chef
JosƩ AndrƩs

JosƩ AndrƩs (Photo by Blair Getz Mezibov)
Runner-up: Mike Isabella, Mike Isabella Concepts
You canāt throw a plate of tapas in D.C. without hitting a JosĆ© AndrĆ©s restaurant these days, so itās no wonder that the ebullient Spanish-born chef would get the nod in this category.
With nearly a dozen restaurants in the region, itās easy to get your hands on AndrĆ©sā food, whether itās a bocata ā the Spanish version of a deli sandwich ā from his roving food truck Pepe, Lebanese-inspired crispy Brussels sprouts at Zaytinya, or deviled eggs spiked with jalapeƱo at American Eats Tavern that speak to the chefās exploration of his adopted countryās classic dishes. AndrĆ©sā foray into fast-casual this year with the opening of the veggie-centric Beefsteak in Foggy Bottom and Dupont Circle solidified his role as a chef who wants to connect with every single diner in this city on some level, whether through tomatoes, turkey or tequila.
Still, even while building a veritable dining empire, AndrĆ©s has also committed considerable time and resources to supporting healthy eating efforts at D.C. Central Kitchen, teaching students at George Washington University about how the food supply chain affects global security and engaging local kids in First Lady Michelle Obamaās Letās Move! campaign to fight childhood obesity. Always accessible, JosĆ© AndrĆ©s is the kind of celebrity chef who knows how to keep it real, and that keeps us at his tables. (KH)
Best Straight Ally
Meghan Davies

Meghan Davies (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Maya Rupert
Meghan Davies, Whitman-Walker Healthās chief of operations and program integration, has supported D.C.ās LGBT community through her work with Whitman-Walker.
Her job has her overseeing many aspects of Whitman-Walker Health including community health, clinical infrastructure, therapy-based services and more.
Previously, Davies was Whitman-Walker Healthās Director of Community Health. She assisted with the Breast Health Initiative, HIV counseling, Whitman-Walkerās +1 HIV Peer Support Program and PALS, a program advocating for LGBT seniors.
Her other background efforts include being an HIV prevention volunteer in the Peace Corps. She also holds a masterās degree in public health from George Washington University. (MC)
Best Local TV Personality
Wendy Rieger

Wendy Rieger (Washington Blade photo by Jonathan Ellis)
Runner-up: Chuck Bell
NBC4ās Wendy Rieger stumbled upon broadcast journalism when she was a college drop-out looking to make money as an actress. She found a job reading the news on camera in Norfolk, Va., and fell in love with the business.
The job inspired Rieger to return to school and she earned her degree in broadcast journalism from American University.
Rieger, a frequent emcee for SMYALās fall brunches, was struck by the injustice young LGBT people faced when she was doing a story on SMYAL and at the time was not allowed to say the location for fear of it being attacked.
āWhat kind of insanity is that? In a civilized country,ā Rieger says. āIt turns my stomach to think that people still harbor that much hatred for something that is unlike them.ā
Rieger says that growing up in the South and seeing the racism African Americans faced raised her awareness about how poorly people can be treated for being different. When she moved to D.C., she had gay friends and noticed similar injustices that made her want to speak out. She hopes her public persona can help LGBT issues progress in a positive direction.
āIf my name in any way takes away some of the fear or anxiety someone may feel because this is an unknown to them and I can help show them that these people are people living their lives and itās normal, itās going to be for the greater good in the end,ā Rieger says. (MC)
Local Hero
David Franco

David Franco (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
David Franco, principal and co-founder of real estate development Level 2 Development, has a passion for housing displacement that stems from a personal place.
Francoās family owned Jay Deeās Childrenās Apparel, a discount department store in D.C., from 1937-1983 and were forced to shut down.
Franco, who spent his childhood growing up in the store, vividly remembers how he felt.
āI remember standing there across the street the day that the wrecking ball demolished the store,ā Franco says. āIt was really an impactful moment, just feeling displaced, feeling like my family had been displaced.ā
That moment led Franco to spearhead housing preservation efforts. In 2005, Franco joined forces with Jubilee Housing to help preserve Cresthill Apartments for the Sankoka Tenants Association, a 48-unit building. The partnership led to creating home ownership opportunities for low- to medium-income residents specifically for the 14th Street corridor.
Franco, who also owns menās clothing store Universal Gear on 14th Street, has also served on Mayor Fentyās D.C. Housing and Community Developmentās Housing Protection Trust Fund Board. (MC)
NIGHTLIFE
Best Cocktail
Lemon Squeeze

Lemon Squeeze (Washington Blade photo by James Neal)
Duplex Diner
2004 18th St., N.W.
202-265-7828
Runner-up: Sunday Sangria (1905 Bistro & Bar)
Best Drag Show
Ladies of Town

Town Danceboutique (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Fridays and Saturdays at 10:30 p.m.
Town Danceboutique
2009 8th St., N.W.
Runner-up: D.C. Kings
Best Gay-Friendly Straight Bar
Dacha Beer Garden

Dacha Beer Garden (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1600 7th St., N.W.
202-524-8790
Runner-up: Black Cat
Best Happy Hour &
Hottest Bar Staff

Bartenders at Number Nine, from left, <strong>Scott Peton</strong>, <strong>Jake Reif</strong> and <strong>Kieran McGuidan</strong>, serve patrons at happy hour. (Washington Blade photo by Damien Salas)
Number Nine
1435 P St., N.W.
Runner-up: Bear Happy Hour
Best Live Music
9:30 Club

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
815 V St., N.W.
Runner-up: Howard Theatre
Best Neighborhood Bar
Phase 1

Phase 1 (Washington Blade file photo by Nicole Reinertson)
525 8th St., S.E.
Runner-up: JR.ās
Best Outside-the-District Bar
Freddieās Beach Bar

Freddie’s Beach Bar and Grill (Blade file photo by Michael Key)
555 S. 23rd St.
Arlington, Va.
Runner-up: Blue Iguana
Best Outdoor Drinking
Town Patio

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Town Danceboutique
2009 8th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Dacha Beer Garden
Best Guys Night Out
Secrets
1824 Half St., S.W.
Runner-up: Town
Best Girls Night Out
BARE by LURe

LURe (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Every third Saturday of the month at Cobalt
1639 R St., N.W.
Runner-up: Phase 1
Best Place to Find Someone Besides Grindr
Crew Club

Crew Club (Photo by Pete Exis)
1321 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Town
Best Rehoboth Bar
Blue Moon

Blue Moon (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
35 Baltimore Ave.
Rehoboth Beach, Del.
Runner-up: Aqua
Best Rooftop
Nellieās Sports Bar

(Washington Blade photo by Hugh Clarke)
900 U St., N.W.
Runner-up: Penthouse Pool & Lounge
Best DJ
Matt Bailer

DJ Matt Bailer (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Rosie Hicks
For DJ Matt Bailer, the secret to his ongoing success boils down to the music.
āI donāt know how to throw a party per se. But I know how to play music that I love and think other people will love too.ā
His two monthly dance parties, Peach Pit and Mixtape (with co-host DJ Shea Van Horn), have been staples of gay nightlife for six and seven years respectively. While Mixtape melds new and older music and rotates venues (Black Cat, 9:30, Howard Theatre and Town), Peach Pit is strictly ā90s music and stays put at DC9.
Bailer also spins at Nellieās on Fridays, and occasionally La Boum, a boozy brunch at LāEnfant CafĆ© in Adams Morgan. Unlike DJs who use laptops, Bainer relies on CDs, so technically, yes, he spins. āI describe myself as middle school,ā Bailer says. āIām somewhere between laptop and vinyl. My favorite music includes ā90s, house, old hip hop, pop and remixes.ā
Growing up in Camp Springs, Md., Bailer was hooked on radio. At 10, he was already listening to (and recording) Casey Kasem’s American Top 40. āI loved finding new music and introducing it to my family and friends. I still do.ā
After studying theater at Duke University in North Carolina in the ā90s, Bailer spent two-and-a-half years in Los Angeles DJing some, but mostly doing drugs. He returned to D.C. and got sober in 2003. Soon after he began picking up DJ gigs at Omega, a Guess Store and recovery sober dances. Eventually he connected with Cobalt and work became steadier. In 2009, he gave up his day job at an office and hasnāt looked back since.
āToday I feel like Iām doing what Iām on the planet to do. That may change one day, but not today.ā (PF)
Best Burlesque Dancer
Private Tails

Private Tails (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: GiGi Holliday
Miss Private Tails is an international entertainer and professional ecdysiast who says her mission is to inspire and electrify. Born just outside of Hollywood, Calif., she has been performing burlesque since 2005 and has been based in D.C. for the past eight years. She is Miss Gay United States Capital City Femme Fatale (2013) and the eternal Miss Nubian DMV (2009) and was the First Miss Phase 1 (2010). She is also the regional promoter for Burlypicks, the only international talent competition focused on burlesque and variety.
Her scintillating act draws on a wide variety of influences including classical burlesque, hip-hop, boi-lesque and Broadway. She currently has more than 100 polished routines in her performance repertoire, but she also enjoys the creative process of developing new numbers and looks forward to the opportunity to whip up a fresh new performance for an enthusiastic audience. Sheās been dancing and entertaining since childhood and received a bachelorās degree in theater from Lycoming College in Williamsport, Pa., with a focus on both acting and directing.
Miss Private Tails proudly notes that she knows how to charm the large bills out of the pockets of her audience, but also notes that since burlesque is the āart of the tease,ā she doesnāt necessarily have to show a lot of skin to have an entertaining performance. In fact, she cleans it up every year as the emcee of D.C. Youth Pride every April.
You can see her at Unfastened: DC at Phase 1 on Nov. 6. (BTC)
Miss Private Tails
Best Singer or Band
Frankie & Betty

Frankie and Betty (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Tom Goss
This is the second win for the āinsanely fun queertastic groupā Frankie & Betty. The bank kicked it off four years ago when Rachel Bauchman (singer, bass, guitar) and Jessie Strick (lead guitar) met at an open mic at Phase 2. With their love of pop culture references and obnoxious jokes, the duo immediately hit it off and started performing together. Six months ago they added drummer Judy Bad to the mix.
Frankie & Betty have become active members of the D.C. music community as well as hosts for local burlesque shows. Their style is fast, fun and light. Strick says, āIt’s morphed into a really fun live show now. We love to banter and interact with the audience. We love joking around with each other and to play some fun songs in between.ā
They say their musical influences are Florence and the Machine, Le Tigre, Tegan and Sara, Feist and Santigold, but (with tongues firmly planted in cheek), they also admit that MGD, JB, PBR and OPP are major influences. Strick says a recent highlight was playing the 9:30 Club for Phasefest. āThat was by far the most exciting gig for the band to date,ā she says. āWe have all dreamed of playing that stage since we were little girls, so it was honestly a dream come true and a memory we will never forget.ā
The band has been taking a break lately to celebrate Rachelās wedding, but they will update their Facebook page when they start booking new gigs. And they offer this impish guarantee: āWe make sure that every audience member leaves a performance with a smile on their face from having been a part of both a musical and comedic experience.ā (BTC)
Frankie & Betty
Best Drag King
Avery Austin

Avery Austin (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Sebastian Katz
Avery Austin, the drag king persona of New Orleans native Anna Wimpelberg, was born in 2004 when Wimpelberg hit the drag king scene in Boston.
Since then, Wimpelberg joined Kings āN Things, an Austin, Texas drag king troupe, before moving to the District. Wimpelberg joined the now-defunct D.C. kings troupe in 2011.
She enjoys using plot lines and musicals to form her performances. She also likes to take inspiration from the television show āGleeā to create her characterās show.
When she isnāt performing, Wimpelberg is a HIV research specialist for Whitman-Walker Health. A graduate of Mount Holyoke College, she has degrees in psychology and education. (MC)
Best Drag Queen
Destiny B. Childs

Destiny B. Childs (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Summer Camp
You may have seen Destiny B. Childs (Richard Legg) performing at a number of local venues, but her act is anything but small. With stints at the Academy of Washington Inc., Ziegfeldās/Secrets and Freddieās Beach Bar, she has become a staple in the local drag community.
A Pensacola, Fla., native, Legg was stationed at Walter Reed when in the U.S. Army in 1996. He decided to stay in the area and later decided to try performing in drag in 2003. His drag mother Ophelia Bottoms (Charles McWilliams) praised his performance and with her encouragement, he continued performing.
Since then, Childs has continued performing all over the District. She regularly emcees on the main stage at Capital Pride and was Empress II in the Imperial Court of Washington two years ago. (MC)
Best Alt Party
Mixtape

Mixtape (Photo by David Claypool | kaloramaphoto.com)
Runner-up: Peach Pit
DJs Shea Van Horn and Matt Bailer host Mixtape, an alternative dance party, on the second Saturday of each month. Locations vary. The fourth annual Mixtape Halloween party is on Friday, Oct. 30 at the Howard Theatre. Itās at the 9:30 Club on Saturday, Nov. 14 and at the Black Cat on Saturday, Dec. 12.
DINING
Best Burger
Five Guys Burgers and Fries

(Photo by Ewan Munro; courtesy Flickr)
Various D.C. locations
Runner-up: Shake Shack
Best Coffee Shop
Tryst

Tryst (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
2459 18th St., N.W.
Runner-up: The Coffee Bar
Best Date Restaurant
Busboys & Poets

Busboys & Poets (Photo by Bossi; courtesy Flickr)
2021 14th St., N.W.
1025 5th St., N.W.
625 Monroe St., N.E.
Runner-up: Floriana
Best Dessert
Grassroots Gourmet

Grassroots Gourmet (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
104 Rhode Island Ave., N.W.
Runner-up: Three Fifty Bakery
Best French Restaurant
Le Diplomate

Le Diplomate (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
1601 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Bistrot Du Coin
Best Doughnut
Krispy Kreme
1350 Connecticut Ave., N.W.
Runner-up: Astro Donut
Best Ethiopian Restaurant
Dukem Ethiopian Restaurant

Dukem (Photo by trotnort; courtesy Flickr)
1114-1118 U St., N.W.
Runner-up: Ethiopie
Best Farmerās Market
Eastern Market

Eastern Market (Photo by AgnosticPreachersKid; courtesy Wikimedia Commons)
225 7th St., S.E.
Runner-up: Dupont Circle
Best Italian Restaurant
Floriana Restaurant

Floriana (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1602 17th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Red Hen
Best Pizza
&pizza
1215 Connecticut Ave., N.W.
1250 U St., N.W.
1400 K St., N.W.
Runner-up: Pizza Paradiso
Best Pricey Restaurant Thatās Totally Worth It
Palm Restaurant

The Palm (Photo by Zagat Buzz; courtesy Flickr)
1225 19th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Thai Crossing
Best Rehoboth Restaurant
Dos Locos

Drinks at Dos Locos (Photo courtesy Dos Locos)
208 Rehoboth Ave.
Rehoboth Beach, Del.
Runner-up: Blue Moon
Best Seafood Restaurant
Hankās Oyster Bar

Hank’s Oyster Bar (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
1624 Q St., N.W.
1026 King St., Alexandria, Va.
633 Pennsylvania Ave., S.E.
Runner-up: Pearl Dive Oyster Palace
Best Steak Restaurant
Annieās Paramount Steak and Seafood House

Annie’s Paramount Steak House (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
1609 17th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Ruthās Chris Steak House
Best Sushi
Sticky Rice
1224 H St., N.E.
Runner-up: Sushi Taro
Best Wine Bar
Barcelona

Barcelona (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1622 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Vinoteca
Best Restaurant Youād Wait in Line For
Roseās Luxury
Runner-up: Barcelona

Rose’s Luxury (Photo by T. Tseng; courtesy Flickr)
Just two years ago, Roseās Luxury was barely a twinkle in the eyes of D.C. diners, who were hard-pressed to understand why anyone would stand in line for up to four hours to get a table at this Capitol Hill gem.
With a 20-year lease, Roseās Luxury aims to stand the test of time and chef-owner Aaron Silverman thinks that standing in line ā that is, not taking reservations ā is the best way to make the restaurant truly open for all, since no one can book up the tables months in advance. This begs a question: Is it worth it? The simple answer: yes.
Thereās a reason why Roseās Luxury has been racking up accolades from Bon Appetit ā which named it Americaās Best New Restaurant in 2014 ā along with just about every news outlet in D.C.: the food is innovative, intelligent and undeniably special. On Roseās current menu, you might find yourself with a salad of crispy pigās ear with a fresh salsa of mango and cabbage or hand-cut chitarra, a porous pasta that holds sauce particularly well ā in this case, a soffritto of caramelized cauliflower and white wine. So, go ahead and get in line. Itāll be worth the wait ā and you can get a treat from nearby District Doughnut to munch until your tableās ready. (KH)
Roseās Luxury
717 8th St., S.E.
202-580-8889
Best Virginia Winery
Linden Vineyards
Runner-up: Breaux Vineyards
Just an hour outside the Beltway lies an oasis of peace and tranquility, along with some pretty impressive wine. This is Linden Vineyards, where, thankfully, you wonāt find buses full of tipsy tour-goers or hobby winemakers.
What you will find is Jim Law, a true working winemaker and former Peace Corps volunteer with deep roots in vineyard agriculture who is constantly tinkering with his vines in an effort to produce character-driven sauvignon blanc, riesling and chardonnay, just to name a few of the award-winning wines in its cellars. A visit to Linden is not to be undertaken lightly, and certainly not with a boisterous group of friends, as the vineyard will not accommodate groups larger than six and limits its deck and grounds on Saturdays and Sundays only to members of their Case Club (anyone who purchases a case of wine becomes a member automatically).
Whether or not you are part of the club, itās worth it to arrive in time for the 11:30 a.m. weekend tours of the cellar and vineyard, offering serious insight into the craft of winemaking, which just might make you the star of the conversation at the next dinner party ā when you arrive with, of course, a bottle or two from Lindenās cellars. (KH)
3708 Harrels Corner Rd., Linden, Va.
540-364-1997
Best Asian Restaurant
Beau Thai

Owners, from left, Ralph Brabham, Aschara Vigsittaboot and Drew Porterfield meet at the Shaw location of Beau Thai. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Thaitanic
The original location of Beau Thai opened in Shaw in 2010 under the direction of husbands Ralph Brabham and Drew Porterfield and chef Aschara Viggsittaboot with a goal to bring authentic Thai cuisine that didnāt rely on curry from a can.
Now expanded to new sites in Shaw and Mount Pleasant (with a noodle shop at the original spot on New Jersey Ave. NW), Beau Thai continues to impress diners with fresh ingredients and thoughtful preparation. Because the curry paste is actually made from scratch at Beau Thai, itās worth ordering up at least one curry for the table ā an interesting combination is the marinated duck with grapes, pineapple and tomato ā and be sure to try the Pad Thai, a classic that can sometimes be made overly sweet, ostensibly to suit the American palate, but has a tangy undertone of tamarind here. The brunch menu at the Mount Pleasant location offers some fun fusion twists on the classics, from the Egg Drop āGritsā made with Thai rice soup to the Hangover Special, a tempting concoction of fried eggs with sweet Thai sausage and taro home fries. Top it all off with a Homemade Ginger Beer, which blends a ginger-lime purĆ©e with Singha, and that hangover will be just a memory. (KH)
Beau Thai
3162 Mount Pleasant St., N.W. (Mount Pleasant)
1550 7th St., N.W., Unit A (Shaw)
202-450-5317 or 202-450-5346
Best Boozy Brunch
La Boum

La Boum (Photo courtesy of L’Enfent Cafe)
Runner-up: Level One
As they like to say at La Boum, this is not your grandmotherās brunch. No, indeed. What youāll find at La Boum, once it transforms from its slightly more staid persona as LāEnfant Cafe & Bar (think Clark Kent coming out of that phone booth dressed as Superman), is a raucous, Champagne-filled daytime house party, where the foodās OK but the alcohol is plentiful.
And, frankly, thatās not necessarily a bad way to spend a Saturday afternoon. Named one of the top 100 brunches in the country, La Boum offers two seatings on Saturdays, at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., and reservations can sometimes be booked up several weeks in advance; once you pre-pay online at $29.50 per person (which includes three courses and cover charge, but not beverages), you can just sit back and get the party started once your reservation begins. Champagne bottles arrive wrapped in flaming sparklers, eggs NorvĆ©gienne will soak up the alcohol, the DJ keeps Katy Perry and Madonna spinning, and dancing on the tables ā well, why not? (KH)
La Boum
2000 18th St., N.W.
202-319-1800
Best Local Brewery
DC Brau

D.C. Brau (Photo by Steph Harding Photo)
Runner-up: Capitol City
Itās hard to remember a time when there werenāt breweries and distilleries dotting the city, but, just a scant few years ago, D.C. was actually a hand-crafted alcohol desert. That all changed in 2009 when beer buddies Jeff Hancock and Brandon Skall decided to open the cityās first brewery in more than 50 years, locating their operations in a largely industrial neighborhood in Northeast D.C. just before the Maryland line.
First they turned out some really tasty brews that have now become mainstays in bars and grocery stores across the area, then the social media-savvy duo managed to do something pretty astonishing: They actually turned their off-the-beaten-path brewery into an unlikely weekend destination, luring food trucks, deejays and artists to create a hipsterās paradise of tastings and tours. Stop by on Friday evenings for half-priced pint night and donāt forget to wear closed-toe shoes for the free brewery tours on Saturday afternoons. (KH)
DC Brau
3178-B Bladensburg Rd., NE
202-621-8890
Best Caterer
Old Blue BBQ

Old Blue BBQ (Photo by Ella M. Photography)
Runner-up: Patrick Vanas Events
If youāre on the lookout for hosting an event with some good old Southern hospitality, Old Blue BBQ is ready to pile on the comfort food. An array of meats, including baby back ribs, brisket, salmon and tri-tip are smoked over locally sourced oak and maple ā but the grilling doesnāt stop there. Bacon-wrapped jalapeƱo poppers, smoked tomato jam crostini, smoked artichoke dip (oh yes), and even grilled fruit drizzled with white chocolate are other ways that Old Blue kicks it up a notch, taking the menu from down-home barbecue to rustic chic, whether youāre looking to host a company picnic or a family wedding. (KH)
Old Blue BBQ
4580 Eisenhower Ave.
Alexandria, Va.
703-552-4544
Best Cheap Eats
Amsterdam Falafelshop

Amsterdam Falafel (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Chipotle
Not only does Amsterdam Falafelshop keep hours that are designed to cater to bleary hungover mornings as well as late nights stumbling home from the bar, this quick-service local chain left no doubt as to who they think their clientele are when they created a pot-pairing menu and $4.20 sandwiches all in celebration of April 20.
Whatās not to love about a sandwich called the OG Kush, a combination of beets, turnips and tahini designed to complement the āwoodsy undertonesā of the OG Kush strain, a pairing said to promote a heightened sensory awareness? Whether your vice is weed or baba ganoush, Amsterdam Falafelshop has got you covered with fast falafel balls served either in pita or bowls, 22 toppings, and uber-crispy fries with a lip-smacking curried ketchup, all for less than the cost of that last cocktail you probably shouldnāt have ordered. (KH)
Amsterdam Falafelshop
2425 18th St. NW (Adams Morgan)
202-234-1969
1830 14th St. NW (Logan Circle/U Street)
202-232-6200
429 LāEnfant Plaza SW (LāEnfant Plaza)
Suite 420 Promenade
202-554-1111
Best Indian
Rasika

Rasika (Photo by David Liu; courtesy Flickr)
Runner-up: Ghar E Kabob
Thereās a good reason why Rasika chef Vikram Sunderam won a James Beard Award last year ā the flavors and textures coming from his kitchens at both the Penn Quarter and West End locations are layered yet distinct, playful yet refined, and clearly designed to make us rethink our preconceived notions about Indian food.
Youāll find no bland lentil mush here or doughy samosas; instead, look for bright splashes of saffron and fresh curry leaves, crisp shards of coconut and punches of vinegar, all hallmarks of what is probably the best Indian cuisine to be found anywhere in the United States ā and weāve got it right here in D.C. Even better, Rasika is a reasonably priced fine dining restaurant that is not stingy on its hours, being open for lunch, dinner and pretty much every holiday. It offers Sunday brunch at the West End restaurant with such delights as Coconut Jaggery Pancakes and Eggs Kejiriwal; and a chefās tasting menu that proves Indian food can be perfectly paired with fine wines instead of just Taj Mahal. (KH)
Rasika
633 D St. NW (Penn Quarter)
202-637-1222
1190 New Hampshire Ave. NW (West End)
202-466-2500
Best Food Truck
Red Hook Lobster Pound
Runner-up: Rito Loco
Thereās something about the friendly red gingham-clad exterior of the Red Hook Lobster Pound truck as it perches along the curb that just makes you want to don a bib and sink your teeth into a crustacean.
If youāre a New Englander longing for some lobstah ā or just a wannabe ā then this truck is the place to get your fix, whether itās the Connecticut-style lobster roll, a simple concoction of buttered roll filled with chunks of lobster meat spritzed with fresh lemon juice, the classic Maine lobster roll dressed in housemade mayo, or the utterly decadent lobster mac ān cheese ā and donāt forget to add Cape Cod potato chips and Maine Root Soda. Itās kind of like having a day at the shore, even if itās only 30 minutes on a bench at Farragut Square. (KH)
Red Hook Lobster Pound
Find out where the truck is on Twitter: @LobstertruckDC
202-341-6263
Best Sandwich
Taylor Gourmet

Taylor Gourmet (Photo by docmonstereyes; courtesy Flickr)
Runner-up: Sundervich
When two guys from Philly decided to open up a hoagie shop on the barely burgeoning H Street corridor back in 2008, the idea was to make really good, fresh sandwiches with homemade flair. Since then, Taylor Gourmet has expanded to 10 locations in the region, proving that apparently we were all hungry for a hoagie.
With an eye on quality, all the beef, pork, and turkey is roasted in-house, the bread is baked locally, and the Italian-style cured meats are sourced from Virginia, giving a decidedly local spin on Philadelphia-style cheesesteaks and Italian hoagies stuffed with everything from sausage, onion and peppers to hand-rolled meatballs topped with fresh marinara. While youāre there, donāt forget to order up a side of the crispy polenta fries ā you won’t regret it. (KH)
Taylor Gourmet
Ten locations across D.C., Maryland and Virginia
COMMUNITY
Best Local Blog
Popville
Runner-up: BYT
Best Local Podcast
L.A.C.E. Media Podcast

Chris Jay of L.A.C.E. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Download at iTunes
Runner-up: Jellyvision
Most Useful App
Uber
Runner-up: Waze
Best Radio Station
Hot 99.5
Runner-up: WAMU 88.5
Best Real Estate Group
David Bediz
Bediz Group
1918 18th St., N.W. Courtyard No. 2
Runner-up: The Evan and Mark Team
Best Art Gallery
The Phillips Collection
1600 21st St., N.W.
Runner-up: Corcoran Gallery of Art
Best Car Dealership
Don Beyer Volvo of Winchester
4015 Valley Pike
Winchester, Va.
Runner-up: MWS of Alexandria
Best Apartment/Condo Building
The Shay
1924 8th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Atlantic Plumbing
Best Workout Spot
VIDA Fitness

Vida Fitness (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1517 15th St., N.W.
1612 U St., N.W.
999 9th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Elevate Fitness
Best Gayborhood
Logan Circle

Logan Circle (Photo public domain)
Runner-up: 17th Street
Best Hardware Store
Logan Hardware

Logan Hardware (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1734 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Annieās Ace Hardware
Best Home Furnishings &
Best Second-Hand Stuff
Miss Pixieās Furnishings and Whatnot

Miss Pixie’s (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1626 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Hudson & Crane
Best Hotel
The W

W Hotel (Photo courtesy of the W Hotel Washington, D.C.)
515 15th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Hotel Palomar
Best LGBT Social Group
Stonewall Sports

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Gay Menās Chorus of Washington
Best LGBT Support Group &
Best Non-Profit
SMYAL

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Supporting and Mentoring Youth Advocates and Leaders
410 7th St., S.E.
Runner-up: HIPS
Best LGBT Sports Team
Washington Scandals Rugby Football Club

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Flippinā Not Trippinā
Best Pet Business
Doggy Style Bakery, Boutique & Pet Spa
1825 18th St., N.W.
Runner-up: City Dogs Rescue
Best Place to Take Kids
Smithsonianās National Zoo

(Photo by Quadell; courtesy Wikimedia Commons)
3001 Connecticut Ave., N.W.
Runner-up: Smithsonianās National Air and Space Museum
Best Salon/Spa
Logan 14

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
1314 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: Bang Salon
Best Reason to Go to Baltimore
National Aquarium

The National Aquarium in Baltimore (Photo by Andrew Horne)
501 E. Pratt St., Baltimore
Runner-up: The Hippo
Best Theater
Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts

The Kennedy Center (Photo by Steve via Wikimedia Commons)
2700 F St., N.W.
Runner-up: Studio Theatre
Best Theater Production
āDear Evan Hansenā

Laura Dreyfuss as Zoe and Ben Platt as Evan in āDear Evan Hansen.ā (Photo by Margot Schulman; courtesy Arena)
Arena Stage
1101 6th St., N.W.
Runner-up: āBook of Mormonā (Kennedy Center)
Best Vet
CityPaws Animal Hospital
1823 14th St., N.W.
Runner-up: D.C. Metrovet
Best Rehoboth Business
Bad Hair Day
20 Lake Ave.
Rehoboth Beach, Del.
Runner-up: Blue Moon
Best Local Twitter Feed
@DCHomos
Runner-up: @popville
If you want to know whatās going on in LGBT D.C., you need to follow @DCHomos on Twitter. Described as āNews, noise, food, men, sports, art, charity, fashion, TV, happy thoughts, all things gay and D.C. Sentinel, silent and sure,ā itās a delightful mĆ©lange of everything serious and sublime about the nationās capital in 140 characters or less.
The mastermind behind @DCHomos is Josie Romero. When he moved to D.C. from Miami Beach six years ago, he didnāt know anyone in town. But with his experience in the tech industry, he knew that Twitter was just starting to catch on and that D.C. was one of the first cities to embrace tweeting.
So he decided to use the new technology to help build a circle of friends. That was before Twitter had a search function, so he looked for screen names that included āD.C.ā He slowly compiled a list of kindred souls and started posting lists of local happy hours. About 18 months ago, Romero turned the feed in a different direction. He added a focus on news and social issues, especially marriage equality.
Basically, he describes the feed as āthings I share on Twitter instead of Facebook.ā He does note that the feed attracts a lot of negative feedback, which he tends to ignore.
āIāve adopted a āDonāt Feed the Trollsā policy. I try to keep things positive.ā
As of press time, @DCHomos has made more than 110,000 tweets, is following 27,300 users and has over 75,300 followers. Romero has also started live tweeting events (he had a lot of fun at the recent Reel Affirmations āParis Is Burningā mini-ball), so be sure to keep him in the loop. (BTC)
Best LGBT-Owned Business
The Organizing Agency

(Photo courtesy of the Organizing Agency)
Runner-up: Town
When out businessman Scott Roewer talks about organizing and closets, heās not necessarily talking about politics. Heās probably talking about organizing your closets to harmonize your life. As Roewer likes to point out, āanyone can organize your space, but it takes a professional to organize you.ā
After working as a music educator and an event planner, Roewer decided to apply his fervent entrepreneurial spirit and creative expertise to helping clients organize their lives. He founded the Organizing Agency in 2004 to help clients create productivity systems for their homes and offices. The Agency also provides stress-free moving planning and offers workshops on shaping spaces and managing time.
A native of Bellevue, Neb., Roewer earned his Certified Professional OrganizerĀ® designation in 2007 and is an active member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO). He is also the co-author of āGet Organized Today,ā a book about strategic organizing, and has been a contributor to Time magazine, Better Homes and Gardens, MSNBC, Today, HGTV and Martha Stewart Living.
Inspired by the excess encountered in their work, the Organizing Agency team makes giving back to the community a priority. Roewer and his staff are active supporters of the Unstoppable Foundation, Habitat for Humanity, Dress for Success and Soles4Souls. He is also a member of the Capital Area Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.
Roewer has been widely recognized for his professional and philanthropic work. In 2008Ā NAPO-Washington, D.C. awarded him with its inaugural Professional Organizer of the Year Award and in 2012 NAPO recognized him with its highest honor, the Foundersā Award. In 2011, the U.S. Air Force Thunderbirds named him Joint Base Andrewsā āHometown Hero,ā an honor that included a flight with the Thunderbirds in their F-16 Fighter Jet. (BTC)
The Organizing Agency
811 4th St., N.W., Suite1013
202-249-8330
Most LGBT-Friendly Workplace
The Raben Group

The Raben Group (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Whitman-Walker Health
The Raben Group is deeply committed to inclusion and diversity in working with clients and in managing its workplace. Founded in 2001 by former Assistant Attorney General Robert Raben, the Raben Group has grown to more than 50 employees with offices in Washington, Los Angeles and New York City.
Its mission is to identify opportunities and solve problems for clients in the corporate, nonprofit, foundation and government sectors.Ā The Raben Group is a multi-lingual, multi-cultural, diverse group of colleagues united not just by a profession, but by a common commitment to equality and justice. It brings together a diverse collection of professionals with deep roots in law and progressive public policy and works to solve complex public policy problems across a spectrum of issues.
The agencyās practice areas include strategic communications, diversity and community, and public policy advocacy, with a special emphasis on LGBT strategies. The Raben Group specializes in building bipartisan coalitions of allies (sometimes unlikely ones) to help achieve a clientās goals.
The firm is also dedicated to community service. According to its website, āWe are united not only by our interest in public policy, but by our shared values. Many of us volunteer for philanthropic organizations. Others serve on the boards of national and local non-profits. As a firm, we help organize charity events and endeavor to donate a certain amount of our time to pro bono projects.ā For example, Raben is also the founder of the March on Washington Film Festival.
And, they add, āWe always keep our sense of humor.ā Thatās what keeps a workplace fresh. (BTC)
The Raben Group
1341 G St., N.W., 5th Floor
202-466-8585
Best House of Worship
Empowerment Liberation Cathedral

Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Runner-up: Foundry United Methodist Church
The Empowerment Liberation Cathedral has grown rapidly since it was founded by the dynamic Bishop Allyson Abrams last year. (Bishop Abrams was selected as the Best Clergy and is profiled separately.)
While it is growing, the Empowerment Liberation Cathedral has found a home at the Episcopal Church of the Ascension in Silver Spring. The Rector at Ascension is the openly lesbian Rev. Joan E. Beilstein, who befriended Abrams when she resigned from her position as pastor of a Detroit church after she came out in 2013.
The Empowerment Liberation Cathedral is an inclusive, welcoming congregation open to people of all backgrounds, straight or gay. As the mission statement makes clear, āEveryone is invited to experience our worship ā no matter your gender, race, age, sexual orientation, identification, handicap or former faith background.ā The church aims to provide a sense of worthiness and acceptance to all people and to transform lives through programs, services, advocacy and community action. It is affiliated with the Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptist and the Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches.
In addition to Sunday services, the church offers a wide variety of activities. There are ministries focused on youth, seniors, singles, couples, people affected by HIV/AIDS, praise dance, music and social justice. There is also an active virtual ministry, which offers a conference call Bible study on Wednesday evenings, along with streaming services and a popular YouTube channel. Abrams has also launched a GoFundMe campaign to help spur the growth of the fledgling church. (BTC)
Empowerment Liberation Cathedral
633 Sligo Avenue, Silver Spring
240-720-7605
a&e features
Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’
Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

LOS ANGELES ā It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated āAmerican Mythā album. Sheās back to the music scene with her new album, āLucky Gift,ā an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.
The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In āLucky Gift,ā sheās getting her point across while having fun and getting glam.
We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.
Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.
“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho.
“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”
Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayās political climate.
“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community. I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”
As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.
“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants āha ā at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”
Margaretās long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā the owners of a gay bookstore ā and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.
“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”
Margaretās āLucky Giftā comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.
“It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaās] āAbracadabraā because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ābrat summer,ā that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love āLucky Giftā because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”
In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her āLive and LIVID! Tour,ā celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.
āWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatās why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā
And her message to her fans?
āWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. āAbracadabra,ā learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā
āLucky Giftāis now available on all major streaming platforms.
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Meet the people giving a voice to LGBTQ truck drivers
āLike therapy,ā finding solace in each other and the road

Before embarking on his weekly 2,000-mile trip as a truck driver, Derric Schmid sets up his smart TV and preps meals in bulk like ham and potatoes.
To some, long hours on the road away from family and friends sounds grueling. But for Schmid, itās his way of life.
āI love the freedom,ā Schmid said. āI get paid to go see the country. I’ve spent New Year’s Eve in New Orleans, I’ve spent it in St. Louis and this year I spent Christmas out in California exploring.ā
Schmid is the vice president and senior diversity officer of LGBTQ+ Truck Driver Network (TDN), a nonprofit he runs with founder Bobby Coffey-Loy. TDN aims to foster inclusivity and safety in the truck driving industry by building a supportive network of allies and queer truckers.
The organization vets companies (Schmid says he calls 50-100 per week) to understand which are committed to creating safe spaces for drivers of all backgrounds. Schmid and Coffey-Loy also host the Big Gay Trucker Podcast, where they interview people who need advice or want to discuss taboo topics.
Coffey-Loy said meeting people from different walks of life, including trans people recovering from surgeries while on the road, inspired him to create TDN.
āIt just opened me up to a whole group of people that just needed representation,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThere are groups out there on [social media] pages, but nobody actually took it as far as a nonprofit organization.ā
Coffey-Loy drives with his partner of 17 years, Ricky, for a company called Luna Lines. Together they drive about 6,000 miles a week, taking turns sleeping or keeping one another company. On Monday, they typically start a load in Jacksonville and then drive to New Mexico, Chicago, Baltimore, Tennessee and end up back home in Palm Coast, Fla., by Friday. They even pay for all their gas and food while on the road.
Doing a weekly cross-country road trip in tight quarters with your partner can be trying, and Coffey-Loy will be the first to admit that: āYour partner is someone that knows how to push your buttons faster than anybody else,ā he laughed.
But he also said starting truck driving together eight years ago is what made him and his husband closer. Before driving, he said it felt like life and jobs sometimes got in the way of their relationship. Going to trucking school together and being able to support each other on the road over the years has sparked a different kind of connection in their lives.
āWe didn’t want to be apart from each other, so that’s what made trucking work for us,ā he said.
For both Schmid and Coffey-Loy, truck driving runs in the family. Schmid, whoās been driving trucks for almost 24 years and with TDN for more than two, calls Jonestown, Pa., home āā a borough with a 2023 population of 1,645. He had three uncles and a grandfather who were truck drivers.
Coffey-Loy, born and raised in West Virginia, said his father and grandfather were truck drivers.
Continuing family tradition is respectable enough, but Coffey-Loyās mission of creating a safe and supportive space for those in the industry was unique; it was difficult for his parents to accept his identity when he first came out.
Coffey-Loyās parents passed away 11 months apart last year. He said they learned to grow to love him for who he was. When TDN started up, they became āmom and dad to everyone,ā and even invited people with no familial structure to move in with them.
At get-togethers, his dad called everyone āsweetieā or āhoneyā to be respectful since he didnāt know how everyone identified.
āWhat they’ve taught me is, if they can change their mind and they can accept everybody, anybody can,ā Coffey-Loy said. āI will cherish it forever. I miss them every day.ā
And the impact of this lesson has been tried and true. TDN attended the Mid-America Trucking Show despite receiving death threats and facing extra security measures āā yet they ran through dozens of handouts before their station even opened. Another year, they handed out condoms to promote safe sex on the road and were met with backlash āā yet they went through a whole box on the first day.
The team behind TDN may be small āā about eight people āā but Schmid said their reach is wide. Thousands of people visit their social media pages from around the world and connect with each other, including a vocal German bus driver and a man from Africa trying to create more queer visibility in his area.
Coffey-Loy said many people contact him directly for support. There was a straight man who called who had trouble balancing his home life and truck driving hours and expressed suicidal thoughts. The man said he saw Coffey-Loyās number and needed someone to talk to.
Moments like those are why Coffey-Loy emphasizes that the organization is there to support everyone, not solely the LGBTQ community. He recalled a bonfire gathering where people of different backgrounds and identities laughed and talked as friends.
āIt’s why you do what you do,ā Coffey-Loy said.
Although TDN has given many people a family away from home, it doesnāt make losing time with family and friends any easier. Coffey-Loy missed a family memberās funeral in West Virginia because he was in New Mexico and couldnāt abandon his load.
āHe had already been buried before I could get back,ā he said.
Itās a different way of life, but itās not an impossible one. Schmid calls his mom and stepfather every morning and his mom again in the evenings. He gets on group calls with friends and TDN members. On weekends, Schmid sees some friends in person for dinners, and is able to visit with his family.
Truck driving may mean frequently saying goodbye to close people in his life, but it also opens the door to new connections around the country: āI got friends in every state,ā Schmid said.
Although heās constantly traveling, Coffey-Loy always feels at home. Itās those nights driving, with nothing but the roaring hum of the road filling the silence while his husband sleeps behind him, that fulfill him.
āEven though you miss so much of your everyday life, there’s something about trucking that is so freeing,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThe road can be so loud in your life, and it has a way to really sort out things. It’s like therapy for me.ā
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Itās no wonder the camera caught actress Michele Yeoh crying after watching queer singer Cynthia Erivo (nominated for best actress) and Ariana Grande (nominated for best supporting actress) perform one of the much-loved songs from āWicked,ā as they were simply magnificent.
Grande opened with Judy Garlandās āSomewhere Over the Rainbow,ā and Erivo sang āHomeā from āThe Wiz.ā That was one of the many bright spots in the 97th annual Academy Awards, which took place Sunday night at the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood.
While the duo sadly didnāt take away any awards, the magical film did ā gay costume designer Paul Tazewell won the Oscar for Best Costume Design.
āThis is absolutely astounding,ā Tazewell enthused onstage, in his acceptance speech. āThank you Academy for this very significant honor. I’m the first Black man to receive a costume design award for my work on āWicked.ā I’m so proud of this.ā
In the pressroom, Tazewell elaborated on his well deserved win.
āThis is the pinnacle of my career. I’ve been designing costumes for over 35 years,ā he said. āMuch has been on Broadway and now into film, and the whole way through there was never a Black male designer that I saw that I could follow, that I could see as inspiration. And to realize that that’s actually me, it becomes a āWizard of Ozā moment, you know, it’s like no place like home. So to come back to the inspiration being inside of me was ā is really remarkable.ā
Tazewell said he achieved the award with the help of a lot of really amazing and talented costume artisans of all types and an amazing staff and assistants and crew.
āBecause, you know, there’s no way for me to do it alone! And that also is my greatest joy ā to be collaborating with other very talented artists, so I respect what that artistry is, and I share this with them because I value what their input is.ā
The veteran costume designer knew the movie was going to be pretty spectacular, but he was āabsolutely blown away,ā because of their approach.
āWe were working on two films at the same time. It wasn’t until I actually saw a pretty complete cut that I actually experienced the journey that we have created for audiences. And so, to experience that āI was beside myself. And it defined why I do costume design, why I am a costume designer.ā
āWickedā also won the Oscar for Best Production Design.
āEmilia PĆ©rez,ā Netflixās mesmerizing Spanish language, trans crime musical, had a whopping 13 nominations, with first-time nominee Karla Sofia GascĆ³n making history as the first trans woman to be nominated for best actress. This would have been the most nominated foreign film in the history of the Academy Awards.
Unfortunately, after the controversy surrounding her past tweets, the film only won two awards: for best supporting actress (Zoe Saldana) and best original song (āEl Malā).
While the U.S. is in an era of anti-trans political maneuvering, Sunday nightās broadcast included no mention of trans people.
In the pressroom, during an interview with āEmiliaā composers ClĆ©ment Ducol, Camille, and director Jacques Audiard, a journalist asked if anyone wanted to address what was happening.
Speaking in French via a translator, Audiard said, āSince I didn’t win Best Film or Best Director, I didn’t have the opportunity to speak, but had I had that opportunity, I would have spoken up.ā
SaldaƱa, who starred as Rita, a lawyer who gets enmeshed with the trans cartel leader’s transition, was thrilled to win.
āI am floored by this honor. Thank you to the Academy for recognizing the quiet heroism and the power in a woman like Rita. And talking about powerful women, my fellow nominees, the love and community that you have offered me is a true gift, and I will pay it forward. Thank you so much Jacques Audiard, you are forever a beloved character in my life. Thank you for taking the interest, thank you for being so curious about these women to tell this story to my cast and my crew of āEmilia PĆ©rez.āā
SaldaƱaās nephew is trans; a few weeks ago, while winning the best supporting actress at the BAFTAs, she told journalists that she was dedicating the award to him.
āIām dedicating all of these awards and the film āEmilia PĆ©rezā to my nephew, Eli. He is the reason ā they are the reason ā I signed up to do this film in the first place,ā she said. āSo as the proud aunt of a trans life, I will always stand with my community of trans people.ā
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