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Promotion for Braeu; Rev. Berger leaving D.C.

The ‘Comings & Goings’ column chronicles important life changes of Blade readers.
The Comings & Goings column is about sharing the professional successes of our community. We want to recognize those landing new jobs, new clients for their business, joining boards of organizations and other achievements. Please share your successes with us at [email protected].
Congratulations to J. James Braeu who has been named by Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage as the new branch vice president of the company’s Arlington office, where he will lead 35 independent sales associates. Braeu has more than 11 years of experience in real estate. Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage, Mid-Atlantic is a leading residential real estate company with 31 sales and resort rental locations and more than 2,250 sales associates serving the communities of Baltimore, Washington, D.C. and the Maryland and Delaware beaches.

J. James Braeu (Photo courtesy of Braeu)
Braeu began his affiliation with Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage in its Dupont/Logan office in 2005. His knowledge of the area stems from having been a resident for 28 years. He specialized in home and condominium sales, and has been recognized as a top sales agent throughout his tenure there. Upon learning of his new appointment, Braeu said, “I’m truly excited and looking forward to my role as branch vice president for such an incredibly dynamic and talented group of agents. My experience in recruiting, business planning and providing professional development will be very helpful in supporting the Arlington office.”
Before entering the real estate field in D.C., James had a background in sales and management with a 12-year career in full-service catering sales and event planning in the metro area. He grew up in a construction development and real estate family in northern California, establishing his passion for real estate at an early age. Braeu graduated from California State University, Chico in 1988 with degrees in International Relations, European Studies, German and French.
Congratulations are also due to well-known interfaith minister and LGBT activist Rev. Bonnie J. Berger who has announced she is leaving the area after living here since 1984. She and her partner of 10 years will be making Chapel Hill, N.C. their new home.
Upon making the announcement, Berger said, “Yes, I still find it hard to believe that we are moving to the land of HB2 and no LGBT discrimination protections. We are moving there with eyes and hearts wide open. Spirit calls us on many different journeys. North Carolina could definitely use more love and light to counteract the political foolishness that is taking place there. We are prepared to be those beacons.” Berger’s partner is also an interfaith minister.
Berger added, “I had thought that in these later years I might slow down a bit. But clearly spirit has other ideas in mind. More than ever we need to be celebrating love. I see my move there as a wonderful way to continue to lift the love of our community.” She plans to work for the repeal of HB2 and for the defeat of the N.C. governor in addition to continuing to marry both gay and straight couples.
Bonnie officiated the first gay wedding on the courthouse plaza in D.C. the day it became legal. Since then, she has taken part in more than 700 ceremonies.
A Takoma Park resident, Berger spent many years working for LGBT equality. She was one of the founders of the Free State Justice Campaign that was the predecessor to Equality Maryland. She was also the first open lesbian to serve on a number of Montgomery County boards including the Human Rights Commission, the Police Chiefs Advisory Council, the Partnership Board for Victims of Hate/Violence, and the ACLU. In 2001 she was in the first group of county residents to be inducted into the Human Rights Hall of Fame.

Rev. Bonnie J. Berger (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)
The Comings & Goings column is about sharing the professional successes of our community. We want to recognize those landing new jobs, new clients for their business, joining boards of organizations and other achievements. Please share your successes with us at [email protected].
The Comings & Goings column also invites LGBTQ college students to share their successes with us. If you have been elected to a student government position, gotten an exciting internship, or are graduating and beginning your career with a great job, let us know so we can share your success.
Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
