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QUEERY: Mark Hunker

The Duplex Diner co-owner answers 20 gay questions

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Mark Hunker (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

July 20 is a big day for Duplex Diner (2004 18th St., N.W.) as the beloved D.C. gay institution celebrates its 20th anniversary.

DJ Chord, one of the original DJs, will return with surprise guests, a drag performance, drink specials and more. An ’80s party is planned for Saturday, July 21 with DJs Khelan and Adam. Or stop by anytime on Sunday, July 22 for a 20th anniversary brunch celebration going on all day. Full details at duplexdiner.com.

Mark Hunker splits his working life as co-owner of JAM Holdings (which includes Duplex Diner, Red White & Basil and two Delaware restaurants) and Victor42, an IT defense contracting firm. He went to Duplex on its second day of operation and quickly became a regular. Though not the original owners, he and co-owner Jeff McCracken were Thursday regulars and watched it evolve over time. They bought the business in 2014.

“It’s where I grew up, met lifelong friends and dated,” Hunker says. He and husband Jeff Shields Hunker were married there in 2010.

Hunker and McCracken plan the menus, drinks lists, designs and social media of their four restaurants. Kelly Lascko oversees the day-to-day operations. There are 27 on staff including Jesse Tyler and Nico Mendez, who’ve been there the whole 20 years. Just shy of them at 19 years are Nicole Parisi, Kate Gibbs and Salvador Blanco.

“It was the right place at the right time,” the 52-year-old Bronx native says. “You went there to be yourself and to let your hair down without fear. It was a judgment-free zone where you enjoyed a burger, pickles and fries and learned to love vodka.”

Hunker came to Washington almost 30 years ago with family and to attend the University of Maryland. His family, including 12-year-old daughter Samantha, split their time between Adams Morgan and Rehoboth Beach, Del.

Hunker enjoys sports, cooking, reading and the beach in his free time.

 

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I have been out a very long time, mostly since going to culinary school and to a few close friends and my mom as I left high school. My dad, who was a cop in New York, was the hardest to tell, but it wound up being a lot of worrying for nothing.

 

Who’s your LGBT hero?

Harvey Milk has always been a hero for me. I was old enough to know why he was murdered and grew up to learn that his words and actions opened the doors for a future career in politics for me.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

The Duplex Diner on a Thursday night. And if I had a time machine, Tracks still holds a special place in my heart.

Describe your dream wedding.

I had a dream wedding in Rehoboth. About 130 family and friends from all over the country came to watch us get married at JAM Bistro under a chuppah by a local rabbi and then we had a loud party across the street at Eden Restaurant. Our daughter was our flower girl, we had a first dance, dances with parents, we were lifted on chairs and cut the cake. An amazing sign of how things have really changed — my husband who was raised Catholic had all five of his siblings and all 10 nieces and nephews attend.

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

Gun violence, especial in schools. As a parent you worry every day when you drop her off at school.

 

What historical outcome would you change?

Besides the Holocaust, Trump’s election in 2016. I have worked in democratic politics for many years and was an appointee for all eight years in the Clinton administration. I know what solid leadership looks like and I know policies and law can be written that benefit the many, and I know the consequences to the country when they are written for the few.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

I have two: The March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation in Washington on April 25, 1993. The Inaugural Display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt on the National Mall in on October 11, 1987.

 

On what do you insist?

Paramount for me are loyalty and respect. Giving and getting. But a nice car, designer sunglasses and good shoes don’t hurt.

 

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

@realDonaldTrump hey loser, those crowds in London were way, way bigger than your inauguration!! So much bigger!

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“Can You Believe This Is My Life?”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Nothing. I am who I was meant to be.

 

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

I believe there is something out there after we are done here. I don’t have a name for it nor can I visualize it. As I get older I give more credence to the thought or hope of more than the physical.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

Stay awake and don’t panic! Do what got us here. Talk to people’s humanity and focus locally. Start at the local level of politics and policy and build it solidly from there.

 

What would you walk across hot coals for?

My daughter. Full stop.

 

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

That we don’t like sports. Those who foster this stereotype should come to the Duplex on a Saturday or Sunday and see how many fans and followers of the NFL, MLB, NHL, NBA and the NCAA we have.

 

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

Tie: “My Own Private Idaho” and “Beautiful Thing”

 

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Seniority. A lot of really good ideas and strong leaders are missed along the way waiting for them to climb through the ranks.

 

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

A Michelin star.

 

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

That the life I currently have was possible. That acceptance in the workplace and community would happen, best friends would be made and kept, becoming a father would be an option and being married to someone would be old hat.

Why Washington?

I came here to do what I needed to do, finish college and work in politics. I stay because it’s home. I’m a New Yorker and you know how we can be about our city, but Washington is my city now. It’s where my friends are, my passions are and most of all it’s where the people I love are.

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Summer in the City: Free exhibits, movies, more fill D.C.’s calendar

America 250 celebrations continue

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Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande star in ‘Wicked,’ screening Sept. 12 at Union Market. (Photo courtesy of Universal Pictures)

From late-night museum visits and outdoor jazz concerts to free movie screenings and America250 exhibitions, Washington’s summer calendar is packed with events that don’t charge admission. Here’s a look at some of the free activities happening across the District through September and beyond.

Museum exhibitions

The Renwick Gallery is presenting State Fairs: Growing American Craft, an exhibition that looks at unique and unconventional crafts from the 19th century to the present. It will run until Sept. 7, and admission is free. 

The Arts and Industries Building, located next to the Smithsonian Castle, is presenting the exhibition Voices and Votes: Exploring Democracy Across America. The exhibition features the development of American independence and what that has meant over time, beginning with the Revolutionary War. Admission to the museum is free, and the exhibition runs until Sept. 7.

The National Gallery of Art presents Dear America, an exhibit featuring more than 100 pieces of work, including letters, photographs, and drawings that depict American landscapes and depictions of freedom. The exhibition will run until Sept. 20.

The National Museum of Women in the Arts is exhibiting Burnished: Pueblo Pottery until Sept. 27. The exhibit features pottery from the Southwest, and while most of the pottery belongs to women artists, a few also reflect those who have advocated for women.

Extending past this summer, the exhibition ¡Puro Ritmo! The Musical Journey of Salsa will be at the National Museum of the American Latino until July 2028. The exhibition shows how Afro-Cuban music has become a staple in the U.S. Admission is free.

The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library will feature the exhibition District Vibes / American Pride: How DC Changed American Culture, which will highlight all of the ways D.C. has impacted American life. The exhibit will run until Sept. 27.

At the Folger Shakespeare Library, the exhibit Imagining Shakespeare: Mythmaking and Storytelling in the Regency Era will be on view through Aug. 2. All the portraits on display come from the Boydell Shakespeare Gallery in London.

The United States Botanic Garden will be open until 8 p.m. on Aug. 20 and Sept. 17, as part of America’s State Flowers: An America250 Celebration. The evenings will include live music, mocktails, ice cream, and snacks.

The National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden will have extended hours, staying open until 8 p.m. Wednesday to Saturday until Sept. 3. 

Live performances

On Aug. 7, the postgame Nationals concert series will continue with Jordan Davis performing. To see the concert, guests just need to buy tickets to the Nationals game. 

Jazz in the Garden will run each Friday until Aug. 14. The event has free admission, but those interested have to enter a lottery due to the high demand for the event.

From May to October, Capital Harvest Market occurs every Wednesday from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Ronald Reagan Building and International Trade Center. The market features fresh foods, crafts, and recipes for unique dishes. A full list of vendors is available on Capital Harvest’s website.

Live! Concert Series on the Plaza will feature live performances at Woodrow Wilson Plaza until Sept. 25. The performances run Monday to Friday from 12-1 p.m. Admission is free to the performances. 

DowntownDC Live! at Anthem Row is running until July 30, with free performances every Thursday from 5:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The final performance will feature HUE and a vintage flea market hosted by Get Flee Marketplace. 

Located in Adams Morgan, AdMo Vibe will present live performances every Thursday at 6 p.m. in Kalorama Park. Guests are encouraged to check out Adams Morgan before and after shows, and it is an event for all ages.

Other events

Union Market is hosting drive-in movies on Aug. 8, featuring “Monsters, Inc.”, and Sept. 12, featuring “Wicked.” On Aug. 8, the parking lot will open at 7:30 p.m., with the movie starting at 8:25 p.m. On Sept. 12, the parking lot will open at 6:35 p.m., and the movie will start at 7:30 p.m.

Sunset Cinema at the Wharf will also be available one day a month. On Aug. 12, “10 Things I Hate About You” will premiere, and on Aug. 26, “Project Hail Mary.” No tickets are necessary. 

The Library of Congress will also show movies. On Aug. 6, guests are invited to watch “Apollo 13.” The movie will be shown at 8 p.m., with additional live performances beginning at 7 p.m.

For fans of Asian media, the Okaton convention will be at Walter E. Washington Convention Center from July 31-Aug. 2. Festivities will include cosplay contests, skits, live music, and panel discussions.

Washington Spirit’s season also begins in August. The Spirit is Washington’s National Women’s League, with matchups occurring between the San Diego Wave, the North Carolina Courage, the Orlando Pride, and the Bay FC.

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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more

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Washington Spirit CEO Kim Stone hosts Pride Night OUT on Sunday, Aug. 23. (Photo courtesy of Washington Spirit)

Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.

Dining

Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.

New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:

  • Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
  • The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
  • Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
  • Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.

Sports

  • Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements. 
  • Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.

Festivals

  • Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
  • Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods. 
  • The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
  • All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
  • Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.

Art and Music

  • United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club. 
  • The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
  • Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
  • ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
  • 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
  • Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
  • Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event

Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema

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Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.

Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.

 O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.

 “I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”

O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.

“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”

The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination. 

The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.

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