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QUEERY: Avi Strausberg
The Hadar Institute rabbi answers 20 gay questions

Passover, Rabbi Avi Strausberg says, is a time in which storytelling is used to “help shape our personal and communal narratives.”
That’s one of the purposes of the National Rainbow Seder, a chance for Jews to connect to tradition, to bring their own voices and identities to the conversation and build community.
“It’s a chance to see and be seen, to have fun, to be reflective about why we tell the stories we tell and what that means for identity,” Strausberg says. “To work toward redemption and liberation together.”
The 12th annual National Rainbow Seder is hosted by GLOE (GLBTQ Outreach & Engagement at the Edlavitch D.C.-JCC) and is Sunday, April 14 from 5-8 p.m. at the HRC building (1640 Rhode Island Ave., N.W.).
The National Rainbow Seder is one of the largest and longest-running Passover Seder events for the queer Jewish community and its allies nationally. This year’s program will feature a full Passover Seder with specially crafted Haggadah (the Jewish text containing the Passover story). Mensch tickets are $54, general admission is $36 and seniors/students are $28. Details and tickets at thejdc.convio.net.
Strausberg is director of national learning initiatives at Hadar, an institute that empowers Jews to “create and sustain vibrant, practicing, egalitarian communities of Torah, Avodah and Hesed. The 36-year-old Ocean Township, N.J., native came to Washington last July to work at Hadar and find new adventures.
She and wife Chana Kupetz are the parents of Ori (age 4) and Niv (age 1). They live in Adams Morgan. Strausberg enjoys time with her kids, exploring coffee and cupcake shops and haikus in her free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I never had a classic coming-out moment. I fell in love with my best friend in college. I just shared with my family that my once platonic best friend had become my girlfriend. I’m fortunate that my friends and family have all been completely supportive.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Rabbi Benay Lappe, the founder and Rosh Yeshiva of Svara, a traditionally radical yeshiva (school of Jewish learning) dedicated to the serious study of Talmud through the lens of queer experiences. Rabbi Lappe has a created a place and a home that raises up the voices of many who might otherwise feel marginalized in our tradition and an approach to Jewish learning that is compassionate, critical and courageous.
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
As the parent of two small children, I confess to spending little time out at night. I do love a good cupcake or sandwich cookie at Baked and Wired in Georgetown.
Describe your dream wedding.
I am blessed to be married to my best friend and partner in life. We were married in an intimate ceremony, surrounded by friends, by a rabbi that we both deeply respect with delicious, wholesome food. I suppose the dream aspect of the wedding would be to get married in some place very aesthetically beautiful, maybe Union Station or the Museum of Science and Industry in Boston.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Respecting and elevating the dignity of all people. Feminism. Anti-racism. Egalitarianism. Lots of isms.
What historical outcome would you change?
Any mass genocide.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Does AOL count as pop culture? I find myself thinking about AOL’s “you’ve got mail,” chats rooms and the sound of a dial-up modem recently.
On what do you insist?
Clear, open, honest, vulnerable communication.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
If one studies a page of Talmud a day, you can learn the whole Talmud in seven-and-a-half years in an international cycle called Daf Yomi (the daily page). I’m over six years into this cycle and each day after I learn the daily page, I write and post a haiku on Facebook and Twitter that attempts to encapsulate a nugget of learning from the day. Today’s haiku was my most recent post!
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“InSeventeen: A Life in Haiku”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Nothing
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Partnership, love, kindness
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Stay strong, take care of yourself, have patience. I have incredible admiration for the people fighting for the LGBT movement, all of its huge and small incremental changes, day in and day out. I owe a great debt to you and I’m grateful.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
My kids
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
The idea that all people who identify as LGBT are defined mainly by their identity as gay. This is one aspect of many aspects of my identity.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
Let’s go with a TV show and say “The L Word.”
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Apologizing too much for things for which we shouldn’t apologize.
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Perfect 300 bowler. Nowhere near this one.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
Don’t waste time being shy and self-conscious.
Why Washington?
We’ve only been in here a short time but we’ve already met great friends and found great Jewish community. We’re loving the city for its coffee, its sweet treats, its culture and museums. There’s so much to do and we’re looking forward to many years of planting roots.
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Summer in the City: Free exhibits, movies, more fill D.C.’s calendar
America 250 celebrations continue
From late-night museum visits and outdoor jazz concerts to free movie screenings and America250 exhibitions, Washington’s summer calendar is packed with events that don’t charge admission. Here’s a look at some of the free activities happening across the District through September and beyond.
Museum exhibitions
The Renwick Gallery is presenting State Fairs: Growing American Craft, an exhibition that looks at unique and unconventional crafts from the 19th century to the present. It will run until Sept. 7, and admission is free.
The Arts and Industries Building, located next to the Smithsonian Castle, is presenting the exhibition Voices and Votes: Exploring Democracy Across America. The exhibition features the development of American independence and what that has meant over time, beginning with the Revolutionary War. Admission to the museum is free, and the exhibition runs until Sept. 7.
The National Gallery of Art presents Dear America, an exhibit featuring more than 100 pieces of work, including letters, photographs, and drawings that depict American landscapes and depictions of freedom. The exhibition will run until Sept. 20.
The National Museum of Women in the Arts is exhibiting Burnished: Pueblo Pottery until Sept. 27. The exhibit features pottery from the Southwest, and while most of the pottery belongs to women artists, a few also reflect those who have advocated for women.
Extending past this summer, the exhibition ¡Puro Ritmo! The Musical Journey of Salsa will be at the National Museum of the American Latino until July 2028. The exhibition shows how Afro-Cuban music has become a staple in the U.S. Admission is free.
The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library will feature the exhibition District Vibes / American Pride: How DC Changed American Culture, which will highlight all of the ways D.C. has impacted American life. The exhibit will run until Sept. 27.
At the Folger Shakespeare Library, the exhibit Imagining Shakespeare: Mythmaking and Storytelling in the Regency Era will be on view through Aug. 2. All the portraits on display come from the Boydell Shakespeare Gallery in London.
The United States Botanic Garden will be open until 8 p.m. on Aug. 20 and Sept. 17, as part of America’s State Flowers: An America250 Celebration. The evenings will include live music, mocktails, ice cream, and snacks.
The National Gallery of Art Sculpture Garden will have extended hours, staying open until 8 p.m. Wednesday to Saturday until Sept. 3.
Live performances
On Aug. 7, the postgame Nationals concert series will continue with Jordan Davis performing. To see the concert, guests just need to buy tickets to the Nationals game.
Jazz in the Garden will run each Friday until Aug. 14. The event has free admission, but those interested have to enter a lottery due to the high demand for the event.
From May to October, Capital Harvest Market occurs every Wednesday from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. at the Ronald Reagan Building and International Trade Center. The market features fresh foods, crafts, and recipes for unique dishes. A full list of vendors is available on Capital Harvest’s website.
Live! Concert Series on the Plaza will feature live performances at Woodrow Wilson Plaza until Sept. 25. The performances run Monday to Friday from 12-1 p.m. Admission is free to the performances.
DowntownDC Live! at Anthem Row is running until July 30, with free performances every Thursday from 5:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. The final performance will feature HUE and a vintage flea market hosted by Get Flee Marketplace.
Located in Adams Morgan, AdMo Vibe will present live performances every Thursday at 6 p.m. in Kalorama Park. Guests are encouraged to check out Adams Morgan before and after shows, and it is an event for all ages.
Other events
Union Market is hosting drive-in movies on Aug. 8, featuring “Monsters, Inc.”, and Sept. 12, featuring “Wicked.” On Aug. 8, the parking lot will open at 7:30 p.m., with the movie starting at 8:25 p.m. On Sept. 12, the parking lot will open at 6:35 p.m., and the movie will start at 7:30 p.m.
Sunset Cinema at the Wharf will also be available one day a month. On Aug. 12, “10 Things I Hate About You” will premiere, and on Aug. 26, “Project Hail Mary.” No tickets are necessary.
The Library of Congress will also show movies. On Aug. 6, guests are invited to watch “Apollo 13.” The movie will be shown at 8 p.m., with additional live performances beginning at 7 p.m.
For fans of Asian media, the Okaton convention will be at Walter E. Washington Convention Center from July 31-Aug. 2. Festivities will include cosplay contests, skits, live music, and panel discussions.
Washington Spirit’s season also begins in August. The Spirit is Washington’s National Women’s League, with matchups occurring between the San Diego Wave, the North Carolina Courage, the Orlando Pride, and the Bay FC.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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