Books
Tom of Finland bio reveals dangers of creating erotic art
Secret work depicted masculine lumberjacks, soldiers


āTom of Finland: The Official Life and Work of a Gay Heroā
By F. Valentine Hooven III
c.2020, Cernunnos
$50.00/295 pages
Sometimes, you can’t worry about other people’s thoughts.
You can listen to them but you don’t have to hear them because there are days when making yourself happy supersedes any outside opinion, when you need to pay closer attention to you. As in the new biography “Tom of Finland” by F. Valentine Hooven III, sometimes what makes you joyful today can become a calling.
Born in the mid-spring of 1920 in Kaarina, Finland, young Touko Laaksonen was raised in a community of lumberjacks and farmers. He was fascinated by those “well-muscled laborers” but he didn’t quite know why until he was an adolescent.
By the time Touko understood that he was homosexual, he’d become talented at sketching the men he saw although, purely for his own enjoyment and sexual relief, he depicted those men naked and for that, he had to hide his work. He hid who he was, too: as a young man, he had a girlfriend, worked in a male-dominated world of advertising, and even served in the Finnish army during World War II, where he sketched his uniformed “buddies” as gifts for their wives and girlfriends.
Uniforms. Touko couldn’t resist a man wearing one, and they were featured in what he called “my dirty drawings.” Those drawings included uniformed Nazi officers, artwork that got Touko “into trouble,” but had he gotten caught in his habit of having illegal, exceedingly risky anonymous sex with random men during the war, it could have been far worse.
Post-war, art was enough for Touko the sexual being. Though he had a lover (a word he claimed to dislike), art was again his release, more than any other physical act. This desire for erotica grew his portfolio throughout the 1950s, and he carefully shared it with “anyone he thought would appreciate it” ā including a publisher of a new kind of international magazine, who immediately accepted it for publication.
A year later, that magazine’s cover featured “a new, exciting, never-before-published artist” who now called himself Tom of Finland.
Let’s acknowledge this up front: “Tom of Finland” is absolutely filled with reproductions of Tom’s artwork from the 1940s through 1991, when he died. Nearly every bit of it’s explicit in nature, drawn in typical over-the-top, over-endowed Tom of Finland style.
That artwork is why readers should turn their eyes away, and toward the narrative.
Author F. Valentine Hooven III explains quite often in this biography ā which was finished just before Tom’s death but never before published ā how dangerous the mere creation of his art was for Tom of Finland: literally, many times, the drawings could have gotten him jailed or killed. This changes the meaning of the artwork, and it gives modern readers a sense of the amount of secret-keeping a gay man had to abide, pre-Stonewall.
Though Hooven’s voice can be annoyingly sunny at times, the courageous turn this story takes is irresistibly appealing, so find it. Savor it once, first, for the artwork; then, for a story that’ll fascinate you. Indeed, “Tom of Finland” will make you happy.
Books
Bookstores full of LGBTQ-themed new releases
Novels, memoirs, and even a George Takei biography

Springtime, where the livinā is already easy, the sun is warm, the fun is just starting, and the bookstores are full of great new releases like these.
NOVELS
For the reader who wants a thriller with a tinge of realism, look for āSleeping Children: A Novelā by Anthony Passeron, translated by Frank Wynne (FSG, $27). The year is 1981, and American doctors are baffled by the presence of a disease thatās been popping up. How curious. Across the ocean, French doctors are also seeing the same confusing disease but Passeronās family ā his entire village, in fact ā is dealing with addiction in addition to whatever illness is striking gay men. Yes, this is a novel. Keep telling yourself that. Out April 29.
If youāre up for a little romance this summer (and who isnāt?), then look for āPioneer Summer: A Novelā by Kateryna Sylvanova and Elena Malisova, translated by Anne O. Fisher (Abrams, $27). Itās the story of Yurka, a wild child whoās afraid his time at summer camp is about to be filled with boredom ā until he meets Volodya, whoās nothing at all like Yurka. Whatās that they say about how opposites attract? This book is said to have been banned in Russia, where the authors are TikTok āsensations.ā Out June 3.
So youāre the type who judges a book by its title. Then meet āEveryone Sux But You,ā a graphic novel by K. Wroten (Henry Holt, $27.99). Itās a tale of a girl who doesnāt give a, well, you know, about anything but mosh pits, dancing, and her BFF. The two have particularly bonded over a deep loss and that doesnāt help their dark outlook but sometimes, you have to see the bright side of life to really live. Out May 20.
MEMOIRS
Fans of Star Trek or of actor George Takei will absolutely want āIt Rhymes with Takeiā (Top Shelf Productions, $29.99). Itās a graphic memoir that tells Takeiās story, from childhood to adulthood, about being in the closet for most of his life, and how coming out at age 68 was such a revolution for him. But itās more than a biography; this book also helps readers understand what it was like to be gay for most of the 20th century and why itās important to know. Out June 10.
Hereās another must-have for TV watchers: āSo Gay for You: Friendship, Found Family, and the Show That Started It Allā by Kate Moennig and Leisha Hailey (St. Martinās Press, $32). This is the story of two women, a show that might have bombed (hint: it didnāt), and the making of a beautiful friendship. If youāre a fan of āThe L Word,ā the other word youāll use with this book is L-ove. Out June 3
One more, for TV fans: āYet Here I Am: Lessons from a Black Manās Search for Homeā by Jonathan Capehart (Grand Central, $30) is a biography from the MSNBC host and member of the Washington Post editorial board. Itās Capehartās story of fitting in, finding his way to success, and standing with feet in two different worlds. Out May 20.
NONFICTION
If youāre already eyeballing the idea of eating al fresco, then you must read āDining Out: First Dates, Defiant Nights, and Last Call Disco Fries at Americaās Gay Restaurantsā by Erik Piepenburg (Grand Central, $30). Once upon a time, meeting new people wasnāt just done in bars or nightclubs. Piepenburg says that even a century ago, gay restaurants were great places to make new friends, find new loves, and have a good meal, too. This fascinating book takes you around the country and through the decades, and itās a fun, fun read. Out June 3.
And when times are bad and youāre feeling low, youāll want to pick up āGeneration Queer: Stories of Youth Organizers, Artists, and Educatorsā by Kimm Topping and Anshika Khullar (Lee & Low, $22.95). Itās full of inspiring stories of young people, teen leaders, under-30 folks who want to represent and make change. The short biographies in this book are quick to read and theyāll help you understand that the next generation is not about to let things slide backwards. Out May 27.
If these great books arenāt enough for you, be sure to talk to your favorite bookseller or librarian. There are lots of books out this spring and coming for summer, and youāre not going to want to miss them.
Books
A taste for the macabre with a side order of sympathy
New book āThe Lambā is for fans of horror stories

āThe Lamb: A Novelā
By Lucy Rose
c.2025, Harper
$27.99/329 pages
Whatās for lunch?
You probably know at breakfast what youāreĀ havingĀ a few hoursĀ later. Maybe breast of chicken in tomato sauce. Barbecued ribs, perhaps? Leg of lamb, beef tongue, pickled pigsā feet, liver and onions, the possibilities areĀ justĀ menus away. Or maybe, as in the new book,Ā āThe Lambā by Lucy Rose,Ā youāll settle for a rump roast and a few lady fingers.

Margot was just four years old when she noticed the mold on the shower walls, and wondered what it might taste like. She also found fingers in the shower drain from the last āstray,ā the nails painted purple, and she wondered why they hadnāt been nibbled, too.
Cooked right, fingers and rumps were the best parts.
Later, once Margot started school, Mama depended on her to bring strays from the woods to their cottage, and Mama would give them wine and warm them up. She didnāt often leave the house unless it was to bury clothing and bones, but she sometimes welcomed a gardener who was allowed to leave. There was a difference, you see, between strays and others.
But Eden? Margot couldnāt quite figure her out.
She actually liked Eden, who seemed like a stray but obviously wasnāt. Eden was pretty; she never yelled at Margot, although she did take Margotās sleeping spot near Mama. Eden made Mama happy; Margot could hear them in the bedroom sometimes, making noises like Mama did when the gardener visited. Eden was a very good cook. She made Mama softer, and she made promises for better times.
And yet, things never got better. Margot was not supposed to call attention to herself, but she wanted friends and a real life. If she was honest, she didnāt want to eat strays anymore, either, she was tired of the pressure to bring home dinner, and things began to unravel. Maybe Mama didnāt love Margot anymore. Maybe she loved Eden better or maybe Mama just ached from hunger.
Because you know what they say: twoās company, threeās a meal.
Not a book to read at lunch? No, probably not ā although once you become immersed in āThe Lamb,ā itāll be easy to swallow and hard to put down.
For sure, author Lucy Rose presents a somewhat coming-of-age chiller with a gender-twisty plot line here, and while itās occasionally a bit slow and definitely cringey, itās also really quite compelling. Rose actually makes readers feel good about a character who indulges in something so entirely, repulsively taboo, which is a very surprising ā but oddly satisfying ā aspect of this unique tale. Readers, in fact, will be drawn to the character Margoās innocence-turned-eyes-wide-open and it could make you grow a little protective of her as she matures over the pages. That feeling plays well inside the story and it makes the will-they-wonāt-they ending positively shivery.
Bottom line, if you have a taste for the macabre with a side order of sympathy, then āThe Lambā is your book and donāt miss it. Fans of horror stories, this is a novel youāll eat right up.
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Books
Jennifer Finney Boylan busts through hate with āCleavageā
Bestselling author, scholar promoted latest book in D.C. in February

When bestselling author Jennifer Finney Boylan came to D.C. earlier this month to promote her new memoir, āCleavage,ā she chose an on-stage partner with whom she has some history, to pose questions before a gaggle of book lovers, members of the LGBTQ community and fans. Transgender Delaware Congresswoman Sarah McBride provided a bookend of sorts, given that Boylan fulfilled that same role when McBride published her first memoir, āTomorrow Will Be Different.ā
āJenny moderated the first discussion when my book came out in 2018 at the Strand in New York City,ā McBride said. āAnd I was star-struck. I was intimidated, because you were, really, for me, the first contemporary example of a trans person that wasn’t, as you write about in this book, on āJerry Springer.ā Being exploited.ā
āAnd that’s the hardest thing, I think, that some of us experience when we were growing up,ā said Boylan. āAt least for me, it was, I almost never saw anybody like me on TV or in the movies. And if there was anyone even vaguely like me, they were usually either a villain or someone who was a figure of ridicule. Thank goodness all that has changed!ā The crowd laughed along, knowingly.
But it was not just McBride who joined Boylan in the Politics and Prose bookstore at the Wharf. They were joined by other trans trailblazers: Activist Mara Keisling, Adm. (ret.) Rachel Levine, former Department of Defense official Amanda Simpson and journalist and activist Charlotte Clymer.Ā
This event was just one stop on a whirlwind national tour to promote Boylanās book, featuring Roxane Gay in New York, WBUR senior arts and culture reporter Cristela Guerra in Cambridge, and other stops with celebrity guests from Maine to Santa Cruz, Calif.
Boylan has explained at each stop what compelled her to write a sequel to her bestselling first memoir, āSheās Not There: A Life in Two Genders,ā from 2003.
āIf you’re a writer, stories are my bread and butter,ā she said. āAnd there are a lot of stories I haven’t told. There are also some stories I wanted to revisit.ā
āCleavage,ā she revealed, was to acknowledge that things have changed since she told the world she was trans.
āOne of the stories I wanted to look at was the difference between coming out now and coming out 25 years ago,ā said Boylan. āI have a transgender daughter. She came out six or seven years ago. And how did I react? I freaked out. Did I put my arms around my child and say, āLove will prevail?ā No. I remember literally jolting in my chair. Literally. It was as if I had been struck by lightning. And my first thought was, āDamn.ā Because, as most of us know, it’s a hard life. And even when things go about as well as they can, which I thinkāand there are a lot of success stories in this roomāit’s still a hard life.ā
After conversations with the author at these events, the hosts have opened the floor to questions from the audience, often not just about Boylanās memoir but about the state of affairs in Washington and across the nation.
At the event at the New York Public Library earlier this month, Gay fielded this question from someone who moderates a trans nonbinary peer support group: āWhat can you tell our members to give them hope?ā Boylan took a moment to consider the question.
āHere’s what we know. Right now, things are really bad. And they’re not just bad for queer and nonbinary and trans people. They’re bad for a lot of people. They’re bad for anybody who doesn’t kind of fit into this 1950s all-male review of singing and dancing that these people have prepared for us. It is hard,ā she said.
āWe have been through hard times before in this country. We have been through a civil war. We’ve been through depression. We’ve been through, well, you know, the shit keeps hitting the fan. But this moment, as aggressive as it feels, will not last forever. And this will not define us. And I think that, what’s that Paul Simon song? āI believe in the future we will suffer no more. Maybe not in my lifetime, but in yours, I feel sure.āā Boylan was referencing the 1990 song, āThe Cool, Cool Riverā by Paul Simon. āOh, gee, do I have to be dead for things to get better? I hope not,ā added Boylan, before continuing her message.
āThis moment, which feels so oppressive, is not the last word,ā she said. āThis is just beginning. And we have not, unfortunately, we have not yet started to fight back. But we are going to fight back. And, you know, I hope I can say they don’t know what’s coming for them! So, let’s make that clear. Is this really what the majority of Americans wanted? This? I don’t believe it. I won’t believe it. And so, we just have to work for it and not lose our hope. And, yeah, keep telling your stories.ā
Simpson told her story at the event in D.C., comparing how the movement for marriage equality differs from the movement for trans rights.
āIt was about the neighbors you know, and that there were LGBT people in your neighborhood,ā she said. āI was an aerospace engineer. We had firemen and policemen. We had military people, all doing these ads saying, āLook, we’re just your neighbors. Get to know the individual, not this larger concept of an LGBT person,ā and that worked. And I think we have to do that again. It’s about that personal introduction to them. We do these things to show that we’re just like everyone else. We’re human. But we have a leader sitting down the street who has made this such a sharp point to help energize or misdirect what’s going on. And being a Jewish woman, I rememberāwell, not personally, but I look back at what happened in 1933 and 35 overseas and think about the similarities of picking on one group of defenseless, underrepresented people to help focus everyone else to be behind you. And that’s, I think, what we’re seeing.ā
Levine, a former assistant secretary of Health and Human Services in the Biden-Harris administration, followed-up.
āI would agree with Amanda about the political aspect of this, it’s been very well reported that this is a specific strategy, an iterative strategy developed by right-wing think tanks in Washington to split the progressive movement,ā Levine said. āThey lost marriage, did not feel that they could gain that back, and so they were looking for a scapegoat, and thought that they could make progress by demonizing us and otherizing us, starting with trans athletes, then going on to transgender medicine or gender-affirming care for youth, and now you see, you know, denying that we exist at all, and then potentially trying to go back to sexual orientation as well ā¦ It was a specific political and ideological strategy which, unfortunately, they weaponized and were very successful in doing that, and I think that we were conveniently there, but now, what do we do? Now here we are, in this extremely challenging environment, and the key will be how our community, supported by the broader LGBTQ community and our allies, respond.ā
Keisling pointed part of the blame for right-wing attacks on the community itself, for its handling of trans athletes and its hyperfocus on JK Rowling, who she called āa jerk.ā
āThey landed on this sports thing, which we totally screwed up,ā said Keisling. āInstead of talking about the seven-year-old who wants to play soccer with her friends, we were talking about Olympians and NCAA swimmers, which we should have been defending against, but that wasn’t our strongest argument. What I have been saying for 10 years is we don’t seem to understand, we as progressives, that we are also part of the problem. We are not focused on what narrowness we’re hearing. Now, I believe this is about populism and politics, as Amanda said. But they came over and started picking people off on our side, and we have never done that. Progressives won’t do that. Progressives will never, ever, ever welcome somebody to come over from the other side. And that’s a mistake, and we’ve got to figure out how to do that, how to reach out to people, how to win over people. And once we win them over, we have to fucking embrace them. And most of the activists I know won’t do that.ā
McBride stepped in to concur.
āI agree with you, Mara,ā she said, āI think we have lost the art of coalition building. We have created a space where there is no room for imperfect allies. We have eliminated space for people to grow because they at least perceive that they will be seen as permanently guilty for having been wrong.ā
Clymer agreed.
āSay what you will about the Evangelical Church, and I have a lot of things to say about the Evangelical Church, but their greatest strength is that there is a very low threshold for entry,ā she said. āYou show up to the congregations, you don’t have to know anything, you don’t have to have any knowledge of theory or practice or whatever, you just show up and you’re welcome to the pulpit. We as a progressive movement, and I think to your point, Mara, we do not do a very good job of keeping a welcome threshold for entry into the movement. We tell folks that if you don’t know this sort of thing, or this theory, or if you’re not aware of this or that or whatever, we make people afraid to err, make mistakes. And I do think we need to get better at that.ā
Boylan got the last word.
āI think that we were defined with some of the hardest issues to understand. And rather than the fact that, you know, I don’t particularly want to play sports with your kid. I want to teach them English,ā she said, then turned to McBride. āYou are not here to play sports. You are here to represent the people of Delaware. So, the main thing we want is we want to be able to do our jobs. We want to be able to walk tall. And guess what? We also would like to be left alone.ā
Boylan was asked if there was a bumper sticker for trans rights that could match what āLove is Loveā accomplished for marriage equality. Her response: āLove is the wise person’s revenge. Love is the best revenge in the world.ā