Books
New queer biographies make for ideal summer reading
Array of options, from somber to outlandish
Another Pride month is in the can.
All that planning, preparation and execution of events is done, and now you find yourself with lots of time on your hands. So why not reach for one of these great memoirs to read?
A little bit of memoir, a little bit of sympathy, advice, and several biographies are at the heart of “Here and Queer: A Queer Girl’s Guide to Life” by Rowan Ellis, illustrated by Jacky Sheridan (Quarto, $14.99). This book leans mostly on the serious-but-lighter side, with plenty of colorful artwork and suggestions for teen girls on figuring out who they are and what it means. There are fun activities, quizzes, essays, and tips inside; readers will find plenty of one-liners to take away, a comprehensive timeline of LGBTQ history, and biographies that reflect women of many ages and races. That all makes this a book that even adult women and, perhaps, some questioning boys will appreciate.
Speaking of lighthearted, tryย “Start Without Me (I’ll Be There in a Minute)” by Gary Janettiย (Holt, $27.99). TV producer, writer,ย social media star, and sometimes curmudgeon Janetti is annoyed.ย Mightyย annoyed in several essays here, but his aggravation is not meant to bring readers down. It’s meant to make you laugh and โ withย very funny, wryย takes onย finding the perfect tan and the perfect man, friendship with a nun, hotel rooms, mothers-in-law,ย โThe Wizard of Oz,โ vacations, weddings, and more โ you will.
For something a little more somber, reach forย “Side Affects:ย On Being Trans and Feeling Bad” by Hil Malatinoย (University of Minnesota Press, $21.95). Honesty is at the root of this semi-biographical look at being trans: if you are trans, says Malatino, you may struggle withย several righteously negativeย feelings you have โย disconnect, anger, fear, numbness, burnout, exhaustionย โย feelings that exist,ย in part,ย because of the times in which we live nowย and the transphobia that seems to be everywhere.ย Counteracting these feelings โ or, at least being able to survive and thrive despite them โ may be as simple asย some type of activism, and Malatino explains the details as he shares his own story as well as many case studies.
And finally, if you love watching or participating in drag, then you’ll absolutely loveย “How You Get Famous” by Nicole Pasulkaย (Simon & Schuster, $27.99). This book tells the story of a coat-check boy who lovedย performing in dragย and who talked her bar-owning boss into letting her host a drag show in Brooklyn. But this wasย noย one-night stand and soon, the event had a lot of fans โ among them, dozens of “kids” who sneaked into the clubย to practice their acts next to experienced performers. But when you’re on the edge of what’s about toย be a popular kind of entertainment, amateur status doesn’t last longย enough โ and neither does this upbeat, wonderful book.
And if these don’t fit the bill, be sure to ask your favorite booksellersย or librariansย for help. They’ve got your next best read in the can.
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Books
Bros + romance + fantasy = โBromantasy.โ
New book a romp full of humor, dragons, kings, and adventure
โBromantasyโ
By Maire Roche
c.2026, G.P. Putnamโs Sons
$20/339 pages
โDangerโ just happens to be your middle name.
Any fray, any tussle, anytime anybody needs help, they count on you to step in and save the day. Youโre brave, smart and strategic, kind to old people, children, and small animals and, as in the new book โBromantasyโ by Maire Roche, dragons.

Of all the things there were to do โ preserving food, keeping house for himself and his best friend Morningthall โMoโ Elmthorn, advanced skincare, and drinking at the local tavern down the road โ the one thing Juniper OโReilly couldnโt resist was a good brawl. It happened so often that Juniper honestly looked forward to it, though Mo wasnโt a fan.
Mo was more grown-up, calm, thoughtful, able, and Juniper loved him for it. He loved Mo, in fact, since they were little boys. He loved Mo in ways that they didnโt talk about, so they kept a wall between their bedrooms in their cottage.
Except for that one time.
They didnโt talk about that, either.
Instead, as they did often, on a warm fall night, Juniper and Mo went to the tavern, where mead was served and they could learn about the kingโs weekly quests. There, Juniper could also find a good brawl, which is how he and Mo accidentally got into trouble: Juniper trounced one of the kingโs men and was forced into a quest.
He didnโt want to fight dragons and he felt bad that Mo had been dragged along. He felt even worse leaving their farm, sleeping on the ground, wearing the same clothes every day, and not having enough skincare product along. A campfire added to the problem. A roving, lying prince, also in search of dragons, didnโt help. And though a quest was no place for a child, Juniper and Mo found a frightened little girl they had no choice but to protect.
A child with strange eyes, sharp teeth, and fire on her breath.
โAnd just like that, Juniper and Mo had a dragon.โ
Bros + romance + fantasy = โBromantasy.โ It also could equal one of two other things: a romp full of humor, dragons, kings, princes, and adventure.
Or it could equal a whole lot of eye-rolling.
Itโs a fact that this book is funny, in the way that a 1980s high school comedy movie is funny โ meaning that itโs dippy, giddy, and very caricaturish but youโll laugh quite often. The story contains everything you want in a fantasy romance (a โromantasyโ), including human-like alternate species, a life-changing journey, and plenty of nudge-nudge-wink skirting around the attraction the two main characters have for one another. Itโs a decent story, convoluted in just the right way. Purely, itโs an escape.
So why wouldnโt you want to read it? See above, and depending on your favorite reading genre. High-brow literature, this ainโt.
For the right reader, โBromantasyโ is a decent-enough vacation read, something not too taxing or hard on the brain. Itโs for novel lovers, dragon hunters, kingโs questers, princes, and romantics. For everyone else, this tale is just middling.
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Somethingโs off about Dad. When is it time to step in?
โWhen Memory Fadesโ can help when families face dementia
โWhen Memory Fadesโ
By Nathaniel Chin, MD
c.2026, St. Martinโs Essentials
$30/422 pages
Mom called you in a panic the other day.
Sheโd lost her keys and by the time you arrived to help, sheโd found them. In the refrigerator.
These kinds of things keep happening, not often but often enough, and you donโt know quite what to worry about. But in the new book โWhen Memory Fadesโ by Nathaniel Chin, MD, youโll learn about the journey ahead, for both of you.
You canโt remember why you walked into a room. You got lost last week, going to the bank. Popular wisdom says that things like that are normal as we age, but Chin says thatโs not true โ although the answer may not be a worst-case scenario, either. Yes, memory problems could just be signs of stress, dehydration, or lack of sleep โ or is it time to see a doctor?
Chin says maybe, yes.
He was working his way through medical residency when his father, a geriatrician in Madison, Wisc., was diagnosed with Alzheimerโs. Chin, now a geriatrician, was blindsided, but that diagnosis also changed his life.
Here, he writes about the brain, and how Alzheimerโs and dementia are diagnosed, explaining that dementia has many faces and, depending on a doctorโs evaluation, memory problems might be slowed or improved. He shares his fatherโs illness with readers, but he also writes about his mother, a steadfast, steady caretaker.
Her story reminds reader-guardians to care for themselves, too.
Know how to talk the talk, so that you can have โa more productiveโ conversation with your doctor. Understand that thereโs nothing โnormalโ about dementia or Alzheimerโs. Know the statistics โ African Americans are affected with dementia twice as much as whites โ and know how to lower your risks. Learn here what questions to ask, how to break the news to everyone, and any legal matters that will be important soon. And know how to tend to you.
Says Chin, โThe best action you can take is to educate yourselfโฆ The more you understand, the better equipped you are to make sound judgments.โ
Somethingโs off about Dad, just a lot of little things that donโt add up. When is it time to step in? โWhen Memory Fadesโ can help you decide.
Wise, wide-spread, comprehensive, and compassionately helpful, this is a book you can read and then take it to the doctor with your loved one. Itโs a book that makes sense when nothing else does, and its biggest feature is that it smoothly transitions from easy-to-grasp science and charts, to gentle coaching for caregivers. Author Nathaniel Chin, MD writes with storytelling, humility, grace, and experience from both sides of the Alzheimerโs/dementia issue, and his words are reassuring but also urgent. Learn, but donโt wait, he says. Know how to safeguard yourself. See your doctor, and donโt fear testing. Watch for signs of depression. And never, ever stop asking for help.
Read those last seven words, and find โWhen Memory Fadesโ now. Itโs a book to have on your shelf, whether youโre 45 or 95 because, as youโll see, dementia happens and knowledge is key.
Books
New book chronicles gay manโs life in hippie commune
Vietnam War-era tale a serious, sexy, joyous memoir
โQtopia: A Memoir of Love, Land and Liberationโ
2026, University of Wisconsin Press
By Juda Bennett
Duffel packed, the new high school graduate could not fall asleep. โOn the night before my departure, I stared at the duffel bag as if it were a body bag. We lived close to Dover, where the dead from Vietnam were shipped.โ
It is 1971, and Charles was leaving home to join a hippie commune in rural Virginia. โI kept imagining bodies fitting into the bag and popping out in the middle of the night,โ Juda Bennett writes in his memoir, โQtopia: A Memoir of Love, Land and Liberation.โ During Bennett’s high school years from 1968-1971 some 35,000 U.S. soldiers were killed in the Vietnam War, the vast majority processed at Dover Air Force Base. ย
Young Bennett was clueless about what lay ahead but he had a communeโs brochure in his pocket, certain his destiny was not in the military. โMy father was a walking recruitment center, and my mother could have worked for the USO. Uncle Sam and the Andrews Sisters had nothing on them.โ Inspired to find his way out of suburban Wilmington, Del., he boarded a Greyhound bus to Lexington, Va., and communes yet unknown. โQtopiaโ is a serious, sexy and joyous memoir about a young man who knows heโs different in search of chosen family and, over coming decades, his own queer Utopia.
โWe are leaving; you donโt need us,โ was the popular refrain in the day from the Crosby, Stills & Nash song โWooden Ships.โ Communards like young Charles (going by the moniker C.B. with a full beard covering his handsome, androgynous features) were living it. How far this is from urban queer stories of the โ70s. For this reason alone, it is marvelous reading about hot naked hippies farming together in the country, living and loving in secluded teepees when everything seemed possible. Novels like โDrop Cityโ by T.C. Boyle (2003) and โArcadiaโ (2012) by Lauren Groff set in hippie communes had no gay characters, only free-love for straights. When C.B.โs parents arrive to visit his back-to-the-land commune North Mountain bearing gifts like the orange powder Tang and Frosted Flakes, he โmaintainedโ as the saying went. โIt was a great time for visitors to see how hard we had workedโfields of sorghum swaying in the breeze, acres of vegetables in neat rows with beans, tomatoes and peppers hanging downโฆ.I was still thin as a matchstick, but I was a strong and muscular matchstick,โ he tells the story of his development. By contrast, he had considered suicide before leaving home; this memoir fills in the pain, too.
There are times when C.B.โs voice as a teen communard with a secret is so authentic and rich, it is like reading fictional stories of American innocents on journeys of their own like J.D. Salingerโs character Holden Caulfield or Demon Copperhead from rural Virginia by Barbara Kingsolver. He tells us there was this guy Mark at North Mountain who had been pressuring him to sleep on the mattress next to his. C.B. was known as the only gay at North Mountain. One of the hippie women warned him Mark is โa square, the biggest downer.โ Stepping out of the memoir, C.B. directly addresses the reader about the Mark issue, โI donโt want to write about Mark anymore because heโs not important to my story, and I didnโt even like him.โ Got it. Hitchhiking with C.B. is like that, too.
โI got my best ride of the whole hike from a truck driver named TJโฆ.If an eighteen wheelerโฆis willing to stop for you, it is because the driver wants something from youโฆI will forever remember this trucker as the most beautiful man I could have had sex with if I werenโt so innocent.โ
North Mountain required the hippies work one week a month in Richmond to earn cash for the commune. For C.B., this translated into seven communards living in one small apartment on this cultish mission. It was in a Richmond park where he meets a stranger who would sexually abuse him over a month until C.B. ends it. Furious, the man threatens to shut down the commune if he does not obey. In a state of panic, C.B. attempts suicide by overdosing on every pill he can get his hands on. The memoir takes the reader through the authorโs horror by deepening the shadows. What was the specific nature of the abuse?ย How did this stranger have credible power to threaten the commune? Entitled โWhat Itโs Like to Die,โ the chapter is a skillfully told, expressionistic turning point from an innocentโs hell to salvation at the intentional queer Lavender Hill commune in Central New York. C.B. desperately needed to โfind my people.โย
Heโs a resilient young man after living in three communes by the time he hit San Francisco. His two gay neighbors on Ashbury StreetโCrow and Moonsnakeโpressure him to get a new โhippie name.โ Walking home from Golden Gate Park he zeroes in on a passing streetcar, โNorth Judah.โ Goodbye โCharles,โ Judah will be his new hippie name. Crow and Moonsnake, approve: โIf thatโs what the Universe called out to you.โ If you remember the Sixtiesโฆ
โToo often,โ Bennett writes, โwe think of dropouts as withdrawing from life, but in truth, I think they are in a heightened state of seeking their rightful path and purpose. Nothing stays the same.โ Juda Bennett remains a believer to this day, โAlways putting my faith in my journey to Utopiaโ.
(Charles Francis is president of the Mattachine Society of Washington, D.C., and author of โArchive Activism:ย Memoir of a โUniquely Nastyโ Journey.โ)
