Delaware
Delaware library forced to take down Pride flag
Decision disappoints some in Milton

A Delaware library was forced to take down its Pride flag last Friday, causing outrage from some.
āI was super proud of my library (where I work) for putting a pride flag outside this month,ā Milton, Del., library employee Jillian Brenneman wrote in a now-deleted post on Facebook. She did not respond to a Facebook message asking for comment. āThat is until Sussex County Government decided they needed to be homophobic and force us to take it down.ā
Reached by phone Monday, Sussex County Department of Libraries Director Rachel Lynch said the flagās removal was a county decision. The county only allows American flags, Delaware flags, and Sussex County flags to be flown outside of the building. A Sussex County spokesperson confirmed that in a short interview and said that flying the three flags is not a written policy. Rather, Chip Guy said, it is a custom.
The decision to take down the Pride flag left Fred Munzert, who runs the Milton Theatre, disappointed.
āI know our staff was really excited to see the library put the Pride flag up. It made them feel comfortable,ā he said in an interview. āIt made them feel good about the town that they lived in and worked in.ā
Munzert has led a campaign to āpaint the town rainbowā since 2019, where the theater gives out Pride flags to people and businesses. Heās seen more and more Pride flags around town since his campaign.
The display, though, doesnāt come without its opponents in the town of about 3,500 residents. He said Milton Theatre staff have received plenty of emails and phone calls about the flags ā one told him that he must display the American flag alongside it and even gave him an American flag to hang up.
āI’m just always surprised, like, just do your thing. I’ll do my thing,ā he said. āNobodyās bothering anybody.ā
Hanging the flag was Milton Public Library Director Jill DiPaoloās idea, Munzert said. Before the county removed the flag, he said DiPaolo emailed him to apologize and said it was a decision from higher up. DiPaolo was unavailable to comment and did not immediately return a voicemail.
Since the flagās removal, some staff members havenāt felt accepted by the county anymore, Munzert said. Guy, the Sussex County communications director, said the county was just enforcing county norms.
āThe county is not sending a message or a symbol,ā he emphasized.
The whole situation shouldāve been avoided in the first place, Munzert said.
āI wish it would have never been hung, then it just would have been what it was,ā he said.
Delaware
Delaware governor issues executive order creating LGBTQ+ Commission
Body to āstrengthen tiesā between government and community

Delaware Gov. Bethany Hall-Long on Jan. 16 signed and issued an executive order creating a Delaware State LGBTQ+ Commission that she said will hold public forums for the exchange of ideas on the needs of the stateās diverse LGBTQ community.
āThe nine-member commission will serve to strengthen ties between the government and LGBTQ+ organizations,ā a statement released by the governorās office says.
The statement adds that the new commission will āhelp remove barriers to societal participation for LGBTQ+ people and improve the delivery of services to the community in Delaware to areas such as employment, equality, education, and mental health.”
It says that members of the commission will be appointed by the governor and serve without monetary compensation for a three-year term.
According to the statement, the commission members āwill represent different facets of the LGBTQ+ community, taking into account age, race, gender, identity, background, life experiences and other factors, and reflect the geographic diversity of the state.ā
Hall-Long’s executive order creating the new commission came at a time when she is serving in effect as interim governor for a period of just two weeks. As lieutenant governor, she became governor on Jan. 7 when outgoing Gov. John Carney resigned to take office in his newly elected position of mayor of Wilmington.
Carney, who served two terms as governor, could not run again for that position under Delawareās term limit law. Democrat Matt Myer won the governorās election in November and will be sworn in as Delawareās next governor on Jan. 21, when Hall-Long will step down.
Myer was expected to appoint the commission members in the weeks following his assumption of gubernatorial duties.
āUltimately, the commission will advise the governor, members of the governorās Cabinet, members of the General Assembly, and other policymakers on the effect of agency policies, procedures, practices, laws, and administrative rules on the unique challenges and needs of LGBTQ+ people,ā the statement released by Hall-Longās office says.
āIt is truly an honor to bring this commission to fruition, and I am very excited to see the positive changes the commission will make in the lives of our LGBTQ+ neighbors,ā Hall-Long said in the statement.
David Mariner, executive director of Sussex Pride, an LGBTQ advocacy group based in Delawareās Sussex County, which includes Rehoboth Beach, praised the new executive order as an important step in advancing LGBTQ equality.
āIt is my hope that through this commission, we can address the critical issues facing LGBTQ Delawareans,ā Mariner said in his own statement.
āThis includes developing an LGBTQ health report with a tangible roadmap to health equity, increasing collaboration and communication on hate crimes and hate-related activities, and ensuring that nondiscrimination protections, guaranteed by law, are a reality for all of our residents,ā he said.
The statement announcing the LGBTQ+ Commission and the full text of the executive order can be accessed here.
Delaware
Delaware advocacy group to host panel on mediaās role in countering hate
Blade editor among journalists participating in Wednesday event

LEWES, Del. ā Speak Out Against Hate (SOAH) will hold its bi-monthly community meeting at 5 p.m. on Nov. 13 at the Lewes Library and via Zoom. The meeting will concentrate on the role of the press in responding to the divisiveness and rising tide of hatred in our country and communities.Ā
The meeting will feature a panel of journalists comprised of Chris Rauch, owner and publisher of the Cape Gazette; Benjamin Rothstein, journalist at the Daily State News and its sister paper the Greater Dover Independent; Kevin Naff, editor and co-owner of the Washington Blade; and Jake Owens, editor-in-chief of Spotlight Delaware.
Patty Maloney, president of SOAH said, āFollowing a national and state elections that saw our country nearly evenly divided, this important discussion with our local press will shine a light upon the role of the press locally and nationally in confronting the obvious chasm within our citizenry.ā
For more information about the event and to register, please visit Speak Out Against Hate at soah-de.org.
Speak Out Against Hate was formed to confront and counter the rising tide of hate, whenever and wherever it exists.

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Congratulations to Second Block Hospitality, winners of the Delaware Restaurant Associationās designation as Restaurateurs of the Year. This award was won by business partners Lion Gardner, David Gonce, Tyler Townsend, and Bob Suppies, whose Second Block Hospitality restaurants include Bodhi Kitchen, The Pines, and Drift, all in Rehoboth Beach, Del.
āThe partners of Second Block Hospitality, each bring unique expertise from diverse business backgrounds, and have successfully united to create a flourishing restaurant group in downtown Rehoboth Beach. Their first venture, The Pines, was inspired by the rich history and hospitality of old Rehoboth Beach, where pine trees meet the ocean. Their newest ventures, Drift Seafood & Raw Bar, and Bodhi Kitchen, showcase sophisticated seafood and Asian-inspired street food, earning awards, accolades, and features in top regional publications. Driven by a mission of hospitality, innovation, and community, the team exemplifies the qualities honored by the Restaurateurs of the Year Award, celebrating their passion, diversity, and creativity in Delawareās dining scene.ā
Townsend said, āThe entire team at Second Block Hospitality is thrilled to have won Restaurateurs of the Year. Since 2018, we have worked hard to bring the very best in dining, cocktails, entertainment, and dĆ©cor.ā
Suppies added, āYes, winning this award truly validates we are on the right path to keep bringing innovative design paired with amazing food and drinks. More is coming from Second Block for sure.ā
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