Middle East
Activist remains in southern Israel as war continues
Ariella Menaker grew up near Gaza Strip
An activist in southern Israel on Thursday said she knows at least five people who have died during her country’s war with Hamas militants.
“It’s just horror and shock,” former Be’er Sheva Pride House Chair Ariella Menaker told the Washington Blade during an emotional WhatsApp interview. “They were fucking civilians.”
Beersheba, which is the largest city in southern Israel, is located roughly 25 miles southeast of the Gaza Strip.
Hamas, which the U.S. and Israel have designated a terrorist organization, on Oct. 6 launched a surprise attack against communities in southern Israel from Gaza.
More than 1,300 Israelis have been killed since the war began. This figure includes at least 260 people who Hamas militants murdered at an all-night music festival in Re’im, a kibbutz that is near the border between Israel and Gaza. The Israel Defense Forces on its website also says more than 3,200 Israelis have been injured and Hamas militants kidnapped at least 150 others.
Hamas rockets have reached Beersheba, Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, Ben Gurion Airport and other locations throughout central and southern Israel.
The Gaza Health Ministry says Israeli airstrikes have killed 1,537 people and injured 6,612 others in the enclave.
The Israeli government’s decision to cut electricity, water and food and fuel shipments to Gaza has made the humanitarian crisis in the territory even worse. Media reports indicate the IDF has told the U.N. the 1.1 million people who live in northern Gaza should evacuate to the southern part of the enclave within 24 hours.
Menaker said she received an invitation to attend one of the music festival’s parties.
“It’s a close-knit group,” she told the Blade. “Even people you don’t know by name; you’ve partied with them; you know them. You’ve known them for years from the dance floor.”
“I keep thinking about them, trying to escape,” added Menaker.
Southern Israel ‘accustomed to sirens and bomb threats’
Menaker lived in Sderot, a town that is less than a mile from Gaza, until she and her family moved to Beersheba when she was 10.

She was at home in Beersheba on Oct. 7 when air raid sirens woke her up shortly after 6:30 a.m. local time (11:30 p.m. ET on Oct. 6.) Menaker told the Blade she was in her pajamas when she grabbed her cats and took shelter near a set of stairs that are away from windows. She said the door to the bomb shelter near her home did not close because someone had previously broken into it.
“I just stayed at home with the cats in an enclosed area near the stairs, as safe as I can be,” said Menaker.
She told the Blade she had COVID-19 a couple of weeks ago and was worried that she would spread the virus to other people with whom she was sheltering. Menaker said this fear made her decide to stop going to the shelter.
“You’re literally under bombs and Hamas people are in the streets, so who’s thinking about a mask,” she recalled. “I was there with everybody, no masks, just thinking it’s another bombing and there will be another fucking operation they’ll call it instead of a war and that situation will continue.”
Menaker said people in southern Israel had “gotten accustomed to sirens and bomb threats.”
“We’ve gotten used to the so-called small assaults (against Hamas in Gaza), like every now and then we go to the shelter,” she told the Blade. “We’ve come to trust the Iron Dome, so we’re not as scared as we were before because there’s less direct hits, and we’re used to it and that’s horrific.”
Menaker also told the Blade she feels “sorry for the people living in Gaza.”
“I hate Hamas, don’t get me wrong,” she said. “Hamas hates me and wants everybody dead … but the people itself living in Gaza, I mean I feel sorry for them.”
Menaker said she and her family visited Gaza on weekends — and people who lived in the enclave traveled to Israel — before then-Prime Minister Ariel Sharon’s government withdrew Israeli forces from the territory in 2005.
“There’s always been tension,” said Menaker. “What’s happening now has been my personal nightmare and fear since the separation since 2005.”
Menaker dog sitting IDF reservist’s dog
Advocacy groups across Israel have rallied to support those who the war has directly impacted. Hasan Kilani, a Jordanian Palestinian queer activist, and myriad others have urged Israel not to target Gazan civilians.
“There’s no justification for war crimes and crimes against humanity,” Menaker told the Blade, referring to the Hamas militants who murdered Israeli civilians. “There’s no way to justify going into a town and house by house killing everybody inside.”
She said “all of the people here in Israel” are “trying to help out with everything” that include offers to house those who have evacuated to Beersheba and other cities and collect food and toys for them.
Menaker spoke to the Blade from the home of a friend who is in the IDF reserves. She was babysitting his dog and taking him out for walks.
“That’s a little something we can do,” said Menaker.
Doctors had prescribed Menaker medicinal marijuana in order to treat post-traumatic stress disorder. She began to smoke it a few minutes after she started to speak with the Blade.
“People are dealing with a lot,” said Menaker.
Editor’s note: Menaker sent the Blade this update on Friday at 7:43 a.m. (9:43 p.m. PT on Thursday)
“Last night there was a barrage of rockets to Beersheba just as we finished packing and sending off food packages for families that were rescued. Running to the bomb shelter and seeing rockets above, and than just continuing shutting down and going home to a community Zoom.
One or two people didn’t join because of anxiety, the rest just kept on. Which is good, to keep on, but I guess that’s what I mean when I say we got used to it.”
A Wider Bridge on Friday announced it will shut down at the end of the month.
The group that “mobilizes the LGBTQ community to fight antisemitism and support Israel and its LGBTQ community” in a letter to supporters said financial challenges prompted the decision.
“After 15 years of building bridges between LGBTQ communities in North America and Israel, A Wider Bridge has made the difficult decision to wind down operations as of Dec. 31, 2025,” it reads.
“This decision comes after challenging financial realities despite our best efforts to secure sustainable funding. We deeply appreciate our supporters and partners who made this work possible.”
Arthur Slepian founded A Wider Bridge in 2010.
The organization in 2016 organized a reception at the National LGBTQ Task Force’s Creating Change Conference in Chicago that was to have featured to Israeli activists. More than 200 people who protested against A Wider Bridge forced the event’s cancellation.
A Wider Bridge in 2024 urged the Capital Pride Alliance and other Pride organizers to ensure Jewish people can safely participate in their events in response to an increase in antisemitic attacks after Hamas militants attacked Israel on Oct. 7, 2023.
The Jewish Telegraphic Agency reported authorities in Vermont late last year charged Ethan Felson, who was A Wider Bridge’s then-executive director, with lewd and lascivious conduct after alleged sexual misconduct against a museum employee. Rabbi Denise Eger succeeded Felson as A Wider Bridge’s interim executive director.
A Wider Bridge in June honored U.S. Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz (D-Fla.) at its Pride event that took place at the Capital Jewish Museum in D.C. The event took place 15 days after a gunman killed two Israeli Embassy employees — Yaron Lischinsky and Sarah Milgrim — as they were leaving an event at the museum.
“Though we are winding down, this is not a time to back down. We recognize the deep importance of our mission and work amid attacks on Jewish people and LGBTQ people – and LGBTQ Jews at the intersection,” said A Wider Bridge in its letter. “Our board members remain committed to showing up in their individual capacities to represent queer Jews across diverse spaces — and we know our partners and supporters will continue to do the same.”
Editor’s note: Washington Blade International News Editor Michael K. Lavers traveled to Israel and Palestine with A Wider Bridge in 2016.
Egypt
Iran, Egypt object to playing in Seattle World Cup ‘Pride Match’
Game to take place on June 26
Iran and Egypt have objected to playing in a “Pride Match” that will take place in Seattle during the 2026 World Cup.
The Egyptian Football Association on Tuesday said it told FIFA Secretary General Mattias Grafström in a letter that “it categorically rejects holding any activities related to supporting (homosexuality) during the match between the Egyptian national team and Iran, scheduled to be held in Seattle, USA, on June 26, 2026, in the third round of the group stage of the 2026 World Cup.” Football Federation Islamic Republic of Iran President Mehdi Taj told ISNA, a semi-official Iranian news agency that both his country and Egypt “protested this issue.”
The 2026 World Cup will take place in the U.S., Canada, and Mexico. The draw took place at the Kennedy Center on Dec. 5.
Iran is among the handful of countries in which consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death.
The State Department’s 2023 human rights report notes that while Egyptian law “did not explicitly criminalize consensual same-sex sexual activity, authorities regularly arrested and prosecuted LGBTQI+ persons on charges including ‘debauchery,’ prostitution, and ‘violating family values.’” Egyptian authorities “also reportedly prosecuted LGBTQI+ individuals for ‘misuse of social media.’”
“This resulted in de facto criminalization of same-sex conduct and identity,” notes the report.
The 2024 human rights report the State Department released earlier this year did not include LGBTQ-specific references.
Soccer has ‘unique power to unite people across borders, cultures, and beliefs’
The June 26 match between Iran and Egypt coincides with Seattle Pride. The Washington Post reported the Seattle FIFA World Cup 2026 Local Organizing Committee decided to hold the “Pride Match” before last week’s draw.
“As the Local Organizing Committee, SeattleFWC26’s role is to prepare our city to host the matches and manage the city experience outside of Seattle Stadium,” said SeattleFWC26 Vice President of Communications Hana Tadesse in a statement the committee sent to the Washington Blade on Wednesday. “SeattleFWC26 is moving forward as planned with our community programming outside the stadium during Pride weekend and throughout the tournament, partnering with LGBTQ+ leaders, artists, and business owners to elevate existing Pride celebrations across Washington.”
“Football has a unique power to unite people across borders, cultures, and beliefs,” added Tadeese. “The Pacific Northwest is home to one of the nation’s largest Iranian-American communities, a thriving Egyptian diaspora, and rich communities representing all nations we’re hosting in Seattle. We’re committed to ensuring all residents and visitors experience the warmth, respect, and dignity that defines our region.”
The 2034 World Cup will take place in Saudi Arabia.
Consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death in the country. The 2022 World Cup took place in neighboring Qatar, despite concerns over the country’s anti-LGBTQ rights record.
District of Columbia
Bet Mishpachah welcomes release of last hostages from Gaza
President Donald Trump helped broker ceasefire between Israel, Hamas
Bet Mishpachah on Monday welcomed the release of the remaining hostages in the Gaza Strip as part of a ceasefire agreement that President Donald Trump helped broker.
“As we enter into the holy days of Shmini Atzeret and Simhat Torah, we are flooded with a mix of emotions,” said Jake Singer-Beilin, the Washington LGBTQ Jewish congregation’s chief rabbi, in a message to members. “The great joy of these holy days was smashed two years ago on Oct. 7, 2023. Hundreds were murdered on that day, and many — alive and dead — were taken hostage.”
“Today, as the last living hostages return back to Israel, we find great relief as well as pain for what has happened to them up to this point,” he added. “This year, we will celebrate with exuberance knowing that a ceasefire is holding, and that the captives have been redeemed. We will also hold within us the grief that we feel for Israelis and Palestinians who died on that day and since. With these swirling emotions, we offer thanks to the peacemakers and to the One who makes peace on high. We pray that peace will reign in the region, and that those who have endured so much will find healing and hope.”
The Israeli government says Hamas militants killed roughly 1,200 people on Oct. 7, including upwards of 360 partygoers at the Nova Music Festival near Re’im, a kibbutz that is a couple miles from the Gaza Strip, when it launched its surprise attack on the country. The militants also kidnapped more than 200 people.
(Washington Blade video by Michael K. Lavers)
The Hamas-controlled Gaza Health Ministry says Israeli forces have killed more than 67,000 people in the enclave since Oct. 7. Karim Khan, the International Criminal Court’s chief prosecutor, has said Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and former Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar, who the Israel Defense Forces killed last October, are among those who have committed war crimes and crimes against humanity in Gaza and Israel.
The Israeli government has strongly denied it has committed genocide in Gaza.

The ceasefire between Israel and Hamas took effect on Oct. 10.
The last 20 living hostages returned to Israel on Monday, while the Jewish State released 1,968 Palestinians who had been in Israeli prisons. Hamas on Monday released the bodies of four hostages who died while in captivity.
Trump, Egyptian President Abdel Fattah el-Sisi, Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan, and Qatari Emir Tamim bin Hamad Al Thani on Monday signed the ceasefire agreement in Sharm el-Sheikh, Egypt. Trump earlier in the day spoke at the Israeli Knesset in Jerusalem.
“This is the historic dawn of a new Middle East,” said Trump in his Knesset speech.
The ceasefire and its implementation remains tenuous, but one Israeli LGBTQ activist with whom the Washington Blade spoke on Monday celebrated the hostages’ return.
“Emotions are high and everyone is with their loved ones or celebrating in the streets,” they said. “It’s definitely a historic and joyful day for the Israeli people.”
Ga’ava, an LGBTQ group that is affiliated with the Toronto-based Center for Israel and Jewish Affairs, on its Instagram page proclaimed the “hostages are free, war is over.” A Wider Bridge — a group that “advocates for justice, counters LGBTQphobia, and fights antisemitism and other forms of hatred” — described Monday as “a joyful day.”
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