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As You Are reopens with weekend of events

Re-launch follows temporary closing, GoFundMe support

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AYA co-owners Rachel Pike and Jo McDaniel said that they ‘are thankful for the community’s support.’ (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

As You Are, D.C.’s only LGBTQ location in Barracks Row, announced that it has completed necessary repairs and received sufficient funding to reopen on Aug. 1 at 12 p.m. The two-level community space, café, and bar temporarily closed on April 8, citing debt and structural issues in the building. 

Co-owners Rach (“Coach”) Pike and Jo McDaniel said that they “are thankful for the community’s support and for the opportunity for As You Are (also referred to as AYA) to continue to be a welcoming, inclusive space for the community to gather.” The duo announced the AYA reopening on Instagram with @queertalkdc, during which Pike and McDaniel stated, “we’re back, baby! We miss the hell out of y’all.”

Pike and McDaniel first opened the bar in March 2022, but AYA’s path has been littered with roadblocks even prior to this setback.

Pike and McDaniel overcame concerns from the local Advisory Neighborhood Commission 6B, which expressed concerns regarding noise, crowds, and trash. McDaniel and Pike, with the backing of the LGBTQ community, were forced to defend and change their model, allaying concerns over a series of ANC meetings through the fall and winter of 2021, before finally receiving ABRA approval to open. The two installed extra soundproofing and earlier closing times, and were then able to open. U.S. Secretary of Transportation Pete Buttigieg and husband Chasten Buttigieg, who live in the area, were in attendance during AYA’s first night of service, and became regular customers.

This most recent shutdown came on the heels of a GoFundMe that the owners set up in February, seeking financial support to prevent it from closing. Their fans responded: the $150,000 goal was reached in a week. The GoFundMe stated that, “We have faced some particularly tall and costly hurdles that have set us back significantly since the beginning. As we are tapping every resource we can imagine with creativity and open minds we need urgent assistance.” After receiving the necessary funding, the owners posted that “With your support we were able to survive a very scary time and now we are on a mission to determine how to become sustainable in the best way for this community.” They also said that the queer community showed support on social media, attended pop-ups at Serenata and Last Call in Union Market, and virtually tipped staff while they were out of work.

McDaniel and Pike have expressed that AYA is more than a bar, but a gathering space. They show professional sports games, boast a café, host local social sports leagues, and have tea parties, among other inclusive events.

The fundraising mission eventually raised just under $175,000 and helped complete structural work, including new support posts.  

Pike said, “We’re so thrilled to feel the warmth of community again in our Capitol Hill location, and we want to thank everyone who has supported us over the past few months. From checking in, staying connected on social media, donating to our team, and attending our pop-up events across the city, we have really felt the love.” McDaniel added, “We have been honored to build an inclusive, vibrant space with everyone who has walked through our doors.” The two also note that they’re hoping to renegotiate their lease to place them on more sure financial footing.

To celebrate the reopening, As You Are is hosting a festive weekend featuring diverse events, including dance parties, karaoke, brunch, and other activations. The bar’s reopening comes alongside other local LGBTQ hospitality movements: recently closed AdMo restaurant Duplex Diner will be replaced by a new restaurant called Her Diner, run by (former) Duplex manager Kelly Laczo. No opening date has yet been set.

Reopening AYA Weekend Events Schedule

Thursday, August 1

12 p.m.: AYA officially reopens

7 p.m.: Karaoke upstairs 

Friday, August 2

12 p.m.: AYA opens for the day

10 p.m.-2 a.m.: Mother dance party – Rihanna, Chappell Roan, Beyoncé, & more

Saturday, August 3: 

12 p.m.: AYA opens for the day

10 p.m.-2 p.m.: Fishnets and Feelings – emo night dance party 

Sunday, August 4: 

12 p.m.: AYA opens for the day

7 p.m.: Karaoke upstairs

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Spark Social House to start serving alcohol

D.C.’s only ‘LGBTQ alcohol-free bar’ changes course

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A non-alcoholic drink on the bar of Spark Social. (Blade file photo by Joe Reberkenny)

Washington, D.C.’s only LGBTQ alcohol-free bar will lose that distinction in December: Spark Social House, located at the corner of 14th and U streets, N.W., will no longer serve only booze-free drinks.

Spark Social, as it is commonly known, received significant media attention and accolades when it debuted in March. Opening in the beating heart of the LGBTQ community’s social scene, its doors stand next to other popular nightlife establishments, including Crush, Bunker, District Eagle, and Revolt (which opened after Spark Social). All of those other bars serve alcohol.

Spark maintained a separate identity, creating a “third space” for sober guests or those who did not wish to spend their evening in an alcohol-forward space. Owner Nick Tsusaki, a former bartender, opened Spark Social to fill a gap he saw in queer nightlife establishments that centered drinking. Instead, Spark was intended to be a convening bar. By day, it has served coffee and tea as a café for remote workers, meetings, and catch-ups. In the evening, the bar hosts a wide array of events, with DJs, dancing, drag queens, speakers, open mic nights, and stand-up comedy, movie showings, among other events.

At the bar, it served cans, bottles, and craft cocktails, as well as “wellness drinks” or functional beverages like mushroom elixirs, Kava, and kombucha. All of these are currently non-alcoholic. Currently, in November, the bar is serving seasonal morning drinks like toasted almond and French Toast lattes, plus non-alcoholic cocktails like a “Hottie Hottie” with non-alcoholic spiced rum, lemon, and maple butter; plus a maple espresso “martini” without liquor, which includes mushroom tinctures.

Spark Social, even in its short time in existence, won “Best DC Coffee Shop” in the 2025 Washington Blade annual poll.

Nevertheless, in early November, the Spark owners and leadership team hosted a town hall to share updates and hear directly from the community about the next chapter for Spark.

According to the bar’s Instagram posts, the town hall reviewed the intent and purpose behind the bar: to create a queer third space where people can connect, create, and feel at home.”

“After eight months as a fully non-alcoholic bar, we’ve learned that sobriety exists on a spectrum and inclusion means offering choice.”

To that end, in December, Spark’s offerings will evolve. Instead of serving only drinks without alcohol, there will be a new “1 for 1” menu in which every cocktail comes in two versions: booze and boozeless. While alcohol will be served, the bar owners insist that they remain committed to maintaining its welcoming and relaxed vibe.

In a separate post, Spark wrote that “Although this was not our intent when we started the business, after 6 months of operations we’ve made the difficult decision to change our business model so that we can keep providing this space to the community.”

They acknowledged that this pivot might have “come as a surprise,” and offered to received feedback to ensure that the bar’s initial objective of being a unique space could continue.

Alcohol will only be served at the bar in the evenings during the week, and all day during the weekend.

Tsusaki spoke to the Blade about the changes and offered these statements:

“When we opened, the goal was to create a queer third space where people could spark a connection, spark creativity, spark an idea — especially for folks looking for an alternative to the typical drinking environment,” Tsusaki said. “From day one, Spark has been about the vibe — a place where you can just exist, feel at home, and be surrounded by community without pressure or pretense. After eight months as a fully non-alcoholic space, we learned a lot about what people actually want from spaces like this. Most folks exist somewhere on a spectrum of sobriety — some are fully sober, some are sober-curious, some drink occasionally. We realized that if our mission is to bring people together, inclusion has to mean options for everyone.

“We had to face the financial reality of running a small independent space in D.C. The city has been hit hard — especially with reduced spending and recent federal layoffs — and it’s made things tough for hospitality businesses like ours. Adding alcohol helps make Spark sustainable so we can keep doing what we do: building community, creating jobs, and keeping this space alive for the long haul.

“We’re using this moment to make the space even better — enclosing the back patio so it’s usable year-round, upgrading our DJ booth and sound system, and making a few design tweaks that better reflect the energy and creativity Spark has always had.”

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Trio, Fox and Hounds to close with Nov. 2 goodbye party

Owner unable to extend lease after 75 years on 17th Street

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Trio and Fox and Hounds are closing for good next week. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

For 75 years, along the 17th Street corridor that has long been a bastion of LGBTQ social and cultural life, Trio Bistro and Fox and Hounds Lounge have served customers. On Nov. 2, these two mainstays will close their doors.

Owner Mourad Menjelloun wrote that, “For decades, Trio has been more than just a restaurant; it has been a second home for so many of us, both for our guests and our dedicated staff. Our team is a family, and many have spent decades building the connections and community that made Trio so special.” 

Although the owner was not gay, both businesses became a safe space for many LGBTQ locals, similar to Annie’s Paramount Steak House, also located on 17th Street. Many LGBTQ social and professional groups used Trio as a meeting place to plan activities and hold events.

Trio Bistro and Fox and Hounds share a kitchen, though they have two separate dining areas. Trio, located on the corner of 17th and Q streets, N.W., is known for its diner-style fare and huge red-and-green neon sign advertising “good food” above the door. With two covered patios wrapping around on both streets, Trio was known for its burgers, steaks, pasta, and other all-American entrees. It was also well-known for brunch, bringing in social sports teams, longtime friends, and groups discussing the previous night’s activities.

Fox and Hounds, right next door, was a more relaxed, bar-focused space. Its large, social patio attracted those who live in the neighborhood and people from outside, for the long happy hour, the people watching, and the casual atmosphere. Customers especially were drawn to the digital jukebox and 80-inch TVs.

The local blog Prince of Petworth posted a short history of Trio, which opened in 1950 by a couple, Pete and Helen Doukas.

In an email, Menjelloun stated that “After three decades of my own life poured into this place, and having shared the news with our loyal customers and neighbors, I can tell you that this decision was not made lightly. Unfortunately, we were unable to extend our lease.” He also noted that a significant number of employees had been with the restaurants for more than a decade, including one waitress who was part of the team for more than 30 years. He set up a GoFundMe to support the staff once the restaurant closes. 

In the face of the sudden closure, there will be a goodbye party on Nov. 2, 5 p.m.-12 a.m. for one final gathering.

“As we prepare to close, we are filled with gratitude for the memories, celebrations, and everyday moments you have shared with us. Thank you for making Trio a part of your lives. We will cherish the relationships we have built forever,” Menjelloun stated.

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Chefs for Equality undergoes dramatic reimagining

This year’s event will take place at five different restaurants

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Chefs for Equality this year will be held in multiple locations. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

In a time of uncertainty, coming together in unity and solidarity is especially important —and along shared tables over bountiful meals even more so. In light of the national mood and local political climate, the Human Rights Campaign has announced its signature Chefs for Equality (CFE), the region’s largest and most star-studded culinary event supporting LGBTQ rights and equality — but with a dramatic reimagining. This year’s edition (the 13th), dubbed Everything Everywhere All at Once, takes place Monday, Oct. 27, at five restaurants across D.C.

Fresh off last year’s CFE event at the National Building Museum, which featured 150 chefs, bakers, mixologists, sommeliers, and restaurateurs across 50 savory and 20 dessert stations, CFE 2025 is going back to its roots and recognizing the deep importance of community with a format that centers restaurants: five exclusive collaborative dinners hosted by some of the DMV’s most celebrated chefs, mixologists, and restaurateurs. 

“Chefs for Equality shines a spotlight on the strength and solidarity of the DMV’s vibrant restaurant scene,” says esteemed writer David Hagedorn, the gala’s creator and chair. “This new format is a powerful expression of the resilience and inventive spirit that celebrates culinary excellence while championing equality.”

Hagedorn, a longtime leader of the LGBTQ food community in Washington, D.C., says that given the challenging economic environment in the city, the organizers were looking to scale back the event, and realized that by having dinners at restaurants, they would still be able to collaborate and raise money for the HRC Foundation, as well as “redouble our efforts as a restaurant community to stand up for equality, especially when the government is intent on taking away rights for which LGBTQ and other marginalized people have fought long and hard.”

Each of the five dinners follows the same format: beginning with an extravagant cocktail reception, followed by a multi-course paired dinner and dessert. 

New this year as well is an even more open format: everyone in D.C. could participate outside the dinners. From Oct. 27Nov. 2, select restaurants and bars around the DMV will participate in “Chefs for Equality Promotional Week,” offering specials and donating a portion of those sales to the HRC Foundation. While the dinners take place on just one night, the promotional week signifies that restaurants across town can show their support for equality in a diversity of ways.

HRC Foundation President Kelley Robinson added that, “Food has always been a great unifier — it brings people together across differences and reminds us of our shared humanity. That’s why we are thrilled to once again partner with DC’s culinary leaders. We believe in a world where all LGBTQ+ people feel safe and able to be their authentic selves wherever they show up in their daily lives.”

“It’s an honor to chair this event,’ Hagedorn said. “I’ve been in Washington since 1976, so I’ve lived through the AIDS years. Chefs for Equality was created in 2012 as a one-off to raise some money for the marriage equality push that was on the ballot in Maryland. The lesson I learned in the trenches is that our rights can never be taken for granted.”

Chef and co-owner Johanna Hellrigl, of Northern Italian restaurant Ama, has supported Chefs for Equality and the HRC Foundation for many years. She will be at the Duck and the Peach dinner’s opening course, featuring Ligurian Fügassa Focaccia, among other bread items. “I think that the events taking place at restaurants instead of at a venue this year showcases how supportive restaurants are of the community — no matter what obstacle stands in the way, we will find a way to come together and make it happen. It’s a time to spread some love.”

The five collaborative dinners are as follows. Each dinner will include an auction, Chefs for Equality’s signature goody bags, florals by Amaryllis Design House and other surprises.

CUT by Wolfgang Puck – Host Chef Wolfgang Puck in collaboration with Chefs Andrew Ho and Ligia Barros (CUT), Amy Brandwein (Centrolina), Harley Peet (Bas Rouge), and Bryan Voltaggio (Wye Oak Tavern)

Moon Rabbit – Host Chefs Kevin Tien and Susan Bae, in collaboration with Chefs Rob Rubba (Oyster Oyster), Ryan Ratino (Bresca, Jont) and Ellin Yin (a.kitchen+bar), Satang Ruangsangwatana and Prapavadee Limvatana (Six Ways to Sunday), Seng Luangrath (Baan Mae), and Paolo Dungca (Kaya)

The Duck and the Peach – Host Chefs Katarina Petonito and Rochelle Cooper in collaboration with Chefs Johanna Hellrigl (Ama), Matt Adler (Caruso’s Grocery), Carlos Delgado (Causa), Jova Urriolla (Colada Shop), Mike Friedman and Robert Cain (Red Hen), Simon Lam (Tiger Fork), Ria Montes (Fish Shop Bar & Restaurant), and Kareem Queeman (Mr. Bake)

Acqua Bistecca – Host Chef Colin Clark in collaboration with Chefs Tatiana Mora and Miguel Guerra (MITA), Ruben Garcia (Casa Teresa), Tony Chittum (Iron Gate, Vermillion), Matt Conroy and Isabel Coss (Pascual) and Scott Drewno (Fried Rice Collective)

Perrys – Host Chef Masako Morishita in collaboration with Audrey Angeles (Forst & Flourish) and David Guas (Neutral Ground). Perry’s has a unique format: it will present “Drag Brunch for Dinner,” a lavish buffet curated by James Beard Award-winning chef Morisita with performances by several of D.C.’s top drag superstars. 

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