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Queery: Tom Yates

One of this year’s Capital Pride heroes answers 20 gay questions

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Tom Yates (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Tom Yates says the Capital Pride Heroes Reception where he was honored last week felt somewhat surreal.

“I sort of felt like a bride,” he says. “Every time I stopped to try to eat a bite or something, someone was coming over to talk or asking me for a photo. I felt like a celebrity for the evening, which is a very odd feeling for an introvert like me.”

Yates, a charter member and current president of Defenders LLC, a local leather/Levi group, is a longtime board member and volunteer with Dignity/Washington and DignityUSA, an LGBT Catholic group, and also worked many years with Brother Help Thyself, where he was vice president for one year starting in about 1999, then president for seven years after.

“I guess I’ve done a little of everything,” says the 60-year-old Liverpool, N.Y., native, who’s been in D.C. 34 years. “It’s always flattering to be honored.”

Yates works as a civilian mathematician with the U.S. Navy. He’s been in a 15-year relationship with Jim Hyde and lives in Silver Spring. Yates enjoys reading, film history and yoga in his free time.

 

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

About 37 years. I came out to only a few people and then because of my public involvement in the campus and community gay and lesbian groups I was suddenly out to lots of people.

 

Who’s your LGBT hero?

Marshall McClintock, who was co-founder of Harpur Gay Alliance, a gay and lesbian group at SUNY Binghamton in the 1970s. People like Marshall — and there were lots of them scattered across schools, colleges and communities — were incredibly brave being so visible.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present? 

The D.C. Eagle in the 1980s. For me, part of the Eagle’s charm was that the leather regulations were not as strictly adhered to, as say the leather bars in New York. A lot of people were afraid to even walk into the D.C. Eagle, but it was actually more welcoming than one would have expected. In the 1980s there was a certain sense of community among the regulars at the Eagle.

 

Describe your dream wedding.

Something small and private with just my closest friends.

 

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?

I’d like to say environmental issues, which I feel really passionate about. But lately I’ve devoted more of my time and energy to the issue of diet, health and fitness. I think so much of our health problems are rooted in our behavior and diet.

 

What historical outcome would you change?  

A non-“butterfly ballot” in the Palm Beach County 2000 election — would it have changed enough votes to change the outcome of the 2000 presidential election? And perhaps something in pop culture that would have made condoms cool, smart or sexy in the ‘80s. Imagine how different the decade would have been.

 

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

The invention of the Internet. Our immediate connection to information and each other has certainly changed our behavior.

 

On what do you insist?

That I keep my sense of humor.

 

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?

Pictures of the Heroes Gala.

 

If your life were a book, what would the title be?

“Why Does Everything I Say Sound Like the Last Line of a Limerick?”

 

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?

Avoid it.

 

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

Something, but not sure what it is. Surely not the cloud kingdom in sky depicted in so much of popular culture. I wonder how Tom of Finland would illustrate an afterlife.

 

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?

Appeal to people’s better nature. I think our recent political, judicial and social successes have been achieved through the general public’s sense of fairness and justice. The screaming and name-calling are emotionally satisfying — at least for me — but I don’t think it convinces that movable middle in voting booths and church pews of the justness of our basic rights.

 

What would you walk across hot coals for?

A three-way with George Clooney and Brad Pitt.

 

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?

I kind of like the stereotypes. I think we have, or at least I have, spent too much effort trying to avoid the stereotypical. Though sometimes I think it’s performance, I like the people who are the most comfortable in their skin, the people who are ready to let their freak fly.

 

What’s your favorite LGBT movie?

“The Hanging Garden.” It touches on the themes of uncovering truths, forgiveness, redemption and second chances.

 

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Overrated? Right or wrong, I don’t think a lot of people value most social customs any more.

 

What trophy or prize do you most covet?

The Michael Olivieri Award, the Defenders’ national service award, which was given largely for my work with Brother Help Thyself.

 

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

At 18, I was scared of everything, especially of being gay. Probably like most LGBT teenagers in 1972, I felt like I was the only one. The possibility of anything like a gay community was unimaginable to me in 1972. I wish I had known there would be a community for me in the future — that there would be groups like Dignity and the Defenders who would be there to console in times of sorrow and to celebrate in times of joy.

 

Why Washington?

Thirty-four years ago I moved to the Washington area for a job — one I wasn’t entirely sure I was going to like. Three years later, when I considered moving elsewhere, I realized that I was home. I’d made too many friends and connections to consider leaving the D.C. area.

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Memorial for groundbreaking bisexual activist set for May 2

Loraine Hutchins remembered as a ‘force of nature’

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Loraine Hutchins died last year. (File photo courtesy of Hutchins)

The Montgomery County Pride Center will host a celebration honoring the life and legacy of Loraine Hutchins, Ph.D., on May 2. People are invited to attend the onsite memorial or a livestream event. The on-site event will begin at 10 a.m. with a meet-and-greet mixer before moving into a memorial service around the theme “Loraine a Force of Nature!” at 11 a.m., a panel talk at 12 p.m., break out sessions for artists, academics, and activists to build on her legacy at 1 p.m. and a closing reception at 2 p.m. 

Attendees are encouraged to register for the on-site memorial gathering or the livestreamed memorial. The goal of this event is also to collect stories and memories of Loraine. Attendees and others can share their stories at padlet.com. 

An obituary for Hutchins was published in the Bladelast Nov. 24, where people can learn more about her activism in the bisexual community. A private service for friends and family was held in December but this memorial service is open to all. 

Alongside her groundbreaking work organizing for U.S. bisexual rights and liberation including co-editing “Bi Any Other Name: BIsexual People Speak Out” (1991), she also integrated faith into her sexual education and advocacy work. Her 2001 doctoral dissertation, “Erotic Rites: A Cultural Analysis of Contemporary U.S. Sacred Sexuality Traditions and Trends,” offered a pointed queer and feminist analysis to sex-neutral and sex-positive spiritual traditions in the United States. Her thesis was also groundbreaking in exploring the intersections between sex workers and those in caregiving professionals, including spiritual ones.

In an oral history interview conducted by Michelle Mueller back in August 2023, Hutchins described herself as a “priestess without a congregation.” While she has occasionally had a sense of community and feels part of a group of loving people, she admitted that “I don’t feel like we have the shape or the purpose that we need.”

“I’ve often experienced being the Cassandra in the room, the Cassandra in the community. Somebody who’s kind of way out there ahead, thinking through the strategic action points that my community hasn’t gotten to yet, and getting a lot of resistance and hostile responses from people who are frightened by dissent and conflict and not ready for the changes we have to make to survive,” she said.

“For somebody who’s bisexual in an out political way and who’s been a spokesperson for the polyamory movement in an out political way, it’s very exposing. And it’s very important to me to be able to try to explain and help other people understand the connection between spirituality and sexuality,” she explained citing how even as a graduate student she was “exploring how to feel erotic and spiritual, and not feel them in conflict with each other in my own spiritual contemplative life and my own sensual body awareness of being alive in the world.”

“Every religion has a sense of sacred sexuality. It’s just they put a lot of boundaries and regulations on it, and if we have a spiritual practice that is totally affirming of women’s priesthood and of gay people, queer people’s ability to minister to everyone and to be ministered to be everyone, what does that do to the gender of God, or our understanding of how we practice our spirituality and our sexuality in community and privately?”

“There’s no easy answer,” she concludes, and she continued to grapple with these questions throughout her life, co-editing another seminal text, “Sexuality, Religion and the Sacred: Bisexual, Pansexual, and Polysexual Perspectives,” published in 2012. Her work blending spiritual and queer liberation remains groundbreaking to this day. 

Rev. Eric Eldritch, a local community organizer and ordained Pagan minister with Circle Sanctuary who has worked for decades with the DC Center’s Center Faith to organize the Pride Interfaith Service, is eager to highlight this element of her legacy at the memorial service next month.  

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Queery: Meet artist, performer John Levengood

Modern creative talks nightlife, coming out, and his personal queer heroes

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John Levengood (he/him) describes himself as a modern creative with a wide‑ranging toolkit. He blends music, technology, civic duty, and a sharp sense of wit into a cohesive artistic identity. Known primarily as a recording artist and performer, he’s also a self‑taught music producer and software engineer who embodies a generation of creators who build their own lanes rather than wait for one to appear.

Levengood, 32, who is single and identifies as gay and queer, is best known as a recording artist who has performed at Pride festivals across the country, including the main stages of World Pride DC, Central Arkansas Pride, and Charlotte Pride.

“Locally in the DMV, I’m known for turning heads at nightlife venues with my eye-catching sense of style. When I go out, I don’t try to blend in. I hope I inspire people to be themselves and have the courage to stand out,” he says.

He’s also known for hosting karaoke at Freddie’s Beach Bar in Arlington, Va., on Thursday nights. “I like to create a space where people feel comfortable expressing themselves, building community, and showcasing their talents.”

He also creates social media content from my performances and do interviews at LGBTQ+ bars and theatres in the DMV. Follow the Arlington resident @johnlevengood.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?

I have been fully out of the closet since 2019. My parents were the hardest people to tell because my family has always been my rock and at the time I couldn’t imagine a world without them. Their reactions were extremely positive and supportive so I had nothing to fear all along.
I remember sitting on the couch with my mom, dad, and sister in our hotel room in New Orleans during our winter vacation and being so nervous to tell them. After I finally mustered up the nerve and made the proclamation, I realized my dad had already fallen asleep on the couch. My mom promised to tell him when he woke up.

Whos your LGBTQ hero?

My LGBTQ heroes are Harvey Milk for paving the way for gays in politics and Elton John for being a pioneer for the fabulous and authentic. My local heroes in the DMV are Howard Hicks, manager of Green Lantern, and Tony Rivenbark, manager of Freddie’s Beach Bar. Both of them are essential to creating spaces where I’ve felt welcome and safe since moving to the DMV.

Whats Washingtons best nightspot, past or present?

Trade tops the list for me because of the dance floor and outdoor space. It’s so nice to get a break from the music every once and a while to be able to have a conversation.

We live in challenging times. How do you cope?

I’m still figuring this out. What is working right now is writing music and spending time with family and friends. I’ve also been spending less time on social media going to the gym at least three times a week.

What streaming show are you binging?

After “Traitors” Season 4 ended, I was in a bit of a show hole, but “Stumble” has me in a laughing loop right now. The writing is so witty.

What do you wish youd known at 18?

At 18, I wish I would have known how liberating it is to come out of the closet. It would have been nice to know some winning lottery numbers as well.

What are your friends messaging about in your most recent group chat?

We are planning our next trip to New York City. If you can believe it, I visited NYC for the first time in 2025 for Pride and I’ve been back every quarter since. Growing up in the country, I was subconsciously primed to be scared of the city. But my mind has been blown. I can’t wait to go back.

Why Washington?

It’s the closest metropolitan area to my family, but not too close. I love the museums, the diversity, the history, and the proximity to the beach and mountains. It’s also nice to live in a city with public transportation.

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Project GLOW celebrates LGBTQ acts

D.C.’s electronic music festival set for May 30-31

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A scene from last year’s Project GLOW. (Photo courtesy organizers)

Aging RFK Stadium has come down, but the RFK grounds are still getting lit up. Welcome back to the stage Project GLOW, D.C.’s homegrown electronic festival, on May 30-31. Back for its fifth year on these musically inclined acres, Project GLOW returns with an even more diverse lineup, and one that continues to celebrate LGBTQ antecedents, attendees, and acts.

Project GLOW 2026 headliners include house and techno star Mau P, progressive house legend Eric Prydz, hard-techno favorite Sara Landry, and bass acts Excision b2b Sullivan King, among the lineup of trance, bass, house, techno, dubstep, and others for the fifth anniversary year.

President & CEO Pete Kalamoutsos — born and raised in D.C. — founded Club GLOW in 1999. In 2020, GLOW entered into a partnership with global entertainment company Insomniac Events to produce live events like Project GLOW, which kicked off in 2022.

As in past years, Project GLOW not only makes space, but is intentionally inclusive of the LGBTQ community, one of its most dedicated fan bases. The festival’s LGBTQ-focused Secret Garden stage blooms again — a more intimate dance area that stands on the strength of DJs and musicians who draw from the LGBTQ community. D.C.’s LGBTQ nightlife mastermind Ed Bailey is the creative mind behind Secret Garden again. He joined Project GLOW in 2023.

“Kalamoustos says that “he’s proud of his partnership with Ed Bailey, along with Capital Pride and [nightlife producer] Jake Resnikow. It’s amazing to collaborate with Bailey at the Secret Garden stage, especially after the curated lineup we worked on at Pride last year.”

The Secret Garden will be a bit different from other stages: Eternal (“At the Eternal stage, time stands still. Lose yourself in the dance of past, present, and future, surrendering to the eternal rhythm of the universe”) and Pulse (“Feel the rhythm of the beat pulse through your veins as the heartbeat of the crowd synchronizes into one. Here, every moment vibrates with life as it guides you through a new dimension of euphoria”). The Secret Garden stage is in the round, surrounded by 16 shipping containers. The containers play canvas to muralists from around the world, who are coming in to paint them in a vibrant garden-style vibe. “We gave this stage some extra love with this layout,” K says, “ we finally cracked the code.”

K says that this will be the biggest lineup yet for the Secret Garden, featuring Nicole Moudaber b2b Chasewest, Riordan b2b Bullet Tooth, Ranger Trucco, Cassian, Eli & Fur, Cosmic Gate and Hayla. The stage is also the largest yet, featuring an expanded dance floor and 360-degree viewing.

Across all stages, K says that his goal for the fifth anniversary is “More art and fan interactive experience, more like a festival, strive to be like a Tomorrowland, as budget grows to add more experience.” Last year’s Project GLOW alone drew 40,000 attendees over two days.

K, however, was not satisfied with one festival this spring. GLOW recently announced a “pop-up” one-day event. Teaming up with Black Book Records, GLOW is set to throw a first-of-its-kind dance-music takeover of Pennsylvania Avenue, N.W., headlined by electronic music star Chris Lake. Set for April 18, this euphoric block party will feature bass and vibes blocks from the White House. Organizers expect as many as 10,000 fans to attend. Beyond music, there will be food, activations, and plenty of other activities taking place around 6th St and Pennsylvania Ave NW – a location familiar to many in the LGBTQ community, as this sits squarely inside the blocks of the Capital Pride party that takes place in DC every June.

Over the past two decades, Club GLOW has produced thousands of events, from club nights to large-scale festivals including Project GLOW, Moonrise Festival, and more. Club GLOW also operates Echostage.

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