May 15, 2013 at 5:53 pm EDT | by Kevin Naff
Don’t believe the pro-gay hype
Jason Collins, Washington Wizards, NBA, gay news, Washington Blade, Sports Illustrated

Traded to Washington D.C. from Boston in February, with last week’s Sports Illustrated piece, the Wizards’ center Jason Collins becomes the first active openly gay player in history in the four most-followed American professional sports leagues. (Image courtesy of Sports Illustrated)

When the NBA’s Jason Collins came out last month in a Sports Illustrated column, he found cheery public support from nearly all quarters. Everyone from Bill Clinton to Steve Nash tripped over themselves to congratulate Collins on becoming the first openly gay active (male) player in one of the big four American team sports.

But the happy, politically correct mainstream reaction to the momentous news barely concealed what was happening just beneath the surface of George Stephanopoulos’ and Oprah’s giddy coverage. Anyone who tuned into talk radio — or Twitter — that day heard a very different take on Collins’ brave announcement.

Miami Dolphins wide receiver Mike Wallace Tweeted, “All these beautiful women in the world and guys wanna mess with other guys SMH.”

Mark Jackson, head coach of the Golden State Warriors, said: “As a Christian man I have beliefs of what’s right and what’s wrong, that being said, I know Jason Collins, I know his family…And certainly praying for them at this time.” Sportscaster Chris Broussard denounced Collins as a sinner.

CBS’ Mike Francesa said, “It means less than nothing to me that there is a gay player now out if the NBA. SI going to reveal this this week in — I don’t know why — I guess a dramatic attempt to sell a magazine, I guess. I have the story here and I’m not compelled to run and talk about it or read it. I really don’t care. I can’t be any more honest. I don’t care.”

This was the most typical sports talk radio take on the news. While most callers wanted only to talk about Collins and the specter of gays sharing the shower and locker room with straight jocks, the talk radio hosts wanted to change the subject. Monitoring sports radio in the Baltimore and D.C. markets that day, I was amused as the hosts desperately tried to change the subject away from the biggest sports story of the week, no doubt fearing for their jobs if they publicly agreed with their callers’ homophobic fears. We’ve arrived at a strange new place in the movement for LGBT equality where homophobia lives on but those who express it out loud are bullied into apologizing, their very careers dependent upon pretending they really like us.

No one typifies this strange new world better than Kobe Bryant, who chimed in with a supportive Tweet, “Proud of @jasoncollins34. Don’t suffocate who u r because of the ignorance of others.” Just two years ago, Bryant was fined $100,000 by the NBA for calling a referee a “faggot” during a game. His team, the Los Angeles Lakers, promptly announced a partnership with the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation to combat bullying. GLAAD said at the time it would advocate for “zero tolerance policies for anti-gay slurs at home games.” It’s not clear what that means but it sounds like a dubious mission for a national LGBT advocacy group.

Pretending that homophobia died because a dozen states enacted marriage equality ignores the facts and the reality of a nation still deeply divided over LGBT issues. Remember that there are no laws prohibiting workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation in 29 states (and in 34 states based on gender identity); we account for only about 4-5 percent of the population but 20 percent of hate crimes target LGBT people; 40 percent of homeless youth identify as LGBT; 63 percent of all new HIV infections are among men who have sex with men, up 22 percent since 2008; sodomy laws remain on the books in 17 states, including Maryland and Massachusetts; the FDA still bans gay men from donating blood; immigration law ignores our relationships; DOMA and Prop 8 remain on the books; an estimated 28 percent of black trans people are unemployed. And on and on.

The support for marriage equality and the public embrace of gay celebrities masks the reality of a nation in which too many LGBT people continue to suffer because of old-fashioned bigotry and prejudice. Don’t believe the pro-gay hype.

Kevin Naff is editor of the Washington Blade. Reach him at

Kevin Naff is the editor and a co-owner of the Washington Blade, the nation’s oldest and most acclaimed LGBT news publication, founded in 1969.

  • This article seems contradictory. On the one hand, it claims Jason Collins has received all sorts of positive support but since he also got some backlash from people, suddenly this means all the positive support he got was all fake? Which one is it? Did he get positive support or not? I also must have missed it when anyone ever said there was no more homophobia in American society. This whole article seems like some big strawman and an excuse to bash GLAAD because I guess bashing other gays you don't agree with is somehow going to stop homophobia.

  • Remember when Magic Johnson revealed that he had HIV 22 years ago. The media was very supportive and the country as a whole evolved on the issue of HIV/AIDS. Jason Collins is experiencing the same outpouring of support. However I do agree that it is too sugar coated.

    What I want to know is what Jason Collins did to help the gay community in DC while he was here? Was he a closeted man frequenting the Glory Hole or Crew Club? Everyone comes out at their own pace but I feel there is more to the story.

  • Just because Mr. Obama keeps saying the Gay Word doesn't mean homophobia is dead in the federal government. In fact, he's still coddling anti LGBT bigot federal contractors and all thos bigots in the Pentagon who are still blocking gay service member equality post repeal. [And, no, it's NOT just because of DOMA.]

  • I had this conversation with a couple of people who posted on a Detroit Sports site. They said "Who cares? Why is he making a big deal about his sexuality?" To which I respond: We aren't to a point where this isn't a big deal yet. And it seems that people are content with sweeping it under the rug as something that doesn't effect his life, and none of our business. The fact of the matter is, we need role models for kids to feel comfortable being out in a locker room, for kids contemplating suicide, etc. If it doesn't matter why did it take until 2013, from the time American sports has started, for an athlete to openly talk about being a gay man? It's a society closed off to gay people. Phil Jackson, not two months ago, said he "had never met a gay basketball player." So don't pretend that it isn't a big deal just because you think the story makes you uncomfortable. It is important to Jason Collins as well. He doesn't have to risk being "outed" by anyone now. He gets to live an honest lifestyle and that is as important as him being a role model for kids (especially gay kids in sports) as anything. I was chased away from being a sportswriter partly because I am pansexual. We still have racism today, I don't think homophobia will ever be dead. And there will be those that defend as their Constitutional right and we are "shoving it in our faces" when someone is honest about who they are. But I am glad we are at a point where it is no longer kosher to talk about gay men as "faggots" and "fruits," openly hating and even threatening violence against anyone who is homosexual. That is a step forward. But we still have a long way to go, and until we get there, things like this will continue to be a big deal.

  • Sharon, I respectfully disagree. Kevin’s piece seems to me gratuitously patronizing and unfair. When I celebrated Jason Collins’s coming out, my brain had not fallen out of my head. I did not think paradise had arrived. I did not think all the haters were won over. We are entitled to celebrate our breakthroughs without having people determined to rain on every damn parade. Of course we have a long way to go. But Martina was right that Jason’s act will save lives. To be sure, there are plenty of other lives that need saving. Last Thursday I joined about 20 others in testifying for a birth certificate bill before the DC Council to help trans people on the crucial matter of identification. On Saturday I staffed a table at Capital Trans Pride and met many brave people who are fighting for change and mentoring and giving a hand up to young trans people. My happiness on April 29 is just as valid as Kevin’s anger, or everything we have worked for is garbage. We DO NOT have to do this to each other. Nobody I heard from thought homophobia had ended. That is an insulting bit of hyperbole. We not only have a right to celebrate small advances, we need to celebrate them and give one another encouragement.

  • Most laws on the books protecting gays on the job, etc… do not negate the FACT of existing hatred and phobias against the LGBT communities. They are just getting smarter on how to bring us down, while being politically correct so there is no legal action taken. Trust those close to you, others have no business knowing.

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