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Thousands are expected to come to the D.C. area for the Gay Softball World Series. (Photo by Bigstock)

The annual Gay Softball World Series, organized by the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance, is returning to D.C. after 10 years and is expected to be the biggest tournament the organization has ever hosted. The opening ceremonies begin Monday with the tournament to be held Tuesday through Saturday.

“We have over 156 teams confirmed and it will be the largest World Series ever,” says Wayne Williams, co-director of this year’s tournament. “We’ve had tremendous support from the LGBT community and the city itself. The city’s been our partner from the beginning.”

Gay softball teams from all over the U.S. and Canada participate in the Alliance’s Gay Softball World Series each year. The games are free to attend and this year’s expected turnout is between 3,500-4,000 spectators and participants. The Alliance is technically a co-ed organization, but the majority of its teams are all male.

Teams compete in five different divisions, including A, B, C, D and Masters, which is reserved for players 50 and older. Many local Alliance leagues have tournaments to decide which teams will go to the World Series and which division they will compete in.

“The age range varies. You have to be 18 and over to play, and there is no upper age limit,” Williams says. “The Master’s division has been growing each year because a lot of the players are aging.”

Games will be held in a variety of locations outside the city including Watkins Regional Park (301 Watkins Park Dr., Upper Marlboro, Md.), Braddock Park (13241 Braddock Rd., Clinton, Va.), Fairland Regional Park (13950 Old Gunpowder Rd., Laurel, Md.) and Bachman Sports Complex (570 East Ordnance Rd., Glen Burnie, Md.). The exact game times and who will be playing who are still to be announced. The Alliance will not provide buses or vans to the fields for teams or spectators.

“We don’t provide transportation to and from the fields,” Williams says. “We do have an arrangement with the National Car Rental company. They provide discounts for car rentals, so we will connect our players with that service.”

Although the games are free to watch, the Alliance does raise money each year for charity from the teams that pay to compete in the World Series and the week’s social events. The beneficiaries are usually LGBT organizations. This year’s are the You Can Play Project (an LGBT organization that combats discrimination in athletics), Team D.C. and the Team D.C. Student-Athlete Scholarship Fund, the Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation (anti-bullying) and PETS-Washington, D.C. (provides care for pets owned by those living with HIV/AIDS). The Alliance is a registered non-profit with a charitable mission.

“Softball is an opportunity for players to come together as a group and organize activities in that regard, to represent the best of gay softball,” Williams says. “We designate local and national charities for this, so it’s an opportunity to give back.”

The week’s social events include daily afternoon pool parties, Night OUT at the Nationals hosted by Team D.C., an Alliance talent show and a “GrandSlam” after party at Town (2009 8th St., N.W.) on Saturday night. Many of the players and spectators enjoy the sense of community that is a part of each year’s tournament.

“I absolutely love the gay softball community,” says Tony Mase, shortstop for Washington-based team Capital Punishment. “There’s just something about the camaraderie among the teams that play in the league that you don’t get playing in other leagues outside of that community. For instance, our teams play in a straight league on Friday nights, and it’s not that bad to play in it, but it’s just not as fun and outgoing as it is in the LGBT league.”

This year’s World Series will demonstrate the cohesion among D.C.’s gay softball community. Six D.C. teams are competing, which is more than ever before. Ed Vincent, the coach of the Logan Tavern team and co-director for the tournament, describes the World Series as important.

“[The Alliance] provides this opportunity as kind of a safe haven for the LGBT community to play in an organized league setting,” Vincent says. “It’s really important that the players feel comfortable and secure to play in a league where they can compete at all levels, whether it’s the A division that’s the best or the B division that’s more recreational.”

“The tournament really allows the softball players to be role models for LGBT youth and other LGBT people out there. There’s a way to get involved and a way to form an association and a network of friends. It’s almost like a family,” Williams says. “A lot of these people really know each other. It’s a way to help people come out, or feel more comfortable with the coming out process.”

For more information on the 2013 Gay Softball World Series, visit DCseries2013.com.

Events:

MONDAY
Opening Ceremonies are from 6-10 p.m. at Fairgrounds D.C. (1299 Half St., S.E.), and the Opening Ceremonies After-Party is from 9 p.m.-2 a.m. at Ziegfeld’s Secrets (1824 Half St., S.E.). A complimentary shuttle-bus service will loop from Fairgrounds to the after-party at 9, and will drop guests off at the Navy Yard-Ballpark Metro Station until 11.

TUESDAY
The tournament kicks off at 7:50 a.m. at the various fields and the day’s games finish at 5 p.m.

An afternoon pool party for players will be held at Penthouse Pool at VIDA Fitness (1612 U St., N.W.) from noon-6 p.m.

Team D.C. hosts Night OUT at the Nationals at Nationals Park (1500 South Capitol St., S.E.) for tournament contestants. Gates open at 4:30 p.m. with $5 beer in the Night OUT section until first pitch at 7:05 p.m.

WEDNESDAY
Tournament games will be held from 7:50 a.m.-8 p.m. at the various fields, with an afternoon pool party at VIDA Fitness (1612 U St., N.W.) from noon-6 p.m.

Sequioa Restaurant (3000 K St., N.W.) hosts a “Hall of Fame Reception and Dinner” from 7:30-10:30 p.m.

THURSDAY
Tournament games will be held from 7:50 a.m.-6 p.m. at the various fields, with an afternoon pool party from noon-6 p.m. at VIDA Fitness (1612 U St., N.W.).

The Renaissance Hotel Grand Ballroom hosts an Association talent show from 8-11 p.m, with performances by players, coaches and directors. Shi-Queeta-Lee and Bubba D. Licious will be emceeing the event. Admission is $5. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit nagaaatalentshow.eventbrite.com.

FRIDAY
Tournament games will be held from 7:50 a.m.-6 p.m. at the various fields, with an afternoon pool party from noon-6 p.m. at VIDA Fitness (1612 U St., N.W.).

SATURDAY
The NAGAAA Softball Championships will be held from 8 a.m.-4 p.m. at Fairland Regional Park and Watkins Regional Park, with a closing street party and awards ceremony at the Renaissance Hotel’s 8th St. Plaza (999 9th St., N.W.).

Town (2009 8th St., N.W.) hosts the GrandSlam Closing Dance Party from 10 p.m.-3 a.m., with free admission for those with World Series wristbands from 10-11 p.m, and $8 after 11.

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Exciting electrics: Hyundai Ioniq 5, Volkswagen ID.4

Why EVs still make sense

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Electric-vehicle tax credits may have faded earlier this year, but EVs themselves are far from losing their spark. There are more charging stations than ever, battery ranges are longer and more realistic, and automakers have finally figured out that EVs don’t all need to look like geeky science projects or feel like failed beta tests. 

Just look at these two compact electrics, which are futuristic, fun and flexible enough for work or play.

HYUNDAI IONIQ 5

$37,000 to $48,000

Range: 245 to 318 miles

0 to 60 mph: 4.5 to 7.4 seconds

Cargo space: 26.3 cu. ft. 

PROS: Fast charging. Roomy cabin. Silky-smooth suspension. 

CONS: Wide turning radius. Rear wiper not on all trims. Price creep.

 After being introduced three years ago, what’s new for the latest Hyundai Ioniq 5? Mostly refinement. Charging is quicker, software is smarter and Hyundai continues to quietly listen to feedback, tweaking ride comfort and usability. Think of it as switching from messy eyeliner to a perfectly sharp wing.

Exterior styling remains one of this EV’s biggest conversation starters. Those pixel-inspired lights, crisp lines and slick hatchback-meets-crossover proportions exude refreshing confidence. There’s no trying to blend in, and that’s the point. Park this Hyundai anywhere and heads will turn. 

On the road, the Ioniq 5 prioritizes calm over chaos. Steering is light, the suspension smooths out rough pavement and acceleration feels brisk without being aggressive. Safety tech is plentiful and well-calibrated—adaptive cruise control, lane-centering, blind-spot monitoring—all working together without seeming like a nervous backseat driver. IOW, this ride is supportive, not clingy.

Inside, the user-friendly cabin shines. The flat floor and long wheelbase create a lounge-like atmosphere, with excellent legroom and airy visibility. Seats are well-bolstered and available with eco-friendly materials, and the sliding center console adds flexibility. Cargo space is generous, and the wide windshield makes city driving stress-free. Alas, the rear wiper is only available on select models. Overall, though, I appreciated how everything looks modern without feeling cold.

What makes this Hyundai special is its vibe. An EV that embraces individuality without shouting about it. 

Fun fact: The Ioniq’s ultra-fast charging can add hundreds of miles in under 20 minutes—perfect for those who hate waiting almost as much as they hate small talk on awkward first dates.

VOLKSWAGEN ID.4

$46,000 to $59,130

Range: 206 to 291 miles

0 to 60 mph: 4.4 to 7.7 seconds

Cargo space: 30.3 cu. ft. 

PROS: Sure handling. Decent range. Good storage. 

CONS: Body roll in curves. Fussy infotainment. No frunk.

The latest VW ID.4 focuses on polish. Software updates have fixed earlier frustrations, and overall drivability feels more cohesive. Less “learning curve” and more “hop in and go,” like a dependable bestie who doesn’t overthink things.

Styling-wise, this EV is intentionally inoffensive. Soft curves, friendly lighting and a familiar crossover shape make it approachable. While the ID.4 won’t turn heads like the Ioniq 5, that’s OK. It’s more akin to a classic outfit that always works—timeless, not trendy.

Driving the ID.4 is relaxed and predictable. This SUV prioritizes comfort over thrills, with a suspension tuned for daily commuting and long highway drives. Safety features are comprehensive and reassuring, including excellent lane assistance and collision-prevention systems. It’s the kind of car that quietly has your back, no drama required.

Inside, the ID.4 offers a calm, uncluttered cabin with good space for passengers and cargo alike. Rear-seat legroom is especially strong, making it a solid road-trip companion. The seats are plush, visibility is good and while the infotainment system isn’t the most intuitive, it’s improved enough to be more than tolerable.

The ID.4’s special sauce is balance. It doesn’t try to reinvent the wheel—it just electrifies it.

Fun fact: This is one of the most globally popular EVs, proving that sometimes being universally liked is a strength, not a personality flaw. Think, gold star gay who still surprises you.

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Child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays

It isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared

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Christmas trees are tempting for pets to climb so be sure to anchor them well. (Photo by sharomka/Bigstock)

The holidays are meant to be joyful, cozy, and full of laughter — but if you have young children or pets, they can also feel a little chaotic. Twinkling lights, shiny decorations, guests coming and going, and tables full of tempting food can turn your home into a wonderland of curiosity and mischief. The good news? With a little thoughtful planning, you can keep the holiday magic alive while making your home safer for everyone who lives there.

There’s something oddly comforting about movies where animals go to war with holiday decorations, turning carefully strung lights and perfectly placed ornaments into chaos. Whether it’s a mischievous dog tangled in tinsel or a curious cat launching a full-scale assault on a Christmas tree, these scenes tap into a universal experience for pet owners. 

The humor comes from the contrast: the human characters are trying to create warmth, tradition, and picture-perfect cheer, while the animals see the decorations as toys, obstacles, or personal enemies. The resulting destruction — trees tipping over, ornaments shattering, lights blinking out—feels exaggerated but relatable, especially during the already hectic holiday season. 

Let’s start with decorations because they tend to be the biggest attraction. Ornaments sparkle, garlands dangle, and everything seems designed to be touched, pulled, or tasted. If you have little ones or pets, consider placing your most fragile ornaments higher on the tree and using shatterproof options on the lower branches. Tinsel and ribbon may look festive, but they can be dangerous if swallowed, so skipping them or keeping them well out of reach is a simple way to reduce risk without sacrificing style.

Holiday lights are another favorite fascination. Before hanging them, take a few minutes to inspect each strand for frayed wires or broken bulbs. Secure cords along walls or behind furniture so they’re harder to grab or chew and unplug them when you leave the house or head to bed. Not only does this help prevent accidents, but it also gives you one less thing to worry about during a busy season.

The Christmas tree itself can become a focal point for exploration. Make sure it’s sturdy and well-anchored so it doesn’t tip if a toddler tugs on a branch or a pet decides to investigate. If you use a real tree, cover the water base since tree water can contain additives that aren’t safe if consumed. For artificial trees, keep an eye out for loose pieces or needles that could become choking hazards.

Food is a big part of holiday celebrations, and it’s also one of the most common sources of trouble. Many traditional treats—like chocolate, grapes, raisins, alcohol, and foods containing xylitol—are dangerous for pets. Keep plates and serving dishes up high, secure the trash can, and gently remind guests not to slip pets or kids “just a little bite” without checking first. For children, be mindful of hard candies, nuts, and small treats that could pose choking risks.

Candles and fireplaces add warmth and charm, but they deserve extra caution. Flameless candles are a wonderful alternative if you want ambiance without worry. If you do use real candles, place them well out of reach and never leave them unattended. Fireplaces should always have a sturdy screen or gate, especially with crawling babies or curious pets nearby.

Holiday gatherings bring wonderful energy into your home, but they can also create new challenges. Doors opening frequently make it easier for pets to slip outside, so consider setting up a quiet, comfortable space where they can relax during busy get-togethers. This can help reduce stress for them and give you peace of mind. For children, stair gates, locked cabinets, and clear boundaries can help prevent accidents when there’s extra excitement in the air.

New toys and gifts are another thing to watch closely. Packaging, twist ties, plastic wrap, and especially button batteries should be cleaned up promptly. These items are easy to overlook in the excitement of gift-opening but can be dangerous if swallowed. Taking a few minutes to tidy up as you go can make a big difference.

Lastly, try to keep routines as steady as possible. The holidays naturally disrupt schedules, but familiar mealtimes, naps, walks, and bedtime rituals help children and pets feel secure. A calmer household often means fewer accidents and a happier experience for everyone.

At the end of the day, child- and pet-proofing your home for the holidays isn’t about being perfect but about being prepared. A few small adjustments can help you relax, enjoy your guests, and focus on what truly matters: creating warm, happy memories with the ones you love. When your home feels safe, the holidays feel even sweeter.


Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her at [email protected] or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.

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In real estate, trust the process

With rates coming down, we could see spring surge in buyers

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The average 30-year mortgage rate is falling, little by slowly. With predictions that the rate will continue to adjust downward in the next year or two, there may be a busier spring market than we have seen in the last few year, especially for the DMV market, which has been reeling from thousands of layoffs this past year.  The frenzied activity resulting from interest rates close to 3% for some borrowers will probably not occur; however, this spring could add up to be a few notches busier than the last. 

What does this mean for buyers and sellers? Lender Tina Del Casale with Waterstone Mortgage says she has seen “low to mid 6’s as the average for conventional loans.” If rates continue downward into the 5% range, there may be more activity than we saw in the last year or two. This could release a little bit of pent up demand.  

Many buyers will have found that for whatever reason, their current home is not meeting their needs. Sellers may want to finally take the plunge and put a for sale sign in the yard and online, now that they might find a more reasonable rate on their next home. This winter can be an opportunity to assess financial situations, home conditions, and optimize one’s chances to have a sale with more agreeable terms, or put one’s best foot forward in an offer. In addition to checking with a lender or favorite handy person, let’s review what sellers and buyers typically spend their energy negotiating while enjoying the lovely process called “going under contract”:

  • Timelines – Sellers might want to have their house solidly under contract (papers signed, thumbs up from the lenders, all inspection items decided upon and settled) so that they can put an offer down on a new home, and then negotiate that timeline with the other sellers.  Remember, making a move is not only about the buyer taking possession of a new home, but also about the sellers figuring out their situation as well. 
  • Sale Price – unfortunately for buyers, in the eyes of most sellers, “money talks.”  So, in a non-competitive situation, a seller might be happy to just get one offer at a price that was within the desired range. As soon as another interested buyer enters the equation, it can become a little bit like RuPaul’s Drag Race, and one will have to lip sync for one’s life, honey! And only one buyer will get to hear the words, condragulations!”
  • Tone/Vibes/Energy in the Room – Remember:  Human beings are emotional creatures. All of us have feelings. And all of us want to put energy into situations where we feel appreciated, where a level of self-awareness exists, and a sense that each side is trying one’s hardest to act in good faith.   The best transactions I saw were where a little grace was the “grease on the wheels” of the transaction.  Occasionally, a buyer had cold feet and wanted to see the unit a few more times before the settlement date, or a seller forgot to scrub the bathroom with a little extra elbow grease before the settlement date.  Life happens; misunderstandings can occur. A wise therapist once said: “You don’t have to like it, but can you allow it?” The tone of one or both parties in the transaction can be what seals the deal, or results in one party exiting the contract. (In the case of the dirty bathroom, the seller left a check with the title company for the buyer to pay a housekeeper to come clean what they couldn’t.) 


Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. He can be reached at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].

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