Books
Gay concierge tells all
New book exposes demands of wealthy hotel guests
āConcierge Confidentialā
By Michael Fazio w/ Michael Malice
St. Martinās Press
$24.99/271 pages
Some people, well, youād do anything for them.
The sweet older lady next door calls for a favor and you go running. Your nephew bats those baby blues and youād buy out the toy store for him. If she asked, youād dig ditches for a beloved former boss, and all your mom has to do is crook her finger for you to be at her service.
Is serving what you do best? Could you do it for a living? Read the new book āConcierge Confidentialā by Michael Fazio (with Michael Malice) and youāll think twice before answering.
When Charlie Sheen called and asked if the boss was in, Michael Fazio was barely fazed. Fazio figured it would be a small step from agency assistant to āthe next big Hollywood movie mogulā and a good mogul isnāt impressed with fame.
But Fazioās job at The Liberty Agency didnāt so much include hobnobbing with the stars as it did taking care of his boss, Glennis. He soon learned that keeping her happy meant plugging in her curlers and making coffee before she got to work. Caring for her was, oddly, something Fazio enjoyed doing.
After another brief assistantās job and a gig playing piano on a cruise ship, Fazio and his partner, Jeffrey, moved to Manhattan. Though Fazio was initially unemployed, he quickly found a job at the InterContinental Hotel on 48th Street, where he learned that his unique strengths would best be put to use as a concierge.
A good concierge, like a good businessperson, has lots of contacts to call upon for favors. He (or she) excels at making the impossible possible. Though celebrities and millionaires are the conciergeās typical clients, anyone staying at a hotel with a concierge can use the services offered.
Fazio writes about finding yachts for his clients, as well as tickets to sold-out concerts, reservations to jam-packed restaurants and nightclubs, and yes, even the unconventional. He writes about good tippers, bad eateries, ugly situations and how he survived them all.
Going on vacation this summer? Check this book out before you leave.
āConcierge Confidentialā includes the dishiest stories of wealth and celebrity, as well as a wealth of tips on star treatment and getting the best results from your hotel stay.
Authors Fazio and Malice donāt stop there, though. They explain what a concierge does, where youāll find one, and how to get what you need (hint: being a jerk wonāt impress anybody). In between lessons, youāll be regaled by tales of Hollywood and Broadway, challenges and chefs, businessmen and bubbleheads, hissy-fitting stars and hustling scammers and the rich and famous.
And then, if your hotel doesnāt have a devoted concierge, youāll learn how to schmooze tickets, reservations and admission on your own.
Itās hard not to love something that so effortlessly entertains, and āConcierge Confidentialā does just that. If youāre heading for holiday, or if youāre just up for a light, fun, privy look at leisure and luxury, you should do anything to get this book.
Books
New book explores why we categorize sports according to gender
You can lead a homophobic horse to water but you can’t make it think

āFair Play: How Sports Shape the Gender Debatesā
By Katie Barnes
c.2023, St. Martin’s Press
$29/304 pages
The jump shot happened so quickly, so perfectly.
Your favorite player was in the air in a heartbeat, basketball in hand, wrist cocked. One flick and it was allĀ swish, three points, just like that, and your team was ahead. So are you watching men’s basketball or women’s basketball? Or, as in the new book,Ā “Fair Play” by Katie Barnes,Ā should it really matter?

For sports fans, this may come as a surprise: we categorize sports according to gender.
Football, baseball, wresting: male sports. Gymnastics, volleyball: women’s sports. And yet, one weekend spent cruising around television shows you that those sports are enjoyed by both men and women ā but we question the sexuality of athletes who dare (gasp!) to cross invisible lines for a sport they love.
How did sports “become a flash point for a broader conversation?”
Barnes takes readers back first to 1967, when Kathrine Switzer and Bobbi Gibb both ran in the Boston Marathon. It was the first time women had audaciously done so and while both finished the race, their efforts didn’t sit well with the men who made the rules.
“Thirty-seven words” changed the country in 1972 when Title IX was signed, which guaranteed there’d be no discrimination in extracurricular events, as long as “federal financial assistance” was taken. It guaranteed availability for sports participation for millions of girls in schools and colleges. It also “enshrine[d] protections for queer and transgender youth to access school sports.”
So why the debate about competition across gender lines?
First, says Barnes, we can’t change biology, or human bodies that contain both testosterone and estrogen, or that some athletes naturally have more of one or the other ā all of which factor into the debate. We shouldn’t forget that women can and do compete with men in some sports, and they sometimes win. We shouldn’t ignore the presence of transgender men in sports.
What we should do, Barnes says, is to “write a new story. One that works better.”
Here are two facts: Nobody likes change. And everybody has an opinion.
Keep those two statements in mind when you read “Fair Play.” They’ll keep you calm in this debate, as will author Katie Barnes’ lack of flame fanning.
As a sports fan, an athlete, and someone who’s binary, Barnes makes things relatively even-keel in this book, which is a breath of fresh air in what’s generally ferociously contentious. There’s a good balance of science and social commentary here, and the many, many stories that Barnes shares are entertaining and informative, as well as illustrative. Readers will come away with a good understanding of where the debate lies.
But will this book make a difference?
Maybe. Much will depend on who reads and absorbs it. Barnes offers plenty to ponder but alas, you can lead a homophobic horse to water but you can’t make it think. Still, if you’ve got skin in this particular bunch of games, find “Fair Play” and jump on it.
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Books
New book goes behind the scenes of āA League of Their Ownā
āNo Crying in Baseballā offers tears, laughs, and more

āNo Crying in Baseball: The Inside Story of āA League of Their Ownā
By Erin Carlson
c.2023, Hachette Books
$29/320 pages
You donāt usually think of Madonna as complaining of being ādirty all dayā from playing baseball. But thatās what the legendary diva did during the shooting of āA League of Their Own,ā the 1992 movie, beloved by queers.
āNo Crying in Baseball,ā the fascinating story behind āA League of Their Own,ā has arrived in time for the World Series. Nothing could be more welcome after Amazon has cancelled season 2 of its reboot (with the same name) of this classic film.

In this era, people donāt agree on much. Yet, āA League of Their Ownā is loved by everyone from eight-year-old kids to 80-year-old grandparents.
The movie has strikes, home runs and outs for sports fans; period ambience for history buffs; and tears, laughs and a washed-up, drunk, but lovable coach for dramady fans.
The same is true for āNo Crying in Baseball.ā This āmaking ofā story will appeal to history, sports and Hollywood aficionados. Like āAll About Eveā and āThe Rocky Horror Picture Show,ā āA League of Their Ownā is Holy queer Writ.
Carlson, a culture and entertainment journalist who lives in San Francisco, is skilled at distilling Hollywood history into an informative, compelling narrative. As with her previous books, āIāll Have What Sheās Having: How Nora Ephronās three Iconic Films Saved the Romantic Comedyā and āQueen Meryl: The Iconic Roles, Heroic Deeds, and Legendary Life of Meryl Streep,ā āNo Crying in Baseball,ā isnāt too āeducational.ā Itās filled with gossip to enliven coffee dates and cocktail parties.
āA League of Their Ownā is based on the true story of the All-American Girls Professional Baseball League (AAGPBL). From 1943 to 1954, more than 600 women played in the league in the Midwest. The leagueās players were all white because the racism of the time prohibited Black women from playing. In the film, the characters are fictional. But the team the main characters play for ā the Rockford Peaches ā was real.
While many male Major and Minor League Baseball players were fighting in World War II, chewing gum magnate Philip K. Wrigley, who owned the Chicago Cubs, founded the league. He started the AAGPBL, āTo keep spectators in the bleachers,ā Carlson reports, āand a storied American sportāmore important: his business afloat.ā
In 1943, the Office of War Information warned that the baseball season could be āscrappedā ādue to a lack of men,ā Carlson adds.
āA League of Their Ownā was an ensemble of womenās performances (including Rosie OāDonnell as Doris, Megan Cavanagh as Marla, Madonna as Mae, Lori Petty as Kit and Geena Davis as Dottie) that would become legendary.
Girls and women still dress up as Rockford Peaches on Halloween.
Tom Hanksās indelible portrayal of coach Jimmy Dugan, Gary Marshallās depiction of (fictional) league owner Walter Harvey and Jon Lovitzās portrayal of Ernie have also become part of film history.
Filming āA League of Their Own,ā Carlson vividly makes clear, was a gargantuan effort. There were āactresses who canāt play baseballā and ābaseball players who canāt act,ā Penny Marshall said.
The stadium in Evansville, Ind., was rebuilt to look like it was in the 1940s āwhen the players and extras were in costume,ā Carlson writes, āit was easy to lose track of what year it was.ā
āNo Crying in Baseballā isnāt written for a queer audience. But, Carlson doesnāt pull any punches.
Many of the real-life AAGPBL players who OāDonnell met had same-sex partners, OāDonnell told Carlson.
āWhen Penny, angling for a broad box-office hit chose to ignore the AAGPGLās queer history,ā Carlson writes, āshe perpetuated a cycle of silence that muzzled athletes and actresses alike from coming out on the wider stage.ā
āIt was, as they say, a different time,ā she adds.
Fortunately, Carlsonās book isnāt preachy. Marshall nicknames OāDonnell and Madonna (who become buddies) āRoā and āMo.ā Kodak is so grateful for the one million feet of film that Marshall shot that it brings in a high school marching band. Along with a lobster lunch. One day, an assistant director āstreaked the set to lighten the mood,ā Carlson writes.
āNo Crying in Baseball,ā is slow-going at first. Marshall, who died in 2018, became famous as Laverne in āLaverne & Shirley.ā Itās interesting to read about her. But Carlson devotes so much time to Marshallās bio that you wonder when sheāll get to āA League of Their Own.ā
Thankfully, after a couple of innings, the intriguing story of one of the best movies ever is told.
Youāll turn the pages of āNo Crying in Baseballā even if you donāt know a center fielder from a short stop.
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Shorter days, cooler temps, and longer nights can send you skittering inside, right? Donāt forget to bring one of these great books with you when you settle in for the fall.
Releasing in September, look for āBetween the Head and the Handsā by James Chaarani, a novel about a young Muslim man whose family turns him away for being gay, and the teacher who takes him in (ECW Press, Sept. 10). Also reach for āCleat Cute: A Novel,ā by Meryl Wilsner (St. Martinās Griffin, Sept. 19), a fun YA novel of soccer, competition, and playing hard (to get).
You may want something light and fun for now, so find āThe Out Side: Trans and Nonbinary Comics,ā compiled by The Kao, Min Christiansen, and Daniel Daneman (Andrews McMeel Publishing). Itās a collection of comics by nonbinary and trans artists, and you can find it Sept. 26.
The serious romantic will want to find āDaddies of a Different Kind: Sex and Romance Between Older and Younger Gay Menā by Tony Silva (NYU Press), a book about new possibilities in love; itās available Sept. 12. Historians will want āGlitter and Concrete: A Cultural History of Drag in New York Cityā by Elyssa Maxx Goodman (Hanover Square Press, Sept. 12); and āQueer Blues: The Hidden Figures of Early Blues Musicā by Darryl W. Bullock (Omnibus Press, Sept. 14).
In October, youāll want to find āBlackouts: A Novelā by Justin Torres (Farrar, Straus & Giroux), a somewhat-fantasy novel about a dying man who passes a powerful book on to his caretaker. Look for it Oct. 10. Also on Oct. 10, grab āLove at 350Āŗā by Lisa Peers (Dial Press Trade Paperback), a novel about love at a chance meeting at a baking-show contest and āThe Christmas Swap: A Novelā by Talia Samuels (Alcove Press), a holiday rom-com.
Youāre just warming up for the fall. Look for āIris Kelly Doesnāt Dateā by Ashley Herring Blake (Berkley, Oct. 24) and āLet Me Out,ā a queer horror novel by Emmett Nahil and George Williams (Oni Press, Oct. 3).
Nonfiction lovers will want to find āDis… Miss Gender?ā by Anne Bray (MIT Press, Oct. 24), a wide, long look at gender and fluidity; āFriends of Dorothy: A Celebration of LGBTQ+ Iconsā by Anthony Uzarowski and Alejandro Mogollo Diez (Imagine, Oct. 10); and ā300,000 Kisses: Tales of Queer Love from the Ancient Worldā by Sean Hewitt and Luke Edward Hall (Clarkson Potter, Oct. 10).
For November, look for āUnderburn: A Novelā by Bill Gaythwaite (Delphinium), a layered novel about Hollywood, family, and second chances. It comes out Nov. 14. For something you can really sink your teeth into, find āThe Bars are Ours: Histories and Cultures of Gay Bars in America, 1960 and Afterā by Lucas Hilderbrand (Duke University Press, Nov 21). Itās a huge look at the spaces that played strong roles in LGBTQ history.
And if youāre looking for yourself or for a special gift in December, check out āTrans Hirstory in 99 Objectsā by David Evans Frantz, Christina Linden, and Chris E. Vargas. Itās an arty coffee table book from Hirmer Publishers of Munich. You can find it Dec. 20. Also look for āSecond Chances in New Port Stephen: A Novelā by T.J. Alexander (Atria / Emily Bestler, Dec. 5) and if all else fails, ask for or give a gift certificate.
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