Arts & Entertainment
Getting away from the bars
OUTdoor group finds gay community in nature-based activities

Over the years, I have met many couples at LGBT sporting events and functions.Ā Ā Usually, one is the athlete and the other is a supporter of his or her partnersā athletic endeavors.
TheĀ OUTdoor Adventures GroupĀ was founded by Baltimore couple, Steve Marker and Joe Palumbo in the summer of 2010. They share a passion for the outdoors.
āWe were at a bar one night with a group of friends and wanted to find an opportunity to get together with other gay men that did not involve drinking,ā Palumbo says. āBoth Steve and I love hiking, camping and being outdoors so the group began with day trips.ā
The day trips have included skydiving, rock climbing, white water rafting, Gay Day at Hershey Park and competing in the Warrior Dash and Tough Mudder. They have also made two weekend trips part of their annual activities.
Big Gay Camping is a weekend event held in the fall every year with the group camping in Harpers Ferry the first year and switching to the gay-friendly locale of The Woods in Lehigh, Pa., for the last two years.
āWhen we first started out, most of the people in the group were from Baltimore,ā Palumbo says. āOn the last camping trip, we had close to 40 people from Baltimore, D.C., Philadelphia and New York.ā
Coming up for the group is the third annual Gay Ski Weekend where the group has reserved a lakefront chalet in Deep Creek, Md. They have already booked close to 30 people for the weekend which will kick off on Jan. 25.
Marker and Palumbo, who met at Gay Pride in Baltimore in 2008, were married in July at Old Stone House in Georgetown. Their honeymoon was an Alaskan cruise which included 55 of their family and friends. Festivities on the ship included a pool party and rock climbing.
Recently, the couple took their adventuring to the extreme level by completing the Via Ferrata course at Nelson Rocks in West Virginia. Via Ferrata systems are relatively new in the United States but have been popular for decades in Europe, where about 300 routes are open to the public.
Via Ferrata means āroad with ironsā in Italian. The courses have been described by many as a combination of hiking and climbing. Via Ferratas are strongly associated with World War I when the Italians and Austrians were fighting near the Dolomites mountain ranges in Italy. The troops needed a better way to move through the mountainous area.
The modern Via Ferrata is a steel cable that runs along the route and is periodically fixed to the rock. Climbing aids such as iron rungs, pegs, carved steps, ladders and bridges are often found on the courses.
The Nelson Rocks facility is one of about eight in the United States. Marker and Palumbo finished the 3.5-mile course in just over five hours.
āAdventuring has always been a part of our life together,ā Marker says. āWhenever we are feeling stress, we find something to do that will take us outdoors.ā
You can find the group on Facebook under OUTdoor Adventures Group.

Honoring Individual Power and Strength (HIPS) will celebrate its 30th anniversary by providing essential health and social services on Saturday, April 5 at 6 p.m. at 906 H St., N.E.
This event will be a celebration of the ongoing generosity of local D.C. business, philanthropists, and residents who step up to help us support those most in need in our neighborhoods. At this event you will join other HIPS stakeholders and community members for music and performances from local queer talent and learn more about some of the work the group has accomplished in the past 30 years to ensure everyone in our neighborhoods has access to HIV, viral hepatitis, and STI testing. For more details, visit the HIPS website.

Capital Pride Alliance and the Washington Wizards will host āPride Nightā on Thursday, March 27 at 7 p.m. Ticket purchases come with a limited-edition Wizards Pride belt bag. There are limited quantities.
Tickets start at $31 and can be purchased on the Wizardsā website.
Theater
Celebrated local talent Regina Aquino is back on the boards
Queer actor starring in Arena Stageās āThe Age of Innocenceā

āThe Age of Innocenceā
Through March 30
Arena Stage
1101 Sixth St., S.W.
Tickets start at $59
Arenastage.org
Actor, director, and now filmmaker, celebrated local talent Regina Aquino is back on the boards in Arena Stageās āThe Age of Innocence,ā staged by the companyās artistic director Hana S. Sharif.
Adapted by Karen ZacarĆas from Edith Wharton’s 1920 masterpiece novel, the work surrounds a love triangle involving New York scion Newland Archer, his young fiancĆ©e, and the unconventional beauty Countess Olenska. The Gilded Age-set piece sets up a struggle between rigid societal norms and following oneās own heart.
Aquino ā a queer-identified first-generation Filipino immigrant who grew up in the DMVā is the first Filipino American actress to receive a Helen Hayes Award (2019). She won for her work in Theater Allianceās āThe Events.ā
In āThe Age of Innocence,ā Aquino plays Newlandās mother Adeline Archer, a widow who lives with her unmarried, socially awkward daughter Janey. No longer a face on the dinner party circuit, she does enjoy gossiping at home, especially with her close friend Mr. Sillerton Jackson, a āconfirmed bachelorā and social arbiter. Together, they sip drinks and talk about whatās happening among their elite Manhattan set.
WASHINGTON BLADE: Do you like Mrs. Archer?
REGINA AQUINO: Thereās a lot of joy in playing this character. Sheās very exuberant in those moments with her bestie Sillerton. Otherwise, thereās not much for her to do. In Whartonās book, it says that Mrs. Archerās preferred pastime is growing ferns.
BLADE: But she can be rather ruthless?
AQUINO: When it comes to her family, yes. Sheās protective, which I understand. When she feels that her familyās under attack in any way, or the structure of the society that upholds way of life is threatened, she leans hard into that.
The rare times that sheās out in society you see the boundaries come up, and the performative aspect of what society means. She can be very mean if she wants to be.
BLADE: Can you relate?
AQUINO: I come from a large Filipino matriarchal family. Mrs. Archer is someone I recognize. When Iām in the Philippines, Iām around people like that. People who will do business with you but wonāt let you into their inner circle.
BLADE: Did you ever imagine yourself playing a woman like Mrs. Archer?
AQUINO: No. However, in the past couple of years diversely cast TV shows like āBridgertonā and āQueen Charlotteā have filled a need for me that I didnāt I know I had.
With stories like āThe Age of Innocenceā that are so specific about American history, they arenāt always easily imagined by American audiences when performed by a diverse cast.
But when Karen [ZacarĆas] wrote the play, she imagined it as a diverse cast. What theyāre presenting is reflective of all the different people that make up America.
BLADE: You seem a part of many groups. How does that work?
AQUINO: For me, the code switching is real. Whether Iām with my queer family, Filipinos, or artists of color. Itās different. The way we talk about the world, it shifts. I speak Tiglao in the Philippines or here I may fall into an accent depending on who Iām with.
BLADE: And tell me about costume designer Fabio Tabliniās wonderful clothes.
AQUINO: Arenāt they gorgeous? At the Arena costume shop, they build things to fit to your body. Itās not often we get to wear these couture things. As actors weāre in the costumes for three hours a night but these women, who the characters are based on, wore these corseted gowns all day, every day. Itās amazing how much these clothes help in building your character. Iāve found new ways of expressing myself when my waist is cinched down to 26 inches.
BLADE: Arenaās Fichandler Stage is theatre-in-the-round. Great for costumes. How about you?
AQUINO: This is my favorite kind of acting. In the round thereās nowhere to hide. Your whole body is acting. Thereās somebody somewhere who can see every part of you. Very much how we move in real life. I find it easier.
BLADE: While the Gilded Age was opulent for some, it wasnāt a particularly easy time for working people.
AQUINO: The play includes commentary on class. Never mind money. If youāre not authentic to who you are and connecting with the people you love, youāre not going to be happy. The idea of Newland doing what he wants, and Countess Olenskaās journey toward freedom is very threatening to my character, Mrs. Archer. Today, these same oppressive structures are doing everything here to shutdown feelings of liberation. Thatās where the heart of this story lands for me.