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A milestone for faith
Ratification of Presbyterian vote brings marriage rights

Rev. Ashley Goff and Rev. Jeffrey Krehbiel at Church of the Pilgrims (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
Presbyterians in the D.C. area have for the most part welcomed their church’s decision to officially recognize same-sex marriages.
Rev. Jeffrey Krehbiel of Church of the Pilgrims near Dupont Circle said Monday he is “very pleased with the result” of the Presbyterian Church (USA) Office of the General Assembly’s March 17 approval of a change to language within the denomination’s constitution to describe marriage as what the Associated Press described as a “commitment between two people.”
The Presbyterian General Assembly, the church’s top legislative body, last year approved the redefinition of marriage within its constitution. The majority of the denominations’ 171 presbyteries, however, needed to ratify the proposal.
It will take effect on June 21.
“It’s been something we’ve been working on for several years,” Krehbiel says.
Alex McNeill, a transgender man who is president of More Light Presbyterians, a group for LGBT people in the church, also welcomed the recognition of same-sex marriages.
“We greeted the news on Tuesday joyfully,” McNeill, who lives in Hyattsville, Md.., says. “There are so many folks within our denominations who have been waiting decades for the church to recognize their marriages and their families.”
Rev. G. Wilson Gunn, Jr., general presbyter of the National Capital Presbytery, which oversees 108 churches in the D.C. metropolitan area, says there are “several pastors and elders who both supported the change in our church constitution to allow same-gender marriage and those who opposed the issue.”
“We include in our presbytery significant leaders on both sides of this issue,” he says.
A newspaper in Upstate New York on March 23 reported that a local church has begun to formally separate itself from the Presbyterian Church (USA) in response to the decision to accept same-sex marriages. The Associated Press noted that 428 churches either dissolved or entered more conservative denominations in the two years after the Presbyterians allowed gays and lesbians to become pastors.
Franklin Graham, son of Rev. Billy Graham, is among those who have criticized the church for redefining marriage.
“In his word, the Bible, God has already defined marriage, as well as sin, and we should obey that rather than looking for ways to redefine it according to the desires of our culture,” wrote the younger Graham on his Facebook page. “Marriage is defined as between a man and a woman — end of discussion. Anything else is a sin against God, and He will judge all sin one day.”
Jim Moseley, executive presbyter of the New Castle Presbytery, which includes congregations in Delaware and Maryland’s Eastern Shore, says members of his presbytery earlier this month met and voted to support the redefinition of marriage.
Moseley, like Gunn, nevertheless acknowledged some within his presbytery — or regional district — do not support the decision to accept gay unions. The executive presbyter of the New Castle Presbytery told the Blade there are some within his jurisdiction who would possibly refuse to officiate same-sex weddings.
“Some sessions if pressed would stand on the ground that they are in opposition and would probably stand in opposition to having a same-sex marriage in their church,” Moseley says. “That would be their prerogative. No one has reported a case to me though.”
Craig N. Palmer, transitional general presbyter of the Presbytery of Baltimore, says the history of his group has been “generally in support” of changes to the church’s constitution with regard to marriage, ordination and other issues.
“We’re trying to stay engaged with everyone around this issue,” Palmer says. “I’m hopeful that as we move forward in our own journey as disciples of our Lord, that we can stay in conversation around these issues.”
Krehbiel said some members of his church have questioned what he calls “the hetero-normativity of the model of marriage.”
“There are some who are unsure whether marriage equality is the most important issue facing the LGBTQ community,” he says.
Decision to redefine marriage ‘joyous’ for LGBT Presbyterians

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
The Presbyterian Church (USA) since 2011 has allowed openly LGBT people to hold leadership positions within the denomination. The church last June effectively lifted its ban on pastors performing marriages in jurisdictions where it is legal.
The amendment to the denomination’s constitution contains a provision that states no clergy will be compelled to officiate a same-sex marriage.
Krehbiel was a commissioner of the church’s 2012 General Assembly that took place in Pittsburgh.
He says he was somewhat “surprised” the church moved so quickly on marriage, considering the reaction the issue received during the Pittsburgh meeting.
“The church was so afraid of taking this step,” Krehbiel says. “They were barely willing to have a full debate.”
Others with whom the Blade spoke said they were far less surprised.
“I imagine most people saw this decision coming,” Palmer says.
The Presbyterian Church is now the largest Protestant denomination in the world to recognize same-sex marriages and officially allow their clergy to perform them.
Presbyterian leaders with whom the Blade spoke say the decision is a reflection of broader societal changes around the issue that have taken place over the last decade.
Gays and lesbians in Virginia, West Virginia, North Carolina and more than a dozen other states have received marriage rights since the General Assembly last year endorsed the redefinition of marriage.
McNeill told the Blade that some Presbyterian clergy who decided to officiate civil unions and marriage ceremonies for same-sex couples “put their ordinations on the line.” He says the decision to acknowledge gay nuptials no longer puts them in that situation.
“For some of those clergy who put their ordinations on the line it really is a significant day,” McNeill says.
The Pittsburgh Presbytery charged Rev. Janet Edwards with violating Biblical teachings and the Constitution of the Presbyterian Church after she officiated the wedding of two women in 2005.
Edwards was acquitted of the charges in 2008, and she has subsequently lobbied the denomination to acknowledge same-sex marriage.
“Today, the words of Matthew 19:26 ring true for me: with You, all things are possible. Hallelujah,” wrote Edwards in a blog post for More Light Presbyterians after the church voted to acknowledge same-sex marriages. “What a privilege to be one of the cloud of witnesses rejoicing in this new day! Thank you for this awesome opportunity to participate in a moment of true reformation.”
Palmer says he thinks there are broader impacts of the church’s decision as well.
“My sense is that this a pretty joyous thing to have had happen,” he says. “As we’ve seen in other denominations, this has been a pretty challenging conversation for people of faith and for our denomination to make that shift. I would think that folks in our community of faith who are gay and lesbian would see as a welcome action.”
Krehbiel agrees.
“At least within gay-friendly congregations, it means the end of being the subject of debate,” he says. “I think that era is over.”
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).
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