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BETTY’s triumphant return
D.C. band gearing up for World AIDS Day show
BETTY
World AIDS concert
The Hamilton
600 14th St., N.W.
Tuesday, Dec. 1
Doors 6:30 p.m.
Show 7:30 p.m.
$20-30
For fans of “The L Word,” BETTY has been in your living room for years.
The band, originating in Washington, formed after performing at a party for the original owner of the 9:30 Club, Dodie Bowers. Since then, sisters Amy and Elizabeth Ziff and Alyson Palmer have performed at numerous LGBT rights, pro-choice and HIV/AIDS awareness events. With Amy on vocals and cello, Elizabeth on vocals and guitar and Palmer on vocals and bass, the trio, who now reside in New York City, are approaching their 30th anniversary and performing at the Hamilton for World AIDS Day on Tuesday, Dec. 1. A portion of the profits will benefit Whitman-Walker Health.
During a phone interview in the recording studio, Amy and Elizabeth discussed their new album, ties to D.C. and how they feel about being called a lesbian band.
WASHINGTON BLADE: What are you working on in the recording studio?
ELIZABETH: We’re working on our next album it should be out in springtime. Our next full album with the producer Mike Thorn.
BLADE: What’s the recording process been like so far?
ELIZABETH: It’s been good and interesting because Mike produced our first album in 1991, so it’s nice to be working with him again. We’ve done a couple of albums with him. It’s an interesting process to go back and look 20-something years ago and then to look now. I think it’s a little bit more open about change when you get to work with somebody that you’ve known a long time. You trust them a little bit more.
AMY: We’re looking at some songs that we’ve been performing and looking at them differently to record. It’s fun, it’s really opening them up.
BLADE: How did the band get started?
AMY: We started in Washington. We advertised on the radio for a bass player and I think Alyson was the third. Alyson called me at the job I had at the time and we talked for a really, really long time. She came over to audition and basically stayed almost all night.
ELIZABETH: Amy and I were actually still living at our parents’ house. We were little kids.
AMY: We laughed and starting working on songs and that was that. It was the beginning.
ELIZABETH: That was our first band together. Then Dodie Bowers from the original 9:30 Club asked us to sing at her Valentine’s Day party. She heard that we sing a cappella sometimes so we sang a cappella and then people loved it. So we decided to start BETTY. Coming up in 2016 this is going to be our 30th anniversary.
BLADE: You’re also very involved in LGBT rights and women’s equality. What made you decide to use your music this way? Was it always the plan to be so political?
AMY: I think we’ve always been political. We came of age in D.C. and it was a very political time. D.C. has always been political and I’m sure it still is, because the industry there is politics. So we were involved with feminist causes and LGBT stuff and AIDS work very early on. It was just a part of who we were. You went to Take Back the Night marches and you went to pro-choice stuff. When we started doing music we performed at them. It was sort of a synthesis of who we were as feminists and who we were as women at the time.
ELIZABETH: Also, AIDS started affecting a lot of our friends. As musicians, we tried to start singing or performing in any kind of way, on any scale, that would make us feel less helpless. Because our friends were getting sick and dying. I don’t know what comes first whether you’re an arts activist or an activist artist but they just seemed to happen at the same time.
AMY: Also, at the time we actually did some stuff for Whitman-Walker and early stuff for gay Pride. No one played at gay pride in the early days because people were afraid. It was back when it was hidden sort of behind P Street.
ELIZABETH: We were like, ‘Of course we’ll play for gay Pride,’ and we thanked our friends in the hospital and things like that. Whitman-Walker is such a great organization and has been around for so long and it’s in D.C. so it’s really fun to be back and to be able too give back a little to the community in D.C.
BLADE: The band has also provided the theme song for “The L Word.” How did that collaboration come about? Did you expect the show to be as popular as it became?
ELIZABETH: Ilene Chaiken asked four different bands to submit a theme song because she really wanted the theme song to reflect the actual song. So we submitted ours and three or four other bands did and the network chose the song, and they chose ours. We didn’t know the show was going to be such a seminal, groundbreaking show. It was really exciting to be a part of it. You have to understand that we had been together for 20 years already and then the show happened so it opened up a whole new thing for us. Especially in Europe and South America so that’s been really great and really fun.
BLADE: Since the band has been involved in things like “The L Word” and LGBT rights, how much of that is a part of your band’s identity?
ELIZABETH: As an identity, its female-identified. Now, we’ve never really labeled ourselves as a lesbian band because Alyson is straight. We’ve always played for gay rights and lesbian rights and trans rights. We’ve done a lot of pro-choice work, cancer and AIDS work. But our music hopefully transcends politics.
AMY: Our music isn’t really political. It’s fun and dance or folky or thoughtful. But we like to involve ourselves in causes that are important to us. But our music is pop music.
ELIZABETH: Other people can label us however they want. If they want us to be a lesbian band then right on. If they want us to be a gay band, fine. But we don’t really label ourselves because we don’t need to. I think labels hopefully are going away a little bit. Except for the label of being women and feminists.
BLADE: How do you find performing in D.C. different from your home base New York?
AMY: We are always really excited to go back to D.C. to perform. We actually did the soundscape for an exhibit at the Freer/Sackler museum right now. It’s called Peacock Room: Remix. It’s the re-do of Whistler’s Peacock Room. We were so excited to be a part of that and to be a part of Darren Waterston’s amazing piece. So we did some events in synthesis to promote that and to be a part of the Smithsonian. A lot of old friends came out and a lot of people that we hadn’t seen. When we did our off-Broadway show “BETTY Rules” we were excited that all of the references that we put in the show really came to life when we were performing in Washington. That’s when we started as a band. That was a really great time to perform our show there. It was so exciting.
ELIZABETH: We haven’t been back to play at a club in D.C. in a while. The last time was at the 9:30 Club and that was a few years ago. We heard the Hamilton was fun. What’s always been great about D.C. is that hopefully we get what we always get, which is a nice mix of race and gender and sexual identity as well.
AMY: People who knew us when we lived there can bring other people that don’t know about us or their kids or their parents.
ELIZABETH: People who know us from “The L Word” and are curious to see how we are live because we’re fun live.
BLADE: This show is also a holiday show. What can people expect? Will you be performing any of your new music?
AMY: I think a couple of our fresh new songs that we’ve never performed before will be there. And also some of our holiday songs that we’ve written. And some of our songs that aren’t holiday, but can be put in a holiday context. So you can expect to have a good time. Laugh a little bit, maybe feel a little bit. Move a little bit, cruise a little bit.
ELIZABETH: People will be cruising a lot.
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Jussie Smollett asserts innocence while promoting new film
‘I know what happened and soon you all will too’
Jussie Smollett, the actor and musician who was convicted of lying to the police about being the victim of a homophobic and racist hate crime that he staged in 2019, attended a screening of his latest film “The Lost Holliday” in a packed auditorium of the Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial Library on Aug. 28.
In an interview with the Washington Blade that took place before the screening, he continued to assert his innocence and responded to concerns within the LGBTQ community that his case has discouraged real victims from reporting hate crimes.
The former “Empire” star wrote, produced, and directed “The Lost Holliday,” his second feature film to direct following 2021’s “B-Boy Blues.” Produced through Smollett’s company, SuperMassive Movies, he stars in the film alongside Vivica A. Fox, who also served as a producer and attended the library screening with other cast members.
In the film, Smollett plays Jason Holliday, a man grappling with the sudden death of his husband Damien (Jabari Redd). Things are complicated when Damien’s estranged mother, Cassandra Marshall (Fox), arrives in Los Angeles from Detroit for the funeral, unaware of Damien’s marriage to Jason or of their adopted daughter. Initially, Jason and Cassandra clash — Cassandra’s subtle homophobia and Jason’s lingering resentment over her treatment of Damien fuel their tension –– but they begin to bond as they navigate their grief together.
Smollett, Fox, Redd, and Brittany S. Hall, who plays Jason’s sister Cheyenne, discussed the film in an interview with the Washington Blade. Highlighting the wide representation of queer identities in the film and among the cast, they stressed that the story is fundamentally about family and love.
“What we really want people to get from this movie is love,” Smollett said. “It’s beneficial for people to see other people that are not like themselves, living the life that they can identify with. Because somehow, what it does is that it opens up the world a little bit.”
Smollett drew from personal experiences with familial estrangement and grief during the making of the film, which delves into themes of parenthood, reconciliation, and the complexities of family relationships.
“I grew up with a father who was not necessarily the most accepting of gay people, and I grew up with a mother who was rather the opposite. I had a safe space in my home to go to, but I also had a not-so-safe space in my home, which was my father,” he said.
“The moment that he actually heard the words that his son was gay, as disconnected and estranged as we were, he instantly changed. He called me, after not speaking to him for years, and apologized for how difficult it must have been all of those years of me growing up. And then a couple years later, he passed away.”
Smollett began working on “The Lost Holliday” eight years ago, with Fox in mind for the role of Cassandra from the outset. He said that he had started collaborating on the project with one of the biggest producers in Hollywood when “‘2019’ happened.”
In January 2019, Smollett told Chicago police that he had been physically attacked in a homophobic and racist hate crime. He initially received an outpouring of support, in particular from the LGBTQ and Black communities. However, police soon charged him with filing a false police report, alleging that he had staged the attack.
After prosecutors controversially dismissed the initial charges in exchange for community service and the forfeiture of his $10,000 bond, Smollett was recharged with the same offenses in 2020. Meanwhile, his character in “Empire” was written out of the show.
In 2021, a Cook County jury found him guilty on five of the six charges of disorderly conduct for lying to police, and he was sentenced to 150 days in jail and 30 months of probation, along with a $120,000 restitution payment to the city of Chicago for the overtime costs incurred by police investigating his initial hate crime claim.
LGBTQ people are nine times more likely than non-LGBTQ people to be victims of violent hate crimes, according to a study by the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law. Upon Smollett’s conviction, some in the LGBTQ community felt that the case would discredit victims of hate crimes and make it more difficult to report future such crimes.
Smollett seemed to acknowledge these concerns, but denied that he staged the attack.
“I know what happened and soon you all will too,” he told the Blade. “If someone reported a crime and it wasn’t the truth, that would actually make it more difficult [to report future crimes], but I didn’t. Any belief that they have about the person that I’ve been played out to be, sure, but that person is not me, never has been,” he said. “So I stand with my community. I love my community and I protect and defend my community until I’m bloody in my fist.”
“And for all the people who, in fact, have been assaulted or attacked and then have been lied upon and made it to seem like they made it up, I’m sorry that you have to constantly prove your trauma, and I wish that it wasn’t that way, and I completely identify with you,” he added.
An Illinois Appellate Court upheld his guilty verdict last year, but Smollett has since appealed to the Illinois Supreme Court, which in March agreed to hear the case. He has served six days in jail so far, as his sentence has been put on hold pending the results of his appeals.
The screening at the MLK Jr. Library concluded with a conversation between Smollett, Fox, and David J. Johns, CEO and executive director of the National Black Justice Coalition. Smollett discussed his current mindset and his plans for the future, revealing he is working on a third movie and will be releasing new music soon.
“I’m in a space where life is being kind,” he said.
“The Lost Holliday” recently secured a distribution deal for a limited release with AMC Theatres and will be out in theaters on Sept. 27.
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DIK Bar cements its status as LGBTQ institution, prepares to expand
Dupont Cantina coming soon to the former Malbec space
Two immigrant brothers who could not return home, Michael and Tony Askarinam, turned instead to making a community space of their own. Nearly 40 years after debuting their casual, gay-friendly restaurant, the (straight) owners of Dupont Italian Kitchen are expanding, reinforcing their status as a center of gay life on 17th Street. By early fall, they plan to debut a casual Mexican restaurant, complete with a spacious patio, tons of tacos, and big margarita energy that will please outdoor diners and karaoke singers upstairs alike.
DIK Bar, as it is affectionately known, still serves fan-favorite lasagna and eggplant parmesan, though no longer for a cool $4.25 from its opening menu. Michael, who moved to the U.S. from Iran to study in 1974, graduated in 1980 – less than a year after the Iranian revolution. Part of a Jewish family, he felt unsafe going back to his homeland with the new regime, and has never returned. Instead, he and his brother, who also fled, opened a restaurant that still sits on the same corner as the day it opened. Though he is not Italian, Michael had plenty of relevant experience: He had worked in Italian restaurants during summers while studying, and another brother owned the now-closed restaurant Spaghetti Garden (where Pitchers stands today). The menu, he admits, pulled heavily from his family influence.
Opening on 17th Street in the mid-‘80s, the brothers knew the community vibe. Annie’s, just a block away, was already well known as an LGBTQ-friendly institution. At the time, he says, the street was a bit grittier — not the well-manicured lane it is today. Still, they decided to open a restaurant and Italian Kitchen was born. His brother at Spaghetti Garden suggested adding “Dupont” in front to help ground the location, and DIK came into being. “At the beginning I admit I was a little uncomfortable with the name, having young kids. But it grew on me,” he says. Leaning in, he’s embraced the name.
A few years later, the restaurant expanded vertically: taking over the apartments upstairs to turn it into a bar; a new chef came in who introduced DIK Bar’s popular brunch. But he and his brother never really relinquished the cozy space that he had envisioned. Each pushing 80 years old, they come in nearly daily: cooking, bartending, even washing dishes.
DIK has evolved, but only slightly. Eggplant and chicken parm, lasagna, pizza, pasta, and a $1 garden salad: the opening menu from the ‘80s reads like a genuine old-school Italian joint. Today, you will still find classic gems, though now they are nestled alongside Brussels sprouts and arugula salads.
As longtime patrons know, the restaurant is more than the sum of its pasta parts. “It’s an atmosphere where everybody is welcome. I got that from my mother,” he added, noting that she had experienced discrimination as part of the Jewish minority in Iran. Given this background, it was logical for them to build a space where “you have a place to be who you are and feel comfortable.”
In 2020, as the restaurant’s lease was expiring, he had the opportunity to buy the building, which included adjacent Argentine restaurant Malbec. “The landlord let us know that they felt we deserve to own the building after being here for so long,” says Michael.
It was a blessing; to him, it meant the sustainability of Dupont Italian Kitchen. Earlier this year, when Malbec’s lease expired, they decided against finding another tenant and instead they would make it their own. The two eateries already shared one storage basement, where the Malbec kitchen was located. Saving costs by sharing procurement, staff, and utilities (as well as liquor), they took the leap. “Plus, we can be our own great tenant,” he said with a smile.
The refurbishment thus far has included a new HVAC system and a new bar. The new restaurant allows them access to a more spacious kitchen that can cook up sizzling Mexican favorites with speed and in volume. Customers at upstairs DIK Bar have always requested more bar-style finger food, he says, and tacos are better suited to a drinking atmosphere than fettuccine alfredo or creamy Cajun sausage pasta. Mexican food is also well suited to the patio. He also has a family tie to Mexico: relatives own Johnny Pistolas in Adams Morgan. The rest of the menu is being developed, including shareable small plates and “Mexican pizza.” Drinks will feature tequila, mezcal, and margaritas; and there is a happy hour in the works. “I’m hoping this expansion can help cement our future,” he says.
The opening timeline is early fall.
Looking back on almost 40 years and looking forward with the expansion, he mused that the restaurant still maintains its authenticity and its central role in LGBTQ life in D.C. “I’m really proud of the fact that it caters to this community. We are an institution, we want to continue to be part of this place.”
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Corcoran Street Group: LGBTQ lobbyists fighting for our rights
‘The most pro-LGBTQ+ thing you can do this election is to vote Democrat’
We often hear the term lobbyist associated with negative connotations. Think oil and gas initiatives that often seek to curtail environmental protections to further their industries. Consider “big pharma,” which is often vilified for keeping healthcare costs high. However, there are lobbyists fighting for our rights – not just LGBTQ rights, but human rights as well. Brad Howard, founder and president of the Corcoran Street Group (CSG) is one such out, gay lobbyist advocating for equality and equity.
To start, Howard shares his definition of a lobbyist, which transcends the stereotype that the term originates with politicos literally waiting in D.C. hotel lobbies hoping to hobnob with politicians to foster their interests, often with cash in hand.
“Understanding how government works can be incredibly difficult, even to those on the inside,” he shared. “Lobbying is a constitutionally protected right explicitly guaranteed in the First Amendment – the right to petition our government. At its most basic level, lobbying is essentially contacting a public official to express your opinion or ask them to take a certain action. So, if you have ever emailed or called your city council rep or Member of Congress – or even tagged them on social media – you lobbied.”
Howard, who came to Washington from a conservative background in Arkansas, had a journey from working with Republican leaders and causes to being more libertarian before eventually joining with the Blue Dog Democrats. This is quite a change for a young man who founded a teenage GOP group in high school, chaired the college Republicans group at Hendrix University, and became vice chair of Arkansas College Republicans.
So, how did a nice conservative Christian Republican whose parents voted for Ross Perot instead of Bill Clinton from the Bible Belt end up as a gay lobbyist?
“I was subconsciously rejecting any attempt to live my life the way someone told me to … a Libertarian streak if you will,” Howard said. “I was always pro-choice and pro-marriage equality as I didn’t want the government anywhere near me. Throughout all of this, I was starting to understand that I was gay and what that meant for my future in politics, it was bleak. Then the Bush-Cheney campaign in 2004 started pushing constitutional amendments banning gay marriage in states across the country to drive evangelical turnout. That ran counter to my politics – to the basic principle of promoting individual liberty. So I left the party then and graduated college as an independent in 2006 with the goal of moving to Washington as quickly as possible.”
By 2007 he was living in Washington, D.C., interning for Simon Rosenberg’s New Democrat Network, and pursuing a master’s from American University. Coming out for Howard happened on the first day he entered college, quite a “daunting and scary” task summed up by him as: “I have blue eyes. I love playing cards. I’m a terrible, but very confident karaoke singer. Oh, by the way, I’m gay.”
The “it’s part of me, but not my whole identity,” is often expressed by those on the – shall we say – cusp of coming out. He cites a Foundry United Methodist pastor’s message as impetus for coming out as a defining part of his identity.
“That seed of shame you feel for being gay – that was not planted there by God; it was planted there by the church, and I’m sorry,” here he’s referring to a sermon by Pastor Ginger Gaines-Cerelli. “I can’t describe what it [felt] like to be 33 years old and have your world completely upended like that. It wasn’t just the statement, which answered a question that had long haunted me; it was also the apology. I didn’t even know that I needed an apology, but I did, and it worked.”
Before starting CSG, he worked at a bipartisan lobbyist group and was mentored by former Chief of Senate Staff Bob Van Heuvelen. Howard describes his mentor’s approach to lobbying as guided by a strong moral compass, and seeing people as people, not transactions.
The way it should be: Since corporations are not people.
Howard also sits on the board of directors for Q Street, as treasurer. Q Street is an LGBTQ lobbyist organization. Yesenia Henninger, the out queer president of Q Street since January of this year – and board member for five years – explains in further detail what her group does to foster queer rights.
“Q Street is the nonprofit, nonpartisan, professional association of LGBTQ lobbyists and public policy advocates. Q Street was formed to be the bridge between LGBTQ advocacy organizations, LGBTQ+ lobbyists on K Street,” District lingo for queer lobbyists, “and our colleagues and allies on Capitol Hill. Q Street has more than 3,000 recipients of our monthly newsletter, hundreds of attendees at our receptions, and our monthly luncheons have featured speakers such as Members of Congress, campaign managers, activists, plaintiffs in the most important LGBTQ+ Supreme Court cases of our time, and the Secretary of the Army. Q Street hosts nearly 25 receptions, lunches, and professional development events every year. Our goal is to provide the best networking opportunities and professional development trainings so our members continue to grow within the ranks of their field.”
According to Henninger there has been a growing population of queer lobbyists since the Obama years. Marriage equality, an impetus for Howard to perhaps “come out politically” equally spurred their growth. After Obama, this presence fought to maintain rights gained. This is amazing growth considering at one time people working for our equity did so in an almost secretive fashion.
An aside here, Sean Strub the founder of POZ Magazine, wrote a powerful book in 2014 called “Body Counts: A Memoir of Politics, Sex, AIDS and Survival,” which chronicles advocacy in D.C. in the years after Stonewall.
The majority of these K Street lobbyists are in their 30s and 40s. Although Henninger shares there are more junior and more senior-ranking lobbyists in terms of age or career.
What do they do? Is it office-to-event, sleep, repeat? Henninger explained that a queer lobbyist’s lifestyle varies depending on the issue area they focus on. Her organization has lobbyists working in policy as well as members who focus on energy and transportation issues, and topics all across the spectrum.
“The lobbyists and advocates whose roles require them to engage in political activity may also have different lifestyles than those that do not. They likely have fundraisers (sometimes one, sometimes multiple) that they attend after work with Members of Congress or other politicians. However, we also have many public policy advocate members who spend their day talking to Members of Congress, or administration officials, trying to achieve their policy goals that do not have any fundraiser-related obligations. Q Street hopes to provide a great space for our members to network with one another and unite their social and professional experiences in the district.”
We are all aware what is at stake in the upcoming presidential election in what can only sadly be described as a deeply divided nation. What role will LGBTQ lobbyists play, I asked Brad Howard.
“If you vote third party, if you leave the race blank, or if you stay home, you are helping to elect Donald Trump,” he said. “You are not punishing Joe Biden, you are punishing the millions of Americans, the millions of aspiring Americans who face deportation, millions of women who depend on access to reproductive health, and so many transgender young people who need protection – all of these people will be punished in a Trump presidency. And, Joe Biden is going to need a Democratic Congress – or we’ll need a Democratic Congress to stop Donald Trump. So to me, the most pro-LGBTQ+ thing you can do this election is to vote Democrat…because the choices have never been clearer.”
Visit Corcoran Street Group and Q Street to learn more about their work.
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