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New resource available for LGBT taxpayers
Task Force project culls gay information into one handy place
Figures that show LGBT income inequality are sobering.
Although 82 percent of U.S. same-sex couples are part of the labor force, only 29 percent of LGBT folks are thriving financially.
One in five LGBT people who live alone make less than $12,000 per year and a third of black transgender and gender-nonconforming people report incomes of less than $10,000 per year.
These figures are culled from several sources such as the National LGBTQ Task Force, the Williams Institute, the Movement Advancement Project, the U.S. Census Bureau, Gallop polls, a joint project several years ago between the Task Force and the National Center for Transgender Equality and more.
But there is good news. There are several deductions relevant to LGBT taxpayers they may not be aware of. At its Creating Change conference in January, the Task Force unveiled its new “Queer Our Taxes” effort, a public education and advocacy campaign focused on securing economic justice for LGBT people. Full details are online at queerourtaxes.org. We spoke with Meghan Maury, senior policy counsel and criminal and economic justice project director at the Task Force, about the initiative. Maury identifies as both queer and genderqueer. Her comments have been slightly edited for length.
WASHINGTON BLADE: How long has Queer Our Taxes been in the works?
MEGHAN MAURY: Basically since I started at the Task Force about two-and-a-half years ago. It was kind of cooking up in my brain. I’d worked in tax preparation for eight years, so it was a lot of the things that my clients had been asking all along. What we found was that the information that was available for LGBTQ folks was almost exclusively about marriage. They had questions about claims, about adoption, about gender reassignment surgery and more. It was a lot more than just whether or not they could file jointly with their spouse. This guide helps you know the questions relevant to ask your tax preparer.
BLADE: So the same-sex marriage tax information was already fairly readily available?
MAURY: Yes. We’re not throwing stones at any other groups. We just found in researching that the LGBTBar, the Human Rights Campaign, the National Women’s Law Center, Lambda Legal — they all had little bits of information but it was mostly about how your tax returns would change when marriage was recognized. That’s hugely important, but we hadn’t found in any tax guide that existed anywhere anything broader that had been brought to our community.
BLADE: Didn’t the transgender agencies have trans-specific tax information?
MAURY: Not really. It’s one of those areas that feels big, scary and overwhelming for folks. It is and it isn’t. It’s pretty simple if you know the right questions to ask when you go to file.
BLADE: How hard was it to get all this information compiled?
MAURY: We had help from our law fellows program. Our law fellows work for us three to four months in the summer and a couple of them worked on it. There’s nothing mind-blowing here. It’s just compiling it all in one handy place. It took some time just to make sure we had all the technicalities worked out.
BLADE: How much of this varies from state to state?
MAURY: The information here is primarily federal but there are implications that will vary from state to state particularly stuff like earned income tax credits. Your state may have a state version of that. It helps you with the kinds of state questions you’d want to ask to claim that.
BLADE: Did you include marriage-related tax issues as well?
MAURY: Most of it is not particularly on the marriage piece although some of it is related to that. Your ability to claim a dependent does hinge on marriage. If you can get legally married, it’s easier to claim a stepchild. If not, it can be difficult to establish legal ties to a child to whom you’re not biologically related. If you can’t get married or don’t want to get married, there are some barriers that exist. In some places it’s difficult to do second-parent adoption. A little bit of it hinges on that, but most of the information is on non-marriage issues.
BLADE: How new are these laws?
MAURY: The transition-related surgery one came out of a tax case a decade or maybe a decade-and-a-half ago but it was not publicized. There were some news stories around it at the time but just wasn’t everyday knowledge in the trans community. There are other things like abortion expenses you can write off or other reproductive health care things that are just not things your tax accountant is likely to ask you about. Some of them relate to substance abuse care, some are child care and education related. The low income credits have been there for some time, who can claim them and how much they’re worth and so on. But it’s just not information that has been put out to the community in a way that’s acceptable or useful.
BLADE: What impact did Obamacare have on these surgery-related write-offs?
MAURY: If your health insurance covers your transition-related care, you can’t write it off. … But we have people who are enrolled in pretty good health insurance who are still struggling. I think it will be a persistent problem because surgeries are just so expensive. Having a deduction isn’t going to make it free, but it may make it more within reach for people for whom it was previously completely inaccessible. It’s part of an itemized deduction. If you’re already itemizing because you own a house, the ability to write off big medical expenses becomes a little easier. … The good news is that the tax software is pretty good at figuring it all out. You just need to know to ask them to put it in. Our report doesn’t really break down all the math. Our goal was just to give people the right questions to ask.
BLADE: Are there any tax preparation companies that are more LGBT-friendly than others?
MAURY: It’s super hit or miss. There are some smaller firms that have LGBTQ focuses but they’re aimed at people with higher incomes. A lot of places like Liberty or H&R Block vary not just from town to town but even from location to location. I worked at an H&R Block for many years in western Massachusetts and we started being recognized as the hub for LGBT people because several of us were really culturally competent. The next office over sent us clients. So it depends. If there’s an office that has a largely LGBT client base, they develop that competency over time.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

