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QUEERY: Tariq Darrell O’Meally
The dancer/By the People performer answers 20 queer questions

Dancer/choreographer Tariq Darrell O’Meally says the beauty and attraction of his chosen art form is two-fold.
“With dance, the body is the vessel/object,” he says. “There is no catalyst needed to access it. There is you and your body. That means every human on earth has access to this thing always. The equity of that is powerful.”
He also says like all great art, it can convey powerful concepts in a way that doesn’t require any explanation.
“Dance, much like music, has the capacity to convey a multitude of ideas, emotion and experiences without having to say a word. That’s a form of magic I think.”
O’Meally, artistic director of his own eponymous company, lives in Baltimore but is participating in a nine-month fellowship program at the Halcyon ArtsLab in Georgetown. He’ll be at the By the People Festival this weekend sharing the fifth installment of a contemporary dance work he developed called “Night Light: Half-World,” a work in progress.
The 30-year-old Landover, Md., native calls it a “meditative, contemporary dance and movement piece that explores the concepts of witnessing and being witnessed.”
“Through his work, O’Meally expresses his belief that knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom,” a press release for the performance states. “With this idea in mind, he searches for the power within introspection and vulnerability in the dancing African-American body as a means of transcendence.”
It will be performed on Saturday, June 22 at 7 p.m. at the Smithsonian’s Arts+Industries Building (900 Jefferson Dr., S.W.). Details at bythepeople.org.
O’Meally’s parents were house dancers in New York in the ‘80s so he grew up around dance. He started in theater but moved to dance when he discovered he “can’t hold a note to save my life.” “So You Think You Can Dance” became an “obsession,” he says. He specializes in what he calls “contemporary modern moving toward a post-contemporary context.”
O’Meally moved to Baltimore in 2015. He’s single and enjoys wine, reading, TV, time with friends and family and movies in his free time.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I’ve been out since I was 18. Honestly, it was difficult to tell my mother but, the hardest person to tell was myself. I think it’s hard for us to see ourselves with deep compassionate clarity. When you know what you are and what you are not, there is beautiful but terrible power in that. And at the time I didn’t know what to do with that power.
Who’s your LGBTQ hero?
I am really in awe of the everyday, college night- and Sunday brunch-hosting drag queen. There is a fearlessness that they show by rejecting American social norms. I hope to have that kind of day-to-day courage to stand in my truth.
What LGBTQ stereotype most annoys you?
I can’t really think of one.
What’s your proudest professional achievement?
As an educator, I’m always so proud when I see my students learning and integrating new ideas and concepts.
What terrifies you?
Not living up to my potential. Also, not being able find a partner to share my life with.
What’s something trashy or vapid you love?
Reunion specials for reality TV shows. Like MTV’s “The Challenge,” “Drag Race” and “Real Housewives of Atlanta.” It’s so messy. Sometimes I don’t even watch the season, just the reunion.
What’s your greatest domestic skill?
I make delicious breakfast sandwiches at 3 a.m. after leaving a club or party.
What’s your favorite LGBTQ movie or show?
“To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar” and “Moonlight” I watch once a month. “Queer as Folk” (American) is my favorite show. Watching the very first episode was one of the first moments that let me know I liked men. I mean Brian Kinney.
What’s your social media pet peeve?
Being unnecessarily passive aggressive in someone’s comments. If there is an issue, just DM the person.
What would the end of the LGBTQ movement look like to you?
I think when we can lose the letters LGBTQIA+ will let us know that the greater society has stopped seeing us as other. I know its cliché, but just being a person, no labels, is very underrated.
What’s the most overrated social custom?
Small talk. I hate talking about absolutely nothing with someone I don’t know. Sometimes it’s OK just to be quiet.
What was your religion, if any, as a child and what is it today?
Grew up in a Baptist church. I consider myself to be a Christian though probably not a pious one.
What’s Baltimore’s best hidden gem?
The people in Baltimore are consistently some of the funniest people I have ever met.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Beychella/ Homecoming. I don’t have enough words to describe how ridiculous Beyonce and her team are. They get millions of people to agree on one thing. And they know how to keep a secret.
What celebrity death hit you hardest?
Brittany Murphy’s sudden death made me sad. I really enjoyed her as an actress. Also, Robin Williams’s death took my breath away.
If you could redo one moment from your past, what would it be?
My maternal grandmother died from pancreatic cancer when I was a teenager. I remember seeing her for the last time and knowing it would be the last time I’d see her alive. I wish I could have said something in that moment to let her know how much I loved her.
What are your obsessions?
I love fantasy/sci-fi novels (“Lightbringer Series,” “King Killer Chronicles,” “The Expanse”), good pizza, great and healthy intimacy, looking out for my friends and family. Oh, and dance.
Finish this sentence — It’s about damn time:
… that we stop pretending that the first seven cycles of “Top Model” isn’t some of the best TV ever.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
To be kinder to myself. I was so critical of myself that often prevented me from enjoying the process of growing up. I wish I had known to kiss more guys. Wish I knew to save money instead of spending it on food and video games. I wish I was able to see that even though I had lost my brother, who was my only friend at the time, that I wasn’t alone.
Why Baltimore?
Super cheap rent.
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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more
Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.
Dining
Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.
New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:
- Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
- The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
- Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
- Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.
Sports
- Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements.
- Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.
Festivals
- Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
- Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods.
- The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
- All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
- Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.
Art and Music
- United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club.
- The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
- Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
- ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
- 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
- Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
- Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event
Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema
Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.
Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.
O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.
“I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”
O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.
“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”
The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination.
The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.
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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.
Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives
Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward.
“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.
Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives.
From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together.
“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”
Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.
According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said.
When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”
“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”
But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center.
Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.
“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said.
Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires.
Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down.
“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”
Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form.
“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’”
Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church.
“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said.
Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.
Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet.
“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said.
Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training.
“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked.
Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.
To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said.
Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition.
“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”
Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.
Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.
“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.
This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).
