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Miss Myanmar, first out Miss Universe competitor, speaks up for LGBTQ acceptance


Swe Zin Htet, who competed as Miss Myanmar in the Miss Universe pageant on Sunday night, wants to use her platform to help advance LGBTQ acceptance in her home country.
The 21-year-old competitor came out in a late November interview with beauty blog Missosology, in which she said, “I came to a full realization about my sexual orientation over a long period of time. I knew I was āone of themā way back in 2015. It is personally quite challenging, but I feel that I have a greater voice and the best position to promote this cause. Some pageant fans know about it and they still support me, but this is the first time I am able to talk about it in public.”
She went on to add, āI want the world to accept the LGBTQ+ community and their right to choose their own path and pursuit of happiness. Love is the most powerful thing and people fall in love with human beings, not gender.”
In a subsequent interview with People, she said, “I have that platform that, if I say that Iām a lesbian, it will have a big impact on the LGBTQ community back in Burma. The difficult thing is that in Burma, LGBTQ people are not acceptedā¦ they are looked down on by other people and are being discriminated against.”
Speaking with Glamour, the contestant spoke even more definitively about her intention to advocate for LGBTQ rights, saying, āMy goal is to make them look at me and others that are like me just the same.”
Htet was the first openly gay Miss Universe contestant in the pageantās history. An openly trans contestant, Angela Ponce, competed last year as Miss Spain.
In Myanmar, officially designated as the Republic of the Union of Myanmar but also known as Burma, there is currently no legal recognition of LGBTQ rights; same-gender sexual activity is illegal, and punishable by 10 years to life in prison ā though that law is ānot used in practice,ā according to the Myanmar Timesā 2018 year-end review of LGBT rights.
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Creator Max Mutchnick on inspirations for āMid-Century Modernā
Real-life friendships and loss inform plot of new Hulu show

Itās been a long time ā maybe 25 years when āWill & Graceā debuted ā since thereās been so much excitement about a new, queer sitcom premiering. āMid-Century Modern,ā which debuted on Hulu last week, is the creation of Max Mutchnick and David Kohan, the gay men who were also behind āWill & Grace.ā
Set in Palm Springs, Calif., following the death of the one of their closest friends, three gay men gather to mourn. Swept up in the emotions of the moment, Bunny (Nathan Lane) suggests that Atlanta-based flight attendant Jerry (Matt Bomer) and New York-based fashion editor Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham) move into the mid-century modern home he shares with his mother Sybil (the late Linda Lavin). Over the course of the first seasonās 10 episodes, hilarity ensues. That is, except for the episode in which they address Sybilās passing. The three male leads are all fabulous, and the ensemble cast, including Pamela Adlon as Bunnyās sister Mindy, and the stellar line-up of guest stars, such as Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Richard Kind, and Cheri Oteri, keep humor buzzing. Shortly before the premiere of āMid-Century Modern,ā Mutchnick made time for an interview with the Blade.
BLADE: Iād like to begin by saying itās always a delight to speak to a fellow Emerson College alum. In ways would you say that Emerson impacted your professional and creative life?
MAX MUTCHNICK: I think Emerson was the first place that reflected back to me that my voice, my thoughts were good, and they were worth listening to. I developed a confidence at Emerson that did not exist in my body and soul. It was a collection of a lot of things that took place in Boston, but I mean we can just put it all under the Emerson umbrella.
BLADE: Before āWill & Grace,ā you co-created the NBC sitcom āBoston Common,ā which starred fellow Emerson alum Anthony Clark. Is it important for you to maintain those kinds of alumni relationships?
MUTCHNICK: Because Emersonians are such scrappy little monkeys and they end up being everywhere in the world, you can’t help but work with someone from Emerson at some point in your career. I’m certainly more inclined to engage with someone from Emerson once I learn that they went to my alma mater. For me, it has much more to do with history and loyalty. I don’t think of myself as one of those guys that says, āLoyalty means a lot to me. I’m someone that really leans into history.ā It’s just what my life and career turned out to be. The longer I worked with people and the more often I worked with them, the safer that I felt, which means that I was more creative and that’s the name of the game. I’ve got to be as comfortable as possible so I can be as creative as possible. If that means that a person from Emerson is in the room, so be it. (Costume designer) Lori Eskowitz would be the Emerson version. And then (writer and actor) Dan Bucatinsky would be another version. When I’m around them for a long time, that’s when the best stuff comes.
BLADE: Relationships are important. On that subject, your new Hulu sitcom āMid-Century Modernā is about the longstanding friendship among three friends, Bunny (Nathan Lane), Jerry (Matt Bomer), and Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham). Do you have a friendship like the one shared by these three men?
MUTCHNICK: Iām absolutely engaged in a real version of what we’re projecting on the show. I have that in my life. I cannot say that I’m Jerry in any way, but the one thing that we do have in common is that in my group, I’m the young one. But I think that that’s very common in these families that we create. There’s usually a young one. Our culture is built on learning from our elders. I didn’t have a father growing up, so maybe that made me that much more inclined to seek out older, wiser, funnier, meaner friends. I mean the reason why you’re looking at a mouthful of straight, white teeth is because one of those old bitches sat across from me about 25 years ago at a diner and said, āGirl, your teeth are a disaster, and you need to get that fixed immediately.ā What did I know? I was just a kid from Chicago with two nickels in my pocket. But I found three nickels and I went and had new teeth put in my head. But that came from one of my dearest in the group.
BLADE: Do you think that calling āMid-Century Modernā a gay āGolden Girlsā is a fair description?
MUTCHNICK: No. I think the gay āGolden Girlsā was really just used as a tool to pitch the show quickly. We have an expression in town, which is āgive me the elevator pitch,ā because nobody has an attention span. The fastest way you can tell someone what David (Kohan) and I wanted to write, was to say, āIt’s gay Golden Girls.ā When you say that to somebody, then they say, āOK, sit down now, tell me more.ā We did that and then we started to dive into the show and realized pretty quickly that it’s not the gay āGolden Girls.ā No disrespect to the āGolden Girls.ā It’s a masterpiece.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā is set in Palm Springs. Iām based in Fort Lauderdale, a few blocks south of Wilton Manors, and I was wondering if that gay enclave was ever in consideration for the setting, or was it always going to be in Palm Springs?
MUTCHNICK: You just asked a really incredible question! Because, during COVID, Matt Bomer and I used to walk, because we live close by. We had a little walking group of a few gay gentlemen. On one of those walks, Matt proposed a comedy set in Wilton Manors. He said it would be great to title the show āWilton Manors.ā I will tell you that in the building blocks of what got us to āMid-Century Modern,ā Wilton Manors, and that suggestion from Matt Bomer on our COVID walks, was part of it.
BLADE: Is Sybil, played by the late Linda Lavin, modeled after a mother you know?
MUTCHNICK: Rhea Kohan (mother of David and Jenji). When we met with Linda for the first time over Zoom, when she was abroad, David and I explained to her that this was all based on Rhea Kohan. In fact, some of the lines that she (Sybil) speaks in the pilot are the words that Jenji Kohan spoke about her mother in her eulogy at the funeral because it really summed up what the character was all about. Yes, itās very much based on someone.
BLADE: The Donny Osmond jokes in the second episode of āMid-Century Modernā reminded me of the Barry Manilow āfanilowsā on āWill & Grace.ā Do you know if Donny is aware that heās featured in the show?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t. To tell you the truth, the āfanilowā episode was written when I was not on the show. I was on a forced hiatus, thanks to Jeff Zucker. That was a show that I was not part of. We don’t really work that way. The Donny Osmond thing came more from Mattās character being a Mormon, and also one of the writers. It’s very important to mention that the writing room at āMid-Century Modern,ā is (made up of) wonderful and diverse and colorful incredible humans ā one of them is an old, white, Irish guy named Don Roos who’s brilliantā¦
BLADE: ā¦he’s Dan Bucatinskyās husband.
MUTCHNICK: Right! Dan is also part of the writing room. But I believe it was Don who had a thing for Donny, and that’s where it comes from. I don’t know if Donny has any awareness. The only thing I care about when we turn in an episode like that is I just want to hear from legal that weāre approved.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also includes opportunities for the singers in the cast. Linda Lavin sang the Jerome Kern/Ira Gershwin tune āLong Ago (And Far Away)ā and Nathan Lane and the guys sang āHe Had It Comingā from āChicago.ā Was it important to give them the chance to exercise those muscles?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t think it was. I think it really is just the managersā choice. David Kohan and I like that kind of stuff, so we write that kind of stuff. But by no means was there an edict to write that. We know what our cast is capable of, and we will absolutely exploit that if we’re lucky enough to have a second season. I have a funky relationship with the song āLong Ago (And Far Away).ā It doesn’t float my boat, but everybody else loved it. We run a meritocracy, and the best idea will out. Thatās how that song ended up being in the show. I far prefer the recording of Linda singing āIāll Be Seeing Youā over her montage in episode eight, āHereās To You, Mrs. Schneiderman.ā We were just lucky that Linda had recorded that. That recording was something that she had done and sent to somebody during COVID because she was held up in her apartment. That’s what motivated her to make that video and send it. Thatās how we were able to use that audio.
BLADE: Being on a streaming service like Hulu allows for characters to say things they might not get away with on network TV, including a foreskin joke, as well as Sybilās propensity for cursing.
MUTCHNICK: And the third line in the show is about him looking like a āreluctant bottom.ā I don’t think that’s something you’re going to see on ABC anytime soon. David and I liked the opportunity to open up the language of this show because it might possibly open the door to bringing peopleā¦I’m going to mix metaphorsā¦into the tent that have never been there before. A generation that writes off a sitcom because that language and that type of comedy isn’t the way that they sound. One of the gifts of doing this show on Hulu is that we get to write dialogue that sounds a little bit more like you and I sound. As always, we don’t want to do anything just to do it.
BLADE: It didn’t feel that way.
MUTCHNICK: It’s there when it’s right. [Laughs] I want to have a shirt made with Lindaās line, as her mother always used to say, āTime is a cunt.ā
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also utilizes a lot of Jewish humor. How important is it for you to include that at this time when there is a measurable rise in anti-Semitism?
MUTCHNICK: I think it’s important, but I don’t think it’s the reason why we did it. We tried very hard to not write from a place of teaching or preaching. We really are just writing about the stuff that makes us laugh. One of the things that makes something better and something that you can invest in is if it’s more specific. We’re creating a character whose name is Bunny Schneiderman and his mother’s name is Sybil and they made their money in a family-run business, it gets Jewy, and we’re not going to shy away from it. But we’re definitely not going to address what’s going on in the world. That doesn’t mean I don’t find it very upsetting, but I’m writing always from the point of view of entertaining the largest number of people that I can every week.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā has a fantastic roster of guest stars including Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Billie Lourd, Cheri Oteri, Richard Kind, Rhea Perlman, and Judd Hirsch. Are there plans to continue that in future seasons?
MUTCHNICK: Yes. As I keep saying, if we’re so lucky that we get to continue, I don’t want to do āThe Love Boat.ā Those are fine comic actors, so I don’t think it feels like that. But if we get to keep going, what I want to do is broaden the world because that gives us more to write about. I want to start to introduce characters that are auxiliary to the individuals. I want to start to meet Arthur’s family, so we can return to people. I want to introduce other neighbors, and different types of gay men because we come in so many different flavors. I think that we should do that only because I’m sure itās what your life is and it’s what my life is. I’ve got a lot of different types. So, yes, we will be doing more.
BLADE: Finally, Linda Lavin passed away in December 2024, and in a later episode, the subject of her character Sybilās passing is handled sensitively, including the humorous parts.
MUTCHNICK: We knew we had a tall order. We suffered an incredible loss in the middle of making this comedy. One of the reasons why I think this show works is because we are surrounded by a lot of really talented people. Jim Burrows and Ryan Murphy, to name two. Ryan played a very big role in telling us that it was important that we address this, that we address it immediately. That we show the world and the show goes on. That wasn’t my instinct because I was so inside the grief of losing a friend, because she really was. It wasn’t like one of those showbizzy-type relationships. And this is who she was, by the way, to everybody at the show. It was the way that we decided to go. Let’s write this now. Let’s not put this at the end of the season. Let’s not satellite her in. Letās not āDarren Stevensā the character, which is something we would never do. The other thing that Jim Burrows made very clear to us was the import of the comedy. You have to write something that starts exactly in the place that these shows start. A set comedy piece that takes place in the kitchen. Because for David and me, as writers, we said we just want to tell the truth. That’s what we want to do with this episode and that’s the way that this will probably go best for us. The way that we’ve dealt with grief in our lives is with humor. That is the way that we framed writing this episode. We wanted it to be a chapter from our lives, and how we experience this loss and how we recover and move on.
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Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’
Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

LOS ANGELES ā It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated āAmerican Mythā album. Sheās back to the music scene with her new album, āLucky Gift,ā an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.
The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In āLucky Gift,ā sheās getting her point across while having fun and getting glam.
We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.
Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.
“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho.
“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”
Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayās political climate.
“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community. I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”
As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.
“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants āha ā at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”
Margaretās long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā the owners of a gay bookstore ā and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.
“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”
Margaretās āLucky Giftā comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.
“It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaās] āAbracadabraā because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ābrat summer,ā that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love āLucky Giftā because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”
In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her āLive and LIVID! Tour,ā celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.
āWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatās why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā
And her message to her fans?
āWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. āAbracadabra,ā learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā
āLucky Giftāis now available on all major streaming platforms.
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Meet the people giving a voice to LGBTQ truck drivers
āLike therapy,ā finding solace in each other and the road

Before embarking on his weekly 2,000-mile trip as a truck driver, Derric Schmid sets up his smart TV and preps meals in bulk like ham and potatoes.
To some, long hours on the road away from family and friends sounds grueling. But for Schmid, itās his way of life.
āI love the freedom,ā Schmid said. āI get paid to go see the country. I’ve spent New Year’s Eve in New Orleans, I’ve spent it in St. Louis and this year I spent Christmas out in California exploring.ā
Schmid is the vice president and senior diversity officer of LGBTQ+ Truck Driver Network (TDN), a nonprofit he runs with founder Bobby Coffey-Loy. TDN aims to foster inclusivity and safety in the truck driving industry by building a supportive network of allies and queer truckers.
The organization vets companies (Schmid says he calls 50-100 per week) to understand which are committed to creating safe spaces for drivers of all backgrounds. Schmid and Coffey-Loy also host the Big Gay Trucker Podcast, where they interview people who need advice or want to discuss taboo topics.
Coffey-Loy said meeting people from different walks of life, including trans people recovering from surgeries while on the road, inspired him to create TDN.
āIt just opened me up to a whole group of people that just needed representation,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThere are groups out there on [social media] pages, but nobody actually took it as far as a nonprofit organization.ā
Coffey-Loy drives with his partner of 17 years, Ricky, for a company called Luna Lines. Together they drive about 6,000 miles a week, taking turns sleeping or keeping one another company. On Monday, they typically start a load in Jacksonville and then drive to New Mexico, Chicago, Baltimore, Tennessee and end up back home in Palm Coast, Fla., by Friday. They even pay for all their gas and food while on the road.
Doing a weekly cross-country road trip in tight quarters with your partner can be trying, and Coffey-Loy will be the first to admit that: āYour partner is someone that knows how to push your buttons faster than anybody else,ā he laughed.
But he also said starting truck driving together eight years ago is what made him and his husband closer. Before driving, he said it felt like life and jobs sometimes got in the way of their relationship. Going to trucking school together and being able to support each other on the road over the years has sparked a different kind of connection in their lives.
āWe didn’t want to be apart from each other, so that’s what made trucking work for us,ā he said.
For both Schmid and Coffey-Loy, truck driving runs in the family. Schmid, whoās been driving trucks for almost 24 years and with TDN for more than two, calls Jonestown, Pa., home āā a borough with a 2023 population of 1,645. He had three uncles and a grandfather who were truck drivers.
Coffey-Loy, born and raised in West Virginia, said his father and grandfather were truck drivers.
Continuing family tradition is respectable enough, but Coffey-Loyās mission of creating a safe and supportive space for those in the industry was unique; it was difficult for his parents to accept his identity when he first came out.
Coffey-Loyās parents passed away 11 months apart last year. He said they learned to grow to love him for who he was. When TDN started up, they became āmom and dad to everyone,ā and even invited people with no familial structure to move in with them.
At get-togethers, his dad called everyone āsweetieā or āhoneyā to be respectful since he didnāt know how everyone identified.
āWhat they’ve taught me is, if they can change their mind and they can accept everybody, anybody can,ā Coffey-Loy said. āI will cherish it forever. I miss them every day.ā
And the impact of this lesson has been tried and true. TDN attended the Mid-America Trucking Show despite receiving death threats and facing extra security measures āā yet they ran through dozens of handouts before their station even opened. Another year, they handed out condoms to promote safe sex on the road and were met with backlash āā yet they went through a whole box on the first day.
The team behind TDN may be small āā about eight people āā but Schmid said their reach is wide. Thousands of people visit their social media pages from around the world and connect with each other, including a vocal German bus driver and a man from Africa trying to create more queer visibility in his area.
Coffey-Loy said many people contact him directly for support. There was a straight man who called who had trouble balancing his home life and truck driving hours and expressed suicidal thoughts. The man said he saw Coffey-Loyās number and needed someone to talk to.
Moments like those are why Coffey-Loy emphasizes that the organization is there to support everyone, not solely the LGBTQ community. He recalled a bonfire gathering where people of different backgrounds and identities laughed and talked as friends.
āIt’s why you do what you do,ā Coffey-Loy said.
Although TDN has given many people a family away from home, it doesnāt make losing time with family and friends any easier. Coffey-Loy missed a family memberās funeral in West Virginia because he was in New Mexico and couldnāt abandon his load.
āHe had already been buried before I could get back,ā he said.
Itās a different way of life, but itās not an impossible one. Schmid calls his mom and stepfather every morning and his mom again in the evenings. He gets on group calls with friends and TDN members. On weekends, Schmid sees some friends in person for dinners, and is able to visit with his family.
Truck driving may mean frequently saying goodbye to close people in his life, but it also opens the door to new connections around the country: āI got friends in every state,ā Schmid said.
Although heās constantly traveling, Coffey-Loy always feels at home. Itās those nights driving, with nothing but the roaring hum of the road filling the silence while his husband sleeps behind him, that fulfill him.
āEven though you miss so much of your everyday life, there’s something about trucking that is so freeing,ā Coffey-Loy said. āThe road can be so loud in your life, and it has a way to really sort out things. It’s like therapy for me.ā
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