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2019 Gift Guide IV: fast, fun and easy

Eliminate stress from your holiday to do list with these last-minute gift ideas

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Eliminate stress from your holiday to do list with these last-minute gift ideas.

Editor’s note: This is part four of four 2019 Blade holiday gift guides. Previous installments (pop culture, home and hot this year) are online.

To add extra sauce to any kitchen, these playful oven mitt and apron sets from Chocolate Moose (1743 L St., N.W.) make a laughable and functional stocking stuffer. Most sets run at $13 for mitts and $12 for aprons.

Take a walk into Urban Dwell this season (1837 Columbia Rd., N.W.) to find homey trinkets for all your friends and family who live (or decorate) outside the box. For $3.95, you can collect a bag of Kyanite, Quartz, Fluorite, Citrine and Amethyst to sprawl through your center piece or toss in a clear vase. 

For $40 a piece, these GurglePots from Urban Dwell are definitely a conversation starter in any setting.

Also at Urban, these rainbows ( $29.50) and pop art coasters ($12-15 a piece) would add a bold statement to any coffee table. 

Who needs an ordinary candle when you can snag one with an icon or a bold statement? The Drake and Beyoncé candles at Urban Dwell run at $24, whereas the others go for $20. 

Items from Urban Dwell

The Circle Gallery (18 State Circle, Annapolis, Md.) offers new showing from local artists that can certainly add personality to your decorating style this season. This set of “The Swim Club” sells for $150 per head/“swim cap.” 

This piece, “Aperture to the Void,” is a creative way queer gift givers can challenge or embrace masculinity. It currently runs in The Circle Gallery for $120.

Whether they light up, or include a delicate engraving, these altered books by Nichole Leavy at Circle Gallery redefine how you’ll decorate your library this season. Prices range from $75-200.

Surf’s Up Candle (234 Main St, Annapolis, Md.) adds a beachy twist to an otherwise chilly season. All-natural soy-based candles, with phrases like “Don’t get your tinsel in a tangle” run typically at $10. 

These witty hand towels at Surf’s Up go for $10 as well.

Lou Lou Boutique (locations in Washington, Fairfax, Alexandria and more in the region) offers modern décor and trendy trinkets that make handy grab bag gifts. The graphic mugs sell for $22 and the inspirational bracelet/card sets go for $24. 

The boutique has also teamed up with “Love Is” project, which supports artisans in Indonesia, Vietnam, Guatemala, Ecuador, Bhutan and India. A bracelet for your loved one costs $30, as well as the tote. 

Lou Lou also offers cute stocking stuffers like a foldable rainbow gratitude notebook ($9.95) and playful graphic ankle socks ($12).

Items at Lou Lou Boutique.

Annapolis Pottery (40 State Cir, Annapolis, Md.) has something colorful for all tastes. These psychedelic vases currently range from $116-264 and the bubble clock opens up any room at $56.95.

Barefoot Dwelling (65 Maryland Ave, Annapolis, Md.), a vintage interior decorating store downtown offers candles such as: “Stay Weird: as if you had a choice” ($25) and “Bad-Ass Bitch Balm” ($4).

Stockings to Stuf, a kiosk in the Francis Scott Key Mall (5500 Buckeystown Pike) in Frederick, Md., has LGBT-themed ornaments such as grooms (sadly no lesbian couples!) and “Love is Love.” $11.99 each. 

Also at the Francis Scott Key Mall and other malls in the region, Spencer’s has its own version of a “Love is Love” ornament ($9.99) and equality mug (also $9.99). 

For the local music lover on your list, this Anthem Pride Tee, a black, unisex 100 percent cotton T-shirt, is $20 and celebrates one of D.C.’s hippest venues. Available at the Anthem (901 Wharf St., S.W.) or online at merch.930.com

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Bad Bunny shares Super Bowl stage with Ricky Martin, Lady Gaga

Puerto Rican activist celebrates half time show

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Bad Bunny performs at the Super Bowl halftime show on Feb. 8, 2026. (Screen capture via NFL/YouTube)

Bad Bunny on Sunday shared the stage with Ricky Martin and Lady Gaga at the Super Bowl halftime show in Santa Clara, Calif.

Martin came out as gay in 2010. Gaga, who headlined the 2017 Super Bowl halftime show, is bisexual. Bad Bunny has championed LGBTQ rights in his native Puerto Rico and elsewhere.

“Not only was a sophisticated political statement, but it was a celebration of who we are as Puerto Ricans,” Pedro Julio Serrano, president of the LGBTQ+ Federation of Puerto Rico, told the Washington Blade on Monday. “That includes us as LGBTQ+ people by including a ground-breaking superstar and legend, Ricky Martin singing an anti-colonial anthem and showcasing Young Miko, an up-and-coming star at La Casita. And, of course, having queer icon Lady Gaga sing salsa was the cherry on the top.”

La Casita is a house that Bad Bunny included in his residency in San Juan, the Puerto Rican capital, last year. He recreated it during the halftime show.

“His performance brought us together as Puerto Ricans, as Latin Americans, as Americans (from the Americas) and as human beings,” said Serrano. “He embraced his own words by showcasing, through his performance, that the ‘only thing more powerful than hate is love.’”

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PHOTOS: Drag in rural Virginia

Performers face homophobia, find community

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Four drag performers dance in front of an anti-LGBTQ protester outside the campus of James Madison University in Harrisonburg, Va. (Blade photo by Landon Shackelford)

Drag artists perform for crowds in towns across Virginia. The photographer follows Gerryatrick, Shenandoah, Climaxx, Emerald Envy among others over eight months as they perform at venues in the Virginia towns of Staunton, Harrisonburg and Fredericksburg.

(Washington Blade photos by Landon Shackelford)

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New book explores homosexuality in ancient cultures

‘Queer Thing About Sin’ explains impact of religious credo in Greece, Rome

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(Book cover image courtesy of Bloomsbury)

‘The Queer Thing About Sin’
By Harry Tanner
c.2025, Bloomsbury
$28/259 pages

Nobody likes you very much.

That’s how it seems sometimes, doesn’t it? Nobody wants to see you around, they don’t want to hear your voice, they can’t stand the thought of your existence and they’d really rather you just go away. It’s infuriating, and in the new book “The Queer Thing About Sin” by Harry Tanner, you’ll see how we got to this point.

When he was a teenager, Harry Tanner says that he thought he “was going to hell.”

For years, he’d been attracted to men and he prayed that it would stop. He asked for help from a lay minister who offered Tanner websites meant to repress his urges, but they weren’t the panacea Tanner hoped for. It wasn’t until he went to college that he found the answers he needed and “stopped fearing God’s retribution.”

Being gay wasn’t a sin. Not ever, but he “still wanted to know why Western culture believed it was for so long.”

Historically, many believe that older men were sexual “mentors” for teenage boys, but Tanner says that in ancient Greece and Rome, same-sex relationships were common between male partners of equal age and between differently-aged pairs, alike. Clarity comes by understanding relationships between husbands and wives then, and careful translation of the word “boy,” to show that age wasn’t a factor, but superiority and inferiority were.

In ancient Athens, queer love was considered to be “noble” but after the Persians sacked Athens, sex between men instead became an acceptable act of aggression aimed at conquered enemies. Raping a male prisoner was encouraged but, “Gay men became symbols of a depraved lack of self-control and abstinence.”

Later Greeks believed that men could turn into women “if they weren’t sufficiently virile.” Biblical interpretations point to more conflict; Leviticus specifically bans queer sex but “the Sumerians actively encouraged it.” The Egyptians hated it, but “there are sporadic clues that same-sex partners lived together in ancient Egypt.”

Says Tanner, “all is not what it seems.”

So you say you’re not really into ancient history. If it’s not your thing, then “The Queer Thing About Sin” won’t be, either.

Just know that if you skip this book, you’re missing out on the kind of excitement you get from reading mythology, but what’s here is true, and a much wider view than mere folklore. Author Harry Tanner invites readers to go deep inside philosophy, religion, and ancient culture, but the information he brings is not dry. No, there are major battles brought to life here, vanquished enemies and death – but also love, acceptance, even encouragement that the citizens of yore in many societies embraced and enjoyed. Tanner explains carefully how religious credo tied in with homosexuality (or didn’t) and he brings readers up to speed through recent times.

While this is not a breezy vacation read or a curl-up-with-a-blanket kind of book, “The Queer Thing About Sin” is absolutely worth spending time with. If you’re a thinking person and can give yourself a chance to ponder, you’ll like it very much.

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