Sports
Rookies & Vets: TriOut
Swimming, running and cycling coalesce in tough sport

Rob Jeter, left, in his first triathlon at Black Bear. Jeremy Stillman in action. They both say the triathlon has stretched their athletic prowess. (Photos courtesy the subjects)
In the continuing Blade series on the rookies and veterans that make up the teams in the LGBT sports community of D.C., we take a look at two athletes from the TriOut triathlon club.
Of all the sports a person can choose, the sport of triathlon can bring about the most challenges in many aspects, especially in regard to the need for mentoring and teammates.
Considering that one has to master the techniques required for swimming, running and cycling along with all the respective gear and training schedules, surrounding oneself with a seasoned group of teammates is paramount to success.
Rob Jeter grew up north of Seattle and competed in swimming through high school before taking a break during his college years at Arizona State. After arriving in D.C. in 2008 for his work as a civil engineer, he joined the District of Columbia Aquatics Club.
“I wanted to get back into sports for health reasons and for the social aspect,” Jeter says. “It’s important for me to have teammates around for motivation and friendship.”
Over seven years with the swim team, he has competed in Hawaii, Iceland, Seattle, Cleveland and Stockholm. Last year he was convinced by a crossover friend from triathlon, Jeremy Stillman, to give that sport a try.
“For a number of years, I had wanted to try training for a triathlon,” Jeter says. “I love cycling, but did not have any running experience behind me.”
With about 1,300 triathletes, the D.C. Triathlon Club can be hard to find a niche in so Jeter, 41, joined its New Triathlete Program through its LGBT offshoot, TriOut. He immediately felt the benefit of having veteran triathletes to guide him.
“Everyone at TriOut was very inspiring and they are great examples for planning the training regimen and competitions,” Jeter says. “Our little group has a focus list of triathlon events for the athletes to compete in together.”
Jeter completed his first triathlon in May in the Olympic distance at Black Bear in the Poconos. When he emerged as one of the leaders after the swim, he was cheered on by his partner, Brendan, and his parents who had flown in from Seattle.
“I really enjoyed the transitioning between the swimming, running and cycling and engaging all the muscle groups,” Jeter says. “Next up I want to do a half Ironman and eventually a full Ironman. Now I have to figure out how to fit the training into my work travel.”
Jeremy Stillman spent his youth in Waccabuc, N.Y., dabbling in multiple sports including running, swimming, skiing and tennis. It wasn’t until after he finished his undergrad work at New York University that his competitive fires kicked in.
He completed his first triathlon in the sprint distance in New York in 2008 and immediately found himself hooked.
“When you start discovering you are good at something, you develop a passion for it,” Stillman says. “After that first race, I wanted more and I wanted to push myself.”
Stillman moved to D.C. with his former partner in 2009 and took on the Nation’s Triathlon in the Olympic distance. He left the area in 2011 for graduate work at Emory University and returned in 2013, now working in orthopedic surgery.
Besides his involvement with D.C. Triathlon Club and TriOut, he has completed three marathons including the Boston Marathon this year.
“I really relate to the rookies when they come to TriOut; the nervousness, getting all the gear together,” Stillman says. “They push me to perfect my performance and they inspire me to train harder.”
Stillman says the veterans in TriOut utilize the resources of D.C. Triathlon Club to mentor the rookies and each year TriOut has a training weekend in Lost River, W.Va.
After recently completing a half Ironman in Miami, Stillman, 35, is targeting his first full Ironman for Lake Placid, N.Y. in July.
“I will ramp up my training in January for the Ironman,” Stillman says. “My swimming will be inside and I will train on the stationary bike inside, but I actually like running outside in the winter.”
Iran and Egypt on Friday faced off during the World Cup’s “Pride Match” in Seattle.
Iran is among the handful of countries in which consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death. Discrimination and persecution based on sexual orientation and gender identity is commonplace in Egypt.
Friday’s match coincided with Pride weekend in Seattle. The Egyptian Football Association and the Football Federation Islamic Republic of Iran both objected to playing in the “Pride Match.”
Egypt and Iran tied 1-1.
FIFA, for its part, allowed Pride flags inside the stadium during the match.
“The FIFA World Cup 2026 is an inclusive event that welcomes people from all backgrounds,” a FIFA spokesperson told the Washington Blade in a statement. “Fans of all sexual orientations and gender identities are welcome at matches and events. General statements of human rights, including rainbow flags and other flags representing sexual orientation and gender identity, are permitted under the FIFA World Cup 2026™ Stadium Code of Conduct and may be displayed inside stadiums provided they are used in a manner consistent with the code.”
Human Rights Watch welcomed FIFA’s decision to allow Pride flags inside the stadium. Outright International, a global LGBTQ and intersex rights group, distributed Pride flags in Seattle on Friday, which was Pride Match Day.
“Visibility matters,” said Outright International Executive Director Maria Sjödin. “Pride is now being celebrated in more than 100 countries, including this weekend in Seattle. For many LGBTIQ people, seeing a Pride flag in public is a reminder that they are not alone, and that their rights and dignity are recognized.”
FIFA President Gianni Infantino earlier this year told Die Weltwoche, a Swiss magazine, that “there will be no ‘Pride Match’ at the (FIFA) World Cup.”
“There will be a FIFA World Cup match in Seattle, and on the same day, events organized by external organizations will be taking place in the city,” said Infantino. “But that has nothing to do with the match itself.”
Peter Tatchell, a long-time LGBTQ activist from the U.K. who is director of the Peter Tatchell Foundation, was among those who traveled to Seattle for Friday’s match. Tatchell accused FIFA of not vetting World Cup teams — specifically Iran, Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Ghana, Senegal, Qatar, Tunisia, Morocco, Iraq, Uzbekistan, and Algeria — over whether they would allow gay players.
“FIFA is protecting LGBT+ visibility in the stands while failing to protect LGBT+ players on the pitch,” said Tatchell.
The Baltimore Orioles will take on the Washington Nationals on Friday, June 26 at 7 p.m. for Pride Night at Oriole Park.
The first 15,000 fans will receive an exclusive Pride Night Orioles jersey. The Washington Blade is a media sponsor of this event.
To purchase tickets, visit Orioles.com/Tickets.
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Minor league team in York, Pa., forfeits Pride Night game after some players refuse to wear special jersey
City is roughly 20 miles north of Md. border
An independent minor league baseball team says it is forfeiting a game because some of its players refused to wear a special Pride Night jersey.
The Atlantic League Pro Baseball’s York Revolution were planning to hold their 11th annual Pride Night event Thursday for a game against the Southern Maryland Blue Crabs.
But the Revolution announced the day of the game that it wouldn’t be played. York is about 20 miles north of the Maryland line. The Blue Crabs play in Waldorf.
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