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Queery: Joey Salinas
The local singer/songwriter answers 20 gay questions

Local singer/songwriter Joey Salinas is back doing what he loves — releasing music.
After spending years variously in Chicago, El Salvador, Los Angeles, New York and San Francisco, the 27-year-old has settled in Arlington. The gay singer/songwriter released his third album “Identity: Chapter 1” in August.
“What makes me different from other artists is that I use a blend of many genres to come up with my sound with an independent artist approach,” he says. “My music is built to entertain the masses while drawing in fans that can understand and appreciate good songwriting and music. My dream is that my music will set an example for others wanting to pursue this career path that they can do it without having a major label record deal.”
He says his music mixes pop, R&B and dance. He plans two further installments of the “Identity” series. His other albums include his 2005 debut “In the Beginning” and 2008’s “And Then There Was Alexander.” Visit joey-salinas.com for more information on his music.
Salinas, who says he doesn’t know how to relax, enjoys kayaking, swimming, traveling, movies and photography when he’s not making music. He’s single.
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
I have been out since I was 18. It was the hardest to tell my Dad. Although I haven’t officially “told” him, he was aware enough to acknowledge the person I was with at the time as my “boyfriend.” Cool moment yet awkward.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Karen Walker from “Will & Grace”
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Past: I lived at Nation; present: I live at Cobalt (Friday nights with DJ Keenan Orr!)
Describe your dream wedding.
I don’t think of getting married actually. But I’m sure if it were to happen, it would be intimate and in a very beautiful location with a nice backdrop.
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Bringing back music programs and arts to schools! It’s such an overlooked subject and I think kids growing up in this new generation need something more than just statistics and historic references in their brains. Life is full of creativity and kids today should have the chance to explore that as an outlet and have the ability to develop that just as much as developing their knowledge in every other subject they learn in school.
What historical outcome would you change?
If it wouldn’t cause a chain reaction and affect anything else to make it worse, I’d change the U.S. going immediately into war with Iraq after the 9-11 attacks.
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
The day Michael Jackson died. Obama’s inauguration was also memorable but I consider that more of a historical event.
On what do you insist?
I insist on people not smoking anything around me. I don’t smoke and I hate inhaling that crap. However, what anyone else does with their lungs is their own business. But I like to keep mine smoke free.
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
ON BOTH: I challenge you all to get Identity: Chapter I & get 10 friends to get it & have them tell 10 of their friends. #WhoAmI? http://itun.es/iBD4xm
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
“Shenanigans”
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
I’d be wary. That doesn’t sound like a good thing. I’d rather science discover a way to provide someone with acceptance of other people’s differences instead.
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
I believe in spirituality, karma and balance.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
I don’t have any other advice aside from listen to the youth of today. They will be the ones left behind to pick up where they leave off.
What would you walk across hot coals for?
My family and Strawberry Shortcake from Roy Rogers. (Remember those?)
What gay stereotype annoys you most?
The one gay stereotype that MOST annoys me is that all gay men are “limp-wristed.” All because I enjoy passionate, rough sex with a man does not mean that I also enjoy wearing a dress or acting like a female. Stereotypes are a sign of ignorance, and we can only change that by educating. So I try to do that as much as I can.
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
“But I’m a cheerleader!”
What’s the most overrated social custom?
The use of the word “like”!
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Billboard Award
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
Wish I’d known the guy I was with was a complete asshole! (We’re cool now though.)
Why Washington?
Family ties
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Rehoboth Pride festival to take place July 19
LGBTQ-friendly resort town welcomes third year of celebrations

Rehoboth Beach Pride is back for a day of summer celebration next Saturday.
The Delaware beach town will host its Pride festival at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center on July 19 from 9 a.m.-2 p.m., followed by an after-party at Freddie’s Beach Bar and a ticketed event in the evening with a film screening, comedian, and musician.
“It will be a day of community engagement, fun, celebration and learning, all sorts of things rolled into one,” David Mariner, executive director of Sussex Pride, told the Washington Blade. “I think it’s a great opportunity for us to be together, to support each other.”
Pride is organized by Sussex Pride and Gay Women of Rehoboth. The festival will include a free, family-friendly event with vendors offering information and resources, health screenings, and other activities.
Drag queen Roxy Overbrooke will host the festival, with performances throughout the day by Ivy Blu Austin, Goldstar, the cast of Clear Space Theatre, JC Pizzaz, and Kadet Kelly.
Mariner said Rehoboth Pride has not seen a decrease in corporate support this year, as some Pride celebrations have. Last year, the vendor spots were capped at 50 but increased to 60 this year.
“The main thing that’s different this year is what’s happening in the world and what’s happening in the country so it changes the tone,” Mariner said. “I go into this with strength and determination and an awareness and appreciation for the rights that we have here in Delaware. I go into this … knowing there are people in our community feeling under attack. There are a lot of things happening at the national level that impact us from healthcare to education that affect our lives in various ways.”
Funds raised from a raffle will be used to support unhoused LGBTQ youth in Delaware. Last year, the raffle raised $1,000, which was donated to the Safeguards Housing Committee, a program of PFLAG Wilmington.
In response to LGBTQ youth “increasingly targeted by harmful rhetoric and policies,” the festival will hold various workshops with topics such as supporting the LGBTQ Latinx community, suicide prevention, and an ACLU activist training.
Mariner referenced a Dan Savage quote from the AIDS epidemic that he loves. He said it reflects Pride festivals and the celebration of pride in the LGBTQ community.
“During the darkest days of the AIDS crisis, we buried our friends in the morning, we protested in the afternoon, and we danced all night. The dance kept us in the fight because it was the dance we were fighting for,” the quote reads.
Mariner said having an event like this that combines education, advocacy, and celebration is reflective of “who we are as queer people.” He said it’s important to learn and recommit to the work that needs to be done and that he is looking forward to every piece of the day.
“I would just like to see everyone leave the convention center feeling loved and connected and supported and with a renewed sense of strength and determination to face whatever challenges may come,” Mariner said.
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Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
“Fairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitution’s protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School District’s LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
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More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginia’s constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
“Thank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,” said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,” said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
“We must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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