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Mississippi school faces lawsuit over bullied lesbian student

SPLC takes action for 17-year-old called an ‘in-between it’ by teacher

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Destin Holmes, Jennifer Holmes, gay news, Washington Blade

Destin Holmes (bottom) faced discrimination for being a lesbian at her school. She’s shown here with her grandmother, Jennifer Holmes. (Photo courtesy Southern Poverty Law Center).

A lesbian student at a Mississippi high school is taking action against her school district over harassment and discrimination she says she’s facedĀ from students and administrators over her sexual orientation and appearance.

The Southern Poverty Law Center on Tuesday filed a lawsuit on behalf of Destin Holmes, a 17-year-old student at Moss Point High School, seeking a resolution to put in place a new policy to protect gender nonconforming students like her from bullying and discrimination.

During a conference call with reporters on Tuesday, Holmes said she endured harsh torments over her sexual orientation and preference to wear a baseball cap over more traditionally female attire.

“When I was in middle school, the teachers and students called me an ‘it,'” Holmes said. “I’m not an ‘it.’ I am a person, a teenager, a human being. Just because I prefer to date the same gender, wear hats or non-girly … clothes doesn’t mean I should be isolated and made fun of because of it.”

Anjali Nair, staff attorney with the Southern Poverty Law Center, said the harassment against Destin was pervasive from both students and administrators at the school, where she heard insults as many as 20 times a day and one teacher denied her access to the girl’s restroom.

“Another teacher even refused to allow her to participate in a classroom activity where teams were divided by gender because Destin, according to the teacher, was an ‘in-between it,'” Nair said.

Nair said Destin was eventually driven out of Magnolia Junior High after the then-principle called her a “pathetic fool” and told Destin, “I don’t want a dyke in this school.”

“At a time when families and communities across the country are trying to teach children the consequences of bullying, it is tragic that the Moss Point school district chooses to ignore those lessons,” Nair said.

Nair said her organization attempted to reach a resolution with the school district in March, writing a demand letter to the school seeking change through administrative means, but those efforts were unsuccessful.

Also on the conference call with reporters was Jennifer Holmes, Destin’s grandmother, who also lives in Moss Point and said the school has been reluctant to make changes after requests from her and Destin’s father.

“For the past two years, we’ve tried everything we could with the school, but they did little or nothing,” Holmes said. “In some ways, administrators made the situation worse for Destin. We had to pull her out of school eventually, despite having numerous meetings and conversations with the administrators.”

The 21-page complaint sues the Moss Point School District on the basis of Ā Title IX of the Education Amendment of 1972, which prohibits schools from discriminating on the basis of gender, and the Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution.

The complaint seeks damages for Destin, an injunction barring the school from allowing discrimination against Destin and other students like her and the implementation of new polices to foster a more inclusive environment.

Although SPLC is asking the U.S. District Court for the Southern District of Mississippi to take action, Nair said the school on its own can still take “concrete action” to rectify the situation.

“This can stem from trainings that are provided to school students, district and staff to address the rights of LGBT students and the rights of students to be free from discrimination on the basis of their gender,” Nair said. “This can include policies and practices that are implemented within the district so that district administrators know the proper steps to take in investigating and responding to reports of harassment.”

In a joint statement provided on Tuesday to the Washington Blade, Moss Point School Board President Clifton Magee and Superintendent Maggie Griffin said the district hasn’t been served yet with the lawsuit and cannot speak to the claims because they’re a matter of litigation.

“Protecting our students from acts of bullying, harassment, intimidation and threats by any individual is our highest priority,” Magee and Griffin said. “The district has in place policies and procedures to ensure that our students are free from discrimination and bullying. We, as most districts across the nation, try to ensure that students in our schools are safe and secure.”

For Destin, the goal of achieving a resolution with her school district is about ensuring a safe place to learn for herself and others facing discrimination because of gender non-conformity.

“I wish I could go to school without being afraid to be who I am,” Destin said. “I’m a human being and I should be treated that way. I’m here to take a stand and speak up for myself and for others who are not in a position to do so. I don’t want anyone to go through what I’ve been through.”

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Claudia LĆ³pez mum on whether she will run for president of Colombia

LGBTQ+ Victory Institute honored former BogotĆ” mayor in D.C.

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Former BogotĆ” Mayor Claudia LĆ³pez, left, with Minneapolis City Councilwoman Andrea Jenkins at the LGBTQ+ Victory Institute's International LGBTQ Leaders Conference in D.C. on Dec. 8, 2024. (Washington Blade photo by Michael K. Lavers)

Former BogotĆ” Mayor Claudia LĆ³pez on Saturday did not specifically discuss the growing speculation over whether she will run for president of Colombia in 2026 when she spoke at the LGBTQ+ Victory Institute’s annual International LGBTQ Leaders Conference in D.C. and with the Washington Blade.

ā€œIn a week I am going to return to Colombia and Iā€™m coming back with a very, very punctual task,ā€ she said in a speech she gave after the Victory Institute inducted her into its LGBTQ+ Political Hall of Fame at the JW Marriott. ā€œDemocracy in the world in general needs emotional reconnection.ā€

LĆ³pez, 54, was a student protest movement leader, journalist, and political scientist before she entered politics.

She returned to Colombia in 2013 after she earned her PhD in political science at Columbia University.

LĆ³pez in her speech said Juan Francisco ā€œKikoā€ Gomez, a former governor of La GuajĆ­ra Department in northern Colombia, threatened to assassinate her because she wrote about his ties to criminal gangs. A BogotĆ” judge in 2017 convicted GĆ³mez of ordering members of a paramilitary group to kill former Barrancas Mayor Yandra Brito, her husband, and bodyguard and sentenced him to 55 years in prison.

LĆ³pez in 2014 returned to Colombia, and ran for the countryā€™s Senate as a member of the center-left Green Alliance party after she recovered from breast cancer. LĆ³pez won after a 10-week campaign that cost $80,000.

ā€œI was the only woman, the only LGBTQ member of my caucus,ā€ she said in her speech. ā€œOf course I had the honor, but also the responsibility to represent them particularly well, [and] of course all the citizens who trust me and all the citizens of Colombia.”

“Once you are elected, you are elected to represent equally and faithfully all of the people, not only your own people,ā€ added LĆ³pez.

LĆ³pez in 2018 was her partyā€™s candidate to succeed then-President Juan Manuel Santos when he left office. LĆ³pez in 2019 became the first woman and first lesbian elected mayor of BogotĆ”, the Colombian capital and the countryā€™s largest city.

ā€œThis of course speaks incredibly well of my city,ā€ she said in her speech.

LĆ³pez took office on Jan. 1, 2020, less than a month after she married her wife, Colombian Sen. AngĆ©lica Lozano. (LĆ³pez was not out when she was elected to the Senate.) Lozano was with LĆ³pez at the Victory Institute conference.

LĆ³pezā€™s term ended on Dec. 31, 2023. She will return to Colombia once her Advanced Leadership Fellowship at Harvard University ends this month.

ā€œI ended my mayorship,ā€ LĆ³pez told the Blade. ā€œIt has been, of course, the honor of my life to be the first female mayor of my city. It was an absolutely beautiful job, but very challenging.ā€

ā€œI needed a year of rest, of relaxation, and I was fortunate to receive a Harvard scholarship this year,ā€ she added.

LĆ³pez during the interview called for an end to polarization and reiterated her support for democracy.

ā€œWe need to listen to each other again, we need to have a coffee with each other again, we need to touch each otherā€™s skin,ā€ she said.

LĆ³pez said parties, candidates, and their political coalitions in Colombia and around the world need to ā€œlisten, reconnect, and organize with peopleā€ at the grassroots. LĆ³pez also told the Blade there is a ā€œglobal crisis of democracy.ā€

ā€œEach country has its own contexts and challenges, but it seems to me that there is a common element there,ā€ she said.

ā€œSo, I return to Colombia rested, grateful after a year of reflection, with proposals in mind, but determined to dedicate time to what I consider the most important work for democracy at this time, which is to reconnect from the grassroots,” added LĆ³pez.

‘I know what love and education can do for any person’

LĆ³pez took office less than three months before the COVID-19 pandemic began.

ā€œWe were full of hope, ready to go to offer a new social and environmental contract for BogotĆ” society for the 21st century,ā€ she said. ā€œBut a couple of (months) after being sworn into office, the pandemic of COVID-19 came.ā€

Unemployment and poverty rates soared in BogotĆ” during the pandemic, and the cityā€™s residents had less access to health care and other basic services.

LĆ³pez noted her administration in response to the pandemic offered scholarships to young people, supported businesses, and increased funding of the cityā€™s social services. LĆ³pez also said her administration implemented Latin Americaā€™s first city-based care system for female care givers, and build three more LGBTQ community centers in poor and working-class neighborhoods.

ā€œI know what love and education can do for any person,ā€ she said.

Members of Caribe Afirmativo, a Colombian LGBTQ rights group, participate in a Pride march in BogotĆ”, Colombia, in 2022. (Photo courtesy of Caribe Afirmativo)

The U.N. Refugee Agency says upwards of three million Venezuelans are now in Colombia.

Then-Colombian President IvĆ”n Duque in February 2021 announced Venezuelan migrants who register with the countryā€™s government will be legally recognized.

Former BogotĆ” Mayor Gustavo Petro, a former senator who was once a member of the M-19 guerrilla movement that disbanded in the 1990s, succeeded Duque as president on Aug. 7, 2022. Colombia and Venezuela restored diplomatic ties less than a month later.

Venezuelaā€™s National Electoral Council on July 28 declared President NicolĆ”s Maduro the winner of the countryā€™s disputed presidential election. Tamara AdriĆ”n, the countryā€™s first transgender congresswoman who ran in the presidential primary earlier this year, are among those who denounced voting irregularities.

WPLG, a South Florida television station, on March 16, 2021, reported LĆ³pez sparked controversy after she told reporters there have been ā€œsome very violent acts from Venezuelans.ā€

ā€œFirst they murder, and then they steal,ā€ she said. ā€œWe need guarantees for Colombians.ā€

LĆ³pez made the comments after a Venezuelan migrant murdered a Colombian police officer in BogotĆ”.

ā€œThe problem is not migration from Venezuela,ā€ LĆ³pez told the Blade in response to a question about Venezuela. ā€œThe problem is authoritarianism in Venezuela and you have to keep the focus on it.ā€

ā€œThe problem is what it is: It is not the migrants, it is in Maduro, it is in the dictatorship, it is in authoritarianism.ā€

(washington blade video by michael k. lavers)

More than 200,000 people died in the war between the Colombian government and the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia that began in 1962.

Santos and the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia Commander Rodrigo ā€œTimochenkoā€ LondoƱo on Sept 26, 2016, signed an LGBTQ-inclusive peace agreement. Colombian voters a few days later narrowly rejected it a referendum that took place against the backdrop of anti-LGBTQ rhetoric from religious and conservative groups.

Santos and LondoƱo less than two months later signed a second peace agreement, which also contains LGBTQ-specific references.

LĆ³pez described herself as ā€œa person totally committed to the peace process.ā€ She added, however, she has ā€œa bit of a bad taste in my mouth now that I look back.ā€

ā€œThe peace process with the FARC, which was to demobilize the FARC, period, certainly tried to have and had a gender focus, of course a diversity focus, a focus on human rights for all victims, and certainly (the) many LGBT victims who had been victims of FARC recruitment, abuse, stigmatization, etc.,ā€ LĆ³pez told the Blade. ā€œSo, in some sense, or in many senses, having that gender and diversity perspective was a way of recognizing the victims of our community.”

She noted opponents lied about the LGBTQ-specific provisions “to deceive and delegitimize the peace agreement.”

ā€œIt is not about making anything invisible, or even downplaying anything, but rather about being much more strategic in understanding that we do not want our flags and causes to be exposed in a way that ends up being a boomerang for our own community,ā€ LĆ³pez added. ā€œSo, I say that is why it is a disappointment, because I think it is a lesson. At least for me, it made me think and it makes me think, and I have said it openly since then, that we have to be much more careful and much more, above all, strategic, in how we raise our flags so that they really do not only have symbolic, but real advances and so that in no case do they become a boomerang against ourselves.ā€

‘I know how you feel’

LĆ³pez during the interview praised the recent elections of Mexican President Claudia Sheinbaum, Uruguayan Vice President Beatriz ArgimĆ³n, and other women in Latin America. She also expressed sympathy with LGBTQ Americans who are concerned about the incoming Trump-Vance administration.

ā€œI know how you feel,ā€ said LĆ³pez in her speech. ā€œIā€™ve been there when we lost the peace referendum in 2016. Iā€™ve been there when three candidates who represented independent, new alternatives in Colombia, and policies were killed by mafia groups in 1990. Iā€™ve been there when a mafia cartel was able to fund and elect a president for all of us. Iā€™ve been there when paramilitary groups were able to support and elect another president in Colombia.ā€

ā€œI know how obscure and difficult and challenging and painful democratic times are, but we cannot (back) democracy only when we win,ā€ she added. ā€œItā€™s precisely when things are challenging, when we suffer defeats that are painful, that we need to attach to our democratic and humanistic values and principles.ā€

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Rehoboth Beachā€™s iconic Purple Parrot is sold

Popular restaurant/bar purchased by local entrepreneurs

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Drew Mitchell (left) and Tyler Townsend recently completed their purchase of the Purple Parrot.

After 25 years of success, owners Hugh Fuller and Troy Roberts recently sold Rehoboth Beachā€™s Purple Parrot restaurant and bar. 

During those 25 years, they built it into an iconic establishment in Rehoboth Beach, Del., popular with locals and tourists alike.

 ā€œI think you know that this has basically been my entire adult life,ā€ Fuller said. ā€œSelling wasn’t something I was even contemplating until my health took a turn after contracting COVID, which took a toll on my everyday health. I went from working almost every day to barely going in.ā€ 

Fuller added that when local entrepreneurs Tyler Townsend and his partner Drew Mitchell reached out, he knew it was time to sell. 

ā€œWe knew we made the right decision going with some young blood that knew the staff, the restaurant, and us,ā€ Fuller said. ā€œWe know that our baby is in good hands and will breathe for another 25+ years with them at the helm. I plan to take some time and bring my mom back to her hometown in Germany to visit her family, which she hasn’t seen in over 30 years.ā€ 

Roberts added, ā€œIt is bittersweet selling a business you created, nurtured, and ran for 25 years. It is much easier knowing who is going to love it next. More importantly, we really wanted our staff to be OK and again picking the right guys offering that security to them was a major plus. Iā€™ve learned so much being in the restaurant business for 30+ years. You meet so many great people, so many loyal customers, amazing locals, and even better staff. It truly does become a family situation. I will always be grateful to every single one of them past and present. I cannot wait to see what the next chapter of the Purple Parrot Grill has in-store.ā€

The new owners, Townsend and Mitchell, are already a big part of the Rehoboth scene. Townsend is a successful restaurateur, part of the Second Block Hospitality Group, which owns The Pines, Drift, and Bodhi Kitchen. Townsend is also one of the owners of Aqua Bar and Grill.  Townsend and the other three partners in Second Block Hospitality, were named restaurateurs of the year by the Delaware Restaurant Association earlier this year. Mitchell has a company that does corporate branding, but is no newcomer to hospitality. He is the owner of the Fathom Gallery on 14th Street in D.C., a popular event space. 

Townsend told the Blade he and Mitchell are not planning any big changes for the Parrot. The staff will remain the same and the food and drinks will continue as they are now. They will continue to be open on Thanksgiving and Christmas, as a home for those looking to have a great place to spend the holidays with old, and new friends. While the Parrot is independent of Townsendā€™s other businesses, he believes there can be some synergy among them, and if the time and event are right, there will be collaboration. 

Reaction to the news from locals has been overwhelmingly positive.

Christopher Chandler, who has worked as a bartender and manager at the Parrot for years, is well respected in the community and has been voted best bartender in Rehoboth Beach a number of times by Blade readers. Chandler said, ā€œHugh and Troy were, and are, like family to me. They treated me and the staff of the Parrot as part of theirs. Iā€™m sad they are gone but if anyone is capable of continuing their legacy it is Tyler and Drew.

ā€œIn the short time since their purchase of the Purple Parrot they have continued on that tradition. Iā€™m excited about continuing into the future what the Parrot has been to the community, and to the employees, just with new owners.ā€  

Bob Suppies, who is a partner with Townsend in Second Block Hospitality said, ā€œI couldnā€™t be more excited for Tyler and Drew having purchased The Purple Parrot. When Tyler, Kevin McDuffie and I bought Aqua Bar & Grill from the famed Bill Shields, it was important for us to honor the brand and legacy of a great Rehoboth Beach institution. I know Tyler and Drew will do an outstanding job protecting what Hugh and Troy have built and given to our community.ā€ 

Steve Fallon, owner of local retail store Gidgetā€™s Gadgets, said, ā€œThe Purple Parrot is a monumental institution produced by the hard work of Hugh, Troy, Cathy, and their loyal staff. We will be sad not to yell “Hey Hugh!” across the street. But I also know that Tyler and Drew will carry on the history of the Parrot with a fresh approach and always keep the customers happy. I wouldn’t fear that they would do as others have done and try changing a functioning landscape into a horror show.ā€ 

The Purple Parrot (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)
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Hate crime charges dropped against most Salisbury students in off-campus attack

Suspects allegedly used Grindr to target victim

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Students walk outside the Guerrieri Academic Commons at Salisbury University, where 15 students were charged in an off-campus attack. (Photo by Wesley Lapointe of the Baltimore Banner)

BY MIKE HELLGRIN, CHRISTIAN OLANIRAN, AND ELLIE WOLFE | Prosecutors in Wicomico County are dropping felony assault and hate crime charges against at least 12 of the 15 Salisbury University students charged in an off-campus attack in October.

Misdemeanor false imprisonment and second-degree assault charges remain for most of the defendants, and many trials are set for late January.

The rest of this article can be read on the Baltimore Bannerā€™s website.

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