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Migrantes LGBTI en Tijuana ‘buscan una oportunidad para vivir’
Miles de personas en la ciudad mexicana deseen entrar los EEUU

Melani Sofía Rosales Quiñones, una mujer transgénero de la Ciudad de Guatemala, fue golpeada, amenazada y discriminada en su país por el solo hecho de sumir su verdadera identidad de género. (Foto del Washington Blade de Yariel Valdés González)
TIJUANA, México — A Melani Sofía Rosales Quiñones, una mujer transgénero de la Ciudad de Guatemala, la esperaba una banda de homofóbicos a la vuelta de su casa. Era julio de 2017 y al pasar junto a ellos les dijo: Buenas noches y solo eso fue el pretexto para una agresión atroz.
“Me golpearon con bates y palos”, narra ahora Melani. “Me quebraron la mandíbula y el maxilar izquierdo. Estuve tres días sin despertar en el hospital y luego de 15 días me hicieron una cirugía para reconstruirme el rostro. Me pusieron placas y tornillos. Estuve cuatro meses en recuperación”.
Un año antes, las pandillas, que enferman de odio y violencia a medio Latinoamérica, codiciaban su casa como depósito para drogas. Su madre nunca aceptó e interpuso una denuncia por el acoso de las también llamadas “maras”.
“Saliendo de la policía llaman a mi mamá y la amenazan. Le dicen que con ellos no se jugaba y matan a mi hermano menor de 15 años”, ella dice.
Melani cuenta parte de su vida al Washington Blade desde una casa de acogida en el centro de Tijuana, donde momentáneamente amparan a los miembros LGTBI de la caravana migrante, que llegaron a esta ciudad fronteriza unas semanas atrás con el objetivo de solicitar asilo político en los Estados Unidos, una nación en la cual piensan vivir sin temores y con prosperidad económica.
Los migrantes LGTBI, al igual que la caravana, se han dispersado por toda la frontera norte del país. Lo que antes de llegar a México era un grupo compacto, que enfrentaba ofensas y malos tratos de la propia caravana, hoy no son más que pequeñas y débiles fuerzas dispersas en Tijuana, Baja California y Nogales, otro pueblo limítrofe con EEUU, perteneciente al estado de Sonora.

Atravesar este muro y llegar seguros a territorio estadounidense es el deseo de los miles de migrantes varados en Tijuana. Solo buscan una oportunidad de vida en los Estados Unidos. (Foto del Washington Blade de Yariel Valdés González)
Las historias detrás del sueño americano
No es la primera vez que Melani se lanza en dirección norte para tocar suelo estadounidense. En mayo de este año “subió” a Tijuana con otra caravana pero otra agresión le postergó el anhelo. “Me llevé una gran decepción porque oficiales de Tijuana me golpearon cuando me dirigía a la garita de El Chaparral. Luego, fui al hospital y puse una denuncia a los policías en Inmigración”, dice Melani.
Entonces Melani retornó hasta un pueblito entre Guatemala y México, “en territorio ‘nulo’”, dice con la ilusión de que, en algún momento, volvería a caminar hacia su sueño americano. No podía volver a Guatemala, pero tampoco a Tijuana. Por esa época se volvió casi ermitaña. Ella, una chica extrovertida y sociable, vivía alejada de la gente. “Trabajaba en una panadería y de ahí para mi casa. Sin decir alguna palabra, sin saludar”, añade.
Melani huía de una Guatemala donde la violencia se percibe como natural y se manifiesta más aguda contra las comunidades LGBTI. Allí soportan “insultos, sobornos, detenciones arbitrarias y agresiones físicas, que no pocas veces terminan en asesinatos, pero que no se denuncian por temor a las represalias. Las personas LGBTI viven con miedo y no cuentan con redes de apoyo comunitario que les ayuden a enfrentar los escenarios violentos en que habitan”, especifica un diagnóstico sobre la situación de esta comunidad en cuatro países centroamericanos.
Un total de 39 mujeres trans, como Melani, fueron asesinadas de enero a julio de 2017 en Guatemala, según el Observatorio de Personas Trans Asesinadas, ubicando a la nación en el puesto número seis dentro de la lista de países de América Latina y el Caribe con mayores cifras absolutas de personas trans asesinadas.
En Honduras, por otra parte, 40 personas LGTBI han muerto entre 2007 y mayo del presente año, indicó en un comunicado el estatal Comisionado Nacional de los Derechos Humanos en Honduras (Conadeh). Cattrachas, una red lesbiana feminista, indica que 288 personas LGBTI han sido asesinados en Honduras entre 2009 y 2018.
No solo es una situación de inseguridad. Este colectivo en Honduras posee muy bajas posibilidades de empleo. Según reportó Infobae “no existen en el país antecedentes de ninguna persona trans que haya ingresado a un puesto de trabajo en una empresa privada o en una dependencia estatal”.
Amelia Frank-Vitale, antropóloga de la Universidad de Michigan, quien lleva más de un año viviendo en Honduras para estudiar temas de deportación, migración y violencia, confirmó al Blade que “las personas de la comunidad LGBTI están expuestas a todas las formas de violencia que vive cualquier persona en Honduras, que es la mayoría de la población urbana, joven y pobre, pero además están discriminadas, estigmatizadas por su orientación sexual y en muchos casos el Estado está ausente en temas de justicia. Es siempre más crítico para la comunidad LGBTI”.
De esa situación vienen huyendo Alexis Rápalos y Solanyi, dos identidades que habitan un mismo cuerpo robusto de 38 años. En la entrevista con el Blade es Alexis quien habla. Lleva un gorro que cubre una cabeza casi sin pelos y las palabras apenas le salen.
Viene de una familia con bajos recursos y nos ha revelado que, desde los diez años, sufre el flagelo de la discriminación por las calles de su ciudad, San Pedro Sula, la que por cuatro años fue reconocida como la urbe más peligrosa del planeta. De nadie tuvo que despedirse, pues desde que murió su madre hace un año, vive solo.
Sastre y chef de cocina, trabajaba en un restaurante en su país natal, pero decidió sumarse a la caravana en busca de un futuro con más seguridad y una vida sin los sobresaltos de una homofobia generalizada.
Partió sin más que un pantalón y una camisa en su mochila y alcanzó la caravana en la frontera entre Guatemala y México. “Fui descubriendo amigos en la caravana”, refiere Alexis. “Y luego a la comunidad gay. Venimos luchando, peleando muchas cosas porque nos discriminan bastante, nos insultan”.
“El camino ha sido bastante duro”, sostiene Alexis. “A veces nos quedamos dormidos en lugares muy fríos, con tormentas. Yo me enfermé de la gripe con una tos horrible, pero gracias a Dios nos han ayudado con medicinas, con ropa”.
Arribaron a Tijuana pidiendo jalón (auto-stop), a ratos en autobuses y suplicando por la caridad ajena para comer. “Llegamos al albergue que había en la Unidad Deportiva Benito Juárez, pero nosotros estábamos en nuestro grupo aparte. Nos han tratado bien, con ropas, medicinas, comida”, insiste como tratando de agradecer días atenciones recibidas.
Hasta ese albergue, donde las condiciones de insalubridad y hacinamiento eran una constante, los persiguió la homofobia que viaja con algunos de sus coterráneos y los ubica en una posición aún más desfavorable que la del resto. Alexis detalla que eran abucheados en las filas para los alimentos y hubo ocasiones en las que no los dejaron comer. La situación se repetía en las frías duchas a la intemperie, donde la privacidad era un lujo impensable.
Allí, junto a los casi 6.000 centroamericanos que llegaron a aglomerarse en el albergue habilitado por las autoridades de la ciudad, sintió la crudeza del frío de madrugada, durmió en la calle porque no tenía una carpa que lo protegiera y la inusual lluvia de la temporada le humedeció hasta el alma cuando vio empapadas sus pocas pertenencias.
“En el albergue (Benito Juárez) sí pasamos humillaciones, críticas, hasta nos hicieron quitar la bandera gay. Recibimos mucha discriminación, nos dicen que no podemos hacer la misma fila para la comida y para el baño nos dejan de últimos y aquí (Enclave Caracol, nuevo albergue) nos están apoyando demasiado, nos dan nuestro lugar, tenemos baño aparte y todo”, comenta Bairon Paolo González Morera, un gay guatemalteco de 27 años.

Los integrantes de la caravana LGTBI estuvieron a su llegada a Tijuana en la Unidad Deportiva Benito Juárez, un complejo deportivo convertido en albergue. Allí también fueron discriminados por sus coterráneos. Les hicieron quitar la bandera gay. No los querían en las filas para la alimentación y los dejaban de últimos en las duchas públicas. (Foto del Washington Blade de Yariel Valdés González)
Cuenta Bairon que se travestía por las noches y ejercía la prostitución como Kiara Paola, una actividad que le dejó varias cicatrices en su cuerpo. “Yo me dedicaba a trabajar para llevarle comida a mi hermano gemelo y al más pequeño”, dice. “Ahí mi familia se enteró que era gay. Mi madrastra me discriminó y mi papá no me apoyó y hasta hoy día estoy luchando por mi bienestar, a pesar de que me han dado trabones en la espalda y en diferentes partes de mi cuerpo, pero he salido adelante”.
Vivía solo y constantemente era extorsionado, por lo que decidió unirse a la caravana. Cuando los migrantes arribaron a México, ya trabajaba en un restaurante en Tuxpan y no pensó dos veces unirse a la caravana, que en opinión de la experta en migraciones Frank-Vitale es “un movimiento de desobediencia civil contra un régimen global … La caravana es la forma que se ha reconocido que se puede cruzar México sin estar tan expuesto a los grupos criminales, las autoridades corruptas y sin pagar un coyote para buscar una oportunidad de vivir”.

Paolo González Morera, un gay guatemalteco de 27 años, ejercía como trabajador sexual en su país y constantemente era extorsionado y maltratado por su orientación sexual. (Foto del Washington Blade de
Yariel Valdés González)
A la espera del asilo
Una larga fila se ha formado a las afueras del Enclave Caracol, un espacio comunitario ubicado en la calle primera, en el centro de Tijuana, que ha acogido a esta fracción de la caravana LGBTIQ, que llegó semanas después de la primera.
Bajo unas carpas, los propios migrantes se organizan para repartir la comida que ellos mismos han preparado en el interior del edificio, que semanas antes también brindó su espacio para el matrimonio de varias parejas gays.
Nacho, quien prefirió solo presentarse así, es colaborador de Enclave Caracol, y dijo que están apoyando “a la comunidad con la alimentación y agua, el uso de baño, acceso a Internet, uso de teléfonos para que puedan llamar prácticamente a cualquier parte del mundo y en algún momento ha funcionado como albergue”.

En el Enclave Caracol, son los propios migrantes quienes han cocinado y organizado la vida allí. Con las donaciones de la sociedad civil de varias ciudades ha sido posible mantener a las decenas de ellos que
allí se resguardan. (Foto del Washington Blade de Yariel Valdés González)
En los primeros días de auxilio a estos desplazados eran los trabajadores del lugar quienes cocinaban gran parte de los alimentos y garantizaban la limpieza. Pero, dice “poco a poco se han ido involucrando personas de la caravana. Actualmente ninguna persona del Enclave ha estado en la cocina. Estas últimas semanas hemos recibido donaciones y también hemos ido a los mercados por la merma y la limpiamos, la procesamos y se cocina. Ellos mismos están organizando la limpia y entrega de la comida”.
Nacho declaró que varias personas de la sociedad civil de Los Ángeles, San Diego y de la propia ciudad de Tijuana aportan dinero, comida, voluntariado, productos de limpieza, platos y vasos desechables para aliviar la tensa situación que se vive ahora mismo por la llegada de miles de migrantes a esta urbe fronteriza, muchos de los cuales no han iniciado su proceso de asilo político.
Y es que, al decir de la académica Frank-Vitale, este proceso se ha puesto intencionalmente difícil en EEUU. “Hay una lista muy larga de personas que solicitan el asilo, que se han entregado en la garita y buscan seguir el proceso correcto, bajo la ley internacional”, dice. “Se ha dicho que van a tener que esperar hasta dos meses para tener la oportunidad de hablar de su caso, y eso para personas vulnerables, que huyen de una persecución, que viven bajo la lluvia, el frío, a la intemperie todo ese tiempo, la verdad es una crisis humanitaria fatal”.
“A veces uno se desespera porque no hay un lugar estable. Nos vamos de aquí para allá. Dicen que hoy nos van a llevar para otra casa para esperar a los abogados que nos van a ayudar con los papeles”, dice esperanzado Alexis.
Sin embargo, Melani es más realista al comentar sobre su petición de asilo: “La situación de nosotros está un poco difícil porque siguen llegando muchas personas. Donald Trump cerró la frontera y el trámite está muy complicado. Por eso las personas van a la frontera a meter presión”.
Frank-Vitale considera que el actual sistema de asilo debe cambiar para reconocer las formas modernas de violencia y persecución a las que se ven expuestas las personas y en especial los grupos LGTBI. “Tomando todo eso en cuenta, sí es posible. Hay casos de Centroamérica que entran perfectamente en el sistema, siempre y cuando tengan realmente el temor por sus vidas en sus países y mucha gente tiene un miedo muy verdadero”.
Ese temor, que ha colmado gran parte de la vida de Melani, la acompañará, incluso, en territorio norteamericano, pues en “la caravana anterior había una chica que se llamaba Roxsana, quien murió porque tenía VIH, pero la autopsia reveló que había sido agredida por los oficiales del Servicio de Inmigración y Control de Aduanas (ICE) de Estados Unidos”.
La primera autopsia realizada en Hernández, una mujer trans hondureña con VIH que murió bajo custodia de ICE en Nuevo México el 25 de mayo, menciona la causa de muerte como un paro cardíaco. La segunda autopsia a la que se refirió Melani muestra que Hernández fue golpeada, pero no identifica las personas que la atacaron mientras estaba bajo custodia.
La autopsia original realizada en Hernández, una mujer trans hondureña con VIH que murió bajo custodia de ICE en Nuevo México el 25 de mayo, menciona la causa de la muerte como un paro cardíaco. La segunda autopsia a la que se refirió Melani muestra que Hernández fue golpeado, pero no identifica quién la atacó mientras estaba bajo custodia.
El tema ha llegado hasta el Senado estadounidense, pues tres senadores invitaron recientemente al Servicio de Aduanas e Inmigración y Aduanas y Protección de Fronteras de EEUU a entregar documentos relacionados con el caso de Roxsana, una mujer trans hondureña con VIH que murió bajo su custodia el año pasado.
Pese a todas estas situaciones, pese a un presidente xenófobo que comanda al otro lado, pese a un poderoso ejército atrincherado en la frontera, pese a las largas filas para ser escuchados, pese a la incertidumbre constante, Bairon se mantiene firme en su decisión: “Ya estamos acá. Con tanto trabajo que nos costó, yo no regreso”.
Ya sabemos por qué.
European Union
Top EU court strikes down Hungary’s anti-LGBTQ propaganda law
Ruling issued days after voters outed Prime Minister Viktor Orbán
The European Union’s top court on Tuesday struck down Hungary’s anti-LGBTQ propaganda law.
Hungarian MPs in 2021 approved Act LXXIX of 2021.
“It shall be forbidden to make accessible to persons who have not attained the age of 18 years advertisement that depicts sexuality in a gratuitous manner or that propagates or portrays divergence from self-identity corresponding to sex at birth, sex change or homosexuality,” it reads.
The European Commission in 2022 challenged the law. Sixteen EU countries — Austria, Belgium, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Ireland, Luxembourg, Malta, the Netherlands, Portugal, Slovenia, Spain, and Sweden — joined the lawsuit. The European Parliament also supported it. Outgoing Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orbán, for his part, said his government would defend the law.
The EU Court of Justice heard the case in 2024.
A press release that announced the ruling on Tuesday said Hungary “acted in breach of EU law.”
“The court finds, for the first time, a separate infringement of Article 2 TEU (Treaty on European Union), which lists the values on which the (European) Union is founded and which are common to all the Member States,” it reads. “The aspects of the amending law targeting content which portrays or promotes deviation from the self-identity corresponding to the sex assigned at birth, gender reassignment, or homosexuality constitute a coordinated series of discriminatory measures which are in breach, in a way that is both manifest and particularly serious, of the rights of non-cisgender persons — including transgender persons — or non-heterosexual persons, as well as the values of respect for human dignity, equality and respect for human rights, including the rights of persons belonging to minorities.”
“Consequently, that law is contrary to the very identity of the (European) Union as a common legal order in a society in which pluralism prevails,” notes the press release. “Hungary cannot validly rely on its national identity as justification for adopting a law which is in breach of the values referred to above.”
The Háttér Society, a Hungarian LGBTQ rights group, said the ruling “is a milestone for the protection of human rights in the European Union, and it is also a historic victory for LGBTQI people in Hungary.”
The court issued its ruling nine days after Péter Magyar ousted Orbán in Hungary’s elections.
Orbán took office in 2010.
He and his government faced widespread criticism over its anti-LGBTQ crackdown that included laws that banned Pride events and other public LGBTQ events. (Upwards of 100,000 people last June denied the prohibition and marched in Budapest’s annual Pride parade.)
“Those amendments constitute a particularly serious interference with several fundamental rights protected by the (EU) Charter (of Fundamental Rights), namely the prohibition on discrimination based on sex,” notes the court’s press release.
The EU since Orbán took office has withheld upwards of €35 billion ($41.2 billion) in funds to Hungary in response to concerns over corruption, rule of law, and other issues. Magyar has said he will work with Brussels to unfreeze the money.
ILGA-Europe Deputy Director Katrin Hugendubel urged Maygar’s government to repeal the law.
“With this ruling, the CJEU (The EU Court of Justice) is confirming what we have been saying for six years,” said Hugendubel. “There is now no excuse for the Commission not to require Hungary to quickly withdraw the law. Hungary cannot enter a post-Orbán era without repealing this legislation, including the Pride ban.”
“If Péter Magyar truly aims to be pro-EU, he must place this at the top of his agenda for his first 100 days in office, as an essential part of his EU facing reforms,” added Hugendubel.
National
Inside the lonely world of MAGA gay men
Pushback against community members who support Trump is not unusual
Uncloseted Media published this article on April 18.
This story was written in partnership with Gay Times Magazine.
By EMMA PAIDRA | When Evan decided it was time to tell his boyfriend that he voted for Trump, he couldn’t get the words out. “I was stuttering for 20 minutes straight on the phone,” he told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES.
Once he finally worked up the courage, he was met with pushback: “He made fun of me. … He called me a racist and a white supremacist,” says Evan, a 21-year-old math major who lives in Long Island, N.Y.
That pushback isn’t unusual: According to a 2023 Pew Research Center survey, 83 percent of queer men typically vote Democrat. One key reason gay men swing left in 2026 is because of the Trump administration and MAGA-aligned politicians’ track record on LGBTQ issues. Since the start of Trump’s second term, his administration has terminated more than $1 billion worth of grants to HIV-related research, removed the Pride flag from the Stonewall National Monument and shut down the LGBTQ-specific option on the 988 youth suicide hotline.
Because of this, many of the fewer than one in five LGBTQ men who cast their ballot for Trump in 2024 face judgment for their political affiliation.
“People think that I hate myself for being gay, and that I’m a gay traitor. … I wish there were more gay conservatives or moderates,” says Evan, who requested to use a pseudonym due to fears over retaliation for his political views.
Navigating dating and relationships as a gay Trumper
Nick Duncan, 43, can relate to Evan’s fears about being an open Trump supporter: “I mostly get hatred. I’ve never lost a conservative friend because I’m gay, but I’ve lost all of my gay friends because I’m conservative,” says Duncan, a hospitality executive who lives in Miami. “I’ve divorced myself from what I refer to as the Alphabet Mafia.”
Duncan says he feels so unwelcome by the LGBTQ community that he’s hesitant to attend certain queer events. “Nowadays, I would never go to a Pride event,” Duncan told Uncloseted Media and GAY TIMES. “I don’t feel that I would be safe.”
Despite these concerns, Duncan doesn’t hide his political views when looking for love. “I’m in a long-term relationship now, and when I have been on the dating market, I’m very open and upfront about [my political views]. So I think it just weeds out most people who would have an issue.”
For Evan, political differences have been a source of tension in his relationship even before he told his boyfriend who he voted for. “When I first met him, he asked me if I liked Trump. … He was kind of scaring me. So I said, ‘I don’t know,’” Evan recalls. “He said, ‘Good answer, because if you said yes, I couldn’t even talk to you.’”
Since revealing his conservative identity, Evan has had multiple arguments with his boyfriend about politics. “This guy, who I’ve been dating for almost a year, he’s way too far left. … The first proof is he thinks there’s more than two genders,” says Evan. “I tried telling him there were only two genders, and he got mad at me.”
Though Evan believes there are only two genders, research suggests that gender is a spectrum allowing for multiple gender identities.
Proud gay Trump supporters
According to a 2025 report from Pew Research Center, 71 percent of LGBTQ adults view the Republican Party as unfriendly towards LGBTQ Americans. Duncan thinks these critiques are unreasonable: “The Republican Party is not nearly as anti-gay as [leftists] believe,” he says. “The Trump administration has plenty of openly gay people in the administration, and Trump actually supported gay marriage before it was cool.”
Gay members of the Trump administration include Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent, as well as Tony Fabrizio, a pollster and strategist. Additionally, Trump did tell the Advocate in a 2000 interview that though “the institution of marriage should be between a man and a woman,” he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is “only fair.”
But since then, Trump has appointed Supreme Court Justices who have denounced marriage equality and Cabinet members with anti-LGBTQ track records, including Pete Hegseth, Marco Rubio, and Pam Bondi.
Duncan says part of the reason he isn’t worried about Trump’s anti-LGBTQ track record is because he doesn’t view being gay as the most important part of his identity: “The most important part of who I am is as a father.”
Duncan is not alone: A 2020 report from the UCLA Williams Institute School of Law found that Republican lesbian, gay, and bisexual people are more likely to feel connected to other parts of their identities than their sexual orientations.
Evan doesn’t identify with the community at large and does not like to be referred to as “LGBTQ” or “queer.”
“I realized I’m normal. I’m not LGBTQ,” he says. “I’m just gay.”
Evan’s desire to be seen as “normal” rings of Vice President JD Vance’s 2024 comments on Joe Rogan’s podcast, where he said Trump could win the “normal gay” vote. During this same interview, Vance suggested that parents of genderqueer children use their children’s identities as a rejection of having white privilege. Vance received significant backlash for these comments, with the Human Rights Campaign responding to the vice president’s remarks over X.
Some gay Republicans see the GOP as more friendly
For Chris Doane, 56, voting Republican is the only choice that makes sense, as he believes voting for a Democrat goes directly against his interests as a queer man. “Conservatives don’t want to murder gays. They want them saved,” he says. “Muslims vote Democrat, because if the Democrats win, they get to stay [in the U.S.], they get to take power, and they will murder gays brutally with a smile on their face,” says Doane.
Doane’s comments are unfounded and display racist stereotypes peddled by far-right American media: One study from the Brennan Center for Justice compiled data from 1984 to 2020 and found that racial resentment is more prevalent on the right than on the left.
Doane was raised in a conservative family in Bryan, Texas, and isn’t out to his family because he fears that they won’t accept him. For him, voting Republican is part of his heritage. “I was told, ‘Don’t ever let Democrats in control. They’ll ruin our country,’” he says. “That’s pretty much what they did, and that’s why President Trump is working overtime to straighten it all back out.”
Trans rights and gay Republican men
Though Doane and other gay Republicans hold a range of views, a common thread is a hesitancy around trans rights. So, they align more with the Trump administration, which has railed against the trans community with Trump’s policies and rhetoric.
For example, Doane sees being able to transition as a matter of personal freedom but thinks gender-affirming care for trans kids is a step too far.
“When it comes to transgender, I have nothing against that. I just believe that when you make that transition, it should be at a point where your brain is fully developed … and you’re actually going to enjoy that transition,” he says.
He also holds the view that for a trans person to be accepted as their correct gender, they must fully physically transition. “If you’re gonna transgender, transgender all the way. If you’ve still got male parts on you, you don’t belong in the women’s dress room.” However, research suggests otherwise, with a 2025 study indicating that policing bathroom access can lead to mental distress in trans youth.
Duncan has his own doubts.
“I disagree with the integration of gender ideology and radical wokeism into the LGBT community. You are free to live under any delusion you so desire. You’re not free to require me to live under your delusion as well,” he says. “But if somebody wants to live as a man or a woman, however it is, I firmly believe they have the right to do that. I would never get in the way of it.”
Duncan also believes that education about LGBTQ people should be limited in schools. He sees adolescence as a fundamentally confusing time, and believes an education about LGBTQ communities would “add on layers of confusion.” This belief seems to be in line with Gov. Ron DeSantis’ 2022 “Don’t Say Gay” bill, which has banned education on gender identity and sexual orientation in Florida’s classrooms from pre-kindergarten until the end of eighth grade, though there are exceptions for health lessons.
“It’s okay to tell kids that some boys like boys, some girls like girls, some people like both. But it just needs to be kept vague and general,” Duncan says. “However you are is okay. We don’t need to expose children to gay media because if you’re gay, you’re going to know.”
Duncan does not believe heteronormative bias in mainstream media is a problem, though a study published in Equity & Excellence in Education found heteronormative biases in schools may harm queer students. “The vast majority of people are heterosexual, and a functioning society is built on a heteronormative bias,” he says. “It is important to understand that we are the extreme minority and society is not responsible for conforming to us.”
They approve of Trump and don’t see him as a threat
While LGBTQ Americans see the Republican party as unfriendly towards queer people, Duncan and Doane aren’t worried about being stripped of their rights. Duncan says the 2015 passage of gay marriage solidified his equal rights. “We have marriage as gay men. I have every right that a straight man does,” he says.
Doane also feels that his rights are secure under Trump 2.0 and approves of the president so far. “I voted for that great, big, beautiful wall because we were being overrun by illegals,” he says. Doane also approves of U.S. interventions in Iran and Venezuela, though he criticizes Trump for “leaving [Venezuela] way too soon.”
Similarly, Duncan is generally approving of Trump’s handling of immigration. “I don’t love what we’re doing as far as deportations, but we had to get some control over the illegal population,” says Duncan. “I wish there was another way, but I can’t think of it.”
Duncan and Doane are certainly in the minority as queer men who approve of Trump, but as far as they’re concerned, Trump is delivering on his promises. “Overall, I’m happy,” says Duncan. “I’m getting pretty much exactly what I voted for.”
Editor’s note: An earlier version of this article stated that Trump told the Advocate in 2000 that legalizing gay marriage was “only fair.” That was incorrect. He told the publication that he thinks amending the Civil Rights Act to grant the same protection to gay people that we give to other Americans is “only fair.”
District of Columbia
Judge rescinds stay-away order in Capital Pride anti-stalking case
Evidence hearing to determine if order should be reinstated against Darren Pasha
A D.C. Superior Court judge on April 17 rescinded an anti-stalking order he approved in February at the request of Capital Pride Alliance against local LGBTQ activist Darren Pasha.
In a ruling at a court status hearing, Judge Robert D. Okun agreed with defendant Darren Pasha’s stated concern that the initial order was too broad and did not specify who specifically he must stay at least 100 feet away from, as called for in the order.
Okun ruled on April 17 that the initial order, which he noted was oral rather than written, would be suspended until an evidentiary hearing takes place in which Capital Pride will need to present evidence justifying the need for such an order.
“I’m fine with scheduling a hearing at which the plaintiff can present evidence, and the defendant can present evidence,” Okun said. “But I’m not fine with just continuing this oral TRO [Temporary Restraining Order] that Mr. Pasha really doesn’t even have notice of. That seems unfair,” he said.
After asking both Pasha and Capital Pride Alliance Attorney Nick Harrison when they would be available for the evidence hearing, Okun set the date for April 27 at 11 a.m. in Superior Court.
The case began when Capital Pride Alliance, the D.C.-based LGBTQ group that organizes the city’s annual Pride events, filed a Civil Complaint on Oct. 27, 2025, against Pasha, accusing him of engaging in a year-long effort to harass, intimidate, and stalk Capital Pride’s staff, board members, and volunteers.
The complaint was accompanied by a separate motion seeking a restraining order, preliminary injunction, and anti-stalking order prohibiting Pasha from “any further contact, harassment, intimidation, or interference with the Plaintiff, its staff, board members, volunteers, and affiliates.”
In his initial ruling in February, Okun issued an order requiring Pasha to stay at least 100 feet away from Capital Pride staff, board members, and volunteers until the April 17 status hearing. He reduced the stay-away distance from the 200 yards requested by Capital Pride.
Pasha, who has so far represented himself in court without an attorney, has argued in multiple court filings and motions that the Capital Pride stalking allegations are untrue. In his initial 16-page response to the complaint, Pasha said it appears to be a form of retaliation against him for a dispute he has had with Capital Pride and its former board president, Ashley Smith, who has since resigned from the board.
“It is evident that the document is replete with false, misleading, and unsubstantiated assertions,” Pasha’s court response states.
At the April 17 hearing, Okun also ruled that, as standard procedure for civil complaints such as this one, he has ordered both parties to enter into court-supervised mediation to attempt to reach a settlement rather than go to trial.
In an earlier ruling Okun denied Pasha’s request for a jury trial, stating that civil cases such as this must undergo a trial with the judge determining the verdict under existing civil court statutes.
The April 17 court hearing was held in a courtroom at the courthouse, but as allowed under current court rules, Capital Pride attorney Harrison and Capital Pride official June Crenshaw participated virtually through a video connection. Pasha attended the hearing in the courtroom.
“This matter is proceeding through the court in the normal course,” Capital Pride released in a statement. “We look forward to presenting the relevant evidence at the scheduled hearing. Capital Pride Alliance remains committed to maintaining a safe and respectful environment for our staff, volunteers, and community, and to addressing concerns through appropriate channels.”
“This is clearly a case of retaliation,” Pasha told the Blade after the hearing. “Today the judge removed the stay-away order and asked Capital Pride Alliance to present enough evidence and examples to see if a stay-away order should be granted,” he said. “Because Pride is coming up in June, we need to see where this is going.”
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