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QUEERY: Van Goodwin

The CAGLCC president answers 20 gay questions

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Editor’s note — On the occasion of the Blade’s 50th anniversary and for the first time in many years, Blade editors have refreshed the questions in Queery, a feature that debuted in the paper in 2007.

Capital Area Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce President Van Goodwin says LGBT chambers provide a service that can’t be provided elsewhere — making the case for LGBT rights with data and economics. 

“That resonates with policymakers in a different and often more effective manner than they’re used to hearing,” he says. 

Queer chambers also right some of the business world’s historic wrongs, he says. 

“LGBTQ people have long been at a disadvantage in professional and business opportunities not only because of overt discrimination, but also the fact that we haven’t had access to the same social and professional networks,” the 40-year-old Natchez, Miss., native, says. “LGBTQ chambers help address that.”

CAGLCC has its 11th annual Mega Networking event on Wednesday, April 24 from 6-9 p.m. at City Winery (1350 Okie St., N.E.). It’s free. About 30 area non-profits will be represented and the event typically draws about 1,000 attendees. It’s free. Details at caglcc.org

Goodwin has been involved with CAGLCC for 12 years, on the board for four and president for three. He joined through a friend and was simply “looking to meet other people and connect myself better professionally.”

He enjoys Mega Networking especially because it brings together many businesses and non-profits in a space where “they would otherwise never engage each other.”

Goodwin is owner and managing director of Van Allen, LLC, an information technology and services business he started in 2014. He came to Washington 16 years ago for work.

Goodwin is single (“af,” as he puts it) and lives in Van Ness (“Van in Van Ness, I know,” he says). Having visited 45 countries, travel is his passion though he also enjoys art and hiking. 

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell? 

After breaking up with a college girlfriend of a couple years about 18 years ago, I just talked to friends about my experiences with other men as they unfolded over a couple of years, but the conversation was about what I did rather than what I was. The identity evolved and by the time it did, the people who chose to still be there didn’t care.  

Who’s your LGBTQ hero?

John Waters. His films find appreciation in people’s differences and most importantly, he gives people permission to be different and to see the hypocrisy in those who would exclude them.

What LGBTQ stereotype most annoys you? 

The expectation of being catty, especially in the way gay men expect each other to adhere to the stereotype. It leads to some incredibly toxic behavior in our community when we should be showing authentic support. Just be kind and learn how to be both funny and kind at the same time. 

What’s your proudest professional achievement?

Probably starting my own business that just passed its fifth year in operation.

What terrifies you?

Leaving the world worse than I found it. That and locked-in syndrome. 

What’s something trashy or vapid you love? 

I would eat a Taco Bell Mexican Pizza value meal every day if I could.

What’s your greatest domestic skill?

Draping freshly dried clothes over my living room furniture so masterfully that they won’t wrinkle for days or sometimes even weeks on end.

What’s your favorite LGBTQ movie or show?

“DTLA,” and I really love Darryl Stephens as a lead in everything I’ve seen him in. He’s talented, authentic and effortlessly sexy. 

What’s your social media pet peeve?

Not doing a cursory fact (or even sanity) check before sharing.

What would the end of the LGBT movement look like to you? 

I think that happens when people don’t need L, G, B, T and Q because people don’t define an identity based on who they love. It’s when people are no longer constrained by how the people around them define those identities. 

What’s the most overrated social custom?

Feigning being too busy.

What was your religion, if any, as a child and what is it today?

I grew up as Roman Catholic, went to Catholic school, the whole thing. Today I don’t claim any particular religion but I respect the role faith can play in people’s lives and society and respect the role people of faith played in my life.

What’s D.C.’s best hidden gem?

Lincoln’s Cottage. It’s massive and beautiful and creates an intimate relationship with history the more popular sites can’t. Most of the city doesn’t even know it’s there.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?

I was really thrilled when I saw Liza Minnelli featured in “Arrested Development.” It’s the most perfect character I’d never have thought to create.

What celebrity death hit you hardest?

Stephen Hawking. His writing made some of the most complex topics attainable to me at a young age. That helped give me the confidence to try for achievements that seemed beyond me, because I knew that if I could understand that, there’s so much more I could do.

If you could redo one moment from your past, what would it be?

I’d have done whatever I could to get to a more urban area for college or after high school in general. I didn’t have the context then, but I see now how good that would have been for me. 

What are your obsessions?

I like seeing people around me create success (and hopefully some for me too).

Finish this sentence — It’s about damn time:

We head-on address that rapidly advancing technology is consolidating massive power largely by random chance, and let go of the ridiculous fantasy that something in a capitalist-socialist dichotomy will fix it. Also, if I may, it’s about damn time Netflix brought back “Battlestar Galactica.” 

What do you wish you’d known at 18?

I wish I’d understood the power of changing a conversation and how much perception is reality. It would have saved me years and stress.

Why Washington?

I [expletive] love this town. This city is incredibly smart and driven. In a tiny diamond, it’s easy to meet the most accomplished humans on earth on a given subject. It forces you to stay on your toes. It loves a good happy hour or street party. It has a deep culture of civic engagement with a comically large collection of one-person institutions. And it’s super gay. 

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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more

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Washington Spirit CEO Kim Stone hosts Pride Night OUT on Sunday, Aug. 23. (Photo courtesy of Washington Spirit)

Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.

Dining

Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.

New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:

  • Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
  • The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
  • Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
  • Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.

Sports

  • Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements. 
  • Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.

Festivals

  • Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
  • Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods. 
  • The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
  • All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
  • Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.

Art and Music

  • United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club. 
  • The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
  • Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
  • ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
  • 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
  • Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
  • Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event

Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema

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Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.

Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.

 O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.

 “I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”

O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.

“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”

The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination. 

The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.

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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.

Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives

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Alex Kim performs at the Pride Comedy Special in Washington, D.C., on June 18, 2026. (Photo by Christina Lee/VOICES)

Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward. 

“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.

Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives. 

From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together. 

“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”

Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.

According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said. 

When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”

“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”

But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center. 

Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.

“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said. 

Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires. 

Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down. 

“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”

Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form. 

“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’” 

Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church. 

“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said. 

Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.

Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet. 

“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said. 

Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training. 

“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked. 

Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.

To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said. 

Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition. 

“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”

Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.

Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.

“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.

This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

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