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Obama vs. Romney on LGBT issues
Candidate stances on same-sex family rights, military equality, employment and more

Republican presidential nominee Mitt Romney and President Obama are making their final push in the days before Election Day (Blade file photo by Michael Key)
The Washington Blade breaks down some of the most frequently cited LGBT issues and where each Presidential candidate stands.
MARRIAGE EQUALITY
OBAMA: SUPPORTS
In May, President Obama ended his 19-month “evolution” and expressed his support for marriage rights for gay couples.
ROMNEY: OPPOSES
Mitt Romney has said he opposes same-sex marriage as well as civil unions that offer the same legal benefits of marriage. He’s campaigned on support for a Federal Marriage Amendment, saying states shouldn’t have different rules with respect to marriage.
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DOMA REPEAL
OBAMA: SUPPORTS
Obama endorsed legislation that would repeal the Defense of Marriage Act known as the Respect for Marriage Act. The Obama administration also no longer defends the Defense of Marriage Act in court and has said laws related to sexual orientation should be subjected to heightened scrutiny.
ROMNEY: OPPOSES
Romney supports DOMA and has pledged to resume defending the law in court should he win the White House.
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“DON’T ASK, DON’T TELL”
OBAMA: OPPOSES
In 2010, Obama signed legislation to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” which was lifted from the books nearly a year later following certification. Still, openly transgender service is prohibited and the Pentagon has yet to make administrative changes to afford certain benefits to gay service members with same-sex partners.
ROMNEY: SUPPORTS
Romney once expressed support for “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” but his most recent statement on the issue, made December 2011, is that he doesn’t plan to return to that policy now that the law has been repealed.
UNITING AMERICAN FAMILIES ACT
OBAMA: MOSTLY SUPPORTS
The Obama administration has taken steps to ensure bi-national same-sex couples can stay together in the United States — most recently issuing a memorandum saying foreign nationals without legal status in same-sex relationships should be low priority for deportation cases. The White House has suggested Obama wants to include language for bi-national couples in comprehensive immigration reform. Obama has yet to endorse the Uniting American Families Act, but has expressed support for its general principles.
ROMNEY: UNKNOWN
Romney hasn’t publicly addressed the issue of bi-national same-sex couples, but has said he supports no amnesty for undocumented immigrants and wants to impose a policy where immigrants without legal status will want to self-deport.
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EMPLOYMENT NON-DISCRIMINATION ACT
OBAMA: SUPPORTS
Obama is a long-time supporter of ENDA, but the White House said he won’t issue at this time an executive order barring federal contractors from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.
ROMNEY: UNKNOWN
Romney’s last stated position on ENDA was in 2007 when he said states could implement workplace non-discrimination policies related to sexual orientation, but he doesn’t support federal legislation. He hasn’t addressed the legislation over the course of the 2012 campaign.
Maryland
‘Girlfriends’ wanted for murder in Silver Spring, Md.
Montgomery County police say two charged with killing mother of one of them
The Montgomery County, Md., Department of Police announced on June 4 that it is seeking the public’s help in locating two women, who they identify as a couple, who are charged with first-degree murder for allegedly killing the mother of one of them.
In a statement police identified the two women as Vanessa Tjongarero-Henderson of Clarksburg, Md., and her girlfriend Samantha Raebel of Phoenix, Ariz. The statement says the two are charged with the murder of Hilde Henderson, 67, the mother of Vanessa.
According to the statement, officers with the department’s 3rd District found Hilde Henderson deceased on Tuesday, May 26, 2026, at her home at the Charter House apartments in the 1300 block of Fenwick Lane in Silver Spring after being called to check on the resident’s welfare.
“Henderson was transported to the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner, where an autopsy was conducted,” the statement says. “The cause of death was ruled a homicide.”
It adds, “Through the course of the investigation, detectives identified Henderson’s daughter, Vanessa Tjongarero-Henderson and Vanessa’s girlfriend, Raeble, as the suspects.” It says detectives obtained an arrest warrant against the two women, charging both with first-degree murder.
“Anyone with information regarding the location of these suspects or this crime is asked to call 911 or to visit the Crime Solvers of Montgomery County, Md. website at crimesolversmcmd.org,” the statement says, or to call the tip line at 1-866-411-8477.
“Tips with information leading to an arrest may be eligible for a reward from $250 up to $10,000,” it says, adding that tips may remain anonymous.
A spokesperson for Montgomery County police didn’t immediately respond to a request from the Washington Blade for information not disclosed in the police statement, including the physical-medical cause of death for Hilde Henderson and whether detectives have determined a motive for the murder.
National
Madonna turns Times Square into massive dance floor
Pop icon celebrates Pride month with surprise performance
Pop icon Madonna celebrated Pride month with a pop-up performance in New York City’s Times Square on Thursday to the delight of 50,000 fans.
She performed for about 15 minutes high above street level, including several songs from her new album “Confessions II” due on July 3, along with a trio of songs from the first “Confessions on a Dance Floor.”
In addition to the brand new “Love Sensation,” she performed “I Feel So Free” and “Bring Your Love,” plus “Hung Up,” “Get Together” and “I Love New York.” She wished the crowd a happy Pride season; the event was shared with audiences through Grindr’s first-ever livestream.


The Washington Blade this week welcomed Emma LaPointe as its summer intern.
Emma is studying journalism, political science, and German studies at the University of Arizona. She is from Tucson, Ariz., and is interning with the Blade as part of a continued partnership with the Washington Center.
“I am super excited to spend my summer with the Washington Blade and to learn more about D.C.,” said Emma. “I have loved reporting on the LGBTQ+ community back in Tucson, and I am excited to continue the work here.”
Emma’s internship will end on July 31.
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