Proposed measure would codify process for upgrading separations to 'honorable'
4 states refusing order to process spousal benefits for gay troops
White House spokesperson pledges to 'talk about' administration's response
Lambda gives 10 days for adjutant general to respond to request
Hagel memo delivers benefits in wake of court decision against DOMA
'Windsor decision resolves issue of DOMA's Section 3 constitutionality'
