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The Washington Scandals rugby player answers 20 gay questions

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Chris Will (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Chris Will is donning drag for the first time next week.

On Friday, Feb. 24, he and 11 of his teammates on the Washington Scandals gay rugby team will don makeup and gowns for “Sequins & Scrums,” a benefit event at Town (2009 8th St., N.W.) to raise money for players to attend the 2018 Bingham Cup rugby tournament in Amsterdam.

“We’re hoping to subsidize the costs of airfare, housing and registration as much as possible,” says the 26-year-old Huntington Beach, Calif., native. “We want to show D.C. how much fun being a Scandal is and how we can slay anywhere — whether it’s the rugby pitch or on the stage.”

And yes, he says the butterflies he’s feeling is also part of the excitement.

“If I told you I was nervous yet excited, it would be the understatement of the century.”

Admission is free to the 8 p.m. event, to be held during D.C. Bear Crue Happy Hour. Scandals members will compete to win the judges’ approval and vie for the title Scrum Queen 2017. Details at scandalsrfc.org.

Will, who works by day as a software sales rep, joined the Scandals two-and-a-half years ago. Drag shows are fairly common for other gay rugby teams, but this is the Scandals’ first.

Will moved to the D.C. area with his family in 2006, left to attend Penn State, then returned. He enjoys music, rugby and dancing in his free time. He lives in Fairfax, Va.

How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell? 

I’ve been fully out for a year and a half. It was an almost four-year process before that where I was slowly coming out to my family and close friends, and then the day before my 25th birthday I said screw it and came out completely on Facebook. My parents were the hardest to tell, but it’s not because they were un-accepting. They were actually wonderfully accepting and they embrace who I am completely. It was the fear I had built up in my head before telling them, especially since I came out to them while I was living in their basement after college.

Who’s your LGBT hero? 

Mark Bingham! He’s a gay rugby icon and was one of the passengers on Flight 93. He was part of the group that tried to take the plane back from the hijackers and kept it from crashing into D.C. Mark defied gay stereotypes, helped build the International Gay Rugby league into what it is today and had an incredible love for his country.

What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?  

Nellie’s is number one, especially for any sort of social events regarding our rugby team. They’re our main sponsor and they do so much for our organization. Uproar is a close second, though. I love how you can request the music you want to hear there, plus the staff is awesome and their sushi is delicious!

Describe your dream wedding. 

I’d invite my entire rugby team, a few close friends and family. The ceremony would be quick. The reception would be awesome — there’d be a mac ’n cheese bar, lots of tequila, a disco ball and the best. music. ever (a good mix of dance, pop and hip-hop).

What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about? 

Half of my family either served or currently serves in the military, so veterans’ rights are important to me.

What historical outcome would you change? 

It definitely would’ve been nice if this last presidential race hadn’t come down to Hillary v. Trump.

What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime? 

When Gwen Stefani went solo and released one of my favorite albums of all time, “Love.Angel.Music.Baby.” People talk about how Madonna, Kylie, Janet, Mariah, etc., were their icons growing up, but being a child of the ‘90s and growing up on No Doubt, Gwen was my queen.

On what do you insist? 

Take risks in life and love and take every opportunity you have to challenge yourself and grow.

What was your last Facebook post or Tweet? 

I shared the music video for Grimes and Janelle Monae’s “Venus Fly.” If you don’t know the song or if you haven’t seen the video, you’re missing out. It’s literally THE fiercest.

If your life were a book, what would the title be? 

“Late Bloomer”

If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do? 

Stay gay, stay me. Let’s hope that never happens/ Let people explore their sexuality how they want.

What do you believe in beyond the physical world? 

I think everything happens for a reason and that fate is real. The people who come into your life and the experiences you have are all part of a bigger plan to allow you (or, at times force you) to continuously reinvent to become a better version of yourself.

What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders? 

Understand the struggles and fight for the protection and rights of LGBT people across all races and socio-economic classes, not just middle- to upper-class white people.

What would you walk across hot coals for? 

All the people I love in my life and/or a pot of gourmet truffle mac ’n cheese at the other end.

What LGBT stereotype annoys you most? 

When people say LGBT sports teams aren’t as legitimate as regular sports teams. Part of the reason I love being on the Washington Scandals is because we focus on the team aspect more than we do on the competitive aspect of the sport. It’s about learning rugby in a welcoming environment, creating a group of friends that you’ll keep for years, if not for life, and learning how to work together to achieve victory on the pitch from there.

What’s your favorite LGBT movie? 

“Moonlight.” I just saw it and it was absolutely amazing. Please go see it if you haven’t.

What’s the most overrated social custom? 

Small talk.

What trophy or prize do you most covet? 

My 2015 Washington Scandals Spirit Award.

What do you wish you’d known at 18? 

That I would be able to find love and support if I had come out then. I understand everyone comes out at their own pace, but one of my biggest regrets was not coming out in college and taking time to learn about myself and my sexuality back then.

Why Washington? 

My whole life is here and it’s hands down my favorite city in the country.

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Summer in D.C. brings sports, Restaurant Week, festivals, and more

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Washington Spirit CEO Kim Stone hosts Pride Night OUT on Sunday, Aug. 23. (Photo courtesy of Washington Spirit)

Summer in D.C. just hits different. Congress is out, school is out, the sun is out, thighs are out. With the skies clearing from Canadian smoke, here are a few ways to stay entertained.

Dining

Summer restaurant week: The Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington (RAMW) is once again hosting Summer Restaurant Week, Aug. 18-24. This weeklong dining experience showcases the dynamic dining scene of the DMV, including 2026 RAMMY Award-winning favorites (the annual D.C. food awards show that took place June 29). Participating restaurants will offer three-course brunch and lunch selections for $25 or $35 per person, and three-course dinners for $40, $55 and $65 per person.

New Restaurants: A handful of new spots have opened, so the summer is a great time to check them out:

  • Oribu: A new Mediterranean-Japanese restaurant in the Grand Hyatt hotel, which just underwent a remodeling effort. The sleek restaurant brings upscale charm, with dishes like Wagyu beef tartare with potato pavé and caviar.
  • The Oak Room: A snazzy old-school American grill has just opened in Georgetown, alongside its sister upstairs supper club (Bernadette’s) restaurant, in the old El Centro space.
  • Uchi: This showy Japanese sushi-forward chain has landed in Dupont with a chef’s tasting menu of favorites like fatty tuna.
  • Kathmandu: Recalling the capital of Nepal, this warm, buzzy subterranean restaurant right in the heart of U Street brings spice, flair, and rare ingredients to its dishes (see: buffalo burgers) and drinks.

Sports

  • Washington Spirit Pride Night OUT: On Sunday, Aug. 23, head to Audi Field for a massive, high-energy game following the exciting month of World Cup. The designated Pride Night OUT game promises boisterous crowds plus pre- and post-game community engagements. 
  • Washington Tennis Open – Now called the Mubadala DC Open, this annual tournament is only combined mens’ and womens’ 500-level tennis tournament in the world. The open is one of D.C.’s longest-standing sports traditions, and will take place at the Rock Creek Park Tennis Center July 25-Aug. 2. Naomi Osaka, Venus Williams, Ben Shelton, Frances Tiafoe, and others are expected to play.

Festivals

  • Afro Plus Fest: This huge, three-day Afro-Caribbean Hip-Hop Festival brings together headliners Davido, Alkaline, and Wizkid, plus Tems and Ayra Starr. The event moves from RFK to the Northwest Stadium Complex for three days, Sept. 4-6.
  • Capital Fringe Festival: Running from July 11-21, this massive celebration features dozens of live theater, comedy, dance, and boundary-pushing nighttime performances across multiple DC neighborhoods. 
  • The National Book Festival returns, with headliners like Cynthia Erivo, and Martin Scorsese. The one-day festival, Saturday, Aug. 22, brings together bookworms and word nerds under the theme “America 250: It’s Your Story.” There are talks, workshops, musical sessions and more.
  • All Things Go: A three-day festival Sept. 25-27 at Merriweather Post Pavilion featuring Mitski, Hayley Williams, Brandi Carlile, MUNA, Zara Larsson, Ethel Cain, and many, many more artists. There are single-day and three-day tickets. Featuring and highlighting female artists, the festival has turned into a must-see for many LGBTQ audience members.
  • Fuchsia Fest: The inaugural Fuchsia Fest is a new multi-day celebration created to celebrate LGBTQ community and expression, bringing together a mix of community gatherings, entertainment, and nightlife. The event takes place Sept. 18-20 and is hosted by Capital Pride.

Art and Music

  • United We Dance: A high-energy rave with house, techno, bass, and festival music, on Aug. 1 at the 9:30 Club. 
  • The Fray. On Aug. 14, this American rock band famous for How To Save A Life is at Merriweather Post Pavilion.
  • Kesha: Kesha’s high-energy The Freedom Tour comes to the D.C. area on Aug. 14 at Jiffy Lube Live.
  • ALOK: On Sept. 3 at Lincoln Theater, ALOK (they/them) performs. The poet, comedian, and actor is putting on a new comedy show.
  • 2charm, the emerging Australian electronic club-pop duo popular with the queer community, which blends hyperpop and dance music, comes to the Atlantis.
  • Sapphic Dance Party: a vibrant, inclusive nightlife and social event designed specifically for queer women, lesbians, bisexuals, trans individuals, and nonbinary folks, at Atlantis on Aug. 21.
  • Jazz in the Garden: The most quintessential of D.C. activities returns Friday evenings through Aug. 14. This season’s theme, “American Sounds,” is a nod to the nation’s 250th anniversary. Tunes themes range from Appalachian and Americana to Creole jazz, Hill Country blues, contemporary jazz, and more. Tickets are available through a lottery system a week before each event.
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Tickets on sale for chef Patrick O’Connell’s book launch event

Sept. 18 kickoff to feature José Andrés, Tom Sietsema

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Acclaimed chef Patrick O’Connell is preparing to publish his new memoir, “Main, Middle & Gay” in September and he’s launching the book with an event on Sept. 18 at 6 p.m. at Lisner Auditorium featuring Chef José Andrés and former Washington Post food critic Tom Sietsema.

Tickets for the event go on sale Tuesday, July 21 at Ticketmaster; prices start at $55.

 O’Connell, who’s gay, is the pioneering Michelin-starred chef and longtime proprietor of the Inn at Little Washington. He spoke with the Blade about the September event and the launch of his first memoir.

 “I’ve known [Andrés and Sietsema] for more than 25 years and I have great respect for them,” O’Connell said. “I felt that it would allow us to add a different dimension rather than just have an interviewer. The chemistry will be fun and lively and unpredictable and exciting. I think we’re all different personalities and we’ll compliment each other.”

O’Connell has published cookbooks but this is his first memoir. The event will feature a short film that will highlight his work and the Inn.

“What I hope to do with the event is bring the book to life visually,” he said. “So we’re producing a short film that will be part of it. Most of the audience will not have read the book so it’ll give them a visual flavor of the book. It parallels the evolution of American cuisine over 50 years. It’s a rare perspective to be in the trenches for that long.”

The book’s title refers to the location of the garage on the corner of Main, Middle, and Gay streets in Washington, Va., where he launched his restaurant that became an international culinary destination. 

The Blade will publish the rest of its wide-ranging interview with O’Connell in September in conjunction with the book’s release.

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The queer Asian comics building collective joy in D.C.

Spotlighting chaotic ways family, romance, identity take shape in their lives

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Alex Kim performs at the Pride Comedy Special in Washington, D.C., on June 18, 2026. (Photo by Christina Lee/VOICES)

Kevin Chen’s family tombstone has room for four: him, his parents and his boyfriend. The arrangement might prove to be a little awkward. 

“My boyfriend is 100% white, and my parents are 100% disappointed,” Chen confessed.

Jokes about family traditions and the untraditional ways they’re practiced earned a burst of laughs at the bar where Chen was opening for the Pride Comedy Special. The D.C. stand-up event, produced by Comedy Bonfyre last month, spotlighted queer Asian comics who shared the chaotic ways family, romance and identity take shape in their lives. 

From candid oral sex takes to top surgery hypotheticals like “Where do the boobs go?”, the night highlighted the loud camaraderie of the queer Asian experience — one that sounds like a cacophony of snorts, cackles and belly laughs. While the comics say they are not quite a community, there’s more than enough shared material to bring them together. 

“It was such a magical experience. I loved performing in a queer API lineup. It feels so validating,” Chen said after the show. “I’m wondering, ‘Is this how white men feel all the time?’”

Each performance evoked queer Asian joy through a medium that could use more of its presence.

According to Chen, who is based in D.C., it’s hard to say whether there is a true queer Asian comedy presence in his city. There are only a scattered “handful” of Asian comics, and people of color are underrepresented in queer comic circles, he said. 

When Tarunika Anand, a nonbinary lesbian comic, first entered the mainstream D.C. comedy scene, they mostly encountered straight white men, describing the experience as “a culture shock.”

“I feel like sometimes a lot of queer spaces are really white, and then a lot of Asian spaces are really straight,” Anand said. “I don’t feel like I fit into either.”

But feeling marginalized didn’t stop these comics from honing their craft and creating spaces for others like them. Alex Kim, who headlined the special and is based in Brooklyn, runs the queer Asian comedy group Boba Gays, which began on WhatsApp and has since made its way to Lincoln Center. 

Every Wednesday, Anand co-produces a free comedy show called Funny Side Up. The queer-led group focuses on inclusivity and showcasing new talent.

“It’s really beautiful to speak about your experience and your existence in a way that’s uplifting,” Anand said. 

Family is a major throughline of their comedic repertoires. 

Chen, for instance, shared that he identifies with jokes about having Asian immigrant parents and the expectations they pass down. 

“You see me, you know this part about me, you know this experience intimately, and I can see the truth that you’re trying to wrap a joke around,” he said. “That hits even harder because that’s my truth too. I think that’s what makes good comedy.”

Anand had the audience at the special howling when they explained that their parents’ be-more-like-them comparisons didn’t end when they came out. Instead, the expectations took on a new form. 

“Now, my parents want me to be the best gay,” Anand said. “They’re like, ‘Do you know Ellen DeGeneres?’” 

Kim said he’s been trying to unlearn things from his Christian Korean mom. Yet he described a moment when he was getting ready for the club and realized he looked just like his mother getting ready for church. 

“I’ve been finding it hard to escape her,” Kim said. 

Mutual recognition also radiates through the different ways queer love can take shape. From singlehood to death-do-us-part commitments, the comics cover just about every corner.

Anand is holding out hope for settling down with “a nice, pretty, Indian girl.” They recently went through a breakup and said they felt they dodged a bullet. 

“As a person of color, I just don’t think I should be with a Swiftie,” they said. 

Chen, touching on what it’s like to be in a queer interracial relationship, said that meeting his white boyfriend’s baby nephew for the first time felt like he was forced to participate in a diversity, equity and inclusion training. 

“The dad was like, ‘Please welcome Kevin. Be curious about his culture, his history, his foods,’” Chen joked. 

Laughter is not the only reward for the comics.

To Anand, comedy is a space where they can say whatever they want. “It gives me a voice,” they said. 

Nik Narain, a North Carolina-based trans and nonbinary South Asian comic who performed at the special, said meeting older trans comedians and taking the stage helped him feel reassured in his identity during his transition. 

“Stand-up was a really cool way to process that onstage,” he said. “[It] became a way for me to repackage my thoughts.”

Queer Asians are still figuring out their place in the greater D.C. comedy scene. The group is small in numbers and many are still working toward a full-time comedy career. But Narain feels he’s already made it.

Narain is reluctant to pin it all on one moment. He feels that success is already peeking through in milestones — opening for celebrities, traveling to performances and self-producing shows.

“As long as I can keep doing this, I’m super happy,” he said.

This story was produced as part of the AAJA VOICES fellowship program, a student journalism project of the Asian American Journalists Association (AAJA).

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