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Fast Five Fix: July 20
The ‘Chick’ has just hit the Fil-an. Also, Dan Savage nominated for Emmy in Children’s category, San Diego Pride will make history, all gay men are cheaters, and more

‘Hangover’ and ‘Office’ star Ed Helms won’t be eating at Chick-Fil-A anymore, either, according to this tweet, courtesy JoeMyGod.
Emmy nominations are in, and there are lots of gay favs getting accolades. One surprise: Dan Savage — whose new drag burlesque musical version of Hellen Keller’s life just opened up in Seattle — was nominated in the children’s category for ‘It Gets Better.’ Cue controversy in 3… 2…
- For the first time ever, uniformed active duty military service members will march in San Diego Pride, says ABC News.
- NARTH’s co-founder: Yup, I can’t cure the gay either.
- We love the fact that our friends at OutrageDC.com read the Washington Examiner for us, so that we don’t have to, but can still read gems like this: gay men are either single or cheating.
- British Columbia is launching a strategy for testing every sexually active person for HIV, says JoeMyGod.
- From Towleroad: A “Christian Bar” (???) in Idaho won’t sell Pepsi or MillerCoors over gay support (duh, Coke & Budweiser is just as pro-gay)
VIDEO | Pansexual hipster hop goddess Azaelia Banks — who brought us half of “Shady Love” on the new Scissor Sisters album — has a new ‘Paris Is Burning’-themed video for her song “Fierce,” and I love her and I can’t stop watching it.
(h/t Queerty)
SPECIAL BONUS CHICK-FIL-A COVERAGE:
- Chick-fil-A’s boss says “guilty as charged” when charged with running a homophobic company.
- A humorous post about how other fast food chains can pick up the gay buck that Chick-fil-A will lose.
- Chick-fil-A’s boss says you’re taking his words out of context. And he’s shut down.
- Take this poll on whether or not you’ll still eat Chick-fil-A.
- Boston’s gay friendly mayor weighs in on the Chick-fil-A debate, says they’re not welcome in his city.
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Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
