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Una tarde con Yariel
Ha permanecido bajo custodia de ICE por casi un año

Nota del editor: Una versión de esa nota de opinión en inglés salió en el sitio web del Blade el 4 de febrero.
FERRIDAY, Luisiana — Un guardia masculino al River Correctional Center, un centro de detención privado en el Condado Concordia en Luisiana, me llevó a la sala de visitantes un poco después de la 1 p.m. el sábado. Me senté en una mesa grande —como las que se pueden encontrar en una cafetería de la escuela— y miré a las murallas con mensajes de empoderamiento que habían sido pintados en la pared. Unos minutos después, miré hacía la puerta con una pequeña ventana y vi a Yariel, que vestía un traje verde de rayas. Otro guardia masculino abrió la puerta y Yariel entró la sala. Nos abrazamos fuertemente unos segundos después. Estaba casi sollozando, pero Yariel me aseguró que estaba bien. Después de un par de minutos, nos sentimos en la mesa —uno frente al otro— y empezó nuestra visita. Usé una de las servilletas que tomé de una gasolinera cercana para limpiar las lágrimas de mis ojos. Después de un par de minutos, puse sus manos en las mías y comenzó a llorar. Le di una de las servilletas de la gasolinera para limpiar sus ojos y traté de consolarlo.
“Esta bien llorar”, lo aseguré.
No había visto a Yariel en persona desde el 27 de enero de 2019. Habíamos pasado el día reportando desde un albergue de migrantes dirigida por una lesbiana en Mexicali, una ciudad mexicana en la frontera con EEUU, y lo dejé al apartamento pequeño en Tijuana en que vivía con su padre. Estábamos casi mareados, en parte, porque habíamos cantado canciones de Lady Gaga como locos durante el viaje de dos horas entre Mexicali y Tijuana. Esos momentos despreocupados parecen de toda la vida.
Yariel el sábado me dio dos regalos: Una pulsera hecha de piezas de bolsas de basura negras y blancas y un zapatillo hecho de paquetes de Maruchan y envoltorios de crema de café que hará un buen ornamento navideño. Hablamos como amigos, como hermanos. Hablamos sobre Cuba y el juicio político del presidente Trump. Lo compré una botella de Sprite de una máquina expendedora en la sala. También compartimos una bolsa de Doritos. Una guardia femenina que habla español estaba en la sala con nosotros. Al principio estuve un poco incómodo de verla escribiendo en un cuaderno, pero después de unos minutos olvidé que estaba allí.

A las 2:50 p.m., nos dijo en español que nuestra visita iba a terminar en 10 minutos. Yariel quería darme dos carpetas con sus escritos sobre su tiempo bajo custodia del Servicio de Inmigración y Control de Aduanas (ICE), pero la guardia lo dijo que no podría tomarlas conmigo. Yariel había colocado la pulsera alrededor de mi muñeca y un supervisor dijo a la guardia que podría llevar el ornamento conmigo. Los puse, junto con su foto del tamaño de un pasaporte, en mi mano. Nos pusimos de pie y nos abrazamos fuertemente. Lo dije que lo quiero y luego salimos por puertas diferentes. Salí por la puerta principal de la instalación menos de cinco minutos después y regresé a mi hotel en Kenner, un suburbio de Nueva Orleans, a las 6:45 p.m.
Ha pasado casi un año desde que Yariel pidió asilo en EEUU y entró la custodia de ICE. Los lectores del Washington Blade saben que un juez el pasado septiembre concedió asilo a Yariel. También saben que su destino está en las manos de la Junta de Apelación de Inmigración en Virginia porque ICE apeló el fallo.
Hay cierta ironía en el hecho que Yariel comenzó escribir para el Blade en el otoño de 2018, en parte, porque necesitábamos un reportero en Tijuana que pudiera reportar sobre los migrantes LGBTQ que llegaban a la ciudad con las caravanas migratorias de Centroamérica. La cobertura del Blade de estos temas continua, con mi más reciente viaje a Honduras y El Salvador que terminó hace seis días antes de mi visita con Yariel. Esta cobertura sigue siendo tan importante como siempre con la política migratoria de línea dura de la administración Trump continúan poniendo en riesgo a los migrantes LGBTQ.
También se convierte en algo profundamente personal.

Mi esposo y yo el viernes, unas horas antes de volar a Luisiana, asistieron una ceremonia en Durham, Carolina del Norte, donde nuestro querido amigo Marcelo se convirtió en ciudadano estadounidense. Marcelo, un bailarín para el Carolina Ballet de origen paraguayo, trabajaba muy duro para llegar a ese momento y estamos muy orgullosos de él.

Uno de los momentos más memorables de la ceremonia fue el video en que Trump felicitó a Marcelo y los otras 56 personas que acababan de convertirse en ciudadanos estadounidenses. Ninguno de ellos aplaudió al final del video. Ellos, junto con el resto de nosotros, saben mierda cuando la escuchan, y todos respondimos en especie.
Estos ciudadanos estadounidenses, junto con Yariel, son exactamente el tipo de personas que harán una contribución positiva a este país y lo hará aún mejor. Merecen nuestro respeto y apoyo, no retorica barata basada en racismo, xenofobía y supremacía blanca para apaciguar una base política antes de una elección presidencial.
Una de las partes más desgarradoras de mi visita con Yariel fue cuando me dijo que más desea es su libertad que lo permitirá empezar una nueva vida en los EEUU sin miedo de persecución. La lucha para hacer realidad el sueño de Yariel sigue. Espero que mi próximo viaje a Luisiana sea recogerlo después de la Junta de Apelaciones de Inmigración confirme su decisión de asilo y ICE finalmente lo libere de su custodia.
Siempre estaré a tu lado, Yariel.
District of Columbia
New interim D.C. police chief played lead role in security for WorldPride
Capital Pride says Jeffery Carroll had ‘good working relationship’ with organizers
Jeffery Carroll, who was named by D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser on Dec. 17 as the city’s Interim Chief of Police, played a lead role in working with local LGBTQ community leaders in addressing public safety issues related to WorldPride 2025, which took place in D.C. last May and June
“We had a good working relationship with him, and he did his job in relation to how best the events would go around safety and security,” said Ryan Bos, executive director of Capital Pride Alliance.
Bos said Carroll has met with Capital Pride officials in past years to address security issues related to the city’s annual Capital Pride parade and festival and has been supportive of those events.
At the time Bowser named him Interim Chief, Carroll had been serving since 2023 as Executive Assistant Chief of Specialized Operations, overseeing the day-to-day operation of four of the department’s bureaus. He first joined the D.C. Metropolitan Police Department in 2002 and advanced to multiple leadership positions across various divisions and bureaus, according to a statement released by the mayor’s office.
“I know Chief Carroll is the right person to build on the momentum of the past two years so that we can continue driving down crime across the city,” Bowser said in a statement released on the day she announced his appointment as Interim Chief.
“He has led through some of our city’s most significant public safety challenges of the past decade, he is familiar with D.C. residents and well respected and trusted by members of the Metropolitan Police Department as well as our federal and regional public safety partners,” Bowser said.
“We have the best police department in the nation, and I am confident that Chief Carroll will meet this moment for the department and the city,” Bowser added.
But Bowser has so far declined to say if she plans to nominate Carroll to become the permanent police chief, which requires the approval of the D.C. City Council. Bowser, who announced she is not running for re-election, will remain in office as mayor until January 2027.
Carroll is replacing outgoing Chief Pamela Smith, who announced she was resigning after two years of service as chief to spend more time with her family. She has been credited with overseeing the department at a time when violent crime and homicides declined to an eight-year low.
She has also expressed support for the LGBTQ community and joined LGBTQ officers in marching in the WorldPride parade last year.
But Smith has also come under criticism by members of Congress, who have accused the department of manipulating crime data allegedly showing lower reported crime numbers than actually occurred. The allegations came from the Republican-controlled U.S. House Oversight Committee and the U.S. Justice Department
Bowser has questioned the accuracy of the allegations and said she has asked the city’s Inspector General to look into the allegations.
Meanwhile, a spokesperson for the D.C. police Office of Public Affairs did not immediately respond to a question from the Washington Blade about the status of the department’s LGBT Liaison Unit. Sources familiar with the department have said a decline in the number of officers currently working at the department, said to be at a 50-year low, has resulted in a decline in the number of officers assigned to all of the liaison units, including the LGBT unit.
Among other things, the LGBT Liaison Unit has played a role in helping to investigate hate crimes targeting the LGBTQ community. As of early Wednesday an MPD spokesperson did not respond to a question by the Blade asking how many officers are currently assigned to the LGBT Liaison Unit.
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Colombia
Gay Venezuelan man who fled to Colombia uncertain about homeland’s future
Heberth Aguirre left Maracaibo in 2018
BOGOTÁ, Colombia — A gay Venezuelan man who has lived in Colombia since 2018 says he feels uncertain about his country’s future after the U.S. seized now former Venezuelan President Nicolás Maduro.
“On one hand I can feel content, but on the other hand I feel very concerned,” Heberth Aguirre told the Washington Blade on Tuesday during an interview at a shopping mall in Bogotá, the Colombian capital.
Aguirre, 35, is from Maracaibo, Venezuela’s second-largest city that is the heart of the country’s oil industry.
He developed cultural and art initiatives for the Zulia State government.
“Little by little, I suddenly became involved in politics because, in a way, you had to be involved,” recalled Aguirre. “It was necessary to be involved because the regime often said so.”
“I basically felt like I was working for the citizens, but with this deeply ingrained rule we had to be on their side, on the side of the Maduro and (former President Hugo) Chávez regime,” he added.
Maduro in 2013 became Venezuela’s president after Chávez died.
“There are things I don’t support about the regime,” Aguirre told the Blade. “There are other things that were nice in theory, but it turned out that they didn’t work when we put them into practice.”
Aguirre noted the Maduro government implemented “a lot of laws.” He also said he and other LGBTQ Venezuelans didn’t “have any kind of guarantee for our lives in general.”
“That also exposed you in a way,” said Aguirre. “You felt somewhat protected by working with them (the government), but it wasn’t entirely true.”
Aguirre, 35, studied graphic design at the University of Zulia in Maracaibo. He said he eventually withdrew after soldiers, members of Venezuela’s Bolivarian National Guard, and police officers opened fire on students.
“That happened many times, to the point where I said I couldn’t keep risking my life,” Aguirre told the Blade. “It hurt me to see what was happening, and it hurt me to have lost my place at the university.”
Venezuela’s economic crisis and increased insecurity prompted Aguirre to leave the country in 2018. He entered Colombia at the Simón Bolívar Bridge near the city of Cúcuta in the country’s Norte de Santander Province.
“If you thought differently, they (the Venezuelan government) would come after you or make you disappear, and nobody would do anything about it,” said Aguirre in response to the Blade’s question about why he left Venezuela.
The Simón Bolívar Bridge on the Colombia-Venezuela border on May 14, 2019. (Washington Blade video by Michael K. Lavers)
Aguirre spoke with the Blade three days after American forces seized Maduro and his wife, Cilia Flores, at their home in Caracas, the Venezuelan capital, during an overnight operation.
The Venezuelan National Assembly on Sunday swore in Delcy Rodríguez, who was Maduro’s vice president, as the country’s acting president. Maduro and Flores on Monday pleaded not guilty to federal drug charges in New York.
President Donald Trump on Tuesday in a Truth Social post said Venezuela’s interim authorities “will be turning over between 30 and 50 million barrels of high quality, sanctioned oil, to the United States of America.”
“This oil will be sold at its market price, and that money will be controlled by me, as president of the United States of America, to ensure it is used to benefit the people of Venezuela and the United States,” wrote Trump.
Trump on Sunday suggested the U.S. will target Colombian President Gustavo, a former Bogotá mayor and senator who was once a member of the M-19 guerrilla movement that disbanded in the 1990s.
Petro has urged Colombians to take to the streets on Wednesday and “defend national sovereignty.” Claudia López, a former senator who would become the country’s first female and first lesbian president if she wins Colombia’s presidential election that will take place later this year, is among those who criticized Trump’s comments.
“Let’s be clear: Trump doesn’t care about the humanitarian aspect,” said Aguirre when the Blade asked him about Trump. “We can’t portray him as Venezuela’s savior.”
Meanwhile, Aguirre said his relatives in Maracaibo remain afraid of what will happen in the wake of Maduro’s ouster.
“My family is honestly keeping quiet,” he said. “They don’t post anything online. They don’t go out to participate in marches or celebrations.”
“Imagine them being at the epicenter, in the eye of the hurricane,” added Aguirre. “They are right in the middle of all the problems, so it’s perfectly understandable that they don’t want to say anything.”
‘I never in my life thought I would have to emigrate’
Aguirre has built a new life in Bogotá.
He founded Mesa Distrital LGBTIQ+ de Jóvenes y Estudiantes, a group that works with migrants from Venezuela and other countries and internally placed Colombians, during the COVID-19 pandemic. Aguirre told the Blade he launched the group “with the need to contribute to the general population, not just in Colombia.”
Aguirre met his husband, an American from California, at a Bogotá church in December 2020 during a Christmas event that SDA Kinship Colombia, an LGBTQ group, organized. A Utah judge virtually officiated their wedding on July 12, 2024.
“I love Colombia, I love Bogotá,” said Aguirre. “I love everything I’ve experienced because I feel it has helped me grow.”
He once again stressed he does not know what a post-Maduro Venezuela will look like.
“As a Venezuelan, I experienced the wonders of that country,” said Aguirre. “I never in my life thought I would have to emigrate.”
The Colombian government’s Permiso por Protección Temporal program allows Aguirre and other Venezuelans who have sought refuge in Colombia to live in the country for up to 10 years. Aguirre reiterated his love for Colombia, but he told the Blade that he would like to return to Venezuela and help rebuild the country.
“I wish this would be over in five years, that we could return to our country, that we could go back and even return with more skills acquired abroad,” Aguirre told the Blade. “Many of us received training. Many of us studied a lot. We connected with organizations that formed networks, which enriched us as individuals and as professionals.”
“Returning would be wonderful,” he added. “What we’ve built abroad will almost certainly serve to enrich the country.”
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