Arts & Entertainment
The evolution of leather
Changes in ownership, location, technology contribute to morphing BDSM scene

Thereās a lot of change in the air with the D.C. gay leather community. As Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend is in town for its annual festivities, we decided to ask around and see if the changes are just coincidental, natural evolution of a maturing scene or indicators of a larger cultural shift of some type.
The bottom-line answer, not surprisingly, is that it depends whom you ask.
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ā¢ The Leather Rack, still gay-owned but under new management, has a new name. Now known as Adam & Eve, itās still at 1723 Connecticut Ave., N.W. (location of the nearly 40-year-old business since 1991) but is a slightly different shop.
āWe felt the name attracts a broader audience, not just gay guys into leatherā current owner Russwin Francisco, who bought the business from James McGlade (whoād owned it since 1994), wrote in an e-mail. āWe do love gay leather guys and weāll support the leather community in any way we can. We simply want to ensure that other folks with other sexual fetishes feel as comfortable in our store regardless of gender, sexual orientation or identity. Consequently we are offering womenās fetish wear, toys and accessories along side our menās [items].ā
Francisco is gay, married to a man and has been in Washington for more than 30 years.
McGlade didnāt respond to requests for comment but said in a press release issued when the change became official in November that he was āgrateful for our time here as the Leather Rackā and āwe wish to thank you for your patronage and endorsement over the years.ā
āJim is a good friend,ā Francisco says. āIt was a natural transition.ā
ā¢ As has been widely reported, the D.C. Eagleās days at its current location at 639 New York Ave., N.W. location are numbered. The most recent official comment was that owners would be there through the end of March via an agreement with the developer of a high-rise office complex that will displace the Eagle and other businesses in the area.
Eagle owners and management staff are being tight-lipped on their plans. Repeated phone calls, e-mails and Facebook messages to Ted Clements, Peter Lloyd and Carl Domer went unacknowledged this week.
Eddie Ortiz, president of the D.C. Boys of Leather, says he sees Clements regularly and though he canāt offer anything official, he understands an announcement is imminent. The Boys have a monthly bar night at the Eagle, as do many of the local gay leather groups.
āI understand the owners do have a location identified, but they havenāt given me a location yet,ā Ortiz says. āI think theyāre going to announce it over MAL weekend. Ted is the one I talk to a lot.ā
David Merrill, whoās gay and DJs the monthly fetish/gear party CODE, says itās never wise to count the Eagle out.
āWeāve heard rumors of the Eagleās imminent demise multiple times in the past and, of course, those rumors turned out to be greatly exaggerated,ā Merrill says. āIām certain theyāll open in a new location.ā
ā¢ The Baltimore Eagle, however, hasnāt been as lucky. It closed last month at its 2022 N. Charles Street location and its fate remains uncertain. The estate of former owner Richard Richardson, who died suddenly in 2007 (heād purchased it from Tom Kiple in 1995), had been running it in recent years. New owner Charles Parrish did not immediately respond to calls seeking comment.
In the meantime, many in the Baltimore gay leather community have moved over to Leonās Leather Lounge, known casually as āthe Triple Lā at 870 Park Ave.
Rodney Burger, president of the ShipMates Club, which had called the Eagle āhomeā since the bar opened in 1991, said the last night it was open was memorable.
āIt is my understanding that the new owner plans to turn it into office space,ā he wrote in an e-mail. āHow fitting that the last Saturday the bar was open was our ShipMatesā Daddy Christmas benefit. The bar was packed and we raised $3,000 for Moveable Feast. We closed the bar with a bang.ā
He also said Triple L owner Ron Singer made āa nice offerā and they plan to continue meeting there.
“I just hope we can get in there to clear out our trophy case and banners,” Burger said later in a phone interview. “There’s the entire history of the Baltimore leather scene in there including banners from some clubs that haven’t existed for 30 years or more. I’m actually having nightmares about losing this stuff ā we need to make sure we can get in there and get all that safely out. I hope it’s OK and doesn’t end up in a dumpster somewhere.”
Those active in the Baltimore leather scene say theyāre hearing the Eagle could reopen elsewhere, but nothing definite is known.
āIāve heard everything from three to five months, Iāve heard longer, the rumor mill is full of stuff,ā Rik Newton-Treadway, known as āHookerā in the leather community there, says.
MAL appears to continue thriving and local gay leather enthusiasts say itās a major highlight of their year and remains popular with both locals and those who come from out of town.
āThereās always a huge percentage of local people at MAL,ā Merrill says. Heāll be spinning his ādeep houseā and āprogressive tribalā music at two special CODE parties at the Crucible this weekend. āI think most local guys into some part of the leather scene make it to at least one of the MAL events. There are so many things to do over the weekend ā dance events, play events, times to socialize, the cocktails the Centaurs do ā thereās a little something for everybody. Thatās one of the great things about the leather community ā itās so diverse.ā
Ortiz, whose Boys group is having its own free party/dance tonight at 10 in the Congressional Room at the Hyatt Regency on Capitol Hill (the sold-out host hotel), says he ācanāt wait to get going and start dancing.ā Though married to his partner of 14 years whoās not into the leather scene, Ortiz is in a slave/master relationship with a leather lover in Michigan whom he sees about once a month and who will be here this weekend for MAL.
āItās such a fun time,ā he says. āItās great to see people you havenāt seen since last year and it gives us a chance to really hang out in our leather, do play scenes in a safe environment, be who we are, make new friends and also see some of the local people who donāt come out as much unless itās for MAL.ā
Ortiz, by the way, says the Boys club, which even has a couple female members, is about having a boy mindset.
āItās how you identify in your heart,ā he says. āItās who you are on the inside. Thereās no certain way it has to be, but it does tend to be more service oriented. You donāt have to be a complete bottom. Boys can top, but itās about taking care of a dom or having someone be in charge of you and dominating the play scene.ā
With trust and communication in his marriage, he says his other relationship is āworking out great for us.ā
As for the D.C. scene overall, some say itās just natural evolution.
Woody says it runs much deeper than simply who owns a leather bar at any given time or where it might be located.
āThe smartphone has brought with it a lot of degrading factors,ā he says. āThere are all these mobile apps now ā Scruff, Growlr, Grindr ā all these things we didnāt have before. Now I can find a trick a half a mile from me with my GPS-embedded tracker and there are people coming up with different websites all the time. ā¦ You can order up anything you want, so there are not as many people interested in romance anymore. Yes, there are still softies with good hearts who want relationships and certainly gay men have always had their hook-up side, but I think thereās a higher turnover ratio when everythingās online.ā
Newton-Treadway, who says lots of guys from Baltimore come to D.C. for Leather Weekend (āAre you kidding? Itās practically in our backyard ā itās like a giant cheesecake for everybody whoās supposed to be on a diet.ā), says the changing leather scene is much deeper and more complex than it may initially seem.
āI think there are aspects of the lifestyle that in a way are becoming more underground, less in your face,ā he says. āI think the economy hasnāt helped. The Internet hasnāt helped. Itās many, many, many different things. I would say long gone are the days when a leather bar could count on the gay leather community to keep it open. With everything out there online, you donāt need to go out. Not long ago, there wasnāt any AOL, hell, we didnāt even have cell phones. You had to go out for dick. It didnāt come to you unless you were in the middle of the gay ghetto and sitting on your front porch. So thereās a lot of change occurring and a lot of contributing factors. And even when you do go out to the bars, everybodyās got their nose in their phone. They might even be texting to someone whoās right there in the bar, but they wonāt go over and talk to them.ā
But the bar scene in the leather world is far from dead. Jacob Pring, who organizes CODE and the XXX parties at Green Lantern and the Crucible, says he sees lots of younger guys coming to his events and gets anywhere from 100 to 150 guys to an average event.
āThereās always new people coming in,ā Pring says. āPeople bring their friends. Itās fun. No attitude, no drama.ā
Ortiz says heās not so sure itās changing as much as everybody says.
āI still go out,ā he says. āI donāt just sit at home online all the time. I know lots of people who go out and support the clubs.ā
Merrill says it is changing but itās futile to pine for the past.
āEvery community changes over time,ā he says. āItās not gonna be 1975 forever. I donāt know what things will look like in another 10 years, but Iām looking forward to finding out.ā
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Theater
Celebrated local talent Regina Aquino is back on the boards
Queer actor starring in Arena Stageās āThe Age of Innocenceā

āThe Age of Innocenceā
Through March 30
Arena Stage
1101 Sixth St., S.W.
Tickets start at $59
Arenastage.org
Actor, director, and now filmmaker, celebrated local talent Regina Aquino is back on the boards in Arena Stageās āThe Age of Innocence,ā staged by the companyās artistic director Hana S. Sharif.
Adapted by Karen ZacarĆas from Edith Wharton’s 1920 masterpiece novel, the work surrounds a love triangle involving New York scion Newland Archer, his young fiancĆ©e, and the unconventional beauty Countess Olenska. The Gilded Age-set piece sets up a struggle between rigid societal norms and following oneās own heart.
Aquino ā a queer-identified first-generation Filipino immigrant who grew up in the DMVā is the first Filipino American actress to receive a Helen Hayes Award (2019). She won for her work in Theater Allianceās āThe Events.ā
In āThe Age of Innocence,ā Aquino plays Newlandās mother Adeline Archer, a widow who lives with her unmarried, socially awkward daughter Janey. No longer a face on the dinner party circuit, she does enjoy gossiping at home, especially with her close friend Mr. Sillerton Jackson, a āconfirmed bachelorā and social arbiter. Together, they sip drinks and talk about whatās happening among their elite Manhattan set.
WASHINGTON BLADE: Do you like Mrs. Archer?
REGINA AQUINO: Thereās a lot of joy in playing this character. Sheās very exuberant in those moments with her bestie Sillerton. Otherwise, thereās not much for her to do. In Whartonās book, it says that Mrs. Archerās preferred pastime is growing ferns.
BLADE: But she can be rather ruthless?
AQUINO: When it comes to her family, yes. Sheās protective, which I understand. When she feels that her familyās under attack in any way, or the structure of the society that upholds way of life is threatened, she leans hard into that.
The rare times that sheās out in society you see the boundaries come up, and the performative aspect of what society means. She can be very mean if she wants to be.
BLADE: Can you relate?
AQUINO: I come from a large Filipino matriarchal family. Mrs. Archer is someone I recognize. When Iām in the Philippines, Iām around people like that. People who will do business with you but wonāt let you into their inner circle.
BLADE: Did you ever imagine yourself playing a woman like Mrs. Archer?
AQUINO: No. However, in the past couple of years diversely cast TV shows like āBridgertonā and āQueen Charlotteā have filled a need for me that I didnāt I know I had.
With stories like āThe Age of Innocenceā that are so specific about American history, they arenāt always easily imagined by American audiences when performed by a diverse cast.
But when Karen [ZacarĆas] wrote the play, she imagined it as a diverse cast. What theyāre presenting is reflective of all the different people that make up America.
BLADE: You seem a part of many groups. How does that work?
AQUINO: For me, the code switching is real. Whether Iām with my queer family, Filipinos, or artists of color. Itās different. The way we talk about the world, it shifts. I speak Tiglao in the Philippines or here I may fall into an accent depending on who Iām with.
BLADE: And tell me about costume designer Fabio Tabliniās wonderful clothes.
AQUINO: Arenāt they gorgeous? At the Arena costume shop, they build things to fit to your body. Itās not often we get to wear these couture things. As actors weāre in the costumes for three hours a night but these women, who the characters are based on, wore these corseted gowns all day, every day. Itās amazing how much these clothes help in building your character. Iāve found new ways of expressing myself when my waist is cinched down to 26 inches.
BLADE: Arenaās Fichandler Stage is theatre-in-the-round. Great for costumes. How about you?
AQUINO: This is my favorite kind of acting. In the round thereās nowhere to hide. Your whole body is acting. Thereās somebody somewhere who can see every part of you. Very much how we move in real life. I find it easier.
BLADE: While the Gilded Age was opulent for some, it wasnāt a particularly easy time for working people.
AQUINO: The play includes commentary on class. Never mind money. If youāre not authentic to who you are and connecting with the people you love, youāre not going to be happy. The idea of Newland doing what he wants, and Countess Olenskaās journey toward freedom is very threatening to my character, Mrs. Archer. Today, these same oppressive structures are doing everything here to shutdown feelings of liberation. Thatās where the heart of this story lands for me.
Movies
Stellar cast makes for campy fun in āThe Parentingā
New horror comedy a clever, saucy piece of entertainment

If youāve ever headed off for a dream getaway that turned out to be an AirBnB nightmare instead, you might be in the target audience for āThe Parentingā ā and if you also happen to be in a queer relationship and have had the experience of āmeeting the parents,ā then it was essentially made just for you.
Now streaming on Max, where it premiered on March 13, and helmed by veteran TV (āLooking,ā āMinxā) and film (āThe Skeleton Twins,ā āAlex Strangeloveā) director Craig Johnson from a screenplay by former āSNLā writer Kurt Sublette, itās a very gay horror comedy in which a young couple goes through both of those excruciatingly relatable experiences at once. And for those who might be a bit squeamish about the horror elements, we can assure you without spoilers that the emphasis is definitely on the comedy side of this equation.
Set in upstate New York, it centers on a young gay couple ā Josh (Brandon Flynn) and Rohan (Nik Dodani) ā who are happily and obviously in love, and they are proud doggie daddies to prove it. In fact, they are so much in love that Rohan has booked a countryside house specifically to propose marriage, with the pretext of assembling both sets of their parents so that each of them can meet the otherās family for the very first time. They arrive at their rustic rental just in time for an encounter with their quirky-but-amusing host (Parker Posey), whose hints that the house may have a troubling history leave them snickering.
When their respective families arrive, things go predictably awry. Rohanās adopted parents (Edie Falco, Brian Cox) are successful, sophisticated, and aloof; Joshās folks (Lisa Kudrow, Dean Norris) are down-to-earth, unpretentious, and gregarious; to make things even more awkward, the coupleās BFF gal pal Sara (Vivian Bang) shows up uninvited, worried that Rohanās secret engagement plan will go spectacularly wrong under the unpredictable circumstances. Those hiccups, and worse, begin to fray Josh and Rohanās relationship at the edges, revealing previously unseen sides of each other that make them doubt their fitness as a couple ā but theyāre nothing compared to what happens when they discover that theyāre also sharing the house with a 400-year-old paranormal entity, who has big plans of its own for the weekend after being trapped there alone for decades. To survive ā and to save their marriage before it even happens ā they must unite with each other and the rest of their feuding guests to defeat it, before it uses them to escape and wreak its evil will upon the world.
Drawing from a long tradition of āhaunted houseā tropes, āThe Parentingā takes to heart its heritage in this campiest-of-all horror settings, from the gathering of antagonistic strangers that come together to confront its occult secrets to the macabre absurdity of its humor, much of which is achieved by juxtaposing the arcane with the banal as it filters its supernatural clichĆ©s through the familiar trappings of everyday modern life; secret spells can be found in WiFi passwords instead of ancient scrolls, the noisy disturbances of a poltergeist can be mistaken for unusually loud sex in the next room, and the shocking obscenities spewed from the mouth of a malevolent spectre can seem as mundane as the homophobic chatter of your Boomer uncle at the last family gathering.
At the same time, itās a movie that treats its āhookā ā the unpredictable clash of personalities that threatens to mar any first-time meeting with the family or friends of a new partner, so common an experience as to warrant a separate sub-genre of movies in itself ā as something more than just an excuse to bring this particular group of characters together. The interpersonal politics and still-developing dynamics between each of the three couples centered by the plot are arguably more significant to the filmās purpose than the goofy details of its backstory, and it is only by navigating those treacherous waters that either of their objectives (combining families and conquering evil) can be met; even Sara, who represents the chosen family already shared by the movieās two would-be grooms, has her place in the negotiations, underlining the perhaps-already-obvious parallels that can be drawn from a story about bridging our differences and rising above our egos to work together for the good of all.
Of course, most horror movies (including the comedic ones) operate with a similar reliance on subtext, serving to give them at least the suggestion of allegorical intent around some real-world issue or experience ā but one of the key takeaways from āThe Parentingā is how much more satisfyingly such narrative formulas can play when the movie in question assembles a cast of Grade-A actors to bring them to life, and this one ā which brings together veteran scene-stealers Falco, Kudrow, Cox, Norris, and resurgent āitā girl Posey, adding another kooky characterization to a resume full of them ā plays that as its winning card. Theyāre helped by Sublettās just-intelligent-enough script, of course, which benefits from a refusal to take itself too seriously and delivers plenty of juicy opportunities for each of its actors to strut their stuff, including the hilarious Bang; but itās their high-octane skills that bring it to life with just the right mix of farcical caricature and redeeming humanity. Heading the pack as the movieās main couple, the exceptional talent and chemistry of Dodani and Flynn help them hold their own among the seasoned ensemble, and make it easy for us to be invested enough in their couplehood to root for them all the way through.
As for the horror, though Johnsonās movie plays mostly for laughs, it does give its otherworldly baddie a certain degree of dignity, even though his menace is mostly cartoonish. Indeed, at times the film is almost reminiscent of an edgier version of āScooby-Dooā, which is part of its goofy charm, but its scarier moments have enough bite to leave reasonable doubt about the possibility of a happy ending. Even so, āThe Parentingā likes its shocks to be ridiculous ā itās closer to āBeetlejuiceā than to āThe Shiningā in tone ā and anyone looking for a truly terrifying horror film wonāt find it here.
What they will find is a brisk, clever, saucy, and yes, campy piece of entertainment that will keep you smiling almost all the way through its hour-and-a-half runtime, with the much-appreciated bonus of an endearing queer romance ā and a refreshingly atypical one, at that ā at its heart. And if watching it in our current political climate evokes yet another allegory in the mix, about the resurgence of an ancient hate during a gay coupleās bid for acceptance from their families, well maybe thatās where the horror comes in.
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