Local
Tim Day endorses Anita Bonds
Move to back Democrat by gay Republican surprises many in his party

Tim Day (Photo courtesy of Tim Day)
Gay Republican Tim Day, who was endorsed by the Washington Post last year in his unsuccessful run for the Ward 5 City Council seat, has surprised fellow Republicans by endorsing Democrat Anita Bonds in this year’s special election for an at-large Council seat.
Day’s decision to back Bonds over Republican contender Patrick Mara is expected to strain his ties with the D.C. Republican Party. He resigned as a member of the D.C. Republican Committee after informing party leaders he would be backing Bonds instead of Mara.
Bonds and Mara are strong supporters of LGBT rights. Both supported the city’s same-sex marriage law before the City Council passed it in 2009.
The D.C. Democratic State Committee, which Bonds chaired, appointed her in December to the at-large Council seat on an interim basis until the special election is held on April 23. The seat became vacant after Council member Phil Mendelson (D-At-Large) won election last year as Council chair.
Bonds and Mara are among 20 candidates competing for the seat in what many political observers say will be a low turnout election in which Mara has a shot at winning. Some political pundits say the Democratic candidates – including former Council member Michael Brown, former City Paper columnist Elissa Silverman and D.C. voting rights activist John Capozzi – will likely split the Democratic vote, enabling Mara to win if large numbers of Republicans and independents turn out to vote for him.
Day told the Blade he and Bonds, a Ward 5 resident, are longtime friends. He said Bonds, 67, has a wealth of experience in local government and politics and would continue to be an excellent Council member.
The deadline for the 20 candidates who entered the race to submit their nominating petitions to the D.C. Board of Elections was the end of the business day on Wednesday.
The Comings & Goings column is about sharing the professional successes of our community. We want to recognize those landing new jobs, new clients for their business, joining boards of organizations and other achievements. Please share your successes with us at [email protected].
The Comings & Goings column also invites LGBTQ college students to share their successes with us. If you have been elected to a student government position, gotten an exciting internship, or are graduating and beginning your career with a great job, let us know so we can share your success.
Congratulations to Yadiel Meléndez, on their new role as Community Associate, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Meléndez is piloting a new role as a Community Associate at the Wanda Alston Foundation, where they support queer and trans young people in finding their footing, building independence, and experiencing a housing community where they are seen, valued, and affirmed. They are coming into this role with more than a decade of experience as a community organizer and operations specialist, supporting diverse communities through service, advocacy, and program coordination.
Previously they worked for Right Proper Brewing Shaw as a server and bartender and at Sephora, Washington, DC, and at FreshFarm, DC, in bilingual food access. They also worked freelance to build foundational structures for local queer BIPOC performance art coalitions, producing variety shows to curate space for marginalized performance artists in the community. They were a production manager for Haus of Hart Productions, a BIPOC centric performance art production. They also worked as field staff with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Stafford, Va.
Meléndez is bilingual, Spanish and English. Their work is guided by a commitment to dignity, safety, and trauma-informed engagement, particularly within LGBTQ and BIPOC communities.
Congratulations also to Ben Rosen LICSW, on his new role as program director, with the Wanda Alston Foundation. Rosen previously worked with Fountain House’s OnRamps program, helping to build a new, innovative outreach program for individuals considered chronically homeless, and living with serious mental illness, in the Times Square area of New York. Rosen is a Psychotherapist, having worked with SG Psychotherapy, and as the psychotherapist with the Nest Community Health Center (URAM).
Rosen has a B.F.A. in Theatre Arts: Musical Theatre, Minor in Psychology (Cum Laude) from Malloy University Conservatory; and his M.S.W. in Clinical Practice with Individuals, Families, and Groups, from The Silberman School of Social Work, Hunter College, N.Y. He is independently licensed in New York and Washington, D.C.
Rehoboth Beach
BLUF leather social set for April 10 in Rehoboth
Attendees encouraged to wear appropriate gear
Diego’s in Rehoboth Beach hosts a monthly leather happy hour. April’s edition is scheduled for Friday, April 10, 5-7 p.m. Attendees are encouraged to wear appropriate gear. The event is billed as an official event of BLUF, the free community group for men interested in leather. After happy hour, the attendees are encouraged to reconvene at Local Bootlegging Company for dinner, which allows cigar smoking. There’s no cover charge for either event.
District of Columbia
Celebrations of life planned for Sean Bartel
Two memorial events scheduled in D.C.
Two celebrations of life are planned for Sean Christopher Bartel, 48, who was found deceased on a hiking trail in Argentina on or around March 15. Bartel began his career as a television news reporter and news anchor at stations in Louisville, Ky., and Evansville, Ind., before serving as Senior Video Producer for the D.C.-based International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers union from 2013 to 2024.
A memorial gathering is planned for Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the IBEW International Office (900 7th St., N.W.), according to a statement by the DC Gay Flag Football League, where Bartel was a longtime member. A celebration of life is planned that same evening, 6-8 p.m. at Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.).
